Relationships Episodes

There will always be people at your present level who will try to hinder you from moving to the next level. Often, these people may take action to discourage you.  Dr.  Ray discusses this principle, how to deal with it, how to move forward, and what God has called you to do.

In a marriage relationship, we must understand the needs of our spouse. In this vital show, Dr Ray discusses the primary needs and desires of a woman and a man, as God wisely points out in Scripture. In the show, you can learn how to have a more fulfilling and loving marriage and resolve conflict healthily.

It is unfortunate, but almost everyone has at least one toxic relative. This is the kind of relative who harms your spirit and grieves your soul, and you wish you did not have to be around them. But it is the holidays, and they are family, so you are required to spend time with them. In this crucial show, Dr. Ray Self discusses how to handle this situation Christ-like, especially with the holiday season approaching, without losing your serenity.

The story of Nehemiah, a prophet, can still be relevant to our lives today. In a significant episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses how examining your past can lead to healing and a prosperous future for both you and your family.

In this episode, Dr. Self addresses the difficulties faced by Christians who find themselves in unhealthy relationships. While forgiveness and turning the other cheek are biblical values, navigating day-to-day life in such situations can be...

What is the biblical meaning of covenant? Why is that important, and how does that impact our lives today? Dr. Ray Self answers this question and more in this crucial episode. The web defines a covenant as a relationship between two partners who...

In this episode of Self Talk, Dr. Ray Self addresses a vital issue that affects all of us.  1 Cor 13:12  For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully...

Job 41:1  "Can you draw out Leviathan with a fishhook? Or press down his tongue with a cord?"  Have you ever wondered why you say one thing and something else is heard? The spirit of Leviathan will twist our words so that what is heard is...

Dr. Self discusses how conflict can build respect IF it is handled in a healthy way. Unfortunately, most people do not manage conflict very well. In this episode, you will learn about the four ways people fight. Hint -three of the ways are not good....

We don't think twice about honoring a military member we see out in public, which is definitely appropriate and well deserved. In this episode, I talk about the sacrifice of military spouses, the challenges, the blessings and what they go through in...

Never before in our nation’s history has there been such a spiritual assault against young people, but there is hope. Our children are under demonic attack. Dr. Self discusses what we can do to recognize and destroy this horrible work of the...

The Christmas season can be challenging for those who are lonely, depressed, or in unhealthy relationships. However, there are choices we can make, things we can do, and prayers we can say to get through this time in a healthy, fulfilling manner. This...

Job 41:1  "Can you draw out Leviathan with a fishhook? Or press down his tongue with a cord?"  Have you ever wondered why you say one thing and something else is heard? The spirit of Leviathan will twist our words so that what is heard is...

Recently, I had a request from a follower - I will call Ann - about handling her granddaughter, who seems heavily demonically oppressed. Sadly, Satan deceives, influences, and sometimes even controls those closest to us. I will discuss this problem...

Why is the problem of being unequally yoked such a stern warning in the Bible? (2 Cor. 6:14) What exactly does that mean? Jesus said His yoke was easy and His burden was light (Matt 11:30), but God tells us not to be unequally yoked. Understanding the...

Human trafficking is a horrible problem, and closer to your home than you realize. Dr. Ray Self interviews Jim and Dawn Hamm about their ministry to help young girls victimized by sex trafficking get their lives restored through the love of God and...

In today's episode, Dr. Ray Self interviews Dr. Steve Wittmann, the author of the book, Unchained and Undercover (available at Amazon.com), about the vicious attacks of the Jezebel spirit on local church pastors. This episode covers how to recognize...

Dr. Ray Self discusses the vicious attacks of the Spirit of Jezebel against pastors. Jesus warned us that Jezebel would lead us into immorality. Unfortunately, this scheme has been causing the downfall of many pastors across our nation. We cannot...

Dr. Ray Self interviews his wife, Dr. Christie Self, about the powerful influence God's prophetic voice had on their relationship when they first met. God confirmed His will for Ray and Christe with unmistakable, powerful signs and words. This episode...

Dr. Ray Self interviews a former pastor's wife about the pain of divorce and the many difficulties divorce creates being a church leader. In this transparent and honest interview, you will hear a truthful conversation about the horrible pain of...

You have heard about how Jezebel will attack the prophets for a long time. (1 Kings 18:4) The spirit of Jezebel especially loves to target prophetic ministers. Unfortunately, sometimes the spirit of Jezebel works through people closest to us. Dr. Ray...

Dr. Ray Self interviews Heidi Mortensen, the author of the book – The Brave Encourager: How the Power of Encouragement Changes the World. (Available on Amazon.com) Heid says, "There is still a path to joy in this broken world. Encouragement is an...

Self-worth and value come from having intimate connections. But what happens when connections fail or never happen? In this episode Dr. Ray Self discusses this enormous problem and gives answers that will heal and affirm you. Would you please download...

Everyone has a desire to be seen. This need is so powerful that it can determine your emotional and spiritual well-being. Sadly, many people try to meet this need in many unhealthy ways. Dr. Ray Self discusses this vital topic for a healthy and...