Counseling Episodes - Page 2 | Exposing and Defeating the Schemes of the Enemy

April 5, 2024

Anger is Not the Issue

As Christians, we often face pressure to avoid getting angry. In this crucial episode, Dr. Self discusses how anger is a normal emotion created by God.

Feb. 16, 2024

The Christian Response to Toxic People

In this replay of a popular episode of Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self, Dr. Self discusses the Christian response to toxic people or toxic relationships.

Jan. 26, 2024

There will always be people at your present level who will try to hinder you from moving to the next level. Often, these people may take action to discourage you. Dr. Ray discusses this principle, how to deal with it, how to move forward, and what God has called you to do.

Jan. 4, 2024

Dealing with Deception

In this episode of Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self, you will receive tips and advice on navigating relationships when people are living and believing deceptive lies. Although it may be frustrating and disheartening, there is always hope.

Dec. 7, 2023

Her Needs, His Needs

In a marriage relationship, we must understand the needs of our spouse. In this vital show, Dr Ray discusses the primary needs and desires of a woman and a man, as God wisely points out in Scripture. In the show, you can learn how to have a more fulfilling and loving marriage and resolve conflict h…

Nov. 3, 2023

Responding to Toxic Family Members

It is unfortunate, but almost everyone has at least one toxic relative. This is the kind of relative who harms your spirit and grieves your soul, and you wish you did not have to be around them. But it is the holidays, and they are family, so you are required to spend time with them. In this crucia…

Oct. 27, 2023

Integration - The Key to Personal Peace

Dr. Ray Self discusses in this vital episode the significance of integration in bringing peace to our lives. We need to integrate different aspects of our being to attain inner harmony. As believers, we have the Holy Spirit dwelling within us, but we also have natural tendencies or "flesh," as the …

Oct. 10, 2023

Look Back to Move Forward: The Nehemiah Principle

The story of Nehemiah, a prophet, can still be relevant to our lives today. In a significant episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses how examining your past can lead to healing and a prosperous future for both you and your family.

Sept. 8, 2023

Living in an Unhealthy Relationship

In this episode, Dr. Self addresses the difficulties faced by Christians who find themselves in unhealthy relationships. While forgiveness and turning the other cheek are biblical values, navigating day-to-day life in such situations can be...

May 4, 2023

The Need to be Known

In this episode of Self Talk, Dr. Ray Self addresses a vital issue that affects all of us. 1 Cor 13:12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully...

March 30, 2023

Healthy Conflict

Dr. Self discusses how conflict can build respect IF it is handled in a healthy way. Unfortunately, most people do not manage conflict very well. In this episode, you will learn about the four ways people fight. Hint -three of the ways are not good....

Jan. 12, 2023

Tolerated or Celebrated

Today, Dr. Ray Self explains how a familiar spirit will cause you to be overlooked or taken for granted. God's people should be celebrated, but we are only tolerated much too often. Sometimes being just tolerated comes from those closest to you. But...

Dec. 8, 2022

Overcoming Holiday Blues

The Christmas season can be challenging for those who are lonely, depressed, or in unhealthy relationships. However, there are choices we can make, things we can do, and prayers we can say to get through this time in a healthy, fulfilling manner. This...

Oct. 27, 2022

Depression Can Kill You

Depression is a horrible disease and is often misunderstood by the church. Many Christians suffer this disease in silence and not receiving the help from the church that they need. Sadly, some Christians feel condemnation and shame, believing they are...

Sept. 15, 2022

Unequally Yoked

Why is the problem of being unequally yoked such a stern warning in the Bible? (2 Cor. 6:14) What exactly does that mean? Jesus said His yoke was easy and His burden was light (Matt 11:30), but God tells us not to be unequally yoked. Understanding the...

July 28, 2022

Ministering to Victims of Sex Trafficking

Human trafficking is a horrible problem, and closer to your home than you realize. Dr. Ray Self interviews Jim and Dawn Hamm about their ministry to help young girls victimized by sex trafficking get their lives restored through the love of God and...

Guests: Jim Hamm , Dawn Hamm

July 14, 2022

The Attack of Jezebel

In today's episode, Dr. Ray Self interviews Dr. Steve Wittmann, the author of the book, Unchained and Undercover (available at Amazon.com), about the vicious attacks of the Jezebel spirit on local church pastors. This episode covers how to recognize...

Guest: Steve Wittmann

July 7, 2022

Jezebel is Attacking Pastors

Dr. Ray Self discusses the vicious attacks of the Spirit of Jezebel against pastors. Jesus warned us that Jezebel would lead us into immorality. Unfortunately, this scheme has been causing the downfall of many pastors across our nation. We cannot...

April 21, 2022

Divorce, Ministry, and Starting Over

Dr. Ray Self interviews a former pastor's wife about the pain of divorce and the many difficulties divorce creates being a church leader. In this transparent and honest interview, you will hear a truthful conversation about the horrible pain of...

April 7, 2022

The Spirit of Jezebel and Your Wilderness

You have heard about how Jezebel will attack the prophets for a long time. (1 Kings 18:4) The spirit of Jezebel especially loves to target prophetic ministers. Unfortunately, sometimes the spirit of Jezebel works through people closest to us. Dr. Ray...

March 31, 2022

The Brave Encourager

Dr. Ray Self interviews Heidi Mortensen, the author of the book – The Brave Encourager: How the Power of Encouragement Changes the World. (Available on Amazon.com) Heid says, "There is still a path to joy in this broken world. Encouragement is an...

Guest: Heidi Mortensen

March 25, 2022

You Asked Him, What Did He Say?

All of us go through hard moments. It could be a loss of a relationship, concern over a family member, loss of income, or health. In those problematic times, we need to hear from God more than any other time. In this episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses...

Feb. 17, 2022

How to Resolve a Conflict

In this episode, Dr. Ray Self discussed how to resolve a conflict in a healthy manner. There are multiple ways people attempt to resolve disputes, and unfortunately, most of them are unhealthy and unproductive. This episode will focus on healthy and...

Dec. 16, 2021

The Invisible Child of God

In this heart-rending episode, Dr. Ray Self discusses the problem of being invisible to those around you. Satan has a diabolical scheme to keep your true self as God has created hidden. This sinister plot keeps those you love from seeing who you are...