Dec. 20, 2025

Sandringham Christmas Shifts, and Queen’ Elizabeth's Reported Anger Over Meghan's Dress

Sandringham Christmas Shifts,  and Queen’ Elizabeth's Reported Anger Over Meghan's Dress

Christmas at Sandringham is set to look different this year, with familiar absences, softened protocols, and newer traditions taking hold under King Charles the Third. We run through who is expected, who is not, and how the day is likely to unfold from Christmas Eve dinner through the walk to church and the King’s broadcast.

We also look at the mood inside the family as the King continues treatment, the Princess of Wales marks her first Christmas since announcing remission, and the Wales family begins a new chapter at their new home.

Plus, a report from royal biographer Robert Jobson claims the late Queen Elizabeth the Second was angered by Meghan Markle’s sixty thousand pound Dior gown and later deeply distressed by the use of the name Lilibet, with contrasting accounts from Harry’s side and other royal authors.

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A calorogus Shark Media. He hello and welcome to Pallas Intrieg.

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I am your host, Mark Francis. Christmas at Sandringham is

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set to look noticeably different this year, with several familiar

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faces absent, some long standing traditions softened, and a few

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newer customs firmly taking root under King Charles. Prince Harry

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and Megan Michael will be absent again spending Christmas in Montecito,

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while Andrew Mountbatten Windsor will also not attend after being

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barred from the gathering following the loss of his princely status.

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While the Andrew situation has been a persistent challenge for

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the King, it has also created space for a broader

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guest list. Invitations have been extended to Queen Camilla's wider

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family and to the King's nieces, Princess Beatrice and Princess Eugenie,

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continuing a more inclusive approach Charles has embraced. However, Camilla's

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son Tom Parker Bowls has indicated that he and his

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sister Laura will not be attending Sandringham this year. Ingrid Seward,

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editor of Majesty magazine, explains invitations went out months ago

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and we do know the King loves a big family Christmas.

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Last year the Queen's children and grandchildren were invited, and

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it's a new tradition the King has started. She added.

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Beatrice was there last year. She then left after church

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and went for lunch with Sarah and Andrew at Royal Lodge.

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I think the King has been keen to show his

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support to his nieces during a difficult year for the

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York family. Andrew and Sarah Ferguson may still spend Christmas

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together at Royal Lodge, potentially for the final time before

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Andrew is expected to leave Windsor Property. Those expected at

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Sandringham include Prince William and Catherine, Princess Wales, along with

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Prince George, Charlotte and Prince Louis, Prince Edward and Sophie,

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the Duke and Duchess of Edinburgh, their children, and Princess

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Anne and her family are also expected to attend. Sandry

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Ham is smaller than any other palaces and so it's

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always a bit of a squash, but it's always fun

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and very Christmasy and very family focused, Suard said. She

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noted the Christmas Day itself often involves careful co ordination,

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particularly for the Whales family. I expect William, Kate and

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the children will be at Sandringham for the Christmas Day

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service alongside Charles, because that's an important show of togetherness.

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In previous years they have gone back to Anmah after

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church on Christmas Day for lunch with Kate's family, so

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they get two Christmases. King Charles has also relaxed some

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of the more demanding festive protocols. One royal insiders said,

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it used to be a night they're going to Sandringham

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because there used to be so many outfit changes, sometimes

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up to six a day, but the King has relaxed

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that there won't be so many changes, but everyone will

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wear black tie at Christmas Dinner. Guests begin arriving on

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Christmas Eve. Royal historian Marlen Koenig says the weekend traditionally

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includes an afternoon tea of cakes, sandwiches, and Coronation chicken,

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followed by a black tied dinner and exchange of humorous gifts.

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The Royals prefer joky or inexpensive gifts in keeping with tradition.

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Christmas Dinner will take place on Christmas Eve, with turkey

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and all the trimmings. Presents will be a rad on

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trestle tables with name cards, while children's gifts go under

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the tree. The insider added there are always joke presents.

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When Christmas, Princess Anne once gave Charles a doormat which

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God a laugh. Presents are always very practical. It's probably

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a bit more lavish these days. Charles is very extravagant,

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rather like his grandmother, the Queen. Mother the Queen was

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pretty frugal. On Christmas morning, Charles and Camilla, along with

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William cat and their children, leave the family to church. Afterwards,

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there are drinks, a traditional lunch of locally sourced turkey

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with trimmings, and later a buffet supper. Conig notes it

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can include boar's head, ham, salmon and numerous side dishes,

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with the dessert table showcasing sweets and charbonnel at Walker Chocolates.

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The King will also continue the tradition of giving gifts

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to household staff, including Christmas puddings and in some cases turkeys,

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as well as maintaining the Boxing days shoot, reflecting Sandringham's

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origins shooting estate. After a boxing day, King Charles and

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Queen Camilla are expected to head to Scotland, continuing eight

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newer tradition of seeing in the new years there. They

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have done this in the past couple of years and

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it's become one of their traditions now. They love to

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see the new year in Scotland, Seward said. Another tradition

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that remains firmly in place is the family gathering around

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the television on Christmas Day to watch the King's Christmas broadcast,

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with staff retiring to their quarters while the royals watch

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the monarch address the nation. Sources close to the royal

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household say the mood leading into Christmas season has been

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tinged with both relief and reflection. While the King has

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appeared in good spirits in recent months, his Majesty, who

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is seventy seven, remains in treatment following as cancer diagnosis.

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It is also the Princess of Wales's first Christmas since

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announcing her remission earlier this year. One source explains that

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the celebration may carry a wistful tone, but stresses it

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will also be a moment of joy, especially after Kate

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received the all clear. The theme of the princesses together

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at Christmas Carol service at Westminster Abbey focused on happiness

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and love was said to capture the broader feeling within

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the family. They all want to make the most of

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their time together. Says this will be the Prince and

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Princess of Wales's first Christmas in their new home. The

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family of five moved from Adelaide Cottage to Forest Lodge

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at the end of October. A source notes they are

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looking forward to creating memories and what they consider their

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forever home. In previous years, the family visited a local

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tree farm, baked seasonal treats, and watched films. Prince William

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has said oh As his favorite Christmas movie. Though they

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traditionally alternate celebrations between the royal family and the Middletons,

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this year they are pleased to remain by the King's side.

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A second source confirms that Michael and Carol Middleton will

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join them at Sandringham. The children, meanwhile, are said to

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be enthusiastically in the festive spirit. Those close to the

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family emphasized William and Kate's commitment to keeping their children grounded.

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They want to create a traditional Christmas without airs and graces,

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unlike what Charles might have had as a child. One

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source says for the King, the holiday comes after a

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challenging period. In October, Prince Andrew was formerly stripped of

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the remaining royal titles due to his association with the

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late Jeffrey Ristein This follows the King's face to face

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meeting with Prince Harry in London, their first in nineteen months,

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which one source described as promising but limited. The relationship

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between the princes remains strained. Another source says concerns have

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resurfaced over whether or not trust can be rebuilt, particularly

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after Harry and Meghan attended christ Janner's high profile seventieth

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birthday party. If they are going to go out and

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look like Hollywood players, it's at odds with what the

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Palace and royal family members would do, the source says,

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adding that the chance of the Sussex's receiving a Christmas

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invitation from the King was always slim. Despite the difficulties,

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the King is determined to set the tone for a

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meaningful holiday. Charles prioritizes duty, but he's also a family

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man who knows his time is precious, says one source.

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He wants a special last Christmas. In cases as last,

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he intends to join the annual Walk to Saint Mary

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Magdalene Church on Christmas morning and will record his Christmas

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broadcast that afternoon. Nothing would stop Charles from doing that,

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the source adds, noting the King's view that one has

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to be seen to be believed. Another source says those

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around him are cautiously optimistic. His health isn't the best.

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They're taking it day by day. Even after a year

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marked by health concerns and familial tension, the season retains

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a sense of optimism. Although we do not know what

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cancer Charles has, it is apparent that his treatment allows

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him to continue a normal life, says Conig. Above all,

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the King is focused on time with those closest to him.

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Charles wants to have a traditional holiday with all the royals,

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says its first source. Every family Christmas. It's precious, but

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it's especially so for him this year. More palacy just

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a moment. The late Queen Elizabeth I was reportedly angered

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by Megan Markle's decision to wear a sixty thousand pounds

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d or gown during an official visit to Morocco in

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twenty nineteen. According to royal biographer Robert Jobson, despite being

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at the center of royal ceremony, the Queen was famously frugal,

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shaped by her wartime upbringing and a lifelong belief in

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thrift and restraint. Jobson writes in The Windsor Legacy, A

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Royal Dynasty of Secrets, Scandal and Survival, that the price

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of the gown drew the Queen's eyre when she read

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about it in the press. She later let Meghan know

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that such an expensive outfit was an ill judged choice.

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According to Jobson, the Duchess of Sussex did not appear

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to he that morning and continued to wear high end

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designer pieces throughout her time as a working royal. Jobson

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recounts that the Queen was also deeply distressed when she

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learned through media reports that Harry and Meghan had named

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their daughter Lilibet, using her private childhood nickname. Citing a

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palace source, he writes that the Queen became so incensed

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at the affront that she threw the paper to the floor,

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startling the staff. Harry has previously insisted that the Queen

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approved the name in advance, with a spokesperson saying during

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that conversation he shared their hope of naming their daughter

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Lilibert in her honor. Had she not been supportive, they

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would not have used the name. However, Jobson suggests the

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reaction inside the palace was very different. Royal author Valentine

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Lowe has also written that the Queen told an aide

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I don't own the palaces. I don't own the paintings.

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The only thing I own is my name, and now

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they've taken that and they have it. If you'd like

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