Episodes

Guilt Is a Signal, Not a Sentence: A Holiday Reframe for Parents of LGBTQ+ Kids [DAY 6]
Dec. 22, 2025

Guilt Is a Signal, Not a Sentence: A Holiday Reframe for Parents of LGBTQ+ Kids [DAY 6]

DAY 6 MORE HUMAN MOMENTS FOR THE MOST WONDERFUL (AND COMPLICATED!) TIME OF THE YEAR! 12 Tiny Rebellions to Counter Holiday Chaos Do you ever lie awake replaying moments you wish you could rewrite - things you didn’t know, did...
How to Respond When a Relative Misgenders Your LGBTQ+ Child at a Holiday Gathering[DAY 5]
Dec. 19, 2025

How to Respond When a Relative Misgenders Your LGBTQ+ Child at a Holiday Gathering[DAY 5]

DAY 5 MORE HUMAN MOMENTS FOR THE MOST WONDERFUL (AND COMPLICATED!) TIME OF THE YEAR! 12 Tiny Rebellions to Counter Holiday Chaos You're at the holiday table. Your child walks in. A relative misgenders them on purpose. The roo...
Simple Conflict Tools for LGBTQ+ Parents and Allies [DAY 4]
Dec. 18, 2025

Simple Conflict Tools for LGBTQ+ Parents and Allies [DAY 4]

DAY 4 MORE HUMAN MONETS FOR THE MOST WONDERFUL (AND MOST COMPLICATED!) TIME OF THE YEAR! 12 Rebellions Against Holiday Chaos Is your stomach in knots before a holiday gathering, already dreading that one comment you know is c...
Reframing Holiday Loneliness for LGBTQ+ Parents and Allies [DAY 3]
Dec. 17, 2025

Reframing Holiday Loneliness for LGBTQ+ Parents and Allies [DAY 3]

DAY 3 MORE HUMAN MOMENTS FOR THE MOST WONDERFUL (AND MOST COMPLICATED!) TIME OF THE YEAR 12 Tiny Rebellions Against Holiday Chaos The holiday lights are twinkling, the house is full, and yet, you feel... alone. If you're pare...
DAY 2 - Holiday Boundaries That Protect Your LGBTQ Child and Your Peace
Dec. 16, 2025

DAY 2 - Holiday Boundaries That Protect Your LGBTQ Child and Your Peace

DAY 2 MORE HUMAN MOMENTS FOR THE MOST WONDERFUL (AND MOST COMPLICATED!) TIME OF THE YEAR! 12 Tiny Rebellions Against Holiday Chaos! The holidays are magical, but they’re also messy, especially when you're parenting or support...
DAY 1 Enoughness is the Gift: Holiday Guidance for Parents of LGBTQ+ Kids
Dec. 15, 2025

DAY 1 Enoughness is the Gift: Holiday Guidance for Parents of LGBTQ+ Kids

Today is day one of our 12 day holiday capsule! More Human Moments for the Most Wonderful (and Complicated!) Time of the Year. 12 Tiny Rebellions Against Holiday Chaos Let Go of Holiday Perfection and Embrace Presence, Ground...
6 Years & 200 Episodes: A Parenting Story of Grace, Growth, and Getting It Wrong
Dec. 12, 2025

6 Years & 200 Episodes: A Parenting Story of Grace, Growth, and Getting It Wrong

SPECIAL EPISODE ALERT!! We are so happy to share this special episode that is a celebration of both 6 years AND 200 episodes for this podcast ! It is honest and raw...and the sound may be a little off our usual high quality r...
Strength in Softness: Supporting Your LGBTQ Child With Love During the Holidays
Dec. 9, 2025

Strength in Softness: Supporting Your LGBTQ Child With Love During the Holidays

Are you constantly bracing for impact this holiday season, snapping at your kids, holding your breath, pushing through? If you’re a parent of an LGBTQ+ child, an ally, or simply a human feeling stretched thin, this episode in...
Keeping the Peace: Boundaries for LGBTQ+ Holiday Parenting
Dec. 5, 2025

Keeping the Peace: Boundaries for LGBTQ+ Holiday Parenting

Are you feeling pulled between preserving family peace and protecting your mental health this holiday season? You're not alone AND you're not doing it wrong. The holidays are often an emotional minefield, especially for paren...
What Your Body Is Telling You: Holiday Care for LGBTQ+ Parents and Allies
Dec. 2, 2025

What Your Body Is Telling You: Holiday Care for LGBTQ+ Parents and Allies

Are you an LGBTQ+ parent, ally, or advocate feeling exhausted by the emotional and logistical weight of the holiday season? You’re not alone. Many parents and caregivers, especially those supporting LGBTQ youth, enter this ti...
Parents, This Is What Your Queer Teen Wants This Holiday Season
Nov. 28, 2025

Parents, This Is What Your Queer Teen Wants This Holiday Season

Feeling the pressure to find the perfect gift for your LGBTQ+ teen? In this soft, grounding episode, Heather shares what really matters to LGBTQ+ kids this time of year and how your presence and thoughtfulness can be more pow...
I Am Thankful For...Me! A Practical Tool for Parents of LGBTQ+ Teens
Nov. 25, 2025

I Am Thankful For...Me! A Practical Tool for Parents of LGBTQ+ Teens

Do you pour out gratitude for everyone else, but forget to include yourself? As the holidays approach, gratitude can start to feel like a performance. In this soulful solo episode, Heather helps you reclaim it, starting with ...
Parents, Fixing Is Hurting Your Relationships! This Is What To Do Instead.
Nov. 21, 2025

Parents, Fixing Is Hurting Your Relationships! This Is What To Do Instead.

Are you constantly jumping in with advice only to feel more disconnected from the people you love? Whether you're navigating hard conversations with your LGBTQ+ teen or sitting down at a tense holiday dinner, the urge to "fix...
"I Believe You" - The Most Important Thing You Can Say to Your LGBTQ+ Child
Nov. 18, 2025

"I Believe You" - The Most Important Thing You Can Say to Your LGBTQ+ Child

When your child comes out or shares something vulnerable do you freeze, fumble, or fear saying the wrong thing? Whether it’s about gender, sexuality, faith, or mental health, what your child is really asking in that moment is...
Human First. Kind Always. A Guide For Parents of LGBTQ Teens
Nov. 14, 2025

Human First. Kind Always. A Guide For Parents of LGBTQ Teens

Are you overwhelmed by the speed, noise, and pressure of the season and craving a moment of genuine connection? In a world obsessed with performance and big gestures, we often forget the transformative power of the quiet, sma...
Can Empathy Be Taught? Raising Inclusive Humans with Maria Gallucci
Nov. 12, 2025

Can Empathy Be Taught? Raising Inclusive Humans with Maria Gallucci

BOUNUS Interview Episode! What if empathy wasn’t something you had to be born with but something you practiced, moment by moment? In today’s bonus episode, Heather sits down with Maria Gallucci, a CODA, LGBTQ+ parent, bestsel...
How to Lead, Parent, and Live with More Humanity and More Kindness
Nov. 11, 2025

How to Lead, Parent, and Live with More Humanity and More Kindness

What if the most radical thing we can be right now is fully, imperfectly human and deeply, fiercely kind? In this foundational episode of More Human, More Kind , host Heather Hester pulls back the curtain on the heart of the ...
Parents, Relearning Love is a Gift for the Soul - Yours and Your LGBTQ Teen's
Nov. 7, 2025

Parents, Relearning Love is a Gift for the Soul - Yours and Your LGBTQ Teen's

What if love was never meant to be earned, just allowed? In this powerful and tender episode of More Human, More Kind , Heather Hester invites you to examine the stories you carry about love, especially the ones you learned b...
When Love Becomes Leverage During the Holidays (Important Info for Parents of LGBTQ Kids)
Nov. 4, 2025

When Love Becomes Leverage During the Holidays (Important Info for Parents of LGBTQ Kids)

What if the thing that hurt you most was disguised as love? In this emotionally honest and deeply necessary episode of More Human, More Kind , Heather Hester invites you to explore one of the most painful and liberating truth...
A Parent's Guide to Embracing Difference: The REAL Magic of Halloween
Oct. 31, 2025

A Parent's Guide to Embracing Difference: The REAL Magic of Halloween

What if the quirks, questions, and beautiful edges your LGBTQ child expresses aren’t something to fix, but something to fiercely celebrate? This Halloween, we’re flipping the script on fear and reframing what it really means ...
History Repeats Unless We Interrupt It: Queer Rights, Allyship, and Action
Oct. 28, 2025

History Repeats Unless We Interrupt It: Queer Rights, Allyship, and Action

LGBTQ+ History Month isn’t just a celebration of the past,it’s a warning about the present. With over 600 anti-LGBTQ+ bills in play, what will you do to protect what truly matters? In this powerful episode, Heather Hester wal...
Reclaiming the Witch: How Power, Queerness & Rebellion Got Branded Evil
Oct. 24, 2025

Reclaiming the Witch: How Power, Queerness & Rebellion Got Branded Evil

What if the witches we grew up fearing weren’t villains, but visionaries, healers, or queer-coded rebels whose power threatened the status quo? In today’s rich and revolutionary episode of More Human, More Kind , Heather Hest...
Queer Joy in Scary Movies? The Truth About Horror & LGBTQ+ Youth
Oct. 21, 2025

Queer Joy in Scary Movies? The Truth About Horror & LGBTQ+ Youth

What if the monster your child identifies with…isn’t a threat, but a symbol of courage, survival, and truth? For many LGBTQ+ teens, horror films offer more than scares; they offer safety, self-expression, and even joy. While ...
Understanding the Masks LGBTQ+ Kids Wear for Survival
Oct. 17, 2025

Understanding the Masks LGBTQ+ Kids Wear for Survival

What do parents need to know about the masks LGBTQ+ kids wear for survival? For queer kids, and the parents, moms, and allies supporting them, masks (figurative and literal)can mean safety, expression, or survival. But not al...