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Feb. 25, 2026

Ep 2. Backhanded Compliments & Surprise Prayer Meetings

If you expected a date and ended up at a Jehovah’s Witness meeting, what would you do? In this episode of @DoAsWeSayPod , @DrNerdLove and @DrLizPowell unpack the wonderfully cursed waters of Reddit relationship stories. First up: a man whose compliments feel more like insults. Then, a surprising trip to…

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Feb. 23, 2026

Death Is a Part of Life

Nothing lasts forever, and people have been trying to cope with that fact since… forever. Death is sad and painful, and it’s something we spend our entire lives learning to live with. But it’s also the reason love, connection, and being here mean as much as they do and are…

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Feb. 20, 2026

Thoughts on AI Therapists

Yes, therapy uses tools and modalities to help you grow, heal, or find healthy coping mechanisms. But the core of therapy is the relationship that you build and that exists for you. Your other relationships aren’t only about you. They’re about you and the other person. So how is that…

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Feb. 18, 2026

Pack Bonding with Robot Vacuums

Humans will anthropomorphize ANYTHING. My roomba? You mean my klutzy maid whose trying her best? 😉 My laptop? Oh, you mean my emotional support device? 💻 It’s easy to forget that humans are animals, but we are. We love to give personality and names and even gender to non-human things…

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Feb. 16, 2026

Healing from PTSD

“Healed” and “healing” are different, and we gotta say, healing is often a painful and uncomfortable process. It’s a “it gets worse before it gets better” kind of process. ⛰️ When a bone heals incorrectly, you have to rebreak and reset it. And, yeah, it’s going to hurt like an…

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Feb. 13, 2026

Dumped for a Chat Bot

Hearing “There’s someone else” is devastating, but finding out that “someone” is essentially Clippy? That hits a little different. Human relationships come with friction. Even if you’re a communication pro, there’s going to be disagreements, misunderstandings, and tough conversations because we’re all just messy weirdos. (Peep the shirt 😉) But…

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Feb. 11, 2026

It’s Not You, I’m In Love with AI

Extra! Extra! 📢 The first episode of @DoAsWeSayPod is live, and it’s a doozy! Join your hosts, @DrLizPowell and @DrNerdLove as we dig into one journalist’s surreal experience on a weekend getaway with three AI chatbots and the people who love them. Together, they unpack: ✨ Why AI relationships feel…

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Feb. 11, 2026

Ep 1. Three AI Chatbots Walk Into a Couple’s Retreat

Would you trade in your human partner for an AI chatbot? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O’Malley discuss the hilarious highs and unnerving lows of human-AI relationships chronicled in Wired Magazine. As capital H AI-Haters, Harris and Dr.…

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Feb. 9, 2026

Single Is Better

“Women would rather be single than date you.” Yep, we said. 👀 @DrLizPowell and @DrNerdLove are starting a dating podcast, and our advice is be single?? Not exactly. On Do As We Say, Not As They Did, we’re here to give you all the dating dos and don’ts from the…

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Feb. 8, 2026

Episode One Releases on February 11th!

PAUSE. 😮 @DrLizPowell and @DrNerdLove are starting a podcast, and they’re talking about what?!?! That’s right! You heard it here first, folks. We’re hosting the only dating podcast where the dating advice is sometimes wrapped up in an article all about men who are really, really concerned with that final…

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Feb. 8, 2026

It Doesn't Have to Happen

“I tripped and fell into them!” “It was just an accident!” “It’s gonna happen anyway, so you might as well accept it.” Yeah…we don’t buy that either. That’s why @DrLizPowell and @DrNerdLove are starting a dating podcast to talk about the messy and complicated dating red flags in other people’s…

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