Oct. 19, 2026
RHONJ’s Kim D on Love, Red Flags & Choosing the Right Man
Kim D (Kim DePaola) of The Real Housewives of New Jersey sits down with Get Obsessed to talk about growing up with fur coats, the Copacabana, and the stepfather she says worked for the Gambino family. She walks through the loves and lessons that shaped her, from her high school sweetheart to a 22-year-old's phone call she'll never forget, and why she fell for the man she calls the love of her life. Kim also shares her relationship advice, her Posche boutique story, why she's happily single today, and the memoir she co-wrote, My Life with the Big Boys.
If you or someone you know is struggling, the hosts close with an encouraging message about getting support. In the US, you can call or text 988.
FOLLOW KIM D
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimdposche
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/Kim-DePaola-100078877961747/
X: https://x.com/KimDPosche
Podcast, Get Real with Kim D: https://www.patreon.com/cw/GetRealwithKimD
Shop Posche & the book: https://www.poschebykimd.com
Subscribe to Get Obsessed for more conversations like this one.
00:00 The Phone Call to Frank's Wife
00:15 Meet Kim D
00:46 Her Book, Her Mother, Her Strength
02:24 Growing Up in a Mobster's World
07:06 Her Mom's Tough Childhood and Miss New Jersey
10:05 Why Fashion Became an Obsession
13:40 The Puppy Who Changed Names (Rocco to Coco)
16:41 The Childhood Turning Point That Changed Her Mom
19:59 First Love: Brian and the Boardwalk Serenade
23:55 Why Frank Over Brian?
24:38 Meeting Frank: History Repeating Itself
25:55 The Call That Changed Everything at 22
27:11 Marriage, Pregnancy and Motherhood
28:34 Boyfriend Material vs. Husband Material
31:27 The Hardest Chapter: Finding the Strength to Leave
35:39 Meet "G" and a Very Short Marriage
38:03 Who Plays Kim D in the Movie?
40:32 Love at First Sight with Jimmy
44:16 Meeting Michael, the Love of Her Life
45:33 The Atlantic City Weekend That Lasted a Week
48:00 What Made Her Fall for Michael
49:25 Private Jets, Helicopters and Dogs in Strollers
50:29 Keeping the Spark Alive
52:14 What She Tells Her Friends About Dating
54:27 Dating Today and Why She's Happy Single
56:14 Kim on Modern Dating and Powerful Men
58:02 Her Freedom, Her Podcast and Her Dogs
59:01 A Message on Seeking Support
1:03:00 Where to Find Kim's Book and Podcast
#KimD #RHONJ #RealHousewivesOfNewJersey #GetObsessed #KimDePaola #BravoTV
If you or someone you know is struggling, the hosts close with an encouraging message about getting support. In the US, you can call or text 988.
FOLLOW KIM D
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimdposche
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/Kim-DePaola-100078877961747/
X: https://x.com/KimDPosche
Podcast, Get Real with Kim D: https://www.patreon.com/cw/GetRealwithKimD
Shop Posche & the book: https://www.poschebykimd.com
Subscribe to Get Obsessed for more conversations like this one.
00:00 The Phone Call to Frank's Wife
00:15 Meet Kim D
00:46 Her Book, Her Mother, Her Strength
02:24 Growing Up in a Mobster's World
07:06 Her Mom's Tough Childhood and Miss New Jersey
10:05 Why Fashion Became an Obsession
13:40 The Puppy Who Changed Names (Rocco to Coco)
16:41 The Childhood Turning Point That Changed Her Mom
19:59 First Love: Brian and the Boardwalk Serenade
23:55 Why Frank Over Brian?
24:38 Meeting Frank: History Repeating Itself
25:55 The Call That Changed Everything at 22
27:11 Marriage, Pregnancy and Motherhood
28:34 Boyfriend Material vs. Husband Material
31:27 The Hardest Chapter: Finding the Strength to Leave
35:39 Meet "G" and a Very Short Marriage
38:03 Who Plays Kim D in the Movie?
40:32 Love at First Sight with Jimmy
44:16 Meeting Michael, the Love of Her Life
45:33 The Atlantic City Weekend That Lasted a Week
48:00 What Made Her Fall for Michael
49:25 Private Jets, Helicopters and Dogs in Strollers
50:29 Keeping the Spark Alive
52:14 What She Tells Her Friends About Dating
54:27 Dating Today and Why She's Happy Single
56:14 Kim on Modern Dating and Powerful Men
58:02 Her Freedom, Her Podcast and Her Dogs
59:01 A Message on Seeking Support
1:03:00 Where to Find Kim's Book and Podcast
#KimD #RHONJ #RealHousewivesOfNewJersey #GetObsessed #KimDePaola #BravoTV