Counseling Episodes

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Oct. 15, 2026

You Must Look Back

Dr. Ray Self discusses why it is so critical to take an honest, courageous, and transparent look at your past.
295
Oct. 7, 2026

Healing Through Layers - Betrayal!

Dr. Ray continues his conversation with counselor Dr. Naomi Madrid, author of Healing Through Layers (available on Amazon.com), who, in this episode, discusses betrayal and its horrible effects.
Guest: Naomi Madrid
294
Sept. 30, 2026

Healing Through Layers Part 2

Dr. Ray continues his conversation with counselor Dr. Naomi Madrid, author of Healing Through Layers.
Guest: Naomi Madrid
293
Sept. 23, 2026

Healing Through Layers

God's compassion causes Him to heal us one layer at a time. Dr. Ray interviews professional counselor Dr. Naomi Madrid, author of Healing Through Layers (available on Amazon.com), who explains God's process of healing us through various layers to reach the root of the effects of personal trauma and more. This episode of Self Talk can be life-changing Isa 54:4 "Do not fear, for you will not be ashamed; Neither be disgraced, for you will not be put to shame; For you will forget th...
Guest: Naomi Madrid
281
July 2, 2026

Love and Forgiveness

In this episode of the ongoing series "Living the Abundant Life," Dr. Ray discusses love and forgiveness. There are many misconceptions within the Christian community about the true nature of love and forgiveness. This show aims to clarify these concepts and guide you in living the abundant life that Jesus died to provide for you. Mat 6:15 "But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions. Help Dr. Self continue this show - part...
280
June 25, 2026

Boundaries Set You Free

In this show, Dr. Self discusses the importance of boundaries, how to recognize when you need them, and how to set them. God established clear boundaries and expects us to do the same.
273
May 8, 2026

Four Ways to Resolve a Conflict

This show discusses the four typical approaches to resolving conflict and explores what God's answer is to these issues.
272
April 30, 2026

Your Life, Your Purpose

How can you tell if you're not living in your true purpose? Do you recognize when you are aligned with your purpose? Understanding this is crucial. In this show, Dr. Ray will explain how to find peace, satisfaction, and fulfillment by embracing your true calling. This journey is important because it aligns with God's will for you and ultimately gives your life the most meaning. Jeremiah 1:5 "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, And before you were born I consecrated you; I...
269
April 9, 2026

Let Go and Let God Part 3

In this episode, Dr. Ray shares his testimony about the power of letting go. He recounts a time of loneliness, discouragement, and despair when he finally prayed and surrendered his desires to God, and describes what happened afterward.
268
April 2, 2026

Let Go and Let God Part 2

Dr. Self continues his discussion of the power of letting go with practical tips.
267
March 26, 2026

Let Go and Let God

"Let go and let God" may be a cliché, but the truth behind it can transform your life. Dr. Self explores how to embrace this concept and experience the incredible benefits of learning to surrender ourselves fully to God.
263
Feb. 26, 2026

Breaking Chains

In this show, Dr. Ray conducts a self-interview with Dr. Sandrew Wright, an experienced addiction counselor. They discuss the seriousness of addictions within today's Church, explore ways to confront these issues, and examine how they can be addressed both biblically and through effective Christian counseling.
262
Feb. 19, 2026

The Controlling Spirit

In this episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses the controlling spirit, including why people use it, how it affects and hinders you, and ways to overcome it.
250
Nov. 27, 2025

In Everything Give Thanks

In this show, Dr. Ray discusses the significance and possibility of expressing gratitude, regardless of our current circumstances. While it may seem difficult, impractical, or unreasonable, it is actually both critical and logical when we consider who God is.
249
Nov. 20, 2025

Reacting to Toxic or Dysfunctional People

In this episode of Self Talk, Dr Ray discusses typical reactions to toxic friends and family, and how the blame game enters in. Dr. Ray discusses how a normal human response suddenly turns into a lot of guilt and shame.
246
Oct. 30, 2025

Holidays with a Toxic Family Member

As the holiday season approaches, it's crucial to spend time with family, but sometimes a few relatives can be toxic. So how do you manage toxic family members while maintaining a Christ-like attitude during the holidays? Whether it's a controlling aunt, an overbearing uncle, or a narcissistic parent, there are healthy ways to navigate these situations and find that peace that surpasses all understanding. Dr. Ray will give you the answers in the latest episode of Self Talk.
241
Sept. 25, 2025

Your Focus Will Determine Your Success

In this episode, Dr. Self will provide tips and strategies for taking control of your life in a positive and influential way.
July 24, 2025

How Can We Recognize if a Curse is Operating in Our Lives?

In this episode with Dr. Ray Self, you will learn how to recognize if a curse is operating in your life.
224
May 29, 2025

Your Future

In this show, Dr. Ray discusses the incredible plans that God has for you, emphasizing how amazing and beyond your expectations they truly are. He also explains how God can receive glory through those plans.
223
May 22, 2025

Your Past - Your Future

Many people go through life unaware of the influences shaping their present and future. While your past does not define you, it can significantly impact your life if you have not addressed it in a healthy way. Dr. Ray discusses how to overcome these challenges and find freedom, enabling you to successfully embrace all that God has planned for you.
222
May 15, 2025

Messages from Your Past

In this crucial episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses how traumatic events influence us by forming messages that develop into beliefs and ultimately shape our lifestyles.
218
April 17, 2025

Enabling is Not Love

In this exciting episode, Dr Ray Self explains the principle of enabling and why it's so important for leaders, parents, and friends to understand this concept.
201
Dec. 19, 2024

Responding to Toxic People

Unfortunately, the holidays seem to cause toxic people to manifest more than usual. How do we respond as Christians? How can we handle these relationships and keep our peace? Dr. Ray Self will answer these questions in this crucial show for the holidays and as you move into the new year.
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Dec. 12, 2024

Prophetic Protection for Your Home

When we speak words that align with God's will, we can invite the Holy Spirit to move powerfully on our behalf. Learn more about this strong biblical principle and discover how to protect yourself and your family in the upcoming year.