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June 8, 2024

How Addicts Manipulate Family and Friends, Men and Addiction Series

Summary In this episode of the Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Greg discuss the topic of manipulation by addicts and how they manipulate family and friends. They explore various tactics used by addicts, such as guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying and deceiving, and using intimidation and anger. They also discuss the importance of recognizing these tactics, setting healthy boundaries, seeking support from others in similar situations, and maintaining compass...
June 1, 2024

The Four Pillars of a Healthy Relationship

Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the four pillars of a healthy relationship: communication, trust, respect, and support. He emphasizes the importance of open and honest communication, the slow process of building trust, the value of respect, and the need for emotional support in a relationship. He also shares personal experiences and provides practical advice for maintaining a strong and fulfilling relationship.Keywordshealthy relationship, communication, trust, respect, suppor...
May 25, 2024

Irresponsible Financial Habits

Visit the webpage and get on the email list to receive new information about the podcast. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson and guest Greg discuss irresponsible financial habits and their long-term consequences. They highlight the importance of having a financial plan and the cumulative effect of financial decisions. They also discuss the impact of credit card debt and poor credit scores on one's ability to invest and save for retirement. ...
May 18, 2024

Son Husbands

Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary The conversation revolves around the concept of 'son husbands,' where sons take on the role of their mother's husband without any sexual involvement. The guests discuss their thoughts on this topic, with one guest mentioning that it often stems from single mothers putting the burden of being a helper on their sons. They also explore whether single mothers contribute to this syndrome and the lack of ba...
May 11, 2024

The Mother's Day Episode

In this episode we are discussing the history of Mother's Day. The state the first Mother's Day was Celebrated in. What does it mean to be a mother. Remembering what your first mother's day was like. How did you celebrate Mother's Day as a child. Lastly, Sharing stories about mother's day, with my two guest, Ellen Sudderth and Dr. Diane Hassan. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage The Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage --- Send in a voice m...
May 4, 2024

Replay, Beauty Vs Compatibility

In this replay episode we compare, Beauty and compatibility. Which is better for a long term relationship or marriage. Do we focus too much on looks and attractiveness. How important is beauty and attractiveness when compared to compatibility. Lastly, what are some qualities we should look for when choosing a partner, with my guest Marcus Cotton. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage --- Send in a voice mes...
April 27, 2024

Part 2 Dark Skin Men, Light Skin Men, and Modern Day Dating

This episode is a continuation from last week's episode about dark and light skin Men and Modern day dating. We focus on dark and light skin women as well in this episode and other races came into play. Ellen Sudderth was the guest again on this episode. Visit the website and you will find her information about her book chats and other organizations she is involved with. Leave a review on the website, voice or written, and sign up for the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marri...
April 20, 2024

Dark Skin Men, Light Skin Men, and Modern Day Dating

In this episode we are discussing how the dating market has changed over the years within the African American community based on skin complexion. We will talk about historical changes, societal stereotypes, cultural differences in different parts of the country, gender comparing dark skin Men and dark skin Women dating options. Lastly, we will talk about how movies play a role in what we think about our skin complexion. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-a...
April 13, 2024

Good Guys, Good Jobs, No Girl

Visit the website and get on the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage If you want to reach out to the episodes guest Ellen Sudderth her email mrssudds@yahoo.com The podcast instagram page the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this episode, host Andrew Johnson and guest Ellen Sudderth discuss the topic of why good guys with good jobs struggle to attract women. They explore the idea that women are often more interested in creative types or struggling artists, even if they ha...
April 6, 2024

It's Hard Out Here for a Simp

In this episode we will discuss why simps have a difficult time getting the woman they want. We will give a definition of a Simp. Why some men feel the need to go above and beyond to impress someone they are attracted to. How societal pressures make some men feel they have to over perform in the modern day dating market. Is Simping Bad? What are the biggest signs your a Simp? Lastly, If your a serial Simp, how do you stop Simping. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-m...
March 30, 2024

Going 50 50 in a Marriage

Visit the website, and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the concept of going 50-50 in a marriage, which has been a topic of discussion on social media. He explores the changing dynamics of relationships and the role of money in marriages. Johnson emphasizes the importance of managing finances together and having open and honest conversations about money management. He also highligh...
March 23, 2024

Substance Use, Intimate Relationships

The music was cutoff in the beginning. I had to eliminate background noise from the original recording. Sorry for the inconvience. Visit the webpage www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this conversation, Anthony J Spencer and I discusse his experience working in jail and prison ministry. He shares that addiction was a major issue for the inmates, with drugs being the main cause of their criminal behavior. He emphasizes the importan...
March 16, 2024

Modern Day Dating

If you want to get on the email list, visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary The lack of communication, especially among young people who have grown up with the internet, is a major obstacle in dating. Many struggle with face-to-face interactions and are afraid of making mistakes. There is a stigma around who one should be dating, often based on financial status, which has nothing to do with compatibility. Spending a lot of money on dates c...
March 9, 2024

Replay, Do you Believe in Soulmates

In this episode we are gonna talk about do you believe in Soulmates. Where did the term Soulmates originate, Who believes in Soulmates more men or women. Can you be Soulmates with friends. Lastly, what are some other terms used in today's society that describes a soulmate with our guest License Professional Counselor, Judi Winbush. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage --- Send in a voice message: https://p...
March 2, 2024

Is a Salary of 70K per Year, Enough to buy a Home

Summary In this episode, the hosts discuss whether a salary of $70,000 per year is enough to buy a home. They provide statistics on household income and explore different types of loans that can help make homeownership more affordable. The conversation covers the 28/36 rule, which determines the percentage of income that should be allocated to housing costs. The hosts also discuss the advantages and considerations of buying foreclosed homes. They emphasize the importance of credit repair and sav...
Feb. 24, 2024

Disciplined Men vs Undisciplined Men, Who's Winning

www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary This episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast explores the topic of disciplined men versus undisciplined men, and who is winning. The host defines discipline and discusses the consequences of being an undisciplined man. The importance of self-discipline as an attribute for men is emphasized, along with its role in preparing for marriage. The 80-20 principle is introduced, highlighting the dynamics of relationships and dating. The...
Feb. 17, 2024

Disrespect in Relationships, and what to do about it

We will give a description of disrespect in relationships. Why respect is a major factor in relationships? Different ways Men and Women disrespect each other? What are some signs of disrespect? Lastly how do you handle disrespect in relationships? Visit the website and leave a voice or email review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/andrew-johnson03/message
Feb. 10, 2024

Men and Addiction, Negative Peer Influences

In this episode we discussed how negative peer influences can effect our thoughts and persaude us to use illicit drugs. We gave a definition of peer pressure. Further gave some stats on negative peer influence, we discuss types of peer pressure. Next we talked about other risk factors for drug addiction. Lastly we gave some tips to resist negative peer influence, with our guest, Robert Prasch, Greg's Take, and Corey White. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money...
Feb. 3, 2024

When a Man Can't Provide

In this episode we will talk about the reasons why some men can't provide. How important is it for a man to protect and provide in relationships and marriage. Does a man need to feel he can provide. If a man suffers a career ending disability should the woman leave or stay. Are we marrying for lifestyle or love. Is 50/50 in a marriage acceptable for today's woman. Lastly, is there a generation of men who don't want to protect and provide, with our returning guest Ellen Sudderth, author interview...
Jan. 27, 2024

Why Women Engage in Pre-Selection When Choosing a Partner

In this episode we are talking about Pre-Selection as a way to choose a partner. Why do Women use pre-selection when dating. What are the risk for Women who engage in pre-selection? What men do to qualify a woman for marriage. Lastly what are some traits men need in order to be pre-selected. John X and Ellen Sudderth called in and added to the conversation. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage --- Send in a...
Jan. 20, 2024

Conscious Spending, Financial Goals

Visit the website, get on the email, or leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson and guest Greg Stake discuss conscious spending and financial goals. They define conscious spending as deliberately and mindfully deciding where and how to spend money. They explore reasons why people may not consciously spend, such as habit and fear. They emphasize the importance of tracking spending and creating a financial system. They also discuss th...
Jan. 13, 2024

Men and Addiction, What Causes the High

Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, the host and his guests discuss men and addiction. They cover topics such as the causes of the high, current statistics on drug overdoses, how drugs work in the body, personal experiences with addiction, reasons for using drugs, consequences of substance use, and the effects of substance use on relationshi...
Jan. 6, 2024

Do Modern Women want Men who Work 9 to 5.

In this episode we will discuss why some women aren't attracted to men who work a 9 to 5 job. How much of this is a lifestyle choice? Is there a creativity bonus component? Do some women believe that men who work 9 to 5 will never be wealthy. Lastly, we will go over some reasons why working a 9 to 5 will always be around and never go out of style. There is a poll question on Spotify asking would you date or marry someone with a 9 to 5. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3...
Dec. 30, 2023

The 3 13 Men Money and Marriage 2023 Year In Review.

In this final episode of 2023 we do a year in review pertaining to what we did in 2023, beginning with attending Podfest Expo to Introducing video episodes. Further we discussed the growth of the podcast, and what's in store for 2024. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Check out the instagram page the313menmoneymarriage --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/andrew-johnson03/message