Relationships Episodes - Page 2 | Exposing and Defeating the Schemes of the Enemy

March 30, 2023

Healthy Conflict

Dr. Self discusses how conflict can build respect IF it is handled in a healthy way. Unfortunately, most people do not manage conflict very well. In this episode, you will learn about the four ways people fight. Hint -three of the ways are not good....

March 16, 2023

Honoring Military Spouses

We don't think twice about honoring a military member we see out in public, which is definitely appropriate and well deserved. In this episode, I talk about the sacrifice of military spouses, the challenges, the blessings and what they go through in...

Guest: Melissa Caldie

Dec. 22, 2022

The Attack Upon Our Children

Never before in our nation’s history has there been such a spiritual assault against young people, but there is hope. Our children are under demonic attack. Dr. Self discusses what we can do to recognize and destroy this horrible work of the...

Dec. 8, 2022

Overcoming Holiday Blues

The Christmas season can be challenging for those who are lonely, depressed, or in unhealthy relationships. However, there are choices we can make, things we can do, and prayers we can say to get through this time in a healthy, fulfilling manner. This...

Dec. 1, 2022

The Spirit of Leviathan

Job 41:1 "Can you draw out Leviathan with a fishhook? Or press down his tongue with a cord?" Have you ever wondered why you say one thing and something else is heard? The spirit of Leviathan will twist our words so that what is heard is...

Nov. 24, 2022

Demonically Controlled Granddaughter

Recently, I had a request from a follower - I will call Ann - about handling her granddaughter, who seems heavily demonically oppressed. Sadly, Satan deceives, influences, and sometimes even controls those closest to us. I will discuss this problem...

Sept. 15, 2022

Unequally Yoked

Why is the problem of being unequally yoked such a stern warning in the Bible? (2 Cor. 6:14) What exactly does that mean? Jesus said His yoke was easy and His burden was light (Matt 11:30), but God tells us not to be unequally yoked. Understanding the...

July 28, 2022

Ministering to Victims of Sex Trafficking

Human trafficking is a horrible problem, and closer to your home than you realize. Dr. Ray Self interviews Jim and Dawn Hamm about their ministry to help young girls victimized by sex trafficking get their lives restored through the love of God and...

Guests: Jim Hamm , Dawn Hamm

July 14, 2022

The Attack of Jezebel

In today's episode, Dr. Ray Self interviews Dr. Steve Wittmann, the author of the book, Unchained and Undercover (available at Amazon.com), about the vicious attacks of the Jezebel spirit on local church pastors. This episode covers how to recognize...

Guest: Steve Wittmann

July 7, 2022

Jezebel is Attacking Pastors

Dr. Ray Self discusses the vicious attacks of the Spirit of Jezebel against pastors. Jesus warned us that Jezebel would lead us into immorality. Unfortunately, this scheme has been causing the downfall of many pastors across our nation. We cannot...

June 2, 2022

Prophecy and Romance

Dr. Ray Self interviews his wife, Dr. Christie Self, about the powerful influence God's prophetic voice had on their relationship when they first met. God confirmed His will for Ray and Christe with unmistakable, powerful signs and words. This episode...

Guest: Christie Self

April 21, 2022

Divorce, Ministry, and Starting Over

Dr. Ray Self interviews a former pastor's wife about the pain of divorce and the many difficulties divorce creates being a church leader. In this transparent and honest interview, you will hear a truthful conversation about the horrible pain of...

April 7, 2022

The Spirit of Jezebel and Your Wilderness

You have heard about how Jezebel will attack the prophets for a long time. (1 Kings 18:4) The spirit of Jezebel especially loves to target prophetic ministers. Unfortunately, sometimes the spirit of Jezebel works through people closest to us. Dr. Ray...

March 31, 2022

The Brave Encourager

Dr. Ray Self interviews Heidi Mortensen, the author of the book – The Brave Encourager: How the Power of Encouragement Changes the World. (Available on Amazon.com) Heid says, "There is still a path to joy in this broken world. Encouragement is an...

Guest: Heidi Mortensen

March 3, 2022

Value and Illegitimacy

Self-worth and value come from having intimate connections. But what happens when connections fail or never happen? In this episode Dr. Ray Self discusses this enormous problem and gives answers that will heal and affirm you. Would you please download...

Feb. 24, 2022

I See You

Everyone has a desire to be seen. This need is so powerful that it can determine your emotional and spiritual well-being. Sadly, many people try to meet this need in many unhealthy ways. Dr. Ray Self discusses this vital topic for a healthy and...

Feb. 17, 2022

How to Resolve a Conflict

In this episode, Dr. Ray Self discussed how to resolve a conflict in a healthy manner. There are multiple ways people attempt to resolve disputes, and unfortunately, most of them are unhealthy and unproductive. This episode will focus on healthy and...

Dec. 16, 2021

The Invisible Child of God

In this heart-rending episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses the problem of being invisible to those around you. Satan has a diabolical scheme to keep your true self as God has created hidden. This sinister plot keeps those you love from seeing who you are...

Dec. 9, 2021

On the Outside Looking In

In Episode 62 of Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self, you will learn how to cope with the feeling of being on the outside looking in. This weird sensation of being on the outside can be discouraging. However, many Christians experience this awful feeling in...

Nov. 18, 2021

Surviving The Holidays with the Toxic Family part 2

So, your family is dysfunctional, and you are dreading the Holidays. Dr. Ray Self continues the discussion by giving practical ways of surviving and thriving with your dysfunctional family during the holidays. He will discuss ways to be happy and at...

Nov. 11, 2021

Surviving The Holidays with the Toxic Family

So, your family is dysfunctional, and you are dreading the Holidays. Dr. Ray Self interviews Pam Goucher LCSW, who gives informative, practical ways of surviving and thriving with your dysfunctional family during the holidays. There is a way to be...

Guest: Pam Goucher

Oct. 28, 2021

When Your Anointing is Not Welcome

Have you ever noticed sometimes in your own family or your home church, your anointing is not recognized? However, when you travel, it is a different story? Dr. Ray Self discusses this fascinating and sometimes painful phenomenon. It can be...

Oct. 14, 2021

Spiritual Gifts, Toxic People, and Discernment

Can spiritual gifts operate through unhealthy or toxic people? This is an interesting question. In this episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses the operation of spiritual gifts coming through unhealthy or toxic people. Learn how to discern the voice of God...

June 24, 2021

The Next Step for the Former Toxic Person

In this episode of Self Talk, Dr. Ray speaks to the formerly toxic person about how to stay healthy with practical steps for growth and healing. This episode is critical for anybody who was the former perpetrator of abuse.