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57: Talking to teens about dating and relationships or 'help, my son's come home with a hickey!'...

Stacy messaged to tell us that her son had come home with a hickey for the second time, and she wasn't sure whether her reaction was the right one. My goodness, it's hard.

Remember when you had your very first date? The butterflies, the nervous laughter, and the constant fear of saying the wrong thing? Now imagine your teen going through the same rollercoaster of emotions. We take a look at the words being used for dating, what teens are getting out of dating; which is a lot of personal growth, excitement, and status.

We also talk about how we parents can encourage our teen to focus on building their identity and what's good for them, and how dating is an important piece of that puzzle.

We'll also talk about supporting them when their relationships end. So, get ready to step into your teen's shoes and embrace the bittersweet symphony of teenage dating.

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