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Aug. 22, 2023

52: Christmas and holiday stress with teenagers and tweens.

A holiday is when someone is free to do what they want, such as travel or relax. That's according to the Cambridge Dictionary. The problem with teenagers, is that what they want to do for several weeks over summer - such as sleep or use their electronic devices all day…

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Aug. 16, 2023

Moving school: What we wish we'd known about preparing our tweens & teens, and ourselves. |...

The transition from junior to senior school can be thrilling; the chance to meet a much bigger group of kids, and gain more of the independence that's part of growing up. But change is always stressful, and when you combine a big shake up of friend groups with puberty, having…

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Aug. 15, 2023

51: Transitioning to secondary school: What we wish we'd known about preparing our tweens & teens...

The transition from junior to senior school can be thrilling; the chance to meet a much bigger group of kids, and gain more of the independence that's part of growing up. But change is always stressful, and when you combine a big shake up of friend groups with puberty, having…

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Aug. 10, 2023

Memory helps us do far more than pass exams. So why not train it in the same way we work our...

In this interview with Danielle Winton of Memory Strategy we talked about: * Why Google really doesn't replace the importance of building our memory. * How we can build our memory muscle in the same way we build other muscles at the gym. * How someone who isn't neurotypical, and…

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Aug. 9, 2023

50: Memory helps us do far more than pass exams. So why not train it in the same way we work our ...

In this interview with Danielle Winton of Memory Strategy we talked about: * Why we should care about memory stategies. * Key things parents can do to support their teens. * How to link a number to music. * Everyone can polish up their memory. * Using your body as…

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Aug. 9, 2023

Your memory is like a muscle; why not take it to the gym? With Danielle Winton of Memory Strategy.

In this interview we talked about: * Why Google really doesn't replace the importance of building our memory. * How we can build our memory muscle in the same way we build other muscles at the gym. * How someone who isn't neurotypical, and struggles with working memory, can really…

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Aug. 7, 2023

The stresses of being without a schedule

Leaving school can be incredibly exciting, but it’s also a day of reckoning when all the support structures fall away, and our teens are expected to behave more like adults. All change is stressful, and I’ve found that when my teens are on their devices too much, or consuming junk,…

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Aug. 6, 2023

Difficult conversations with teenagers:

Difficult conversations can be easier when our body is occupied with something, and our teenager has our full attention. Often we shy away from these conversations because we’re scared of what might come up. Here’s a great way of managing your way through those difficult moments. #talking #busy #hiking #body…

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Aug. 1, 2023

Don’t fix your teens, do this.

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July 31, 2023

Alcohol and teenagers

Teens feel huge pressure to drink alcohol. Here’s what I’ve told my teens to help them when the pressure is in.

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July 23, 2023

Snapchat; a fantastic way to connect, or a cynical exploitation of your teenager's time? |...

00:00 Introduction and reviews. 2:43 When you become the Uber parent in the holidays, who feels like a taxi service. 4:02 Screen time: Helping your teens to manage their screen use. Yes, they really do want you to intervene. 5:38 Snapchat obsession. Why is your teen so driven to spending…

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July 23, 2023

49: Snapchat addiction; the app that's a fantastic way to connect, or a cynical exploitation of y...

Snapchat has become a must-have for most teens, because it's now the way they stay in touch with their friends. The filters make it fun, they can see where their friends are on Snapmaps, and the instant photos give them a quick and easy contact point. But one of our…

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July 17, 2023

Helping tween and teen girls become allies; advice from expert Kim McCabe. | Teenagers Untangled...

We've all heard about mean girls, and girl drama, but is it inevitable, or are there things we can be doing to prevent it? Kim McCabe is an expert on teen and tween girl development who runs a programme called Rites for Girls which coaches groups of tweens and teens…

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July 17, 2023

One fantastic thing parents can do to bond with their teen.

Kim McCabe is an expert on teen and tween girl development who runs a programme called Rites for Girls which coaches groups of tweens and teens to help them learn how to support each other, and act as allies, rather than resorting to less pleasant ways to feel safe. #teen…

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July 13, 2023

48: Teen/tween girl drama could be avoided if they’re taught how to become allies: an interview w...

We've all heard about mean girls, and girl drama, but is it inevitable, or are there things we can be doing to prevent it? Kim McCabe is an expert on teen and tween girl development who runs a programme called Rites for Girls which coaches groups of tweens and teens…

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July 12, 2023

46 Feeding your teen; control issues and Bigorexia. | Teenagers Untangled - Parenting tips from...

Boys and men who display a muscular physique that's 'ripped', or 'cut' get more likes and shares than other accounts on social media, so the algorithms behind the platforms are feeding a strong trend in muscle building amongst teen boys. But who ends up feeding the ravenously hungry, and is…

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July 11, 2023

Feeding teen boys who're working out in the gym.

Boys and men who display a muscular physique that's 'ripped', or 'cut' get more likes and shares than other accounts on social media, so the algorithms behind the platforms are feeding a strong trend in muscle building amongst teen boys. But who ends up feeding the ravenously hungry, and is…

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July 9, 2023

47: Teens eating everything in the house, muscle building, and Bigorexia.

Boys and men who display a muscular physique that's 'ripped', or 'cut' get more likes and shares than other accounts on social media, so the algorithms behind the platforms are feeding a strong trend in muscle building amongst teen boys. But who ends up feeding the ravenously hungry, and is…

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July 2, 2023

46: Anger issues: tips for dealing with an explosive and angry teen.

We all loose our cool sometimes. but teenagers can find it particularly challenging to stay calm or calm down when enraged. It takes self-awareness and skill, and a level of brain development that just isn't there for some of them. One listener contacted us for help with her son who…

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July 1, 2023

Toxic masculinity, and supporting our teenage boys with Mike Nicholson from Progressive Masculinity

The term toxic masculinity has been gaining traction, and is often used to talk about the type of masculinity where men use dominance, violence and control to gain power and superiority over others. There's also been an increase in efforts to educate boys in how to talk more about their…

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June 25, 2023

45: Masculinity, and positive ways of supporting our teenage boys: An interview with Mike Nichols...

The term toxic masculinity has been gaining traction, and is often used to talk about the type of masculinity where men use dominance, violence and control to gain power and superiority over others. There's also been an increase in efforts to educate boys in how to talk more about their…

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June 18, 2023

44: Introducing your new partner to your teen.

What's better than falling in love again, particularly after a divorce or breakdown of a previous relationship? If you've managed to find someone special in the messy tangle of life as a parent it can feel like a miracle, but your teen may not be anywhere near as enthusiastic about…

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June 16, 2023

Masculinity, and teen boys.

I've just had a fascinating conversation with Mike Nicholson at Progressive Masculinity UK. He says many boys he talks to have places and people they can go to for help. What they lack is the skills to ask, because they've never seen a man they admire ask for help. Why…

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June 11, 2023

43: Risk-taking teens; the good news about bad behaviour.

We all know that teenagers need their friends, and spending time with others protects against anxiety and all sorts of other mental health problems. At the same time, groups of teens are far more likely to take risks and behave in a delinquent manner, which is what one of our…

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