A lot of people tend to describe themselves as either jealous or not jealous, like it’s an ingrained personality trait. But jealousy doesn’t usually thrive in safe relationships. 👀
It thrives in relationships where you don’t feel like you can be honest. One where bringing up a concern gets you criticized instead of heard, or you’re worried your partner will dismiss your feelings instead of meeting them with kindness.
And research shared by Psychology with Dr. Ana agrees with us: Jealousy isn’t necessarily a “you” problem.
On the latest episode of @DoAsWeSayPod, @DrLizPowell and @DrNerdLove discuss the research and how we should all look at jealousy more like a check engine light than a character flaw.
🎧 Watch or listen to the full episode: https://youtu.be/OCOWSmAJdGg
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