Episodes

June 8, 2023

How To Have A Great Marriage

In this episode John talked about how to have a great marriage. The Einstein of marriage in the United States is John and Julie Gottman. Based on their extensive research, they truly are the top in their field of marriage an…
June 1, 2023

Stories We Tell Ourselves – Impact Our Behaviors

In this episode John and Kelly talk about the stories we tell ourselves impact our behaviors. These stories are always playing in the background in the subconscious mind. And they drive our behaviors as well as our fears. Of…
May 25, 2023

The Movie ‘Book Club’ – The Perils Of Aging

In this episode John talked about recently watching the movie “The Book Club”. It stars Jane Fonda, Candace Bergen, Diane Keaton and Mary Steembergen. It’s about four women who are in their 60s and 70s. The romantic and sexu…
May 18, 2023

Human Nature – We Are Not Wired For Success

In this episode John and Kelly talk about human nature. How humans are wired for survival, not for success. And that plays out regarding the negatives in human nature. We tend to be self focused, we tend to be reactive. As h…
May 11, 2023

You Must Have An “Intelligent Plan” For Your Life

In this episode John and Kelly talk the importance of having an intelligent plan for your life. John talked about going out to LA to see his stepson who is a musician. He is struggling to have an intelligent plan for his lif…
May 4, 2023

The Benefits Of Aging

In this episode John and Kelly talk about the benefits of aging. As Kelly is about to turn 50 in a couple months, she has spent a lot of time thinking about aging. And she really likes the wisdom that comes from aging. The i…
April 27, 2023

Being A Conduit Of Learning – A System

In this episode John and Kelly talk about the importance of having a “system” for growing. A weekly system that is both consistent as well as strategic relative to what you want to accomplish. When you have such a system, yo…
April 20, 2023

How Do You Answer “How Are You Doing”?

In this episode John and Kelly talk about how you answer the daily question “how are you doing “. It has a huge impact on how you influence others as well as how you influence yourself. Kelly says that when she is asked that…
April 13, 2023

PERSPECTIVE – How To Get It On Demand

In this episode John and Kelly talk about the importance of having perspective in life. John gives the example regarding the evolution over the last three years of think it be it. Initially he and Kelly thought think it be i…
April 6, 2023

Morning Routine

In this episode John and Kelly talk about the importance of one’s morning routine. In fact, John says that a person’s morning routine will determine their success in life. That one thing more than anything else. And he talks…
March 30, 2023

Growth

In this episode John and Kelly talk about growing intellectually. And how important it is to make your personal growth both consistent (every week) as well as strategic relative to what you want to accomplish. Kelly describe…
March 16, 2023

Pivotal Moments Where Your Trajectory Changed – The Lessons Learned

In this episode John and Kelly talk about moments in their life where it changed their trajectory. Kelly talks about when she first became an entrepreneur in the employment field. What drove her to make the leap. And Kelly t…
March 9, 2023

Influence – Influencing Other People, Influencing Yourself

In this episode John and Kelly talk about how we are all in the influence business. And influence has two components to it. First, influencing yourself. That means getting yourself to do the key habits required to be success…
March 2, 2023

Gaining More Time - A Better Daily And Weekly To Do System

In this episode John and Kelly talk about how important it is to be organized if you’re a high achiever. John and Kelly have developed an organizational system (daily to do form and weekly to do form) that they think is grea…
Feb. 23, 2023

Find The Emotional Hook – The Key To Marketing

In this episode John and Kelly talk about how important it is in marketing to identify the emotional hook with your customers. This is absolutely the most important thing you must do in marketing. Everything flows from there…
Feb. 16, 2023

Seek To Understand Instead Of Trying To Be Understood

In this episode John and Kelly talk about the idea of seeking to understand before you try to be understood. John mentions that this is one of the seven habits of highly successful people. He recently read that book again an…
Feb. 2, 2023

What It Means To Do Your Best

In this episode John and Kelly talk about what it means to do your best. John explains that in his 40s, doing his best meant getting up it 5:30 AM. When he got into his 50s, he expanded his vision of doing his best. It was t…
Jan. 27, 2023

Tuning Into Reality In Order To Be More Successful

In this episode John and Kelly talk about how success comes down to tuning into reality. What is reality telling you regarding your business, your romantic relationship, your health. What is the unvarnished results you’re ge…
Jan. 19, 2023

How To Have A Great Romantic Relationship

In this episode John and Kelly talk about how to have a great romantic relationship by rewiring your autopilot. So the right actions happen automatically without thinking. During this podcast they talk about some key behavio…
Jan. 12, 2023

I Don’t Have the Time | TIBI005

Too often Up Your Success programs require a couple of hours a day to start. Be it for journaling, meditation, or whatever their method is, you don’t have that much free time. Join John and Kelly as they discuss the three co…
Jan. 12, 2023

This Won’t Work on Me | TIBI004

When people are introduced to a new strategy to up their success, oftentimes they think it won’t work on them, and for good reason. Nothing to that point has really worked. So why should they believe the new thing is going t…
Jan. 12, 2023

The $5 Million Secret – How to Rewire Your Autopilot | TIBI003

Do you think you can change your outcomes in life and success with just 12 minutes a day? John and Kelly are here to tell you that you can. Most people perceive that they control their daily actions, but they don’t. They onl…
Jan. 12, 2023

Kelly’s Story – Work Smarter, Not Harder | TIBI002

The day that Kelly Hatfield interviewed John on her podcast, she became intrigued in his 12 minute a day methodology. Implementing this she received transformative results that doubled her income in just a few short months. …
Jan. 12, 2023

John’s Story – 12 Minutes A Day to Success | FIBI001

Upon reflecting upon his life at the age of 50, John Mitchell just did not feel like he was as successful as he should be. Picking up the book Think and Grow Rich, John was intrigued by the advocation of applying science to …