Counseling Episodes

In this episode of the ongoing series "Living the Abundant Life," Dr. Ray discusses love and forgiveness. There are many misconceptions within the Christian community about the true nature of love and forgiveness. This show aims to clarify these concepts and guide you in living the abundant life that Jesus died to provide for you. Mat 6:15 "But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions. Help Dr. Self continue this show - part...

In this show, Dr. Self discusses the importance of boundaries, how to recognize when you need them, and how to set them. God established clear boundaries and expects us to do the same.

This show discusses the four typical approaches to resolving conflict and explores what God's answer is to these issues.

How can you tell if you're not living in your true purpose? Do you recognize when you are aligned with your purpose? Understanding this is crucial. In this show, Dr. Ray will explain how to find peace, satisfaction, and fulfillment by embracing your true calling. This journey is important because it aligns with God's will for you and ultimately gives your life the most meaning. Jeremiah 1:5 "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, And before you were born I consecrated you; I...

In this episode, Dr. Ray shares his testimony about the power of letting go. He recounts a time of loneliness, discouragement, and despair when he finally prayed and surrendered his desires to God, and describes what happened afterward.

Dr. Self continues his discussion of the power of letting go with practical tips.

"Let go and let God" may be a cliché, but the truth behind it can transform your life. Dr. Self explores how to embrace this concept and experience the incredible benefits of learning to surrender ourselves fully to God.

In this show, Dr. Ray conducts a self-interview with Dr. Sandrew Wright, an experienced addiction counselor. They discuss the seriousness of addictions within today's Church, explore ways to confront these issues, and examine how they can be addressed both biblically and through effective Christian counseling.

In this episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses the controlling spirit, including why people use it, how it affects and hinders you, and ways to overcome it.

In this show, Dr. Ray discusses the significance and possibility of expressing gratitude, regardless of our current circumstances. While it may seem difficult, impractical, or unreasonable, it is actually both critical and logical when we consider who God is.

In this episode of Self Talk, Dr Ray discusses typical reactions to toxic friends and family, and how the blame game enters in. Dr. Ray discusses how a normal human response suddenly turns into a lot of guilt and shame.

As the holiday season approaches, it's crucial to spend time with family, but sometimes a few relatives can be toxic. So how do you manage toxic family members while maintaining a Christ-like attitude during the holidays? Whether it's a controlling aunt, an overbearing uncle, or a narcissistic parent, there are healthy ways to navigate these situations and find that peace that surpasses all understanding. Dr. Ray will give you the answers in the latest episode of Self Talk.

In this episode, Dr. Self will provide tips and strategies for taking control of your life in a positive and influential way.

In this episode with Dr. Ray Self, you will learn how to recognize if a curse is operating in your life.

In this show, Dr. Ray discusses the incredible plans that God has for you, emphasizing how amazing and beyond your expectations they truly are. He also explains how God can receive glory through those plans.

Many people go through life unaware of the influences shaping their present and future. While your past does not define you, it can significantly impact your life if you have not addressed it in a healthy way. Dr. Ray discusses how to overcome these challenges and find freedom, enabling you to successfully embrace all that God has planned for you.

In this crucial episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses how traumatic events influence us by forming messages that develop into beliefs and ultimately shape our lifestyles.

In this exciting episode, Dr Ray Self explains the principle of enabling and why it's so important for leaders, parents, and friends to understand this concept.

Unfortunately, the holidays seem to cause toxic people to manifest more than usual. How do we respond as Christians? How can we handle these relationships and keep our peace? Dr. Ray Self will answer these questions in this crucial show for the holidays and as you move into the new year.

When we speak words that align with God's will, we can invite the Holy Spirit to move powerfully on our behalf. Learn more about this strong biblical principle and discover how to protect yourself and your family in the upcoming year.

In this show, Dr. Ray Self discusses how to find joy despite the dysfunction and toxicity within your family.

Depression can be deadly. It is a severe condition that affects millions of people. In this show, I want to share how I overcame it.

Self-sabotage is destructive and very common. Dr. Ray will explain its causes and how to overcome it once and for all.

In this show, Dr Ray Self discusses how to disagree and still love.