Episodes
July 27, 2024
The Soft Guy Era
Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Make a donation to the show Cash app $a114johnson Instagram the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the 'soft guy era' and its impact on dating and relationships. He defines the soft guy era as a TikTok trend that encourages men to stop being the sole financial provider in relationships. Johnson explores the issues with this trend, including the changing dynamics and expectat...
July 20, 2024
Good Systems of Financial Security
Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Leave a donation to the show Cash app $a114johnson Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson and Greg discuss good systems of financial security. They cover topics such as budgeting, savings, managing debt, investments, insurance, and financial literacy. They emphasize the importance of living within your means, starting early with saving and investing, and forming good financial habits. They also discuss the role...
July 13, 2024
Blended Families
In this episode we are discussing blended families with my two guests Wesley and Tamara Davis. We will give a definition of a blended family, What some of the statistics are pertaining to blended families. How to handle the initial transition of combining two families together. The importance of a strong stable marriage, How to discipline children in a blended family. Lastly, what are some tips we can give to a new blended family just starting out. If you want to make a donation to the show send...
July 6, 2024
Quit or Commit, Why Men have a Hard time Committing to a Relationship
Visit the website to leave a review and get on the email list www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage If you want to make a donation to the show Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 3 13 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses why it's hard for men to commit to a relationship. He explores the concept of the 'middle zone' or 'situation ship' where men feel comfortable because there's no commitment or requirements. Johnson delves into the psychologi...
June 29, 2024
Faithful Men Characteristics
Visit the website to leave a review and get on the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary In this episode, host Andrew Johnson discusses the characteristics of faithful men. He shares information from articles he has read and highlights eight key traits of men who don't cheat: honesty, open communication, boundaries, responsibility, consistency, prioritizing the relationship, trustworthiness, and self-control. Johnson emphasizes the importance of these traits in bu...
June 22, 2024
The Two Words Women Hate When Dating
Visit the website to leave a review and get on the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary- In this episode, the host Andrew Johnson discusses the two words that women hate when dating: average and Settle. He is joined by guest Judi Winbush LPC, to explore why these words elicit negative reactions and strong emotions. They discuss societal pressures, unrealistic expectations, and the importance of self-awareness in relationships. The conversation also touches on the...
June 15, 2024
Fathers Day Episode, Legacy, Leadership ,and Lessons
In this episode we are discussing Fathers Day and the importance of a Fathers leadership. We will go over some statistics pertaining to Dad's role in their children's lives. What lessons did you learn from your father. How fatherhood changed you. What are the lasting impacts fathers have on their children. The importance of legacy for a man and how it affects his children. What are some of the challenges we face being a father in today's society. Lastly what are the rewards of being a father, wi...
June 8, 2024
How Addicts Manipulate Family and Friends, Men and Addiction Series
Summary In this episode of the Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Greg discuss the topic of manipulation by addicts and how they manipulate family and friends. They explore various tactics used by addicts, such as guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying and deceiving, and using intimidation and anger. They also discuss the importance of recognizing these tactics, setting healthy boundaries, seeking support from others in similar situations, and maintaining compass...
June 1, 2024
The Four Pillars of a Healthy Relationship
Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the four pillars of a healthy relationship: communication, trust, respect, and support. He emphasizes the importance of open and honest communication, the slow process of building trust, the value of respect, and the need for emotional support in a relationship. He also shares personal experiences and provides practical advice for maintaining a strong and fulfilling relationship.Keywordshealthy relationship, communication, trust, respect, suppor...
May 25, 2024
Irresponsible Financial Habits
Visit the webpage and get on the email list to receive new information about the podcast. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson and guest Greg discuss irresponsible financial habits and their long-term consequences. They highlight the importance of having a financial plan and the cumulative effect of financial decisions. They also discuss the impact of credit card debt and poor credit scores on one's ability to invest and save for retirement. ...
May 18, 2024
Son Husbands
Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary The conversation revolves around the concept of 'son husbands,' where sons take on the role of their mother's husband without any sexual involvement. The guests discuss their thoughts on this topic, with one guest mentioning that it often stems from single mothers putting the burden of being a helper on their sons. They also explore whether single mothers contribute to this syndrome and the lack of ba...
May 11, 2024
The Mother's Day Episode
In this episode we are discussing the history of Mother's Day. The state the first Mother's Day was Celebrated in. What does it mean to be a mother. Remembering what your first mother's day was like. How did you celebrate Mother's Day as a child. Lastly, Sharing stories about mother's day, with my two guest, Ellen Sudderth and Dr. Diane Hassan. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage The Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage --- Send in a voice m...
May 4, 2024
Replay, Beauty Vs Compatibility
In this replay episode we compare, Beauty and compatibility. Which is better for a long term relationship or marriage. Do we focus too much on looks and attractiveness. How important is beauty and attractiveness when compared to compatibility. Lastly, what are some qualities we should look for when choosing a partner, with my guest Marcus Cotton. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage --- Send in a voice mes...
April 27, 2024
Part 2 Dark Skin Men, Light Skin Men, and Modern Day Dating
This episode is a continuation from last week's episode about dark and light skin Men and Modern day dating. We focus on dark and light skin women as well in this episode and other races came into play. Ellen Sudderth was the guest again on this episode. Visit the website and you will find her information about her book chats and other organizations she is involved with. Leave a review on the website, voice or written, and sign up for the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marri...
April 20, 2024
Dark Skin Men, Light Skin Men, and Modern Day Dating
In this episode we are discussing how the dating market has changed over the years within the African American community based on skin complexion. We will talk about historical changes, societal stereotypes, cultural differences in different parts of the country, gender comparing dark skin Men and dark skin Women dating options. Lastly, we will talk about how movies play a role in what we think about our skin complexion. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-a...
April 13, 2024
Good Guys, Good Jobs, No Girl
Visit the website and get on the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage If you want to reach out to the episodes guest Ellen Sudderth her email mrssudds@yahoo.com The podcast instagram page the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this episode, host Andrew Johnson and guest Ellen Sudderth discuss the topic of why good guys with good jobs struggle to attract women. They explore the idea that women are often more interested in creative types or struggling artists, even if they ha...
April 6, 2024
It's Hard Out Here for a Simp
In this episode we will discuss why simps have a difficult time getting the woman they want. We will give a definition of a Simp. Why some men feel the need to go above and beyond to impress someone they are attracted to. How societal pressures make some men feel they have to over perform in the modern day dating market. Is Simping Bad? What are the biggest signs your a Simp? Lastly, If your a serial Simp, how do you stop Simping. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-m...
March 30, 2024
Going 50 50 in a Marriage
Visit the website, and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the concept of going 50-50 in a marriage, which has been a topic of discussion on social media. He explores the changing dynamics of relationships and the role of money in marriages. Johnson emphasizes the importance of managing finances together and having open and honest conversations about money management. He also highligh...
March 23, 2024
Substance Use, Intimate Relationships
The music was cutoff in the beginning. I had to eliminate background noise from the original recording. Sorry for the inconvience. Visit the webpage www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this conversation, Anthony J Spencer and I discusse his experience working in jail and prison ministry. He shares that addiction was a major issue for the inmates, with drugs being the main cause of their criminal behavior. He emphasizes the importan...
March 16, 2024
Modern Day Dating
If you want to get on the email list, visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary The lack of communication, especially among young people who have grown up with the internet, is a major obstacle in dating. Many struggle with face-to-face interactions and are afraid of making mistakes. There is a stigma around who one should be dating, often based on financial status, which has nothing to do with compatibility. Spending a lot of money on dates c...
March 9, 2024
Replay, Do you Believe in Soulmates
In this episode we are gonna talk about do you believe in Soulmates. Where did the term Soulmates originate, Who believes in Soulmates more men or women. Can you be Soulmates with friends. Lastly, what are some other terms used in today's society that describes a soulmate with our guest License Professional Counselor, Judi Winbush. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage --- Send in a voice message: https://p...
March 2, 2024
Is a Salary of 70K per Year, Enough to buy a Home
Summary In this episode, the hosts discuss whether a salary of $70,000 per year is enough to buy a home. They provide statistics on household income and explore different types of loans that can help make homeownership more affordable. The conversation covers the 28/36 rule, which determines the percentage of income that should be allocated to housing costs. The hosts also discuss the advantages and considerations of buying foreclosed homes. They emphasize the importance of credit repair and sav...
Feb. 24, 2024
Disciplined Men vs Undisciplined Men, Who's Winning
www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary This episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast explores the topic of disciplined men versus undisciplined men, and who is winning. The host defines discipline and discusses the consequences of being an undisciplined man. The importance of self-discipline as an attribute for men is emphasized, along with its role in preparing for marriage. The 80-20 principle is introduced, highlighting the dynamics of relationships and dating. The...
Feb. 17, 2024
Disrespect in Relationships, and what to do about it
We will give a description of disrespect in relationships. Why respect is a major factor in relationships? Different ways Men and Women disrespect each other? What are some signs of disrespect? Lastly how do you handle disrespect in relationships? Visit the website and leave a voice or email review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/andrew-johnson03/message