Episodes

Self-awareness is crucial for setting healthy, balanced boundaries because it helps you understand your needs, emotions, and limitations. When you become aware of what drains or overwhelms you, you can identify when boundaries are necessary to protect your well-being. Check out the full episode on the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins Episode 39 - Loving Limits: Establishing Healthy Boundaries in Relationships 📆 WEDNESDAY, JAN 22, 2025 🎧 Podcast - Everywhere you listen to podcasts 📺 My YouTube Channel + FB pages (links in profile and in comments) #foryoupage #foryou #shorts #selfawareness #findingbalance #setboundaries #reels

Are you struggling to say "no" without feeling guilty? Licensed psychologist Dr. Toni Cooper joins Vivian to unpack the essential role of boundaries in creating peace and order in our relationships. Through their engaging discussion of walls versus boundaries, Vivian opens up about her own challenges with friendship after moving to California, while Dr. Cooper offers practical wisdom on setting limits with time, money, and affection. They explore how Scripture supports healthy boundaries, debunk common misconceptions about Christian kindness, and share actionable strategies for boundary-setting—from managing phone usage to handling difficult family gatherings. Learn how to start small, stand firm in your "no," and discover the freedom that comes from establishing loving limits that honor both yourself and others. GUEST BIO Dr. Toni Cooper is a psychologist, author, and public speaker. Since 1986, she has been teaching adults the strategies to grow emotionally, build healthy relations…

Are you ready to see amazing things transpire in your life? Do you want a deeper relationship with God and your friends and family? All we have to do is get out of God's way and let Him do more than we can ever ask, think, or imagine. Listen to this clip with Rachel Jobe and then head over to the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST for the full episode. EPISODE 38: Let Go! Surrender Control and Watch Your Relationships Grow JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins 📆 WEDNESDAY, JAN 8, 2025 🎧 Podcast - Everywhere you listen to podcasts 📺 My YouTube + FB pages #aşk #think #imagine #more #letgoofcontrol #shortsvideos #relationships #relationshipgoals

Are you looking for FREEDOM? Try letting go of control. Controlling everything in our lives is exhausting. When we give up control to God and let Him have the stick, we will experience so much peace and joy - there is no comparison! In this amazing episode, learn how to give up control from best-selling author Rachel Jobe! EPISODE 38: Let Go! Surrender Control and Watch Your Relationships Grow JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins 📆 WEDNESDAY, JAN 8, 2025 🎧 Podcast - Everywhere you listen to podcasts 📺 My YouTube + FB pages #nocomparison #nevergoback #giveitup #nomore #iamfree #shorts_video #shortfeed #shortsyoutube

How do you find freedom when you're trapped in a self-made prison of control? Author Rachel Jobe shares her journey from perfectionism to peace through surrendering control to God. Vivian and Rachel discuss the difference between doing and being, drawing wisdom from Jesus's teaching about the vine and branches. Reflecting on their parallel experiences with illness and burnout, they reveal how God lovingly strips away our need to manage everything, replacing anxiety with trust, which ultimately brings us closer to God and strengthens our relationship with Him and others. Rachel, who serves in Asia Pacific with her family, offers practical insights from her book "Let Go" about embracing God's gentle leadership over our drive to control outcomes. GUEST BIO Rachel Jobe is the author of the award-winning book "Let Go! Transform Your Life out of Frustration and Defeat by Giving God Control". As a recovering perfectionist, she is passionate about helping Christian ladies move from a place …

Hey! Hey guess what? The world will not stop spinning if you pause to take a breath. We don't have to be perfect. We don't have to control every aspect of our lives - or the lives of others. Giving up control is an act of worship and self-care. EPISODE 38: Let Go! Surrender Control and Watch Your Relationships Grow Guest: Rachel Jobe JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins 📆 WEDNESDAY, JAN 8, 2025 🎧 Podcast - Everywhere you listen to podcasts 📺 My YouTube + FB pages #selfcare #letgo #controller #world #spinning #letgoletgod #surrendertochrist #shortsyoutube #shorts

What can three extraordinary women from the Christmas story teach us about living wisely? Beyond the familiar nativity scene with shepherds and wise men lies a powerful message through the lives of Elizabeth, Mary, and Anna. Vivian shares how these remarkable women demonstrated wisdom through their persistence, humility, and unwavering faith in God's plan. Through Elizabeth's bold obedience despite years of barrenness, Mary's quiet pondering of miraculous events, and Anna's lifelong dedication to worship, we discover that true wisdom isn't about having all the answers – it's about maintaining an open heart to God's guidance. Whether you're feeling uncertain about God's timing or struggling to trust His plan, these ancient stories offer a fresh perspective on finding wisdom for today's challenges. ABOUT VIVIAN Vivian Cumins is a writer, speaker, and host of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast. She is also an Oklahoma native, a career professional, a military spouse, a step-mom…

After a friendship loss, remember you are worthy of a genuine connection. There are women out there who will appreciate and cherish your authentic self. Your experiences have made you wiser, and the right people will recognize your beautiful heart. Find more encouragement by listening/watching episode 36 of the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE Podcast with Vivian Cumins, and special guest, Elizabeth Laing Thompson. Silent Goodbyes: Understanding and Overcoming Friendship Loss - WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 18, 2024. You can watch the full episode on YouTube Channel and FB or listen everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #connection #podcast #womenencouragingwomen #friendshipgoals #goodbye #braveheart #shortsyoutube #shorts

Have you ever wondered what happened to a once-close friendship that quietly fizzed out without explanation? The mysterious way friendships can dissolve leaves many of us with a lingering sense of uncertainty, wondering about the unspoken dynamics that transform a vibrant relationship into a distant memory. Special guest and author of “When a Friendship Falls Apart – Finding God’s Path for Healing, Forgiveness, and (Maybe) Help Letting Go”, Elizabeth Laing Thompson sheds some light on the reasons behind the fizzle. Join us for episode 36 - Silent Goodbyes: Understanding and Overcoming Friendship Loss on the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE Podcast with Vivian Cumins on WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 18, 2024. You can watch the full episode on YouTube Channel and FB or listen everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #shorts #myshortsvideo #friendship #fizzle #women #friends #shortvideos #foryou

Have you ever experienced the heartbreak of a friendship falling apart? Author Elizabeth Laing Thompson sits down with Vivian for a raw, heartfelt conversation about navigating broken friendships and finding healing through faith. Vivian shares her own story of losing friends after rededicating her life to Christ, as Elizabeth opens up about friendships that blindsided her and the challenging journey to forgiveness. Walking through the complex emotions of friend breakups, they unpack the process of letting go and discovering hope when relationships drift apart. From processing hurt feelings to finding freedom in forgiveness, this conversation provides a message of hope and healing. GUEST BIO Elizabeth Laing Thompson is a speaker, novelist, and the author of many inspirational books for women and teens, including When a Friendship Falls Apart – Finding God’s Path for Healing, Forgiveness, and (Maybe) Help Letting Go, All the Feels, All the Feels for Teens, and the When God Says serie…

Have you ever felt that gut-punch moment when you realize a friend has quietly - or loudly - removed you from their world? Friends are the family we choose - and when they choose to walk away, it cuts deep. When someone decides you no longer fit into their life's story, it's a unique kind of heartbreak. This week’s special guest, Elizabeth Laing Thompson, and host Vivian Cumins know firsthand what this feels like and are ready to talk about it, and Elizabeth’s book, “When a Friendship Falls Apart”. Listen/watch this clip then join Elizabeth and Vivian TOMORROW, WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 18, 2024 for the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins. Episode 36 - Silent Goodbyes: Understanding and Overcoming Friendship Loss You can watch the full episode on YouTube Channel and FB or listen everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #friendship #breakup #choose #family #shortvideos #shortsyoutube #myfeed #womenpodcast

As mothers, we desperately want to see our addicted and wayward children sober—but God is after something deeper. Sobriety is only part of the story; salvation is the ultimate victory. Dawn Ward recommends not only praying for them to get clean but also praying for their hearts to be transformed. When God saves them, He heals more than their addiction—He redeems their soul, their purpose, and their life. Sobriety is temporary, but salvation is eternal. Trust in the power of God's grace to do the work from the inside out. You can watch/listen to this episode in its entirety on the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins, found on YouTube and FB – and everywhere you get your favorite podcasts. Episode 35 - Anchored to Hope, Tethered by Addiction: The Story of a Praying Mom Special Guest: Dawn Ward #redemption #changeofheart #salvation #sobrietysuccess #soberlife #prayer #shorts

What happens when your child's choices threaten to destroy not only their life but yours as well? Author Dawn Ward shares her raw, personal journey of watching multiple family members battle addiction, including her own sons. As Vivian and Dawn dig into the realities of parenting an addicted child, they explore the crushing weight of blame, the dangerous pull of codependency, and why setting boundaries feels like abandonment. Through heartbreaking experiences with late-night jail calls and constant fears of overdose, Dawn reveals how trying to "fix" her children nearly destroyed her. Vivian and Dawn unpack how Christian moms can anchor themselves to God instead of their children's destructive behaviors. Together, they offer hope and wisdom for parents navigating one of life's most painful challenges, reminding listeners that God never leaves us even in our darkest moments. GUEST BIO Dawn Ward is a speaker, writer and biblical life coach. She is the founder of The Faith to Flourish, …

As moms, we can worry ourselves sick over our addicted and wayward children—losing sleep, peace, and hope. But that’s not what God wants for us. He never intended for us to carry the weight of saving them on our own. God is calling us to trust Him, even when we can’t see the way forward. When we release our children into His hands, we open the door for His power to do what we cannot. It’s not about giving up—it’s about giving God the control. Be encouraged to trust Him to take care of your child, and find peace in knowing He never lets go. You can watch/listen to this episode in its entirety on the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins, found on YouTube and FB – and everywhere you get your favorite podcasts. Episode 35 - Anchored to Hope, Tethered by Addiction: The Story of a Praying Mom #short #letgo #trustgod #worried #faithoverfear #addictionrecovery #godsgotthis #shorts

You’ve done everything. You’ve prayed, pleaded, and tried to fix it. But your child is still held captive by addiction, and it’s tearing you apart. As a mother, it feels impossible to let go—because Mama knows best, right? But what if holding on is exactly what's keeping you stuck? Letting go doesn’t mean giving up—it means surrendering to the One who can truly set them free. This week’s special guest, Dawn Ward, author of From Guilt to Grace: Hope and Healing for Christian Moms of Addicted Children knows what it is like to be a worried mom of addicted children – because she has lived the life. Check out this clip then set your alarm and join us TOMORROW for the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins. Episode 35 - Anchored to Hope, Tethered by Addiction: The Story of a Praying Mom on WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 11, 2024. You can watch the full episode on my YouTube Channel or listen everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #shortsyoutube #addicted #youtu…

This is a beautiful reminder. Wives often give their husbands the responsibility to make them happy and feel worthy and beautiful – and that is unfair. We are all human – both husbands and wives will fall short. But there is One who will never fall short – God adores everything about YOU! Special guest, Rhonda Stoppe shares just how much in this clip. If you missed this episode, please circle back around to my YouTube channel or FB pages and watch the full episode because there are so many powerful nuggets of marital wisdom in this show! JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins. Episode 34 “Marriage Myths: What's Really Holding You Back?” Air Date: 12/4/2024 #adoration #shortsyoutube #shorts #godlovesyou #responsibility

Have you ever wondered if your marriage would magically improve if your husband would just change? Author Rhonda Stoppe joins Vivian for a candid chat about the myths wives believe and shares powerful insights from her book. As Vivian opens up about her own journey learning to accept compliments from her husband, Rhonda shares biblical wisdom about respect, intimacy, and the power of positive communication. Together, they tackle everything from the story of King David's dancing to practical tips for rekindling romance when you're exhausted from a long day. Through personal stories and scriptural truth, Vivian and Rhonda explore how letting go of resentment and embracing God's design for marriage can transform your relationship. Whether you're struggling with unmet expectations or seeking deeper connection, this episode offers hope and practical steps for building the marriage you've always longed for. GUEST BIO “I could have listened to Rhonda talk all night,” is what audiences say a…

“Our marriage is built on low expectations.” This comment is an inside joke between my husband and me after we remarried upon prior unwanted divorces. We tease that if we keep our expectations of the other low, we won’t be disappointed when we don’t measure up. It is all in good fun, but I wonder if there is a tiny bit of truth to our silliness. Check out this clip with my special guest, Rhonda Stoppe, to find out what I mean – then listen to the entire episode on the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins – Episode 34 “Marriage Myths: What's Really Holding You Back?” Air date: 12/4/2024 Watch on YouTube or my FB pages – listen everywhere you get your favorite podcasts. #expectations #marriedlife #happiness #marriagemyths #ifonly #husbandsvswives

Ladies, did you know that you are a coach for your husbands? That's right! You're guiding your partner towards better understanding and connection by openly sharing your needs and desires. Honest communication is the playbook that can transform your relationship, helping your husband become a more attentive and supportive teammate. Rhonda Stoppe, author of “If My Husband Would Change, I’d Be Happy (& Other Myths Wives Believe)” tells it like it is with candor and humor during this week’s episode of the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins. Join us for Episode 34 – Marriage Myths: What’s Really Holding You Back?” On WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 4, 2024. You can watch the full episode on my YouTube Channel and FB pages or listen everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts #shortsyoutube #coaching #marriage #wife #shortvideos #yourpartner #tellhim #whatyouwant

What happens when a search for love leads down an unexpected path of deception? Author Stacey Szczepanski joins Vivian to share how being catfished set her free to develop a deeper relationship with God and herself. Through vulnerable storytelling, Vivian and Stacey explore the hidden dangers of online relationships, the importance of trusting your gut, and why taking time to heal is crucial before pursuing new relationships. With tears and laughter, Stacey and Vivian remind us that while we all desire to be loved, our ultimate fulfillment comes from God's unconditional love. Discover why being single doesn't define your worth and how embracing God's timing can lead to your most authentic life. GUEST BIO: Stacey Szczepanski is an author, literacy coach, and a classroom educator of more than 14 years. When she was 22 years old, Stacey joined a dating site and was deceived by an online persona claiming to be someone they’re not. Since then, she has written a book about her experience t…

This is so good! Relationships require us to be committed. How committed are you? JUGGLING LIE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins Episode 33: The Bait and Switch: How Being Catfished Set Stacey Free Watch on YouTube – listen everywhere you get your favorite podcasts. #committed #committedtolove #godlovesyou #friendship #bait #switch #shortsfeed #shortsvideo #shorts

How do you heal after relationship trauma? Take small steps. 1st Step: Know and Believe you are never alone – God is always near What is step 2? Listen to this clip from special guest Stacey Szczepanski of the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins– then be sure to go back and listen to the full episode. Episode 33: The Bait and Switch: How Being Catfished Set Stacey Free Watch on YouTube – listen everywhere you get your favorite podcasts. #relationshiptrauma #catfished #mislead #traumarecovery #shortsyoutube #shortsviral #shortsvideos #shortsfeed

Unlocking Love After Being Catfished !! Episode 33: The Bait and Switch: How Being Catfished Set Stacey Free !! Merriam-Webster defines the term ‘catfish’ as someone who sets up a false personal profile on a social networking site for fraudulent or deceptive purposes. My guest on the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST knows exactly what this term means because she was catfished – and she wrote a book about it called, Unlocking Love: How Being Catfished Deepened My Faith and Led Me on a Journey to Wholeness. Listen to this reel to find out more about Stacey Szczepanski and the story she shares in Unlocking Love, then be sure to tune in on WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 27, 2024 to the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins to hear the episode in its entirety. This one is too good to miss! Watch on YouTube – listen everywhere you get your favorite podcasts. #catfish #onlinedating #relationships #deception #shortsfeed #shorts #mask

Staying true to our identity means prioritizing and saying no at times and letting God’s wisdom, not others' expectations, guide your "yes" and protect your "no." Check out this clip then head over to my YouTube channel or FB page for the full episode of the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE Podcast with Vivian Cumins. Episode 32 - Me, Myself, and We: Identity Protection in Relationships Special Guest: Angela Pitnikoff The JLFB Podcast is also uploaded everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts! #myassignment #yes #no #shortvideo #shorts #shortsyoutube #trueidentity