Episodes

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Sept. 2, 2026

Season 3 Finale: The Mess, The Growth, and Everything In Between.

As we wrap up Season 3 of In the Mix with Jess the Mess, we're looking back on a season filled with conversations about healing after trauma, finding love after pain, becoming someone new, and learning the power of setting healthy boundaries. The episode that became the heart of this season was my story of surviving domestic violence. Thank you to everyone who listened, shared, and reminded me why these conversations matter. Thank you for being part of this journey. I'll see you next season!
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Aug. 26, 2026

We Don't All Experience America The Same Way

This episode explores the importance of empathy, listening, and understanding diverse experiences in America. The host emphasizes that recognizing different realities fosters compassion and challenges us to listen more and judge less.
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Aug. 19, 2026

Things We Were Told As Women That Were Complete BS

In this episode, Jess explores the societal messages that have shaped women's behaviors and self-perceptions, challenging outdated beliefs and encouraging authentic self-expression.
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Aug. 12, 2026

Wit, Wanderlust and Everything Hinnah

In this episode, Jess sits down with Hinnah who shares her journey from working hard in her career to taking a leap of faith into entrepreneurship. She discusses the realities of running her own business, maintaining passion, and balancing family traditions, offering valuable insights for aspiring entrepreneurs. Hinnah shares insights on her personal life, her relationship, travel routines, faith, cultural identity, and her profession as an aesthetician. This episode offers a blend of personal s...
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Aug. 5, 2026

Who Holds The Empath Together?

Jessica shares her deep insights on the emotional toll of being an empath, the importance of boundaries, and the necessity of self-care. This episode explores how to navigate emotional exhaustion while maintaining compassion and connection.
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July 29, 2026

Getting Paid To Watch Me Work

In this episode, we explore the emotional and physical toll of over-functioning at work due to lazy or unresponsive colleagues. We discuss how to recognize these patterns, protect your energy, and create healthier boundaries to prevent burnout.
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July 22, 2026

I'm Anti-Men but Pro-Him

Jess the Mess explores the complex emotions women experience in relationships, the impact of past trauma, and how to love without projection or fear. A candid reflection on standards, healing, and the possibility of love that feels safe and genuine.
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July 15, 2026

Protecting Your Energy with Brianna

In this episode, Brianna shares her journey of embracing her authentic self at 40, transitioning from corporate life to holistic work, and balancing motherhood with her entrepreneurial spirit. We explore themes of self-discovery, energy healing, friendship, and the power of honesty.
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July 8, 2026

Loving After The Storm

This episode explores the complex emotional aftermath of leaving toxic relationships, healing from trauma, and learning to trust again. It also touches on current political issues around redistricting and representation in Jess's Mess of The Week.
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July 1, 2026

What Love Shouldn't Cost You

In this heartfelt episode, Jess shares a deeply personal story of surviving domestic violence, exploring the complexities of emotional abuse, trauma, and healing. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing abuse, understanding trauma's lasting impact, and fostering empathy for survivors.
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June 24, 2026

Vincenza: Wisdom With a Wink

Join me for an inspiring conversation with Vincenza as she shares her insights on life, relationships, self-growth, and embracing authenticity. Discover her journey of self-acceptance, her views on success, and how she navigates life's messy moments with grace and humor.
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June 17, 2026

Who You're Becoming vs. Who People Expect You To Be

Join Jess, as she explores the challenges and growth involved in evolving as a person while navigating relationships and societal expectations. The episode dives into the emotional toll, the importance of boundaries, and embracing self-identity amidst change.
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June 10, 2026

Hot Cheeto Girls: A Lifestyle, Not A Phase

Exploring the cultural phenomenon of the 'Hot Cheeto Girl' stereotype, its roots, cultural significance, and the confidence it embodies. The episode challenges stereotypes, discusses cultural appropriation, and encourages authentic self-expression.
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June 3, 2026

I chose me...finally

In this episode, Jess shares her transformative journey with GLP-1 medication, addressing weight, mental health, and societal judgments. She emphasizes self-care, understanding body biology, and the importance of self-awareness in personal growth.
May 19, 2026

Season 3 Trailer

Jess The Mess is back June 3rd!