I Just Happened To Look At His Phone And...

Kristy & Jerry explore the idea of boundaries within relationships and the challenges that are brought to them by the ever-widening presence of technology in our lives. How much privacy should 1/2 of a couple be entitled to? Do you give up all privacy when you are married, or in a committed relationship? Should you?

And how do boundaries interact with intimacy? Does it have to be one or the other?

And what is the difference between relationship-breaking behaviors and those that invite repair which can lead to greater intimacy?

We talk about this in light of some of the contributions of Esther Perel, author of "Mating in Captivity."