Jan. 14, 2026

For Harry is it Security Win, Marriage Lose? Harry’s UK Pull vs Meghan’s UK Trauma, Plus Filtergate and Jam Rage

For Harry is it Security Win, Marriage Lose? Harry’s UK Pull vs Meghan’s UK Trauma, Plus Filtergate and Jam Rage

Reports claim Harry’s UK security is expected to be reinstated — and suddenly the “return” question turns from theoretical to marital landmine. Sources describe emotional arguments: Harry wants time with his father and a UK connection for the kids; Meghan wants nothing to do with the place that ate her alive. Deep Crown’s take: divorce talk sells, but the real ending is quieter — a lifetime of compromises and regret. Meanwhile, Meghan is dragged into fresh “family tension” chatter involving Doria, royal fans complain the Oprah appearance looked heavily filtered, and the British commentariat melts down over the idea of people spending real money on celebrity jam. Finally, a viral TikTok calls Meghan a “diva” who “chose mental health over the crown,” and the internet immediately starts litigating her upbringing like it’s a court case.

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Calorogus Shark Media, Hello and welcome to Pallace Intrigue host

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Mark Francis Prince. Harry's security arrangements in the UK are

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expected to be reinstated following a lengthy legal fight, a

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development that has reopened the possibility of him spending far

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more time in Britain, but according to sources, the prospect

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of a return is causing serious strain behind closed doors,

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particularly with Megan, and has led to arguments described as

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deeply emotional and potentially destabilizing for their marriage. Once source

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told Radar Online the dispute threatens to tear them apart

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geographically and emotionally, while stressing that the tension is not

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about a lack of love or commitment. The tension between

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them isn't rooted in a breakdown of affection or commitment,

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the inside has said. Harry's mindset reportedly shifted in May

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when he spoke publicly about wanting to reconcile with his

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father following King Charles cancer diagnosis. That desire has intensified

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his urge to travel to the UK more frequently. It's

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driven by two very different anxieties pulling them in opposite directions.

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Another source explained, Harry has become increasingly fixated on the

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idea of being back in Britain more often. He brings

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it up repeatedly, conscious of his father's declining health and

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feeling that opportunities for reconciliation are slipping away. In his mind,

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the coming year carries a real sense of urgency and consequence.

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He and Megan are broken in a lot of ways,

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and this drive to return to Britain could truly break them.

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For Megan, however, the idea of returning to the UK

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is emotionally fraught. A source said for her, the UK

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is bound up with some of the most stressful and

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painful periods of her life. The idea of returning trigger's

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memories of constant scrutiny and emotional strain, and she is

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deeply resistant to being drawn back into that atmosphere. There

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is real frustration that something she believed was firmly in

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the past has once again become such a central and

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unavoidable point of contention in their lives. With Harry's security

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status potentially restored, the option of resettling in Britain has

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become more realistic, and that has only sharpened the divide.

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A Palace. Source claimed his sense of yearning has grown

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stronger as he looks back on the years he has

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largely spent apart from his father. There is a deep

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regret about missed time and conversations, and he views spending

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more time in the UK as a way to repair

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some of that emotional distance. In his mind, going back

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is not as practical, but a chance to heal old

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wounds before it's too late. The disagreement also extends to

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how they see the future for their children, Archie six

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and a little bit four. Her instinct is to shield

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both herself and the children from experiences she worries could

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reopen painful chapters, one source said. Harry. On the other hand,

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Feld strongly that their children should grow up understanding where

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he comes from and having a real relationship with their grandfather.

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Meghan's hesitation comes from the fear of what returning to

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Britain might demand of her personally and the emotional toll

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it could take. Those close to the couple believe the

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issue will continue to loom over them well into twenty

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twenty six. Harry is caught in an agonizing position, pulled

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between his commitment to his wife and children. In a

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powerful sense of unfinished business from his earlier life. A

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source said, if neither of them is willing or able

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to compromise, there is real concern among those close to

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them that this single unresolved question could evolve into the

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breaking point for their relationship, which could see them finally

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file for divorce this year. Our royal insider Deep Crown disagrees,

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telling us Harry finds himself trapped between two incompatible loyalties

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and is no elegant solution. His father is dying, his

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children are growing up strangers to their heritage. His wife

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cannot bear the thought of returning to Britain. Something will

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have to give, but it won't be his commitment to

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those children. He'll sacrifice his own happiness before or he

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becomes the absent father. Divorce speculation sells newspapers, but the

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reality is far more mundane and tragic. Harry will stay

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because leaving means losing daily access to his children. He'll

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endure the arguments, the resentment, the geographical standoff. He made

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his choice in twenty twenty, and now he's discovering that

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choice has a twenty year payment plan attached to it.

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This will resolve itself through inertia and tragedy. They'll stay

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married because divorce means someone loses the children for extended periods.

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Harry will make occasional trips to Britain, brief and unsatisfying.

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His father will die with much left unsaid, and years

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from now Archie and Lulibet will ask why they barely

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knew their grandfather. That's how this ends, not with a

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dramatic break, but quiet accumulation of regret. Megan Michael has

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been drawn into fresh claims of family tension after a

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remark in her Netflix series was interpreted by observers as

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a subtle dig at her mother, Doria Ragland, sparking talk

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of a quiet rift within the susse household. According to

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Radar Online, the claims center on Megan describing her mother

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as a free spirit, a line that initially passed without

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much notice but has since been re examined by people

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familiar with the family. One source close to the Sussexes

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claimed the wording was deliberate, saying on the face of it,

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it sounded warm, but among those who know them, it

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came across as a quiet step back, signaling that Megan

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and Doria had very different ideas about parenting and family.

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Another added it came across less as praise and more

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as a subtle point of difference. Insiders also point to

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a shift in living arrangements. Ragland previously spent extended periods

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living with Megan and Harry after the births of Archie

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and Lilibet, helping with child care as the couple adjusted

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to life outside the UK. According to a separate source,

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that arrangement has now ended. The inside had said Doria

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was once a regular fixture in the household, closely involved

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in caring for the children with Megan and Harry, but

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she is no longer living there and people around them

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have note. Those familiar with the production of With Love

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Meghan said the language used about Ragland was discussed internally.

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One television insider said everyone involved knew that each personal

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remark would be scrutinized, and the language about Meghan's mother

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drew notice for setting Meghan up as a deliberate, highly

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organized parent in contrast to a more free spirited Dorian.

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Friends of Ragland have played down suggestions she was offended,

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but acknowledged a change in the mother daughter dynamic. One

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said Doria's self reliance has long been one of her

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defining qualities, but the everyday intimacy she and Meghan once

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had has faded. Another added it came across as unnecessary

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tag applied in a very public way, more palacy just

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a moment. Royal fans have voiced a fresh complaint about

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Prince Harry and Meghan Michael following the couple's latest public appearance,

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with criticism focused not on what they said but how

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they looked on camera. The Duke and Duchess of Sussex

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made a surprise video appear entered an event hosted by

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Oprah Winfrey to mark the launch of a new book

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encouraging young people to spend more time offline and away

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from smartphones. The couple, who have repeatedly spoken about the

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impact of excessive screen time on children, joined the authors

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to discuss the importance of digital balance. However, while the

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message itself drew little controversy, some Royal watches were quick

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to take issue with the video's visual presentation. Several viewers

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complained on social media that the footage appeared to be

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heavily filtered. One user wrote, what's going on? Were the

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heavy filters? Another added thought the same thing when I

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saw her filters. A third commented the filter is nuts,

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while another said the filter makes them seem like cartoon characters,

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so bizarre. One particularly blunt reaction read Jesus thought my

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glasses needed cleaning and the Telegraph William Sitwell writes, when

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Meghan can make twenty seven million pounds selling jam, you

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know society is broken. The duchess has shown all it

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takes to be a successful entrepreneur today is to be

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famous and sell your wares to slobbering sicker fans. Sickwell adds,

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society is surely going wrong, fracturing to pieces When an

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influencer of Meghan's kind, a creature perfectly cast for the

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modern age, can persuade hundreds of thousands of people to

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part with their hard earned money for this type of product,

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not due to the providance of its ingredients, its glorious

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fruity texture, deft uses of pectin, or perfect structural set,

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but because the person who sells it is famous. Who

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are these slobbering genuflecting medium message, munching gladly and willing

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indoctrinated toadies buying Megan's signature of fruit spread at the

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expense of a local jam with a deeper story and

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more earthy, simpler provenance. A TikTok video celebrating Meghan's life

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has gone viral, portraying the Duchess of Sussex as a

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diva who, in the words of the clip, chose mental

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health over the crown. The video traces Meghan's journey from

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her pre royal life, through her time in the British monarchy,

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and onto her current life in California. It opens with

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childhood images of Meghan, then cuts to promotional shots from Suits,

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the legal drama that made her famous, before moving on

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to scenes from her royal wedding to Prince Harry and

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her later projects in the US. Posted with the on

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screen caption rare esthetic you grew up lower class, met

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a royal online and chose mental health over the crown,

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the video quickly gained traction, racking up more than thirty

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eight thousand likes and over four hundred thousand views. It

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was also labeled simply Deva. The montage includes Megan on

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her wedding day at Saint George's Chapel in Windsor, wearing

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a white gown designed by Claire White Color for givon

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she as well as her emerald green outfit, worn to

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the Commonwealth Day Service at Westminster Abbey in March twenty twenty,

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her final official royal engagement before stepping back from Royal life.

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Later clips featured the couple's twenty twenty five Christmas card

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and scenes from With Love Megan, her Netflix cooking and

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lifestyle series. While the video presents Meghan as having grown

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up lower class, that claim sparked debate in the comments.

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Some viewers pointed out that she attended the private Immaculate

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Heart School in Lowe, Angeles and came from a household

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connected to the entertainment industry. One commenter wrote lower class,

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Her dad was an Emmy television lighting director and director

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of photography, and her mother was a makeup artist. Others

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defending the framing, referencing Meghan's own words. In a twenty

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twenty one letter to Congress campaigning for paid family leave,

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Meghan wrote, I grew up on the four ninety nine

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salad bar at Sizzler. It may, of course less back then,

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but what I do remember was the feeling. I knew

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how hard my parents worked to afford this, because even

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at five bucks eating out was something special and I

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felt lucky. Her father, Thomas Mirkl, later disputed that portrayal,

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telling the Sun She's never, ever, ever had to worry

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about anything like that in her life. We'd do the

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best restaurants in town, and we'd do Sizzler because it

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was convenient. We never had to rub our pennies together

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and just have the salad bar. She had the salad bar,

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but she had a meal as well, and they have it.

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