Relationships Episodes

In this episode of the ongoing series "Living the Abundant Life," Dr. Ray discusses love and forgiveness. There are many misconceptions within the Christian community about the true nature of love and forgiveness. This show aims to clarify these concepts and guide you in living the abundant life that Jesus died to provide for you. Mat 6:15 "But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions. Help Dr. Self continue this show - part...

This show discusses the four typical approaches to resolving conflict and explores what God's answer is to these issues.

Dr. Self continues his discussion of the power of letting go with practical tips.

In this episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses the controlling spirit, including why people use it, how it affects and hinders you, and ways to overcome it.

In this episode of Self Talk, Dr Ray discusses typical reactions to toxic friends and family, and how the blame game enters in. Dr. Ray discusses how a normal human response suddenly turns into a lot of guilt and shame.

As the holiday season approaches, it's crucial to spend time with family, but sometimes a few relatives can be toxic. So how do you manage toxic family members while maintaining a Christ-like attitude during the holidays? Whether it's a controlling aunt, an overbearing uncle, or a narcissistic parent, there are healthy ways to navigate these situations and find that peace that surpasses all understanding. Dr. Ray will give you the answers in the latest episode of Self Talk.

Unfortunately, the holidays seem to cause toxic people to manifest more than usual. How do we respond as Christians? How can we handle these relationships and keep our peace? Dr. Ray Self will answer these questions in this crucial show for the holidays and as you move into the new year.

In this show, Dr. Ray Self discusses how to find joy despite the dysfunction and toxicity within your family.

Self-sabotage is destructive and very common. Dr. Ray will explain its causes and how to overcome it once and for all.

In this show, Dr Ray Self discusses how to disagree and still love.

In this episode of Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self,  Dr. Ray teaches how conflict can be good for a relationship if we follow certain principles.

In this episode of Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self,  Dr. Ray discusses destructive roles people play that originated in their childhood and are still manifesting in their adulthood.

Empathy is more than compassion and is critical to our well-being. In this episode, Dr. Ray discusses this crucial issue. This show will discuss how empathy is vital for our quality of life, even though it is severely lacking in our current Christian culture.

In this episode, Dr. Ray Self will discuss spiritual abuse. During this discussion, you will learn how to identify spiritual abuse and what to do if you find yourself in a spiritually abusive situation.

Forgiveness does not mean you become a doormat. Many Christians get confused when setting boundaries, feeling like they're being unforgiving, rude, or unchristlike. In this episode, Dr. Ray Self will unravel this dilemma and discuss how we can forgive and still set healthy boundaries.

In this show, you will learn as a Christian how to set healthy boundaries and remain a loving, forgiving, and merciful believer in Christ.

As Christians, we often face pressure to avoid getting angry. In this crucial episode, Dr. Self discusses how anger is a normal emotion created by God.

Dr. Ray Self will discuss the gift of compassion, which happens to be one of the most misunderstood.

Dr. Ray Self discusses the issue of compassion and, more importantly, why we see such a lack of it.

In this replay of a popular episode of Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self, Dr. Self discusses the Christian response to toxic people or toxic relationships.

There will always be people at your present level who will try to hinder you from moving to the next level. Often, these people may take action to discourage you.  Dr.  Ray discusses this principle, how to deal with it, how to move forward, and what God has called you to do.

In a marriage relationship, we must understand the needs of our spouse. In this vital show, Dr Ray discusses the primary needs and desires of a woman and a man, as God wisely points out in Scripture. In the show, you can learn how to have a more fulfilling and loving marriage and resolve conflict healthily.

It is unfortunate, but almost everyone has at least one toxic relative. This is the kind of relative who harms your spirit and grieves your soul, and you wish you did not have to be around them. But it is the holidays, and they are family, so you are required to spend time with them. In this crucial show, Dr. Ray Self discusses how to handle this situation Christ-like, especially with the holiday season approaching, without losing your serenity.

The story of Nehemiah, a prophet, can still be relevant to our lives today. In a significant episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses how examining your past can lead to healing and a prosperous future for both you and your family.