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Aug. 2, 2022

#186 How to Build Confidence

In this episode we talk about how to build confidence in your children and teen. "I would like to be more confident but my face turns red if I am embarrassed, nervous, shy, afraid, or just talking with someone . Without that…
June 28, 2022

#183 Seeing BEYOND Roe Vs. Wade, Gun Control, & Other 'Surface Tensions'

There is a lot of ‘surface tension’ in the media today -- social and mainstream. Lots of polarity and opposition about intense topics. And it bothers me. Because it paints the picture that there are only two sides to any iss…
May 17, 2022

#179 Travel More? Or Prepare for the Worst? Finding the Middle-Ground Between Risk-Taking and Being Safe & Prepared

You may have seen or heard that we’re planning a move to Portugal — and hoping to travel while making the transition. We received some questions about this: “We would love to travel more , even long term, but I am getting mo…
May 3, 2022

#177 Analyzing (& Laughing About) Our Big 5 Personality Test Scores

Understanding YOURSELF and the other human beings around you is one of the trickiest and most complex aspects of life and relationships — how personality tests can help you understand yourself and others better. Your persona…
April 26, 2022

#176 How Frustration, Guilt, & Discontent Guide You to Your Best Self -- Don't Assuage the Pain or 'Accept What Is'. This is Your Soul Calling!

Have you ever had that inner feeling of discontent, frustration, guilt, or dissatisfaction ? (I know I have.) Have you ever thought — what’s the point of setting goals? I’ll just be disappointed. Or have you ever tried to ac…
March 24, 2022

#172 The Foundations for Magic & Serendipity -- Our Portugal Trip Report

Greg and I just returned from an incredible trip to Portugal to celebrate our 21st anniversary and we’re excited to record an episode about it. We’re going to share all the romance, magic and serendipity we experienced that …
Feb. 22, 2022

#170 How to Wake Up and Overcome Sleep Depression/Inertia -- Better Mornings Equals a Better Life

Hey everyone. We hope you’re having a great week. I know Greg and I are excited to have some sunshine and warmer weather after two cloudy and cold weeks. Today we’re discussing something which — at first glance — seems overl…
Feb. 8, 2022

#169 How to Make the Mundane Parts of Day-to-Day Life More Meaningful

Today we are diving into a detailed look at what living an ‘extraordinary’ life looks like on the day-to-day . The majority of your life — and ours — is spent in mundane daily activities . Dishes, laundry, errands. Even with…
Jan. 25, 2022

#168 What to Do When People Oppose Your Lifestyle Choices

How do you handle the unavoidable conflict that arises from your unconventional lifestyle choices?
Dec. 7, 2021

#162 'Entertainment Overrun' is Creating a Painful Gap Between Here and the Life of Your Dreams

In this episode we are discussing the gap between where you are and where you want to be. We often receive emails from parents or spouses asking questions -- we love it. (Email us your questions at support @ extraordinaryfam…
Sept. 25, 2021

#158 The Politicization of C*vid & the V*ccine -- the episode we 'should not' be doing ;)

In this episode we share our opinions on the politicization of certain current events.
Sept. 13, 2021

#157 Our Response to 'Incomprehensibly Stupid' Memes & Current Events

What happens when you share 'controversial' memes on social media? Lots of comments and ensuing arguments. In this podcast, Greg and Rachel respond to comments on a meme that was shared which said: "If you've ever wondered i…
Sept. 5, 2021

#156 How to know if you’re WINNING in life

How do you know if you’re winning in life? It’s Easier in sports where there’s a scoreboard, but even that isn’t always reflective of true winning. You might lose the game but still be winning in personal improvements, perfo…
Aug. 5, 2021

#153 When Being a Good Person Produces Bad Results

Being good is not enough. Most of our default thinking is that if we’re a good person it will be enough. That’s just not true! You can be a good person and a piss poor husband. You can be a good person and a lousy lover. You…
July 16, 2021

#152 Your Money & Your Marriage

What are good beliefs and practices around money and marriage? What if one spouse brings in the income and the other stays home, who should be in charge of how it’s spent? Does the non-income earning spouse have any say on h…