Episodes

May 23, 2023

Ep. 55 - Celebrating Your Anniversary

Do you celebrate your wedding anniversary? Remember how happy you were that day? You were so in love! In this episode, you'll learn the reasons why celebrating your anniversary is a must! You will hear what Brian and I wrote ...

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May 16, 2023

Ep. 54 - Life, Loss and Love

Loss is a part of every life. So, what do you say to someone who has lost a loved one or spouse? In this week's episode, I am honored to be joined by Yarona Boster, an Advanced Life Coach in Parenting, Loss, Trauma, and Infer...

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May 9, 2023

Ep. 53 - Is Your Marriage In a Rut?

All marriages have downtimes. The fact is that there will be times in our marriages when we may feel lonely, frustrated, angry, neglected and yes, even unloved. In this week's episode, we are discussing ways that you can get ...

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May 2, 2023

Ep. 52 - Ten Powerful Phrases You'll Want to Use in Your Marriage

How Carefully Do You Choose Your Words? In this week's episode, I am sharing some powerful phrases that may transform how your partner responds to you. Learning what to say can make all the difference! Do you want to express ...

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April 25, 2023

Ep. 51 - Are You Creating or Destroying Love?

Did you know that every choice we make either creates or destroys love. In this week's episode, we are discussing the choices we make regarding love each day. Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/monarchforlove/

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April 18, 2023

Ep. 50 - How Do You Stay Connected to Your Spouse?

In this week's episode, we are discussing ways to improve your marriage! Discover some essential tips and consider opening your mind to a different way of thinking! Learn about the one thing that will keep you and your spouse...

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April 11, 2023

Ep. 49 - Men Are From Mars, and Women Are From Venus

Do you ever wonder why your spouse pulls away when you want to be closest to them? In this week's episode, we discuss John Gray's book; Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. The truth is that men and women have different n...

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April 4, 2023

Ep. 48 - Take Time to Check In

Let's face it; we are all very busy. Trying to juggle schedules can seem daunting. In this week's episode, my husband, Brian, and I discuss the importance of checking in with your spouse weekly. Listen now to hear how you can...

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March 28, 2023

Ep. 47 - The Five Stages of Marriage

Do you know the five stages married couples go through? In this week's episode, we are discussing the five stages of marriage. Listen now and see if you can recognize which stage you and your partner are in. There is one part...

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March 21, 2023

Ep. 46 - How to Apologize to Your Spouse

No marriage is perfect. We all make mistakes, but sometimes it is difficult owning up to hurting our partners. In this week's episode, you will learn some simple steps to make apologizing to your spouse more effective. Listen...

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March 14, 2023

Ep. 45 - Marriage Tools and Methods With Daniel W. Houmes, LMFT

All marriages have challenges. How are you handling the challenges in your marriage? Have you ever considered seeing a marriage therapist? This week, I am honored to be joined by Daniel W. Houmes, a Licensed Marriage and Fami...

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March 7, 2023

Ep. 44 - Men and Women Really Do Think Differently

In this week's episode, you will hear how Larry Savarese, who served as a combat marine, won the heart of his lovely ballerina Julia Savarese. My husband, Brian Hays, also joins us in the conversation as we all share our idea...

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Feb. 28, 2023

Ep. 43 - How to Emotionally Reconnect with Your Husband

Has your husband been emotionally distant lately? Are you feeling lonely and unloved? The truth is that most husbands will become emotionally distant sometimes. That is normal, but when he remains emotionally distant for long...

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Feb. 21, 2023

Ep. 42 - Money and Marriage

Money is the second leading cause of divorce, and the odds are that you have argued about money with your spouse at some point during your marriage. In this week's episode, Personal Finance Coach and host of the "Where's My M...

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Feb. 14, 2023

Ep. 41 - The Five Love Languages

Most likely, you have heard about the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. In this week's episode, you will hear a description of each of the five love languages. You'll learn why knowing your partner's love language...

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Feb. 7, 2023

Ep. 40 - Your Love Story Didn't End When You Got Married!

I am honored to speak with Rev. David M Anderson, The Wedding Chaplain, in this week's episode. Whether you are newly married, married for quite some time, or remarried, this is an episode you will not want to miss! David and...

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Jan. 31, 2023

Ep. 39 - Are Your Expectations of Romance in Marriage Too High?

Many of us have very high expectations regarding love, romance, and marriage. I get it. My expectations were unrealistic also. In this episode, you'll learn what you can do to reconnect with your spouse, the decision that tru...

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Jan. 24, 2023

Ep. 38 - Would You Ever Get Married Again?

I can't tell you how often I hear divorced people say, "I would never get married again." Yet, after a few years, some of us unexpectedly say "I do" again. Myself included! In this week's episode, Best Selling Author and Busi...

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Jan. 17, 2023

Ep. 37 - 10 Ways to Deal With Annoying Relatives

We all have challenging relatives. You know, the " But We Are Family " relatives. This week, my husband Brian joins me and we are discussing how to cope with challenging relatives. Sometimes it's "easier said than done" but ...

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Jan. 10, 2023

Ep. 36 - How to Create Romance in Your Marriage

When was the last time you felt romanced? Have you romanced your partner lately? If you want romance to be a part of your marriage, you must "intentionally" and "consistently" create romance! It is easier than you think! In t...

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Jan. 3, 2023

Ep. 35 - Do You Want a Happier Marriage in 2023?

It’s a new year! You can make better choices when it comes to your life and your relationship. Listen now to hear the New Year’s resolution you want to make that will make you and your partner happier in 2023! Wishing you the...

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Dec. 27, 2022

Ep. 34 - Has Divorce Ever Crossed Your Mind?

Divorce is a traumatic experience. It takes a huge toll on you, your family and your children. In this week's episode, Jamie Levine, the founder of Team Esteem and the host of the Mom Esteem podcast joins me to discuss divorc...

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Dec. 20, 2022

Ep. 33 - Do You Know How to Express Your Needs?

Do you know the difference between a need and a want? Are you frequently neglecting your own needs? What are your beliefs about yourself and your partner? This episode is jam-packed with everything you want to know about expr...

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Dec. 13, 2022

Ep. 32 - Five Signs of Complacency in Your Marriage

So you are married for several years, and things are not as exciting as they once were. Things may even be, well, let's say, not so great. It happens to the best of us. We tend to get very familiar with our partners and inadv...

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