Las dos únicas cosas que necesitas para ser Feliz

0:09 I am Eugenio Valla, ruiz, reader, hard- working and lover of personal development. Today I want to talk to you about the idea of happiness and how we can get a little closer to it in our day to day. Before you start reminding yourself that you have at your disposal a compilation of the most relevant ideas and tips on personal development. In my four own books, you already know them free, healthy and happy, thirty- one days to improve your life, minimalism for normal people and four steps for a purposeful life. I leave your link in the notes of the episode a little bit lower, also since many of you have asked me how and where to train in personal development. I tell you what has worked for me, which is the most personal development online, IPP of positive thinking institute. You know that I think it is the best training that exists in this field, because it simply covers depth the six main areas of life, self- knowledge, body and health, emotions, relationships, transcendence and money and career. If you want to take a look at your free class mastre without any commitment. I also leave you the link in the episode notes. You know a little bit further down and now we' re gonna talk about happiness. Happiness is an ideal state of being It is a state that we obviously all aspire to,

1:44 but many people believe that they will achieve that happiness through material goods or through gaining recognition of others. And that' s not like that. Happiness has much more to do with being than having. I shouldn' t buy a car in the hope of happiness. I should be happy and from that fullness, from that happiness, decide to buy a car because it complements my existence, so I need it, because it works for me, to go to work, etcetera, but not to be happy. Happiness is an independent state, or it should be from the material, especially from a certain point at which survival is more or less guaranteed. And that point, at that point we have already reached in most Western countries. Therefore, to approach happiness we must concentrate on being, not having. And we can do this in two ways. Taking the road to what you really want, to what you have really come to do to this world, that is, through your purpose and, on the other hand, being grateful every day for what we have.

3:06 These two simple things are the essence of a happy life, purpose and gratitude. Purpose and gratitude. There is no need to add anything else to this formula of happiness. If you want to live like this, with purpose and gratitude, you' re going to have to build your life from the inside out, you' re going to have to understand that your time in this world is limited and that you shouldn' t waste it doing things that aren ' t in line with what you are with your true self that you live like that. It' s nothing but dying ahead of time in a conscious person every action is aligned with what that person is, not with what he hopes to get out of that action, doing things to have is putting us in survival mode. If you do it in line with what you are, you will have an inner world in peace and the outside world, which is still a mirror of what you carry within, it will reflect that same peace, it will reflect that same tranquility. We have come to this world to create things from what we are, not to obey a lot of orders that we may not even share. That' s very comfortable. That' s living without risk. That is living without taking responsibility for our own existence,

4:36 but it is also limiting our potential to survive. Creation is an act of will. It' s something that springs directly from who we are. It is, in a way, the expression of our freedom. It is what allows us to be aligned with our true identity. And the soul knows what resonates with our being The soul knows what we are. Your soul knows and lets us know. He lets us know in a thousand different ways. But the soul can neither decide nor make the. It is the mind that chooses to follow the soul or not to follow it, and it is the body that acts and executes that decision that materializes it in the physical world. When the body the mind and soul row in the same direction, then we enter into harmony. Then we began to rise. And this allows me to repeat it, because it is a key concept your soul that drags the wisdom of thousands of generations. With it you know what you have come to do to this world and it is your mind that must decide to do it or not to do it in a rational way, and it is your body that must execute those orders. And if you do so, if you follow this order,

6:06 you will be done and, as a result, you will have what you have come to this world for, that is, it is your soul that guides you using the tool of consciousness. But you, then you have the free will to act or not to act. The problem is that many people don' t listen, even to themselves, they don' t listen to their own conscience and then they clearly regret those who have been trained in personal development, even though we still lack many things to learn, those people don' t live permanently worried about making a living. They live permanently concerned that their soul, mind, and body act as a true team. And the irony is that it' s precisely these people who get it, who get their soul, their mind, and their body to act together. It is these people who often have the least difficulty in life, not with being, not with doing, not with having. They are those people who do not want to have at any price, they have because they do what they are, so in their surroundings everything is ordered and life can go on calmly.

7:21 His course and it' s curious. But the more you know yourself, the less you lack, the more or less you want the idea of worldly success, but paradoxically, the more abundance you receive in your life that is basically a little bit. The idea of worldly success is a paradox. So I, what I can recommend to you is that you trust yourself the first, the second, that you do what you have come to do to the world every day and, third, that you accompany it with good habits. It is a very simple regime to trust to do and good habits. It' s this is this you have so simple. Surely if you are consistent and consistent, I can surely lead you to the life you want.

8:09 But there is another flaw in all this, happiness, besides the purpose, has another flaw that is gratitude, because the end of the process is to be to have, is not to have, is to thank, is to appreciate, is to be deeply grateful for what we have, for all the experiences it brings us. Life. In the end, what we think or the concept we have of good and bad is a subjective construction. Even that construction or that meaning changes according to the cultural context, according to the geographic context, according to the society in which we move. Everything is relative and everything that happens to us happens to us. If you are able to see, even if it is a small feature of perfection in everything that happens to you, even in those things you disagree with, then you reach a higher state of personal development. Nothing wrong with the universe. Life is wise, life is accurate. He doesn' t usually make mistakes. In fact, he never does, even if there are things that hurt us and that happen, things that hurt us and hurt us a lot besides, but that is the case. It has to be like this in the universe. Everything that happens happens for something and is the right flow of things. That is why it makes no sense to live in fear, to live in fear of death,

9:43 criticism, loneliness. All those fears are not going to help you and they' re going to stop you from creating, they' re going to make you just react to what others want and it' s going to stop you from knowing who you really are. Many people do not know who they really are because they live in fear and that fear prevents them from following their conscience. That fear prevents them from aligning their actions with what they really are. And obviously, that fear, at the end of the process, prevents them from having and prevents them from feeling grateful. They' re not creating, they' re following what someone has told them is right, and all out of fear, out of damn fear, but it doesn' t surprise me either. Throughout our lives, the system has been telling us that if you do something you like, you shouldn' t be paid for it.

10:43 That' s why it' s an absurd idea. Right, if you do something you like, then the way you like it, they can' t pay you for it anymore. That' s why there' s so many people working on things they don' t like, they don' t give them any satisfaction, they don' t like it. That' s why, when you' re sitting at the alarm clock in the morning, it' s torture. And that' s why they' re just thinking about going on vacation and on the next holiday, on the next bridge. And how they feel like they feel bad because they have to work. Then you understand it' s fair to be paid for it. And that' s why we live in a widespread misalignment because many people don' t know if most, but many, many, many people think they should do something they don' t like to make money. And then, when you see someone who' s making money, even the best, who' s making a lot of money, doing something that' s also his passion, something that he would basically do for free, then you think it can' t be, that it' s fake, that something bad should be doing or that luck. That can never happen to me. That is the mentality that the system has installed for us and on which I want you to reflect today.

11:56 Now stand alone, for yourself, for yourself, for who benefits this and why? If you liked this episode please like share social networks or visit three www ideas to live better. Here you can subscribe and download for free a copy of my latest book, Seven steps for a life with purpose and if you want to learn much more and train in personal development with the best experts, check out the most free trails of the ipp Te personal development master online. I leave the link in the episode notes and just say goodbye.

12:41 Thank you very much, as always and until the next po po po