Episodes

You are not alone. Even in the middle of the night when you lie in bed with tears flowing – He sees you. Special Guest, Tamala May knows all too well what it feels like to lie awake at night, filled with sorrow over being abandoned and facing the heartbreak of divorce. Her story is one of shock, sorrow, and redemption. Though she admits her broken heart did not heal overnight, it did heal and she was restored far more than she could ever imagine. Learn more of Tamala’s journey from being abandoned to sharing her testimony and books worldwide, offering wisdom and insight into navigating life’s most challenging moments. Tune in to the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins on 10/2/2024. Episode 25 – The Ex-Files: Rewriting Your Story After Abandonment Listen / Watch on YouTube and my FB pages and everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #shorts_video #shorts #shortsyoutube #youarenotalone #godwithyou #abandoned

Are you seeking greater resilience in your life, and aren’t sure where to start? In today’s episode, host Vivian Cumins is joined by Tamala May, an author and speaker whose experience with abandonment has inspired a career and book series focused on resilience and strength in Christ. Tamala is a prime example of the reality that in order to become truly resilient, we often have to go through experiences of great adversity. Throughout Tamala’s childhood and into her marriage, her life was deeply rooted in tradition and stability, until one day she was faced with an unexpected divorce. Although Tamala knew about God, it wasn’t until the shock of this abandonment that she began to rely wholeheartedly on the Lord, as He was her sole lifeline and strength. As she began pouring into her relationship with God, Tamala’s personal devotions turned quickly into devotions that she shared with friends and family, and ultimately became something that she felt called to author and publish under th…

Life is marked by imperfection. We all make mistakes. Even those closest to us can disappoint us deeply, failing to meet our expectations of them. When loved ones abandon us, it is painful. While difficult, these experiences can also challenge us to have grace and learn to forgive. Listen to Tamala’s wisdom in this clip where she shares her thoughts on abandonment and relying on the One who will never fail us. Tune in on WEDNESDAY (10/2/2024) to the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins with special guest Tamala May. Episode 25 – The Ex-Files: Rewriting Your Story After Abandonment Listen / Watch on YouTube and my FB pages and everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #shortsvideo #shorts #shortsyoutube #abandoned #abandonment #divorce

How often do we overcomplicate our lives – piling on responsibilities and chasing multiple goals? Remember, we are not meant to live overwhelmed, hurried, and burned out. Listen/watch this full episode with Rachael Adams, author of A Little Goes a Long Way: 52 Days to a Significant Life. Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast with host, Vivian Cumins Episode 24, The Simple Shift: Transitioning to a Life of True Significance Episode on YouTube and my FB pages and everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #toomuch #overwhelmed #burnedout #unbalanced #shorts #shortsvideo #shortsyoutube

Every achievement starts with a single step, regardless of its scale. No matter how big or small the dream, goal, or task – just begin. Listen/watch this full episode (9/25/2024) with Rachael Adams, author of A Little Goes a Long Way: 52 Days to a Significant Life. Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast with host, Vivian Cumins Episode 24, The Simple Shift: Transitioning to a Life of True Significance Episode on YouTube and my FB pages and everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #shorts #shortsyoutube #justbegin #startsomewhere #shortvideo

Have you ever felt like your life lacks significance, despite what you read in Scripture? Is it difficult for you to believe that your life is meaningful in God’s eyes? In today’s episode, Vivian Cumins is joined by Rachael Adams, a business owner and author who felt for many years that her life was only valuable when she was accomplishing the things on her to-do list. This even worked itself into her relationship with God, as Rachael began believing that her worth was wrapped up in achievement, and God was most proud of her when she was most successful. After seeking Scripture, Rachael realized that this internalized belief was a tool that the enemy was using to deter her from God’s true plans for her life. Vivian and Rachael discuss the reality that so many Christian women feel the same way, and believe that their lives and efforts don’t truly matter unless they are successful in one way or another. For many women, this fear or self-doubt prevents them from using the gifts that God…

True or false: In the last 7 days, I: 1. Compared my achievements, possessions appearance, or life circumstances to someone else's. 2. Focused on an area where I perceived myself as lacking or inferior 3. Used social media as a benchmark for my life. 4. Experienced feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, anxiety, or depression as a result of comparison. 5. Felt demotivated or discouraged from pursuing my goals If you answered “True” to any of these, please join my guest, Rachel Adams, and me tomorrow on the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast with Vivian Cumins where we talk about how making a simple shift in our lives can lead to true significance. JLFB Podcast is on YouTube, Facebook and everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #comparisontrap #compare #shorts #shortsvideos #shortsvideo #significance #youareenough

Embracing change is essential in caregiving. To maintain well-being, caregivers must balance supporting a loved one with self-care, which requires adapting their lifestyle and routines. This may involve reassessing priorities, redistributing time and energy, altering commitments, setting boundaries, delegating tasks, and incorporating self-care practices. Though challenging, these adjustments are crucial for sustaining caregivers' physical and emotional health, ultimately enabling them to provide better care for others. Tune in to the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins with special guest, Pamela D. Wilson for more enlightening strategies. Episode 23 - The Balanced Caregiver: Exploring Strategies for Support & Self-Care Listen / Watch on YouTube and my FB pages and everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #changeyourlife #shift #caregiver #takecareofyourbody #change

Guilt is a common, yet often unproductive, emotion experienced by many caregivers. The feeling that one is never doing enough can be overwhelming and demoralizing. However, it's crucial to recognize that these feelings, while natural, are not a reflection of reality. Instead of succumbing to guilt, caregivers should focus on managing expectations - both their own and those of others. Learn more by turning in to the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins with special guest, Pamela D. Wilson for this enlightening conversation Episode 23 - The Balanced Caregiver: Exploring Strategies for Support & Self-Care Listen / Watch on YouTube and my FB pages and everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #guilt #caregiverstress #focus #selfcare #care #expectations

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the responsibilities of caring for a loved one, unsure how to balance their needs with your own? I sat down with Pamela Wilson, a seasoned expert who transformed her personal caregiving experiences into a mission to support others. We unpack the often-overlooked challenges of caregiving, from recognizing when you've become a caregiver to managing the complex emotions that arise. Pamela shares invaluable strategies for maintaining your well-being while providing care, including how to build a strong support network and the importance of self-care – even when it feels impossible. We also explore practical tips for initiating difficult conversations with aging parents and navigating the healthcare system. Whether you're currently in a caregiving role or anticipating it in the future, this episode offers compassionate insights and actionable advice to help you find balance and resilience in your caregiving journey. GUEST BIO Pamela D. Wilson Bio, MS, BS…

Self-care is not just a luxury but an absolute necessity when you're in the role of caring for others. It's crucial to recognize that to be an effective caregiver, you must first take care of yourself. Be sure to tune in on WEDNESDAY (9/18/2024) to the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST with Vivian Cumins with special guest, Pamela D. Wilson for this enlightening conversation Episode 23 - The Balanced Caregiver: Exploring Strategies for Support & Self-Care Listen / Watch on YouTube and my FB pages and everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #shorts #shortsvideo #caregiver #selfcare #takecareofyourself

When I became a stepparent, I wasn't sure of my role in the family. I loved my new kids, but they already had a mother. Then it dawned on me - our kids have two moms who love them - that was my role. I am a BONUS mom! Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast with Vivian Cuimins Special guest, Jen Rogers Episode 22 - Empowered by Purpose: Becoming the Strong Step-Mom God Called You to Be #shorts #shorts_video #bonusmom #bonus #stepparent #stepmom

! HOW TO THRIVE AS A STEPMOM !! Thriving as a step-mom requires embracing curiosity to understand your blended family's dynamics. Find out more by tuning in to this week's episode of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast with host Vivian Cumins. Episode 22 – Empowered by Purpose: Becoming the Strong Step-Mom God Called You to Be Special Guest: Jen Rogers You can watch on my YouTube Channel and FB and listen everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. Link is found in the profile! #shortsvideo #shorts #curious #stepmom #thrive #blendedfamilies #familydynamics

Have you ever wondered what it truly means to step into the role of a stepmom with grace, purpose, and divine calling? In this heartfelt episode, Vivian sits down with Jen Rogers to unpack the joys and challenges of becoming a stepmom in a blended family. Drawing from both of their personal experiences, Jen and Vivian offer a candid look at the rollercoaster ride of stepparenting, addressing everything from imposter syndrome to dealing with defiant children and difficult exes. Jen shares her inspiring journey from feeling like an outsider to embracing her role as a "bonus mom" with confidence and faith. Through this conversation, you'll find practical advice, spiritual encouragement, and a reminder that you're not alone in your stepmom journey. Whether you're a seasoned stepmom or just starting out, this episode offers valuable insights on how to thrive in your calling, build strong family bonds, and find your unique place in God's plan for your blended family. Join Jen and Vivian as …

WHAT IS IMPOSTER SYNDROME? When women marry men with children, they sometimes struggle to find their place in the new family dynamic. This can lead to a woman questioning her role and value in the family. Jen Rogers knows all about the feelings of inadequacy that often accompany new step-moms. This feeling, known as imposter syndrome, is common and with the right tools, it can be overcome. Tune in tomorrow when Jen and I dive into this topic and more on the Juggling Life, Finding Balance podcast with Vivian Cumins. #shortsyoutube #shorts #impostersyndrome #stepmom #stepparent #blendedfamily #family

What do you think - is being told you are fat in all the right places a compliment? Hmmm... Grandmas say the darndest things! Listen to this clip of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast - Special Edition with Viv & Becca, and then go watch/listen to the full show on YouTube, my FB pages, or anywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #fat #shortsvideo #compliments #podcast #funnylady #balance #curvy #curvygirl

Okay, y'all - seriously? What do you think? Join us for another special segment of SisterTalk with Viv & Becca on the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast with host, Vivian Cumins. Watch on YouTube and my FB pages; listen everywhere you listen to podcasts. #hair #lookalikes #sisters #funnyvideo #podcast #women_haircut #ladies

This week’s Sister Talk with Viv & Becca is packed with all sorts of fun and the sharing of secrets - like our costly and up close and personal beauty treatments, ‘poop’ petitions, and the unexpected ways prayers get answered. We also dive into the real struggles of transitioning to a new state, building a social circle in unfamiliar surroundings, managing the work-from-home lifestyle, and maintaining long-distance family bonds. I believe there are three pillars to living an abundant, well-balanced life: God first, self-care, and good old-fashioned fun! That is what the Sister Talk with Viv & Becca segment is all about. We are just two Oklahoma gals with a unique bond and passion for storytelling and encouraging women to embrace every season of life. There is something for everyone in this segment and we guarantee you’ll find a topic that will put a smile on your face. So, grab your headphones and coffee and join us for some sister talk! CO-HOSTS: VIVIAN CUMINS Vivian Cumins is…

My husband and I agree that what happens in the beauty salon stays in the salon. He is perfectly fine with being in the dark regarding my beauty secrets. But when my credit card was turned off due to fraud and I had to use his, suddenly everything came to full light and it wasn't pretty!! Join Becca and me for another special segment of Sister Talk with Viv & Becca on the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast. This week (9/4/2024) we talk about our secret beauty treatments and praying to poop because sometimes you need a Higher Power. Watch the podcast on YouTube my FB pages or listen everywhere you listen to podcasts. #shorts #shortsyoutube #beauty #funny #laugh #podcast #secret #hairextensions

When faced with the difficult decision of reporting harm or confiding in others, turning to faith offers guidance and comfort. Trusting in God's unwavering support can give us the courage to move forward. Jenna Nelson, special guest on the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST is a tenacious, persistent advocate whose journey from trauma survivor to Utah legislative change-maker exudes bravery and grit. If you missed Episode 20 - A Beautiful Disaster: Jenna’s Fight to Reform Assault Laws, you can still watch it on YouTube and listen everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. #leanongod #faith #traumasurvivor #changemakers #survivor #strongwomen #shortsvideo #shorts

Jenna Nelson is a tenacious, persistent advocate whose journey from trauma survivor to legislative change-maker exudes bravery and grit. In this episode, Jenna opens up about her experience reporting abuse and the obstacles she faced in seeking justice. We'll discuss how she channeled her pain into purpose, leading to the creation of House Bill 247, which extends the statute of limitations for reporting sex crimes. Whether you're facing your own struggles or looking to make a difference, this conversation will show you how courage and persistence can truly change lives. GUEST BIO: Jenna Nelson, a resilient single mother of three, including a son with special needs and boy/girl twins, has transformed personal tragedy into a powerful force for change. Despite the demands of family and work, Jenna neglected self-care, leading to a bout of depression and suicidal thoughts. Seeking help through her church, she confronted a long-buried trauma: sexual abuse she had endured as a teenager. S…

Jenna found the Utah law's statute of limitations deeply problematic, viewing it as unfair and unjust. Motivated by this perceived inequity, she committed herself to campaigning for legislative change. Tune in tomorrow - WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 28, 2024 for this incredibly brave and inspiring episode with Jenna Nelson. Episode 20 -A Beautiful Disaster: Jenna’s Fight to Reform Assault Laws on the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast with host Vivian Cumins. #shorts #shortsvideo #utahlaw #change #traumasurvivor #brave #strongwomen #viviancumins #jugglinglife #findingbalance #thrivingnotsurviving

If you are a busy mom, be encouraged to give yourself some grace. Every small effort contributes to spiritual growth. Grace involves treating yourself with kindness and understanding. If you can’t find but just a few minutes to open your bible, that is okay! Every small effort counts! Amy Arthur, special guest on the JUGGLING LIFE, FINDING BALANCE PODCAST is a mother of 4 boys and one little girl, and she knows all about balancing life at home and contributing income to her family. Tune in to learn how to find your perfect work-from-home job and other tips for balancing work and life, while placing faith and God first. Episode 19 - is found on my YouTube channel, FB and everywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. Links are in the profile. #shorts #busymomroutine #grace #mom #workfromhomejobs #shortsfeed #shortsyoutube

This week, I'm excited to reconnect with my friend Amy Arthur and discuss her remarkable journey from skepticism to deep faith and how our time together in Germany influenced her path. Amy's story is a testament to the unexpected ways faith can shape our lives. Amy is a mom of five, managing a busy life on a Wisconsin beef farm while also working as a Christian life coach. In today’s episode, Amy dives into her practical strategies for balancing work, faith, and family, including her approach to finding meaningful work-from-home opportunities. If you’re balancing a busy schedule and want to align your career with your values and passions from the comfort of your home, then stop what you are doing and listen to this episode! GUEST BIO Amy is on a mission to empower Christian moms like you to discover fulfilling work-from-home opportunities. Her journey into coaching stems from her experience as a stay-at-home mom for sixteen years. Nestled on a small farm in rural Wisconsin, her tran…