Dec. 6, 2025
How To Flirt And Make Things Happen This Holiday Season
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RSS Feed The holidays are the perfect time to try out some new flirty moves! Kelly Bensimon and Jennifer Fessler are getting the BEST flirting tips from celebs at Jingle Ball who are single and married.
Hopefully, with these ideas, you can be kissing someone under the mistletoe this year!
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Speaker 1: Welcome back to I Do Part two.
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Speaker 2: It's your celebrity mentors Kelly, Ben Simone and Jennifer Wessler.
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Speaker 1: And today we are in Los Angeles or jingle Ball with.
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Speaker 2: Our fair bachelors Serena and Joe. You guys, let's get started talking everything jingle Ball.
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Speaker 1: What do you think of Jen? What do we create?
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Speaker 3: Joe?
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Speaker 4: That's not just your name, you have something else attached to that.
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Speaker 5: Name.
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Speaker 6: Mobli grocery store, Joe grocery store, Joe, thank you very much, very much, a grocery store, rocery store, I have a nickname.
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Speaker 4: Can you help us out and tell us? I feel like you'll have a good one. Your best pickup line.
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Speaker 7: I mean something about me is I got eliminated from the Beats or Night one because.
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Speaker 8: I didn't have a pickup.
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Speaker 7: I would say my best pickup line that I used to use was probably just high and just like make eye contact and smile.
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was mine.
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Speaker 8: Yeah. I would be like, Hi, yeah, that's why we that's why we worked out well.
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Speaker 3: So I think maybe because you have that smile that was for you.
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Speaker 1: After the high and the smile, what's the follow up?
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Speaker 9: Usually I like it when they're like ordering a drink, and I would be like hi, and then they'd be like Hi.
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Speaker 1: I'd be like, what are you ordering?
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Speaker 10: And then I'd be like, do you want to order me one?
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Speaker 1: Too?
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Speaker 8: I would say Hi, do you want to drink?
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Speaker 3: Yeah?
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Speaker 1: Exactly.
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Speaker 11: It's easy.
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Speaker 10: You say hi, like what are you ordering?
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Speaker 9: And then they say and then you Usually they'll be like do you want one? I'll be like yeah, I do, or I'll be like do you want.
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Speaker 1: To order me one?
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Speaker 3: Too?
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Speaker 1: Perfect. I love that flirt.
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Speaker 9: It's more about flirting is more about like energy and eye contact than it is what you're actually saying.
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Speaker 8: What you're saying. Actually, I don't think even matters.
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Speaker 1: I mean.
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Speaker 3: Cheesy, if you have a cheesy pickup line, I don't know. I like your style, both of you. I like Hi, my name is. I don't like, uh, I don't know whatever. Cheesy pickup line. I don't think it worked.
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Speaker 2: I took Lo Angel's advice one time to put my number on my on a on a piece of paper and give it to a guy and he happened to also be on love Hotel and one of her you know, perspective love interests.
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Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, yeah, no, no, no, we're not doing this anymore.
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Speaker 9: No, no, no, no, we are not about this because you're like, I don't really know who I'm giving my number two.
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Speaker 10: I feel like you got to have a little chit chat first.
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Speaker 7: I also think it depends on who's asking it, Like I think if Brad Pitt delivers a cheesy line, it's still gonna work.
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Speaker 3: Disagree, Well, probably because I always like Kelly and I actually both. I always went for the chubby boy. He was already in points against him. I'm sure he would have been crushed.
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Speaker 4: Okay, how about you guys' best flirty move?
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Speaker 10: Flirty move?
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Speaker 1: I don't know.
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Speaker 9: I think just like a little like a little hand brush on the shoulder, like a little brush on the thigh is cute, like a quick touch.
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Speaker 12: Yeah, not be brushing anyone on the thigh, I would say, yeah again, I would probably go just like across the room, eye contact, smile.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Joe.
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Speaker 2: What about when a girl like touches her hair because people will always say that, like when when a female touches her hair like a male is.
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Speaker 9: Like oh, or I saw when a girl like takes her hair down, like if it's up and they take it down.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wish I had known that way back in the day.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, take your hair down.
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Speaker 8: I would notice that.
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Speaker 7: But also if I'm not getting any eye contact, that's also that's a sign of like, no.
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Speaker 1: She's just supposed her. Why is she doing that?
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Speaker 7: Well, she's just like, yeah, she's not acknowledging me because she's like, why is this weird guy's there at me?
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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so it's touch touch them, put your fiddle.
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Speaker 10: With your hair, your down, eye contacts.
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Speaker 8: Smile, got no touch at the beginning.
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Speaker 10: Don't touch the guy, or yeah the girl can do a little touch.
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Speaker 9: I think the guy should keep his hands to himself a little for longer.
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Speaker 8: Yeah, welcome until you can touch me.
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Speaker 1: I love that.
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Speaker 2: Okay, what about the best first date could be an actual one that you had, or just like a location you think is great.
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Speaker 9: I think I've only been on like one or two first dates ever.
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Speaker 10: If I'm being honest, I was not really a dater.
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Speaker 9: But I think I think just like drinks, drinks is great on a first day, especially you don't know the person, because it's like you can extend, you can go to another bar, you can be like, oh, I'm hungry, let's go grab dinner, or you can be like nice to meet This was like a nice like one hour.
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Speaker 3: High totally let's call it, say like go for coffee, or you never commit to dinner.
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Speaker 4: You never commit.
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Speaker 8: I want to be locked into.
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Speaker 10: A dinner and then you're eating with someone you don't like. And that's the whole other thing.
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Speaker 9: I also used to like having like a plan, like when I would have go on a first day to be like, oh, I'm supposed to meet my friend at like.
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Speaker 4: Eight or meet the person yeah, just so they know.
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Speaker 9: So that if it's not going well, it's like, oh, you know, as I told you, like I have to go. But if it's going great, you could be like, you know what, my friend just bailed, Like let's go do something else together.
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Speaker 2: So this guy, actually my favorite first day is this guy that I'm dating. He invited me to his house far away from where I live, which is something I would never do. I would never go anywhere for anyone. I'm like, I am not traveling, I will meet you across the street.
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Speaker 1: But so I went on a train to go see him. That was my first date.
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Speaker 4: And by the way, six months later.
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Speaker 9: We are no way had you met him before, did you have a sign that it was going to go?
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Speaker 2: Really, we talked and I knew we knew people, and we were like talking for like a month and then I went to go meet him.
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Speaker 10: Okay, so there's already a little investment before you.
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Speaker 2: Like, I'm literally like all my dates were literally across the street from my apartment.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just if you and I were close, then we got closed very well, right, I would not allow that.
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Speaker 4: No, listen, what do I know here?
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Speaker 9: You are words when you break your dating roles is when.
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Speaker 1: Yes, Yeah, I just was like should I should I not that. I was like, I'm not going to go. I'm not going to go. I'm the queen of like making plans and canceling. Yeah, and yeah I went. I love that. I love that it worked out. Yeah. So you can travel if you want, but I wouldn't suggest it.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, or you can always just go on the Bachelor or meet the man or woman of your dreams.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a bit of travel, right, But I do like the idea.
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Speaker 2: I do like theda of like having a plan and maybe like at the beginning of the date saying listen, you know, I just I'm so happy.
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Speaker 1: To meet you.
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Speaker 2: I have something afterwards, even if you like the person, I think it's always good to like just be able to like meet them, digest it and then move on versus just kind of like.
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Speaker 3: I used to be the director of something called. You all will probably not well telling me it's called It's Just Lunch, and it was a national dating service and it's just lunch, meaning it's only lunch.
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Speaker 4: We're going to set you up for lunches for.
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Speaker 3: Professionals, busy professionals, and then we'll see what happens.
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Speaker 1: I don't know.
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Speaker 10: How do you feel about day dates though?
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Speaker 1: Do you guys like you like a day day?
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Speaker 4: I haven't had one.
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Speaker 8: I'm pro a day date.
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Speaker 3: That's cool, you guys, this was fun meet you jingle balla jingle on.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're with my favorite goal Kathy and season.
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Speaker 1: How are you guys. It's so good to see, so much to talk about. We're excited about tonight, my god.
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Speaker 3: Yes, and your earlier our friend Joan our the favorite Golden saying that she doesn't know any of the.
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Speaker 1: Performers and I'll double that, and I'll triple that, and yes you do, grandchild.
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Speaker 13: Little little girls, and I know the music that's.
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Speaker 1: A I know this, but we don't exactly.
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Speaker 3: Well, listen, ladies, we need you to give us some good advice for our listeners. In terms of dating. It's cuffing season. We want to talk about how you get your flirt on. So, ladies, give me either your best pickup line or the best pickup line that a guy's ever used on you.
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Speaker 1: I use eyes.
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Speaker 13: It's always you look somebody right in the.
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Speaker 10: Eyes.
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Speaker 1: I love your eyes.
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Speaker 5: I was like wow when I so, I'm trying to learn to get my feminine expression and I've heard that's the way to catch a guy.
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Speaker 1: What does that mean? What does that mean? Well that I've been told it's you know, basically, look like you're helpless.
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Speaker 5: Really, I know people are saying, Kathy, youre too You're too you can do it all yourself, you're too independent.
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Speaker 4: This is a whole other podcast that we have to But.
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Speaker 5: When I need a guy, I'm just telling you, when I meet a guy, I smile and look him in the eye, and you know there's either connection or there isn't. But everyone says, Kathy, you come across like you don't need a guy, and men need to feel needed, So you need to make him feel needed.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, like, what open the door for me? Like, well, I don't.
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Speaker 3: I do subscribe to the idea. I like when a man is the first to make the move. Yes, so that's just my I don't reach out first.
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Speaker 1: I reature on a dating app.
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Speaker 13: Have any of you ever asked the man out?
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Speaker 1: No?
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Speaker 3: No?
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Speaker 2: Never?
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Speaker 1: Never? Have you?
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Speaker 13: Yep?
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Speaker 1: And wait, would you say she's single?
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Speaker 3: No?
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Speaker 1: No? I need to hear the actual So uncomfortable.
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Speaker 13: I think it was more of a dare that somebody dared me to, and.
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Speaker 1: I feel like, will you go out with me?
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Speaker 14: Would you like to get together? Sometimes over text, her call, face to face? In person, I was beat red as loud and outspoken as I am. There's a different size, you know, feel very intimidating, vulnerable. What the hell if he says no?
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Speaker 1: Why would you? People were watching?
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Speaker 13: I did?
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Speaker 1: When gives you power?
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Speaker 4: Amen?
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Speaker 1: Sister? So you asked him and he said yes, guess what he said?
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Speaker 13: What I absolutely would. However, I'm married.
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Speaker 1: Do you mind? Yes?
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Speaker 2: I mind?
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Speaker 1: That's not going Thank.
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Speaker 2: You was nice about it exactly, and I love that he said yes at first?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, what about you guys? Your best flirty move? Like it's not it's gonna be.
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Speaker 1: It's gonna be. From our last.
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Speaker 3: Guest, Serena, Yeah, Serena said it's like definitely, and Kelly said playing with her hair.
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Speaker 5: Your hair kind of looking up shoulders and.
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Speaker 4: To jump in here.
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Speaker 15: Nobody's ever sent a drink over to a man.
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Speaker 1: Never I have.
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Speaker 5: I have never said a flirty move.
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Speaker 14: That is a flirty mord They just said thank you, and I say thank you. When somebody said it was like, no, if you were just gonna sound would you sound like.
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Speaker 13: Just they turned the shot class.
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Speaker 5: I had a man buying an enjoy that movie, which I have had a man buy me a drink before. But when I was with a couple of women and he and he sent drinks over to the table and then he kind of came over and chatted.
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Speaker 4: I think that's hot. I've met a man buying me lunch before.
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Speaker 3: Like I was sitting at Houston at the bar with a girlfriend and actually bought both of us lunch.
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Speaker 4: I saw Hi kind of staring at me across the way, and I thought that was hot.
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Speaker 3: Anybody was move I mean, I think the Flordy move was just that eye contact with you, lock guy.
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Speaker 1: That's Key.
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Speaker 14: But how about buying somebody a couple of coffee in the car behind you.
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Speaker 1: I like it too, buying somewhere a coffee. But then you pull over and get into the car.
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Speaker 2: If there's a connection that is a great falling, you could do that too. You could be like, hey, I'm see here's the thing. When you're in a drive through line, I have to get out of the car.
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Speaker 1: Looked ways. It's a woman with her two.
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Speaker 13: There's a comple and it's like, wow, the attraction.
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Speaker 4: I feel the same.
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Speaker 5: I want the guy to make the first move. Then then I'll put on the flirty moves. I'll buy him a drink, I'll do all those things. But I want the guy to show in key.
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Speaker 14: How many times have we both been told? Men say they want an independent however they don't.
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Speaker 1: They don't. I don't think that.
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Speaker 3: They don't want an independent woman. I just think in terms of like meeting the first time. I I think that that's sort of I don't know, it could be independent and yes, like what I'm saying is it's okay to be who you are. I don't think that you, you and you all are to women. But I think in terms of like meeting that first time. There's this book, the Rule.
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Speaker 1: When I meet someone for the first time, The Rules. The Rules. A book is a book.
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Speaker 2: It just kind of gives you, like an outline of like how to date.
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Speaker 4: It's really interesting. It is about this, about letting him, letting.
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Speaker 5: When I've gone out with the guy on a first date, i am, believe it or not, I will ask a lot of questions.
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Speaker 4: I think it's great because I.
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Speaker 5: Want because I do them, I want them to know that I'm interested in them. However, if they do not turn around and ask me questions, that is a red flag for me.
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Speaker 1: And I've had that happen too.
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Speaker 4: Sometimes it's their nerves.
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Speaker 14: Sometimes they're nervous, you know, but they really shouldn't talk all about themselves.
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Speaker 13: They should be interested in something.
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Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying.
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Speaker 5: That to me has always been a red flag, and I'm never been wrong yet. When I've gone out with a guy and he'll ask me a lot of questions about myself, but.
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Speaker 1: Then I'm like, no, he's interesting, he's interested.
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Speaker 5: But I've gone up with guys that I'll say, so, you know, tell me about yourself.
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Speaker 4: I think you don't think that's great.
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Speaker 3: I think it's almost like a job in re you know, they tell you to make the interview are comfortable. Your job is to make that. So I feel like that's you're making him already feel comfortable with you.
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Speaker 2: But do you feel that because you've been you know, you've been on a Bachelor, do you feel like that guy see you in a different way and they're asking you questions because you've been on it?
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Speaker 1: Because that's how I felt. I was like, why are you interviewing me about what I did?
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Speaker 5: I feel like when sometimes when guys I've had a couple of guys recently talk to me and and theoretically they're gonna ask me out, and then they let it slip that they know I was on the Bachelor, And I'm like, oh, so you're not really interested in Kathy per Se.
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Speaker 1: You're more interested in the persona that was on. That's the way they are interested when they tell me.
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Speaker 5: Then they say, well, I know you did this, this and this day about my children.
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Speaker 1: Or my you know, and I totally agree about the show.
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Speaker 2: I feel like when they start asking questions like I feel like there's like, you know, how many kids do you have? Like what you know those kind of real questions. But when they start saying like, so right did you Oh you guys went to back to wherever?
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Speaker 1: It was, like what happened there?
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Speaker 2: I feel like when they're asking questions, it's like it's like me saying like, so, how is your business meeting exactly?
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Speaker 3: Oh?
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Speaker 1: And you know I ate you up and unfound five hundred years, you've never.
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Speaker 14: Someone told me one time.
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Speaker 13: And I think it's a great opening for this. What is it you want me to know about you?
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Speaker 16: Oh?
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Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm trying, as you just said, I help answer that. What do you want to too loaded? I think on a first day that is too loaded a question? That's that really does seem like a job interview to me. When I go on a date, my goal is always to make the guy feel comfortable and want to see me for a second day.
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Speaker 1: I don't sit there.
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Speaker 2: You know It's interesting, is what you just said. Wait, and I'm not telling you how to date, but you just said that people have been saying to you that you're not giving, you're not emoting your feminine side, right, And you just said that you want them to feel comfortable. So they're going to ask you on the date like controlling it. I flirt with those amazing eyes and just have fun and let them want to be with you, versus like you saying I want to control this date because I.
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Speaker 1: Can also really get them do.
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Speaker 3: It really being sincerely interested, like well, I love talking to people, but I want to talk about.
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Speaker 1: Us left a podcast.
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Speaker 4: Yes, right, because you're interested, I will.
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Speaker 5: Say, I very much feel. I'm from New England. I'm from outside of Boston. I am a Yankee. I'm a New England girl. We speak, our minds were more direct. I live in Texas and that is a hard because I'm not a blessed your little heart kind of girl. And I really think culturally regionally there are differences. So when I go back to the Northeast, I think that's an easier place today because people are more open.
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Speaker 3: Think those cowboys would be very drawn to you.
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Speaker 4: I'm from Houston myself.
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Speaker 5: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Anyway, Wait, Susan, tell me your best first date.
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Speaker 1: I remember mine.
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Speaker 13: It was recent. It was a year ago. Best first date, Oh the Bachelor.
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Speaker 1: We went no the guy she's St.
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Speaker 14: Martin and we went salsa dancing and he could dance, and I know I could.
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Speaker 1: He's from Saint Martin. He's French. Hell yeah, that was.
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Speaker 13: The best day.
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Speaker 14: I mean I was dripping wet with swell love it because it was.
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Speaker 13: Hot, it's humid, and we danced for hours.
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Speaker 1: So you guys met I just went to start dancing.
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Speaker 13: Well we met?
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Speaker 1: How did you?
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Speaker 13: And Kathy almost didn't let me go on that date?
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Speaker 1: And have I ranged her in a bar and place here we gone?
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Speaker 2: Well, you guys, you met him on a dating app while you in St. Martin.
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Speaker 14: Okay, yeah, Kathy and I were on a vacation for a couple of weeks and I had an espresso.
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Speaker 13: Martine couldn't go to sleep.
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Speaker 14: We did our face wash and the night she goes up, I'm laying in bed playing games on my eye.
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Speaker 13: Patti can come to sleep.
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Speaker 8: Let me.
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Speaker 1: She goes.
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Speaker 14: Sorry.
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Speaker 1: I said, don't do this and not doing that. Don't follow our advice.
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Speaker 5: Here doesn't speak French. I have to introduce them in French. I'll translate. Don't worry, just send it to me. I will send you some amazing things to say to her man in French.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to moor all right, I got it.
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Speaker 2: I'll text you you guys, thank you, thank you.
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Speaker 4: Let's do it again.
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Speaker 13: We have a lot more thanks for having us.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, m.
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Speaker 1: All right, you guys.
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Speaker 3: So we are here with the most beautiful couple that ever came out of The Bachelor, Katie and.
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Speaker 17: Zach doing well?
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Speaker 1: How are you guys doing it?
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Speaker 4: Is?
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Speaker 1: It can be bad?
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Speaker 16: I'm super excited. This is my first time going to it. Actually I'm excited.
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Speaker 1: I mean too bad you guys are together.
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Speaker 2: Because there's a lot of fun guys and girls at this event.
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Speaker 1: I mean, it's definitely a lot of fun.
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Speaker 17: So single, if you're a single person, if.
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Speaker 2: You're single and ready to jingle, okay, because look at this couple.
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Speaker 3: All right. Anyway, guys, we're going to talk a little bit about dating and apparently it's something called cuffing season.
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Speaker 17: Do you know what that is, Zach, I have learned about that. It's when you decide to settle down. I think I want Yes, I want to be with this person.
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Speaker 15: Yes, situation Sorry, producer, how they're jumping in here. Cuffing season is the time of year, the colder months, when people tend to partner up so that they have somebody to go through the holidays.
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Speaker 1: Wow, it's kind of like a situationship.
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Speaker 15: It's kind of like your new boyfriend and new girlfriend. It could be a situationship. But cuffing season is usually between Thanksgiving and then it tends to end right before Valentine's Day for a lot of people.
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Speaker 2: They I don't know anything, all right, right, yeah, let's get cuffed, Let's get cut all right, let's get cuffed.
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Speaker 1: I love that.
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Speaker 3: For instance, in terms of flirting, what's your or what was your best pickup line?
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Speaker 16: Or when you've actually I don't think Zach ever used a pickup line on me. All his personality just did it for me.
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Speaker 3: Oh wow?
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Speaker 2: Maybe is it like eye contact?
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Speaker 17: I mean when she came out of the limo, I looked at her eyes and God, like.
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Speaker 15: What did you say when you got out of the limo?
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Speaker 8: Please?
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Speaker 15: Okay?
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Speaker 16: So I don't think I've ever told anybody this, but so they kind of like I had the idea that I wanted to like throw football to them. They didn't really like that.
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Speaker 1: Then they were like, you should do.
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Speaker 16: A moaning scene from what is that movie? They wanted me to reenact that, and I was so uncomfortable with it, and I actually called the producer from my hotel room. I said, I don't want to do this. I don't want to do it.
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Speaker 1: They're like, you have to do it right.
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Speaker 16: And anyways, last minute we were in the limo and then the producer was like, hey, we have to change that. They don't think they'd be able.
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Speaker 1: To air it.
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Speaker 4: Thank reason, right, I know that to the.
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Speaker 1: Right. So I just say this.
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Speaker 2: So I said, that would have been awful because you when you smile, your eyes, your whole face like lights up like it does it does?
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Speaker 1: It does? It was so lame.
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Speaker 16: But I came out and I was like, we have something in common, we're both from Austin, and then I'm not from Austin. I was so nervous, and I was like, we have something in This was the line I was told to say, we have something in common, we're both from Austin, and he immediately goes, I'm not from Austin and they cut that part out.
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Speaker 1: I was like, then I panic, and I'm like, neither, wait.
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Speaker 3: A second, I'm sorry, and we're not gonna we're not gonna harp on this too much. They told you just to make something up like I'm from Austin and so what they.
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Speaker 16: Told me, right, yeah, So it's like I panicked. Know I'm like this is production whatever. And then he immediately said that and I was like oh, and I couldn't like catch up to it. So I was just like, you know what they say, everything's bigger in Austin, and I like, look down at you said that.
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Speaker 4: I mean it's clever taking on your feet.
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Speaker 1: That's a lot. That's what Jen and I learned. It's called packing in the pants.
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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's started a lot in this podcast.
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Speaker 13: We certainly have.
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Speaker 1: He definitely has a packaging Well.
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Speaker 4: Listen, Kelly and I are both fifty seven.
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Speaker 3: You're gonna have to work with actually, So if you're going to a movie, guys and you're flirting, you want to go to a flirty movie?
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Speaker 4: Pick one?
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Speaker 17: Flirt a flirty movie.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like you're gonna go.
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Speaker 3: On a date and you want to go can you do you have any movies you would suggest?
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Speaker 17: I mean, I'm a huge movie buff, but it's like for horror movies and thrillers and all that. She loves comedies.
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Speaker 2: And yeah, but you would take a girl to a horror movie on a date. But actual.
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Speaker 17: Protect you against monsters right.
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Speaker 15: More.
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Speaker 3: I'm actually more of a roundcom get myself, like I think nor Fron I would think would be like the greatest first thing.
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Speaker 4: Okay, do you guys know who fron is.
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Speaker 8: Roberts?
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Speaker 1: Okay, what about best first date?
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Speaker 16: Okay, my best first date would be going on a sailboat sun set cruise with a glass of wine.
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Speaker 4: I never thought about it, but that is that's.
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Speaker 16: Like she did take me in Portugal and it was the most romantic. But that was like the epitome of what I think a first date should be.
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Speaker 17: Romance.
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Speaker 1: Right, you don't think that's too committed though, I it's like it sounds like a lot.
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Speaker 16: I mean you would hope that, like when you are starting to date somebody, that they're actually intentionally dating to get married. But in this world, I feel like it's so different. But I feel like you've got to start.
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Speaker 17: Off strung for a perfect.
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Speaker 16: Holistic one would be.
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Speaker 2: A good Wait, that's really what you just said. It's super loaded dating with the intention to get married. A lot of guys in New York City are just dating to dating, and so like, I feel like their dates can be like really over the top and then it goes.
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Speaker 1: Or dating to hook up or dating. You guys get photographed. Yeah, well I don't think we answered any of your questions. We learned a lot.
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Speaker 4: We have I know we have actually.
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Speaker 1: No package. Don't package in your paints. Guys.
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Speaker 4: This has been really fun, So so excited. Let's go to jingle ball.
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Speaker 3: Are you ready to get your flirt on this holiday season? Need some help when it comes to that area of dating?
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Speaker 1: Welcome back to I Do Part two.
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Speaker 2: It's your celebrity mentors Kelly, Ben Simone and Jennifer Wessler.
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Speaker 1: And today we are in Los Angeles or jingle Ball with.
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Speaker 2: Our fair bachelors Serena and Joe. You guys, let's get started talking everything jingle Ball.
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Speaker 1: What do you think of Jen? What do we create?
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Speaker 3: Joe?
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Speaker 4: That's not just your name, you have something else attached to that.
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Speaker 5: Name.
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Speaker 6: Mobli grocery store, Joe grocery store, Joe, thank you very much, very much, a grocery store, rocery store, I have a nickname.
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Speaker 4: Can you help us out and tell us? I feel like you'll have a good one. Your best pickup line.
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Speaker 7: I mean something about me is I got eliminated from the Beats or Night one because.
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Speaker 8: I didn't have a pickup.
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Speaker 7: I would say my best pickup line that I used to use was probably just high and just like make eye contact and smile.
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was mine.
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Speaker 8: Yeah. I would be like, Hi, yeah, that's why we that's why we worked out well.
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Speaker 3: So I think maybe because you have that smile that was for you.
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Speaker 1: After the high and the smile, what's the follow up?
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Speaker 9: Usually I like it when they're like ordering a drink, and I would be like hi, and then they'd be like Hi.
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Speaker 1: I'd be like, what are you ordering?
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Speaker 10: And then I'd be like, do you want to order me one?
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Speaker 1: Too?
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Speaker 8: I would say Hi, do you want to drink?
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Speaker 3: Yeah?
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Speaker 1: Exactly.
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Speaker 11: It's easy.
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Speaker 10: You say hi, like what are you ordering?
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Speaker 9: And then they say and then you Usually they'll be like do you want one? I'll be like yeah, I do, or I'll be like do you want.
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Speaker 1: To order me one?
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Speaker 3: Too?
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Speaker 1: Perfect. I love that flirt.
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Speaker 9: It's more about flirting is more about like energy and eye contact than it is what you're actually saying.
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Speaker 8: What you're saying. Actually, I don't think even matters.
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Speaker 1: I mean.
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Speaker 3: Cheesy, if you have a cheesy pickup line, I don't know. I like your style, both of you. I like Hi, my name is. I don't like, uh, I don't know whatever. Cheesy pickup line. I don't think it worked.
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Speaker 2: I took Lo Angel's advice one time to put my number on my on a on a piece of paper and give it to a guy and he happened to also be on love Hotel and one of her you know, perspective love interests.
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Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, yeah, no, no, no, we're not doing this anymore.
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Speaker 9: No, no, no, no, we are not about this because you're like, I don't really know who I'm giving my number two.
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Speaker 10: I feel like you got to have a little chit chat first.
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Speaker 7: I also think it depends on who's asking it, Like I think if Brad Pitt delivers a cheesy line, it's still gonna work.
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Speaker 3: Disagree, Well, probably because I always like Kelly and I actually both. I always went for the chubby boy. He was already in points against him. I'm sure he would have been crushed.
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Speaker 4: Okay, how about you guys' best flirty move?
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Speaker 10: Flirty move?
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Speaker 1: I don't know.
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Speaker 9: I think just like a little like a little hand brush on the shoulder, like a little brush on the thigh is cute, like a quick touch.
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Speaker 12: Yeah, not be brushing anyone on the thigh, I would say, yeah again, I would probably go just like across the room, eye contact, smile.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Joe.
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Speaker 2: What about when a girl like touches her hair because people will always say that, like when when a female touches her hair like a male is.
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Speaker 9: Like oh, or I saw when a girl like takes her hair down, like if it's up and they take it down.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wish I had known that way back in the day.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, take your hair down.
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Speaker 8: I would notice that.
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Speaker 7: But also if I'm not getting any eye contact, that's also that's a sign of like, no.
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Speaker 1: She's just supposed her. Why is she doing that?
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Speaker 7: Well, she's just like, yeah, she's not acknowledging me because she's like, why is this weird guy's there at me?
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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so it's touch touch them, put your fiddle.
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Speaker 10: With your hair, your down, eye contacts.
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Speaker 8: Smile, got no touch at the beginning.
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Speaker 10: Don't touch the guy, or yeah the girl can do a little touch.
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Speaker 9: I think the guy should keep his hands to himself a little for longer.
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Speaker 8: Yeah, welcome until you can touch me.
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Speaker 1: I love that.
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Speaker 2: Okay, what about the best first date could be an actual one that you had, or just like a location you think is great.
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Speaker 9: I think I've only been on like one or two first dates ever.
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Speaker 10: If I'm being honest, I was not really a dater.
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Speaker 9: But I think I think just like drinks, drinks is great on a first day, especially you don't know the person, because it's like you can extend, you can go to another bar, you can be like, oh, I'm hungry, let's go grab dinner, or you can be like nice to meet This was like a nice like one hour.
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Speaker 3: High totally let's call it, say like go for coffee, or you never commit to dinner.
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Speaker 4: You never commit.
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Speaker 8: I want to be locked into.
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Speaker 10: A dinner and then you're eating with someone you don't like. And that's the whole other thing.
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Speaker 9: I also used to like having like a plan, like when I would have go on a first day to be like, oh, I'm supposed to meet my friend at like.
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Speaker 4: Eight or meet the person yeah, just so they know.
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Speaker 9: So that if it's not going well, it's like, oh, you know, as I told you, like I have to go. But if it's going great, you could be like, you know what, my friend just bailed, Like let's go do something else together.
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Speaker 2: So this guy, actually my favorite first day is this guy that I'm dating. He invited me to his house far away from where I live, which is something I would never do. I would never go anywhere for anyone. I'm like, I am not traveling, I will meet you across the street.
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Speaker 1: But so I went on a train to go see him. That was my first date.
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Speaker 4: And by the way, six months later.
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Speaker 9: We are no way had you met him before, did you have a sign that it was going to go?
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Speaker 2: Really, we talked and I knew we knew people, and we were like talking for like a month and then I went to go meet him.
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Speaker 10: Okay, so there's already a little investment before you.
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Speaker 2: Like, I'm literally like all my dates were literally across the street from my apartment.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just if you and I were close, then we got closed very well, right, I would not allow that.
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Speaker 4: No, listen, what do I know here?
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Speaker 9: You are words when you break your dating roles is when.
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Speaker 1: Yes, Yeah, I just was like should I should I not that. I was like, I'm not going to go. I'm not going to go. I'm the queen of like making plans and canceling. Yeah, and yeah I went. I love that. I love that it worked out. Yeah. So you can travel if you want, but I wouldn't suggest it.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, or you can always just go on the Bachelor or meet the man or woman of your dreams.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a bit of travel, right, But I do like the idea.
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Speaker 2: I do like theda of like having a plan and maybe like at the beginning of the date saying listen, you know, I just I'm so happy.
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Speaker 1: To meet you.
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Speaker 2: I have something afterwards, even if you like the person, I think it's always good to like just be able to like meet them, digest it and then move on versus just kind of like.
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Speaker 3: I used to be the director of something called. You all will probably not well telling me it's called It's Just Lunch, and it was a national dating service and it's just lunch, meaning it's only lunch.
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Speaker 4: We're going to set you up for lunches for.
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Speaker 3: Professionals, busy professionals, and then we'll see what happens.
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Speaker 1: I don't know.
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Speaker 10: How do you feel about day dates though?
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Speaker 1: Do you guys like you like a day day?
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Speaker 4: I haven't had one.
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Speaker 8: I'm pro a day date.
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Speaker 3: That's cool, you guys, this was fun meet you jingle balla jingle on.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're with my favorite goal Kathy and season.
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Speaker 1: How are you guys. It's so good to see, so much to talk about. We're excited about tonight, my god.
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Speaker 3: Yes, and your earlier our friend Joan our the favorite Golden saying that she doesn't know any of the.
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Speaker 1: Performers and I'll double that, and I'll triple that, and yes you do, grandchild.
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Speaker 13: Little little girls, and I know the music that's.
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Speaker 1: A I know this, but we don't exactly.
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Speaker 3: Well, listen, ladies, we need you to give us some good advice for our listeners. In terms of dating. It's cuffing season. We want to talk about how you get your flirt on. So, ladies, give me either your best pickup line or the best pickup line that a guy's ever used on you.
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Speaker 1: I use eyes.
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Speaker 13: It's always you look somebody right in the.
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Speaker 10: Eyes.
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Speaker 1: I love your eyes.
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Speaker 5: I was like wow when I so, I'm trying to learn to get my feminine expression and I've heard that's the way to catch a guy.
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Speaker 1: What does that mean? What does that mean? Well that I've been told it's you know, basically, look like you're helpless.
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Speaker 5: Really, I know people are saying, Kathy, youre too You're too you can do it all yourself, you're too independent.
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Speaker 4: This is a whole other podcast that we have to But.
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Speaker 5: When I need a guy, I'm just telling you, when I meet a guy, I smile and look him in the eye, and you know there's either connection or there isn't. But everyone says, Kathy, you come across like you don't need a guy, and men need to feel needed, So you need to make him feel needed.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, like, what open the door for me? Like, well, I don't.
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Speaker 3: I do subscribe to the idea. I like when a man is the first to make the move. Yes, so that's just my I don't reach out first.
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Speaker 1: I reature on a dating app.
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Speaker 13: Have any of you ever asked the man out?
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Speaker 1: No?
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Speaker 3: No?
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Speaker 2: Never?
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Speaker 1: Never? Have you?
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Speaker 13: Yep?
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Speaker 1: And wait, would you say she's single?
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Speaker 3: No?
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Speaker 1: No? I need to hear the actual So uncomfortable.
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Speaker 13: I think it was more of a dare that somebody dared me to, and.
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Speaker 1: I feel like, will you go out with me?
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Speaker 14: Would you like to get together? Sometimes over text, her call, face to face? In person, I was beat red as loud and outspoken as I am. There's a different size, you know, feel very intimidating, vulnerable. What the hell if he says no?
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Speaker 1: Why would you? People were watching?
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Speaker 13: I did?
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Speaker 1: When gives you power?
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Speaker 4: Amen?
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Speaker 1: Sister? So you asked him and he said yes, guess what he said?
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Speaker 13: What I absolutely would. However, I'm married.
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Speaker 1: Do you mind? Yes?
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Speaker 2: I mind?
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Speaker 1: That's not going Thank.
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Speaker 2: You was nice about it exactly, and I love that he said yes at first?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, what about you guys? Your best flirty move? Like it's not it's gonna be.
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Speaker 1: It's gonna be. From our last.
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Speaker 3: Guest, Serena, Yeah, Serena said it's like definitely, and Kelly said playing with her hair.
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Speaker 5: Your hair kind of looking up shoulders and.
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Speaker 4: To jump in here.
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Speaker 15: Nobody's ever sent a drink over to a man.
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Speaker 1: Never I have.
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Speaker 5: I have never said a flirty move.
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Speaker 14: That is a flirty mord They just said thank you, and I say thank you. When somebody said it was like, no, if you were just gonna sound would you sound like.
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Speaker 13: Just they turned the shot class.
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Speaker 5: I had a man buying an enjoy that movie, which I have had a man buy me a drink before. But when I was with a couple of women and he and he sent drinks over to the table and then he kind of came over and chatted.
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Speaker 4: I think that's hot. I've met a man buying me lunch before.
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Speaker 3: Like I was sitting at Houston at the bar with a girlfriend and actually bought both of us lunch.
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Speaker 4: I saw Hi kind of staring at me across the way, and I thought that was hot.
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Speaker 3: Anybody was move I mean, I think the Flordy move was just that eye contact with you, lock guy.
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Speaker 1: That's Key.
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Speaker 14: But how about buying somebody a couple of coffee in the car behind you.
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Speaker 1: I like it too, buying somewhere a coffee. But then you pull over and get into the car.
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Speaker 2: If there's a connection that is a great falling, you could do that too. You could be like, hey, I'm see here's the thing. When you're in a drive through line, I have to get out of the car.
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Speaker 1: Looked ways. It's a woman with her two.
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Speaker 13: There's a comple and it's like, wow, the attraction.
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Speaker 4: I feel the same.
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Speaker 5: I want the guy to make the first move. Then then I'll put on the flirty moves. I'll buy him a drink, I'll do all those things. But I want the guy to show in key.
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Speaker 14: How many times have we both been told? Men say they want an independent however they don't.
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Speaker 1: They don't. I don't think that.
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Speaker 3: They don't want an independent woman. I just think in terms of like meeting the first time. I I think that that's sort of I don't know, it could be independent and yes, like what I'm saying is it's okay to be who you are. I don't think that you, you and you all are to women. But I think in terms of like meeting that first time. There's this book, the Rule.
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Speaker 1: When I meet someone for the first time, The Rules. The Rules. A book is a book.
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Speaker 2: It just kind of gives you, like an outline of like how to date.
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Speaker 4: It's really interesting. It is about this, about letting him, letting.
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Speaker 5: When I've gone out with the guy on a first date, i am, believe it or not, I will ask a lot of questions.
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Speaker 4: I think it's great because I.
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Speaker 5: Want because I do them, I want them to know that I'm interested in them. However, if they do not turn around and ask me questions, that is a red flag for me.
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Speaker 1: And I've had that happen too.
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Speaker 4: Sometimes it's their nerves.
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Speaker 14: Sometimes they're nervous, you know, but they really shouldn't talk all about themselves.
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Speaker 13: They should be interested in something.
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Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying.
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Speaker 5: That to me has always been a red flag, and I'm never been wrong yet. When I've gone out with a guy and he'll ask me a lot of questions about myself, but.
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Speaker 1: Then I'm like, no, he's interesting, he's interested.
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Speaker 5: But I've gone up with guys that I'll say, so, you know, tell me about yourself.
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Speaker 4: I think you don't think that's great.
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Speaker 3: I think it's almost like a job in re you know, they tell you to make the interview are comfortable. Your job is to make that. So I feel like that's you're making him already feel comfortable with you.
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Speaker 2: But do you feel that because you've been you know, you've been on a Bachelor, do you feel like that guy see you in a different way and they're asking you questions because you've been on it?
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Speaker 1: Because that's how I felt. I was like, why are you interviewing me about what I did?
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Speaker 5: I feel like when sometimes when guys I've had a couple of guys recently talk to me and and theoretically they're gonna ask me out, and then they let it slip that they know I was on the Bachelor, And I'm like, oh, so you're not really interested in Kathy per Se.
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Speaker 1: You're more interested in the persona that was on. That's the way they are interested when they tell me.
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Speaker 5: Then they say, well, I know you did this, this and this day about my children.
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Speaker 1: Or my you know, and I totally agree about the show.
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Speaker 2: I feel like when they start asking questions like I feel like there's like, you know, how many kids do you have? Like what you know those kind of real questions. But when they start saying like, so right did you Oh you guys went to back to wherever?
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Speaker 1: It was, like what happened there?
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Speaker 2: I feel like when they're asking questions, it's like it's like me saying like, so, how is your business meeting exactly?
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Speaker 3: Oh?
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Speaker 1: And you know I ate you up and unfound five hundred years, you've never.
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Speaker 14: Someone told me one time.
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Speaker 13: And I think it's a great opening for this. What is it you want me to know about you?
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Speaker 16: Oh?
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Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm trying, as you just said, I help answer that. What do you want to too loaded? I think on a first day that is too loaded a question? That's that really does seem like a job interview to me. When I go on a date, my goal is always to make the guy feel comfortable and want to see me for a second day.
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Speaker 1: I don't sit there.
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Speaker 2: You know It's interesting, is what you just said. Wait, and I'm not telling you how to date, but you just said that people have been saying to you that you're not giving, you're not emoting your feminine side, right, And you just said that you want them to feel comfortable. So they're going to ask you on the date like controlling it. I flirt with those amazing eyes and just have fun and let them want to be with you, versus like you saying I want to control this date because I.
00:16:32
Speaker 1: Can also really get them do.
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Speaker 3: It really being sincerely interested, like well, I love talking to people, but I want to talk about.
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Speaker 1: Us left a podcast.
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Speaker 4: Yes, right, because you're interested, I will.
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Speaker 5: Say, I very much feel. I'm from New England. I'm from outside of Boston. I am a Yankee. I'm a New England girl. We speak, our minds were more direct. I live in Texas and that is a hard because I'm not a blessed your little heart kind of girl. And I really think culturally regionally there are differences. So when I go back to the Northeast, I think that's an easier place today because people are more open.
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Speaker 3: Think those cowboys would be very drawn to you.
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Speaker 4: I'm from Houston myself.
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Speaker 5: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Anyway, Wait, Susan, tell me your best first date.
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Speaker 1: I remember mine.
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Speaker 13: It was recent. It was a year ago. Best first date, Oh the Bachelor.
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Speaker 1: We went no the guy she's St.
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Speaker 14: Martin and we went salsa dancing and he could dance, and I know I could.
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Speaker 1: He's from Saint Martin. He's French. Hell yeah, that was.
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Speaker 13: The best day.
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Speaker 14: I mean I was dripping wet with swell love it because it was.
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Speaker 13: Hot, it's humid, and we danced for hours.
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Speaker 1: So you guys met I just went to start dancing.
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Speaker 13: Well we met?
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Speaker 1: How did you?
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Speaker 13: And Kathy almost didn't let me go on that date?
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Speaker 1: And have I ranged her in a bar and place here we gone?
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Speaker 2: Well, you guys, you met him on a dating app while you in St. Martin.
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Speaker 14: Okay, yeah, Kathy and I were on a vacation for a couple of weeks and I had an espresso.
00:18:26
Speaker 13: Martine couldn't go to sleep.
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Speaker 14: We did our face wash and the night she goes up, I'm laying in bed playing games on my eye.
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Speaker 13: Patti can come to sleep.
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Speaker 8: Let me.
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Speaker 1: She goes.
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Speaker 14: Sorry.
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Speaker 1: I said, don't do this and not doing that. Don't follow our advice.
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Speaker 5: Here doesn't speak French. I have to introduce them in French. I'll translate. Don't worry, just send it to me. I will send you some amazing things to say to her man in French.
00:18:55
Speaker 1: I'm going to moor all right, I got it.
00:18:57
Speaker 2: I'll text you you guys, thank you, thank you.
00:19:02
Speaker 4: Let's do it again.
00:19:03
Speaker 13: We have a lot more thanks for having us.
00:19:07
Speaker 2: Yeah, m.
00:19:16
Speaker 1: All right, you guys.
00:19:17
Speaker 3: So we are here with the most beautiful couple that ever came out of The Bachelor, Katie and.
00:19:21
Speaker 17: Zach doing well?
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Speaker 1: How are you guys doing it?
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Speaker 4: Is?
00:19:28
Speaker 1: It can be bad?
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Speaker 16: I'm super excited. This is my first time going to it. Actually I'm excited.
00:19:34
Speaker 1: I mean too bad you guys are together.
00:19:36
Speaker 2: Because there's a lot of fun guys and girls at this event.
00:19:41
Speaker 1: I mean, it's definitely a lot of fun.
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Speaker 17: So single, if you're a single person, if.
00:19:46
Speaker 2: You're single and ready to jingle, okay, because look at this couple.
00:19:55
Speaker 3: All right. Anyway, guys, we're going to talk a little bit about dating and apparently it's something called cuffing season.
00:20:03
Speaker 17: Do you know what that is, Zach, I have learned about that. It's when you decide to settle down. I think I want Yes, I want to be with this person.
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Speaker 15: Yes, situation Sorry, producer, how they're jumping in here. Cuffing season is the time of year, the colder months, when people tend to partner up so that they have somebody to go through the holidays.
00:20:27
Speaker 1: Wow, it's kind of like a situationship.
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Speaker 15: It's kind of like your new boyfriend and new girlfriend. It could be a situationship. But cuffing season is usually between Thanksgiving and then it tends to end right before Valentine's Day for a lot of people.
00:20:43
Speaker 2: They I don't know anything, all right, right, yeah, let's get cuffed, Let's get cut all right, let's get cuffed.
00:20:49
Speaker 1: I love that.
00:20:50
Speaker 3: For instance, in terms of flirting, what's your or what was your best pickup line?
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Speaker 16: Or when you've actually I don't think Zach ever used a pickup line on me. All his personality just did it for me.
00:21:02
Speaker 3: Oh wow?
00:21:07
Speaker 2: Maybe is it like eye contact?
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Speaker 17: I mean when she came out of the limo, I looked at her eyes and God, like.
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Speaker 15: What did you say when you got out of the limo?
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Speaker 8: Please?
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Speaker 15: Okay?
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Speaker 16: So I don't think I've ever told anybody this, but so they kind of like I had the idea that I wanted to like throw football to them. They didn't really like that.
00:21:30
Speaker 1: Then they were like, you should do.
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Speaker 16: A moaning scene from what is that movie? They wanted me to reenact that, and I was so uncomfortable with it, and I actually called the producer from my hotel room. I said, I don't want to do this. I don't want to do it.
00:21:45
Speaker 1: They're like, you have to do it right.
00:21:48
Speaker 16: And anyways, last minute we were in the limo and then the producer was like, hey, we have to change that. They don't think they'd be able.
00:21:55
Speaker 1: To air it.
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Speaker 4: Thank reason, right, I know that to the.
00:22:04
Speaker 1: Right. So I just say this.
00:22:06
Speaker 2: So I said, that would have been awful because you when you smile, your eyes, your whole face like lights up like it does it does?
00:22:18
Speaker 1: It does? It was so lame.
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Speaker 16: But I came out and I was like, we have something in common, we're both from Austin, and then I'm not from Austin. I was so nervous, and I was like, we have something in This was the line I was told to say, we have something in common, we're both from Austin, and he immediately goes, I'm not from Austin and they cut that part out.
00:22:41
Speaker 1: I was like, then I panic, and I'm like, neither, wait.
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Speaker 3: A second, I'm sorry, and we're not gonna we're not gonna harp on this too much. They told you just to make something up like I'm from Austin and so what they.
00:22:52
Speaker 16: Told me, right, yeah, So it's like I panicked. Know I'm like this is production whatever. And then he immediately said that and I was like oh, and I couldn't like catch up to it. So I was just like, you know what they say, everything's bigger in Austin, and I like, look down at you said that.
00:23:12
Speaker 4: I mean it's clever taking on your feet.
00:23:17
Speaker 1: That's a lot. That's what Jen and I learned. It's called packing in the pants.
00:23:25
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's started a lot in this podcast.
00:23:29
Speaker 13: We certainly have.
00:23:31
Speaker 1: He definitely has a packaging Well.
00:23:33
Speaker 4: Listen, Kelly and I are both fifty seven.
00:23:35
Speaker 3: You're gonna have to work with actually, So if you're going to a movie, guys and you're flirting, you want to go to a flirty movie?
00:23:43
Speaker 4: Pick one?
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Speaker 17: Flirt a flirty movie.
00:23:45
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like you're gonna go.
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Speaker 3: On a date and you want to go can you do you have any movies you would suggest?
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Speaker 17: I mean, I'm a huge movie buff, but it's like for horror movies and thrillers and all that. She loves comedies.
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Speaker 2: And yeah, but you would take a girl to a horror movie on a date. But actual.
00:24:06
Speaker 17: Protect you against monsters right.
00:24:15
Speaker 15: More.
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Speaker 3: I'm actually more of a roundcom get myself, like I think nor Fron I would think would be like the greatest first thing.
00:24:22
Speaker 4: Okay, do you guys know who fron is.
00:24:28
Speaker 8: Roberts?
00:24:30
Speaker 1: Okay, what about best first date?
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Speaker 16: Okay, my best first date would be going on a sailboat sun set cruise with a glass of wine.
00:24:42
Speaker 4: I never thought about it, but that is that's.
00:24:45
Speaker 16: Like she did take me in Portugal and it was the most romantic. But that was like the epitome of what I think a first date should be.
00:24:57
Speaker 17: Romance.
00:24:58
Speaker 1: Right, you don't think that's too committed though, I it's like it sounds like a lot.
00:25:01
Speaker 16: I mean you would hope that, like when you are starting to date somebody, that they're actually intentionally dating to get married. But in this world, I feel like it's so different. But I feel like you've got to start.
00:25:11
Speaker 17: Off strung for a perfect.
00:25:18
Speaker 16: Holistic one would be.
00:25:20
Speaker 2: A good Wait, that's really what you just said. It's super loaded dating with the intention to get married. A lot of guys in New York City are just dating to dating, and so like, I feel like their dates can be like really over the top and then it goes.
00:25:34
Speaker 1: Or dating to hook up or dating. You guys get photographed. Yeah, well I don't think we answered any of your questions. We learned a lot.
00:25:49
Speaker 4: We have I know we have actually.
00:25:54
Speaker 1: No package. Don't package in your paints. Guys.
00:26:00
Speaker 4: This has been really fun, So so excited. Let's go to jingle ball.
00:26:04
Speaker 3: Are you ready to get your flirt on this holiday season? Need some help when it comes to that area of dating?
00:26:09
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