Video Episodes

March 30, 2024

Let Me Prey Upon You - Healing After Clergy Abuse - Finding OK - S5 Ep6 with Sandy Phillips Kirkham

Sandy Kirkham is a survivor of clergy abuse and the author of, "Let Me Prey Upon You". Sandy was very active in her church growing up, her faith was the center of her life. When she was 16 her youth pastor groomed and manipulated her into a sexual relationship. After…

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Feb. 6, 2024

Raising Yourself - Finding OK - Season 5 Episode 3

Alice Cottonsox joins me to talk about recovering from childhood abuse, battling Agoraphobia, and facing online hate with humor. Alice is very open about her mental health struggles in her viral videos and she's helping many survivors feel less alone. Alice is being her own parent and raising herself, something…

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July 3, 2023

Claiming Freedom - Letting Go of Shame and Blame - Finding OK - S4 Ep10 with Kalpashree Gupta

Kalpashree Gupta joins me to share her journey in healing from childhood sexual abuse. We discuss letting go of shame and blame, what forgiveness means to her, breaking cycles of family trauma, and where she's found strength, grace, and empowerment. Kalpa is the CEO and founder of Knekxt Group, a…

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June 20, 2023

One Life One Heart - Finding OK - S4 Ep9 with Michelle M. Kang

Michelle M. Kang is the founder and president of One Life One Heart, a nonprofit organization which helps underserved sexual abuse survivors by offering culturally sensitive community support. She has dedicated herself to creating safe spaces where survivors can feel heard, regain their self-confidence, and fulfill their purpose in life.…

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March 21, 2023

Reclaiming Power - Talking Shit With P - Finding OK - S4 Ep8 with Paula Mulamula

Paula Mulamula is the host of the Mental Health podcast, Talk Shit With P where she focuses on real talk and breaking the stigma surrounding mental health issues. Today Paula is breaking her silence and sharing her story of surviving sexual assault and reclaiming her power post-trauma. She also shares…

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March 7, 2023

Purity Culture is Grooming Parts 1 & 2 - Finding OK - S4 Ep 4 & 5 with Kaitlin Bellamy

Kaitlin Bellamy shares what it was like for her growing up in the Mormon Church and discusses the ways that purity culture contributed to the abuse she experienced in her marriage. Purity Culture grooms people to enable, accept, and perpetrate abuse and assault. She shares her healing journey now that…

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Dec. 15, 2022

Among Us with Hecate and the Crew - Murder is Better with Friends! Twitch Clips of Among Us Gameplay

Murder Crew ASSEMBLE!! Among Us is one of my community's favorite games to play together for our Co-op Game Nights. We've had so many good laughs together and I wanted to pull this compellation together to celebrate all of our magical murder parties. Follow me on Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/hecate_findingok Check out…

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Nov. 25, 2022

Cult Recovery - Healing After NXIVM - Finding OK Season 3 Episode 11

Kelly Thiel exited the notorious NXIVM cult and shares her journey with healing and deprogramming in the aftermath of indoctrination. She has taken her power back and is helping others to do the same. Kelly is an accomplished voice actress, author, speaker, consultant, and the driving force behind her new…

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Nov. 16, 2022

Thriving After Sexual Abuse - Finding OK Season 3 Episode 10

Denise Bossarte is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and now she is helping others heal. Join us for a conversation about Denise's healing journey as well as her beautiful book, "Thriving After Sexual Abuse: Break Your Bondage to the Past and Live a Life You Love". Denise Bossarte is…

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Nov. 10, 2022

Inspired By U - Finding OK Season 2 Episode 31

Santéresa Wilson shares her story of trauma and healing, her experience reporting rape and going through the justice system, and she discusses her beautiful book, "Releasing My Secret: A 30 Day Devotional to Support Your Healing Process". She talks about her work at the Rape Crisis Center and how she…

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Dec. 19, 2020

Finding OK - Jury Duty

My sister Chie and I discuss most survivor's worst case senario heading into jury duty: being interviewed for a sexual assault case. We share our own experiences with this process and share advice for preparing for and handling this should it happen to you. Tw/Cw: sexual assault, trauma, PTSD, Anxiety,…

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