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Oct. 21, 2022

The Official Funny Quotes List: Highlights & Honorable Mentions

I've kept a Funny Quotes List on my phone for the last 8 years! I can't even believe it's been going for that long. It's been a dream of mine to share this list on a podcast episode for a long time & TODAY is that day. I exposed the list to all subscribers so we can all enjoy the humor. In this episode, I covered 2 main components of this 41 page list: - Highlighted quotes from the last 8 years - Who scored the most amount of quotes on the list? I encourage you, dear subscriber, create your o...
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Oct. 14, 2022

S3E21: How To Break Free From Lies & Ungodly Beliefs

Want to unlock all the episodes? Become a subscriber here: https://anchor.fm/jenny-marcum/subscribe This solo episode is one of my personal favorites because I share my testimony of how the Lord taught me to discern and break partnership with lies that had been eating at me for a long time. And now, I get to teach others how to do this through this podcast about connecting the Truth from our heads into our everyday lives. This is such an essential skill that we need to use to make sure we are no...
Oct. 7, 2022

How To Sit With Others In Their Pain: Practicing Empathy & Avoiding Secondhand Trauma

How do you create a safe space for others who are hurting when you don’t know what to say? You might feel pressure to say or do the right thing, but have no idea what “the right thing” is. In this subscriber-only episode, I talk about: - embracing the uncomfortable - what not to say to someone hurting - how to provide comfort with good boundaries - how to practice empathy & avoid secondhand trauma Show Notes: Want to listen to this locked episode? Become a subscriber today and unlock it ...
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Sept. 30, 2022

S3E20: Is Masturbation a Sin? Answers For Singles & Marrieds

Since masturbation is not directly mentioned in the Bible, is it sin or not? What if you're able to masturbate without lusting? Ashlyn R. Watkins, the host of Spiced Wife Podcast, joined me to discuss this topic. It would be so much easier if this was just a simple yes or no, but it's actually a lot more complex than that. The Word does not directly mention masturbation, but it does give us a roadmap for how to evaluate our own hearts and James 1:5 tells us that if we lack wisdom, we can ask G...
Sept. 23, 2022

How To Steward Your Sexuality In Singleness ft. Ashlyn R. Watkins

How does a single person steward their sexuality in a way that honors God? If you're not committed to anyone, then what do you do with the feelings and thoughts that come up? Ashlyn R. Watkins and I discussed the answer to this question, because Ashlyn is all about answering the taboo questions some of us do not feel permission to ask in church. She is the host of Spiced Wife podcast, an author, wife, mom, and woman of God. Want to listen to this episode, but haven't subscribed yet? Use this l...
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Sept. 16, 2022

S3E19: Will You Be Eternally Rewarded or Suffer Loss?: How To Steward Your Life Well

Want to learn how to create your own stewardship map? You can become a subscriber and get access to every locked episode here: https://anchor.fm/jenny-marcum/subscribe Do you ever wonder if what you do matters? In this solo episode, I told the story of the specific season in my life where the Lord taught me about stewardship. Everything I thought about success used to be results driven, but now it's driven with an eternal perspective. I answered questions like - Is God going to judge me even tho...
Sept. 9, 2022

Lies Culture Tells Women About Motherhood ft. Victoria & Nico Hedger

Why are kids taught about Matthew 19:13-14 where Jesus welcomes the little children, but then we stop preaching it from the pulpit as we grow up? Why do we assume “pain in childbearing” is God’s curse on labor? I think we need to reevaluate that interpretation. Victoria Hedger & her 8 month old son joined me for an extended conversation about the lies that American culture tells women about dignity, becoming a mom, and raising children. Let's be honest. Our culture tells women: - Children are ...
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Sept. 2, 2022

S3E18: How To Not Care What People Think of You (Without Becoming a Sociopath)

Is it possible to truly not care what other people think of you? How do you overcome shame if you’ve lived with it your whole life? Victoria Hedger is on the show for a 2nd time & we talked about something pretty much everyone wants to achieve in life - not caring what others think. That’s a nice phrase, but we also don’t want to live in complete disregard of how you affect others. What we really mean is how to not live in fear of man. Victoria defined what the fear of man is, shared her process...
Aug. 26, 2022

Is Conversion Therapy Even Ethical? ft. Laurie Krieg

Conversion therapy is essentially therapy to help someone who is gay become straight. When that's all that you know, you might find yourself wondering, "Okay... is that wrong? Is that a bad thing?" Laurie Krieg answers this question beautifully by laying out what the heart of conversion therapy actually is. Our conversation is continued from last week's episode. Should "making someone straight" really be the goal at all? Resources: Preston Sprinkle - https://www.prestonsprinkle.com/ Pray Away...
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Aug. 19, 2022

S3E17: Same-Sex Attraction Meets The Gospel: How To Respond, Love, & Care For The LGBTQ+ Community

There are so many questions about gender and sexuality demanding answers in our culture today. Does the Bible affirm same-sex marriages or not? What do you do if you're just not attracted to the opposite gender? Who do you talk to about your same-sex attraction? What should you say when your sibling comes out? How should the church respond to the LGBTQ+ community? Laurie Krieg is an author, speaker, and host of Hole In My Heart podcast whose mission is to train the church with a Gospel-center...
Guest: Laurie Krieg
Aug. 12, 2022

BONUS: How To Make A Stewardship Map: The Tool That Will Change Your Life Forever

Today, I’m walking you through the steps of how to make your own personal stewardship map! This tool is more intentional, purposeful & simple than filling out a planner and it keeps your priorities in check. The truth is that we will all give an account before God one day of how we spent our lives. What are you doing with your gifts, talents, influence, and relationships?
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Aug. 5, 2022

S3E16: Listener Q&A: Motivation, Relationship With God, Definition of Success & So Much More

I answered all the questions I received from listeners, so this is quite a fun episode! While I fight through jet lag, I talked about what motivates me, my quiet time routine, my favorite plants, celebrity crushes, defining success, my most prized possession, my weirdest habits & a lot more. If you want to become a subscriber, use this link to join the community & get a new episodes every single week! https://anchor.fm/jenny-marcum/subscribe --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easie...
July 29, 2022

My Top 3 Most Embarrassing Moments

What happens when someone asks you, “What's your most embarrassing moment?” Usually, you can't think of anything even though you KNOW you have some good ones up your sleeve. In this bonus episode, I share my top 3 most embarrassing moments so we can all have a good laugh & how to remember yours so that you always have a good response when that question comes up.
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July 22, 2022

S3E15: How Porn Makes You Sexually Illiterate & How To Break Free

Is pornography really every man's battle? Should you be dating in the midst of struggling with a pornography addiction? How do you support a friend who is trying to recover from this addiction? What are the differences between porn vs. real intimacy? How can you shift your mindset after an inadequate sexual education? We answer all these questions and more in this episode where Joseph shares his testimony of overcoming an addiction to pornography. He teaches how to actually break free inste...
July 15, 2022

The Week We Avoided Our Phones: How Screen Time Steals Our Peace ft. Hannah Penny & Anna DeLoach

How long can you go without using your phone? Do you control your phone or does your phone control you? Hannah Penny, Anna DeLoach, and I competed against each other to see who could get the lowest amount of screen time on their phone for a whole week. iPhone gives a full report of screen time every 7 days. (Check it out if you want to feel convicted!) We discovered A LOT in that week. We talk about: - who won the competition - how less screen time promotes mindfulness - the anxiety, vulner...
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July 8, 2022

S3E14: How To Control Your Anger Before It Controls You: Tracking Triggers & Processing Well

Have you ever felt stuck in anger? Like you just couldn't work through it? Do you snap over little irritations or build resentment in your heart without processing why? This can happen to all of us, but if it is left unresolved, the results can be devastating. Whether you tend to be passive, passive-aggressive, or aggressive when you're angry, this episode is FOR YOU! Natalie Hixson is a wife, mother, auntie, and certified professional life coach who helps discouraged women overcome destructive...
July 1, 2022

BONUS: How To Embrace Your College Days (but don’t worry - your best days can be ahead of you!)

I dug back into my archives and found a recording from 3 YEARS AGO, where I asked a youth pastor and former Bible college student, “What are the negative aspects of Bible college? What would you warn young people about?” Guys, it is SO GOOD. Everything in this episode not only applies to Bible college students, but also anyone who is or has been in a spiritual greenhouse. A spiritual greenhouse is an environment designed to train you to grow in your relationship with God. This could be a trainin...
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June 24, 2022

S3E13: How To Be An Advocate: Know Your Story, Avoid Savior Complex & Love The Marginalized

Did you know the majority of trafficking victims are in the LGBTQ+ community or people of color? Many people say they want to help fight against the injustice of human trafficking, but when they realize what victims look like, they no longer want to be part of the conversation. Wendy J. Olson is a healing coach and the founder of Grit Plus Gumption Farmstead, an organization that helps women walk through healing after the trauma of sexual exploitation and domestic violence. Wendy is a survivo...
June 17, 2022

BONUS: First Half of 2022 Book Reviews & How to Become a Regular Reader

I’ve read 8 books in 2022 so far! My goal is to read at least 12 this year, so I am well on my way. In this bonus episode, I give a review of each book, a star rating & why or why not I would recommend it. I also discuss HOW to make time for reading on a regular basis because when life gets busy, reading is usually the first thing to get booted. So far, I’ve read: 1. The Treasury of Prayer - E. M. Bounds 2. The Pineapple Story - Institute in Basic Youth Conflicts 3. The Practice of the Presence ...
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June 10, 2022

S3E12: Can Women Be Pastors? + Other Issues That Don’t Matter As Much As We Think They Do

Can women be pastors? Can a Christian be pro-choice? Is social media discipling you more than Jesus Himself? Can there be actual unity in the church? Joseph & I told the story of how we ended up agreeing on a church together, which was a lengthy process, but we learned a lot from it. Everywhere you look, you can find Christians arguing about some kind of secondary issue, but is this solving anything? We talk about how to avoid dying on a hill unnecessarily, how to be humble in growing your faith...
June 3, 2022

BONUS: How To Set Up Your Friends ft. Emma Green

Emma Green has a gift. Her desire is that her wonderful friends will get into relationships with people who are as wonderful as they are. And don’t we want the best for our friends? She literally set me up with my now husband. But the question has been, “HOW DOES SHE DO IT?” I interviewed her candidly in a Panera Bread. What are the qualities in others that let you know they’d be a good fit for each other? Do you set them up on a blind date or let them know ahead of time? What if the people you ...
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May 27, 2022

S3E11: How To Remove Shame From Sexuality: Debunking Myths & Normalizing The Conversation

Every one of us grew up somewhere on the spectrum in regards to how we think about our sexuality. Did you feel shame about it? Did you feel like it was always in the driver’s seat of your life? It is not God’s will for you to live in shame in ANY area of your life. You were made to steward your sexuality, not fear or be controlled by it. In this solo episode, I talk about the pattern of fear in Christian women’s lives & what God thinks about sexuality. We also debunk common misconceptions: Is se...
May 20, 2022

BONUS: Blooper Reel (a.k.a. The Blooper Scooper!)

I’ve been collecting hilarious bloopers since the very beginning of the show & the time has come for me TO RELEASE THEM TO THE WORLD. I’ve compiled the top blooper moments that were totally unplanned, uncalled for & absolutely hilarious for us all to enjoy. If you were a guest on this podcast at any point, you’re probably in this episode! I hope you enjoy this just as much as I did.
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May 13, 2022

S3E10: How To Feel Comfortable In Your Own Skin: Overcoming Negative Body Image & Unhealthy Patterns

What do you do if you don’t like what you see in the mirror? How can you have a positive body image when you’ve never had one before? Anna Deloach shared her journey of how the Lord helped her overcome eating disorders, addictions & a negative body image. She covers how to train your thoughts to glorify Christ, how to feel comfortable in your own skin & how to not obsess over food, but instead use food as fuel. Her story is such a huge encouragement to every single person, whatever your relation...
Guest: Anna DeLoach