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Dec. 22, 2023

S4E21: How To Respond to Your Partner’s Porn Addiction + Listener Q&A

Tell me what you want to hear in 2024! Take my short, anonymous feedback survey: ⁠https://forms.gle/yfj51qEp6DHgvQBE9⁠ (DM me to get a FREE sticker!) Joseph is back (by popular request!) and while we recorded an episode a while back about breaking free from pornography, we noticed a need for an episode for the partners of those who have struggled with porn. We answered ALL the listener questions that were sent in: - How should you respond when your partner sins? - If you forgive them, will they...
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Nov. 24, 2023

S4E19: How To Heal From Disordered Eating

Trigger Warning: We talk about eating disorders in this episode. Please take the necessary precautions to take care of yourself! Kristina Garza has been set free from disordered eating & an unhealthy relationship with her body and food. Ultimately, the pattern was not about food, but about not knowing how to cope with emotions well. - how to identify what you are running from What feels too big to deal with? - How can you stay present, connect with your body & face the root under the addiction? ...
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Nov. 10, 2023

S4E18: Answers To All The Sex Questions You’re Too Afraid To Ask

Ashlyn R. Watkins, the host of Spiced Wife podcast, joined me for a 2nd time on the podcast! This time, we answered ALL the anonymous questions about sex sent in by listeners. We covered: - how God views sex - what is allowed & not allowed in the bedroom - how to improve your sex life - pornography recovery - healing from the past - sexuality in singleness We pray this episode wipes shame off of you and that you will bring every area of your life under the lordship of Christ, including se...
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Oct. 27, 2023

S4E17: How To Start Dating Without Being Weird About It + Listener Q&A

Danielle Hanlon has been set free from several lies that used to hinder her dating experience. Exhibit A: “Men are sexually weak & I will always be the one fending them off and trying to have integrity.” WOW, that's far from the Truth! It is rarely taught HOW to date well, but we have good news for you: We are here for you! You won’t figure this out alone. We want to take away all fear from your mind so that you can stop over-spiritualizing, overthinking, and overanalyzing & have fun while yo...
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Sept. 29, 2023

S4E16: Does God Want Me To Be Happy or Holy?

Does God care if you’re happy at all? Is His goal to make you holy or happy? Does He care about your desires? Even the ones that won’t necessarily “sanctify” you? Am I an accidental Buddhist!? SO. MANY. QUESTIONS. Kristina Garza & Mackenzie Ryder interviewed me about asceticism, which I lived in for a very long time. I essentially believed that the more I suffered, the holier I became. Have you ever heard phrases like, "Don't pray for patience because then God will make you wait." or "God wants...
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Sept. 15, 2023

S4E15: How To Define Gender: The Danger of Stereotypes & Unbiblical Assumptions

Are there any gender stereotypes you genuinely believe? Do you ever wrestle with the thought, "Am I woman enough?" Bonnie Pue & I had an amazing conversation about what God defines as feminine and masculine (and it doesn’t have anything to do with axe-throwing or shopping or cooking). The Bible is actually very broad in defining what masculine and feminine are. David danced and wrote music. Deborah led a nation as a warrior. Nehemiah wept for his destroyed city. Jesus longed to gather Jerus...
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Sept. 1, 2023

S4E14: Why Christians Have Excluded The Undocumented (& How To Change The Narrative)

How do you think the Kingdom of God works? Who do you believe is invited to the table? Is the undocumented asylum seeker welcome too? Tess Clarke runs a grass-roots organization called We Welcome, which seeks to mobilize and equip women of faith to build and cultivate a welcome movement from their tables at home to the halls of Congress. In our conversation, we answer questions like: - is seeking asylum illegal? - do we have enough resources to go around? Should we open our borders to more p...
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Aug. 18, 2023

S4E13: How To Thrive as a Female in a Male-Dominated & Marriage-Focused Culture

Have you ever been disqualified because you’re a female? Or maybe because you’re not married? Do you wrestle with what God intended when He designed woman? Do we have different roles than men? Nina lives in the Middle East, but whether you live in Midwest America or find yourself in a Muslim context, you’ve probably come into contact with a male-centric or marriage-focused culture. Nina & I had a hilarious and encouraging conversation about: - how God moves through single women, not just men or ...
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Aug. 4, 2023

S4E12: How To Break Unhealthy Generational Patterns and Cycles

Madeline Peña has been set free from mental health issues, addiction, an eating disorder, and self-harm. And the most beautiful thing is that since Jesus has ended these unhealthy cycles in her life, her entire generational line benefits from it! When we break generational patterns & cycles in our lives, it does not just impact us, but also everyone in our lives. Christ’s desire is always to heal the root cause of unhealthy patterns in us. In this episode, we answer questions like: - what is cyc...
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July 21, 2023

S4E11: He/She/They: How To Handle Pronouns + Listener Q&A

Laurie Kreig has been equipping the church with a Gospel-centered approach to gender and sexuality for nearly a decade. She joined me for the 2nd time on the show to discuss how to handle the pronoun conversation. Many Christians are simply afraid. Afraid to get it wrong. Afraid to offend someone. Afraid to dishonor Jesus. Afraid to accidentally encourage sin. Afraid to come off as a jerk. - Is calling someone by their preferred pronouns the same thing as affirming sin? - What is 'pronoun hospit...
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July 7, 2023

S4E10: How To Love The Lord Your God With All Your Mind: Taming Intrusive Thoughts, Lies & Anxiety

I’m back from sabbatical & we’re mixing it up today because I’m not the host here - Liz Dorsch is the host and I was a guest on her recently launched podcast, Reconnect! How do you get those intrusive thoughts out of your head? Our minds can toss and turn faster than anything else. The good news is while we do not always have control over every thought that pops into our heads, we do have control over which thoughts we dwell on. I had a beautiful conversation with Liz about how to - not be co...
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April 28, 2023

S4E9: How To Cultivate Contentment In The In Between Spaces

BOOK YOUR FREE DISCOVERY CALL WITH KATE TODAY: https://www.katepetry.com/coaching Do you feel as if you're in an in-between space right now? You've come a long way, but you're not where you want to be yet? Do you ever struggle with FOMO & feel a lack of purpose in the everyday grind? Cassie Goossen has been set free from a mindset The mundane tasks of changing diapers, potty training, and You can have huge dreams for the future and receive many prophetic words, but your focus cannot be stuck in...
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April 14, 2023

S4E8: How To Heal From Sexual Trauma

Book your FREE coaching call with Kate today: https://www.katepetry.com/coaching DISCLAIMER: We talk about sexual assault and the traumatic effects of it. Please use discretion before listening. When sexual assault happens, whether if it is one incident or repeated over a long time, how do you heal afterwards? What if you don't know the details of the assault? Do you fear you're 'just being dramatic'? I have great news for you: You are able to heal from trauma and the lies that may come with...
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March 31, 2023

S4E7: Feeling Behind In Life? How To Stop Measuring Your Life By Your Accomplishments

Do you ever fear that you're falling behind in life? Are you comparing your life pace & accomplishments to your friends or the people younger than you with 1M followers on Instagram? Maryellen Hacko graduated university with a degree in law, yet is now a freelance writer & illustrator. How did that happen? The Lord set her free from equating her worth to what she accomplished. She used to feel as if she was only valuable when she was producing something, but she has learned her identity as a chi...
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March 17, 2023

S4E6: How To Have Better, Healthier, Longer Friendships

Yohonna Smith is a wife, mom, encourager, and the host of Girls Talking Life podcast. She values relationships to her core, which is why I was so excited to pick her brain about how we can each have better, healthier, longer friendships. - How can you prevent comparison from entering your friendships (especially in a world of social media)? - What if you're struggling with loneliness? How can you reach out to create new friendships? - How do you end a friendship well? (Friendships break-ups - OU...
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March 3, 2023

S4E5: The Sex Ed You Always Needed, But Never Got

Disclaimer: You may want headphones for this episode if you're around little ears. We talk about sex. Many evangelical, Christian women did not receive adequate sexual education growing up and the conversation was not encouraged. Holly Ward shares what you should know before starting your sex life with your spouse. Sex is a gift from God and was in the world before sin entered. It is God's idea, so our conversation is geared towards removing lies or shame you have felt in the past from inaccurat...
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Feb. 3, 2023

S4E3: How To Live An Abundant Single Life

If Jesus truly does promise abundant life for all who love Him, then you do not have to wait until you’re married to enjoy it! Christine Ramirez is 39, single & loving it. She’s been set free from having to know if she’ll be married one day or not. The mystery is beautiful and not something to be feared. Marriage is not the goal of life; Jesus is. We also answered all the questions that listeners sent in about this topic, so if you asked one, it’s in here! Follow Head to Heart on Instagram: @hea...
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Jan. 20, 2023

S4E2: How To Become a Strong & Free Leader: Grow in Your Confidence & Identity in Christ

Do you doubt your own leadership abilities? Do you struggle with imposter syndrome or feeling like your unqualified to lead? Kate Petry is our very first international guest on the show! She lives in Ontario, Canada and served as a pastor for 5 years before becoming a coach & feels passionate about cultivating a healthy church. Our church leaders need to be strong & free so they can serve others well. Sometimes, we can unintentionally ask our teams to meet our needs instead of asking ourselves h...
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Jan. 6, 2023

S4E1: How To Live a Life Driven By Love, Not Fear

Are you living in fear of sin? This may not be easy to pinpoint in your own life right away, so here are some questions to ask yourself: - are you terrified that your spouse will look at porn? - does the possibility of your children being exposed to various sins keep you awake at night? - do you find yourself spending a lot of energy trying to control other people's choices? Laura Krause is a wife, mom, prayer warrior & church planter who has been set free from fear's grip on her life by th...