Jan. 16, 2026

Why Women Fumble a Good Man

Why Women Fumble a Good Man

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Summary

In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson explores the reasons why women often fumble good men. He discusses the societal pressures that lead women to choose excitement and chaos over stability and consistency in relationships. The conversation delves into the psychological impacts of dysfunctional family backgrounds, the importance of reciprocity in relationships, and the signs that indicate a woman has fumbled a good man. Ultimately, Andrew emphasizes the value of recognizing and appreciating good men before it's too late.

Takeaways

  • Women often push away good men due to external pressures.
  • Excitement and chaos can feel more appealing than stability.
  • Boredom in relationships can lead to the highest long-term rewards.
  • Good men have standards and will not tolerate inconsistency.
  • Women often choose excitement over stability in their youth.
  • The formula for dating is often backwards for women.
  • Prioritizing short-term thrills can cost long-term happiness.
  • Comparing good men to past bad relationships can be detrimental.
  • Stability is undervalued by younger women.
  • Recognizing a good man is crucial to avoid future regrets.
  • Why Women Fumble Good Men: A Deep Dive
  • The Chaos of Choice: Understanding Relationship Dynamics
  • "Why do women fumble a good man?"
  • "The streets do not love you."
  • "Comparing exes can be dangerous."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Topic

01:12 Understanding the Dynamics of Relationships

03:33 The Impact of External Pressures on Relationships

06:00 Excitement vs. Stability in Relationships

12:50 The Consequences of Choosing the Wrong Partner

19:33 Signs of Fumbling a Good Man

25:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts