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Dear matthew@BlastTheRadio.com A year ago I had surgery. On that day my grandmother’s clock stopped on the exact time that my grandfather passed away. I kept hearing a voice telling me to wake up and that my kids needed me. Was that my conscience speaking or was it a spirit trying to connect at that time? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Connect with Suzie at www.SingleDatingDiva.com A lot of people are so confused about if someone likes them or not. What do I say about that? Well if you know, you know. •If you are confused and not feeling so confident about it then it is your gut telling you things may not be there yet. •If someone likes you, they’ll want to get to know you (in person, in real life), they will want to speak to you and spend time with you. Their body language will be obvious. •They will also care what they l...

Dear Matthew@BlastTheRadio.com I am wondering if the new single will amount to anything or am I just having fun Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Connect with Suzie at www.SingleDatingDiva.com Winning the dating race (Keeping it slow and steady) In order to protect the longevity of a relationship, new couples should enter into the relationship slowly and get to know each other at a slower pace. •I have always said that a fire that burns fast and hot will burn out just as fast. It has happened to me and it has happened to most of you. Admit it. •Sometimes you meet someone, have instant chemistry, everything moves super fast and then BA...

Dear matthew@BlastTheRadio.com My son is job hunting. Many resumes have been sent out and he has t heard back from any. When will he find / secure a better paying job. Thanks Matthew ! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Suzie is with use Tuesdays and Thursdays and online at www.SingleDatingDiva.com Instant chemistry. The “wow factor“. Does it really matter? Well, yes and no. •Do you need chemistry to make a relationship work? I think it is important, yes. Do you need INSTANT chemistry? No, not necessarily. •The problem with the current dating environment is that people are looking for that initial spark, the WOW, the fireworks when they first meet someone. If they don’t feel it then they’ll discount the pers...

Dear matthew@BlastTheRadio.com I do not know how to get out of my situation. Need to move... rent's too high. Things are so negative in my building. My personal injury not going ahead. I feel so stuck. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dear matthew@BlastTheRadio.com I would love to know when my life will settle down ? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Connect with Ottawa's dating expert at www.SingleDatingDiva.com § So many people are in these complicated situations where they are the other women or man, they are fully aware and still continue (note that I’m speaking about secret relationships, not open ones) § Sometimes they are not even in a relationship but they still keep you secret but either way secret relationships ARE NOT romantic, neither is forbidden love, we are not 12. § While you can’t always help who you fall in love with, yo...

Your 1 or 2 sentence life questions to matthew@BlastTheRadio.com Hi Matthew, I have been listening to your broadcasts, but never lucky enough to get an answer through them. So this is my chance. Also please let me know when you will be on Air so that I know when you reply to My question; I'm very tired and mentally drained lately, do you see any health problems me ? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Your life questions to matthew@BlastTheRadio.com Hi Matthew, my husband passed in May. I was there at the hospital with him, and while the doctor was telling me the oxygen deprivation had already caused severe brain damage, and he wasn’t going to make it, I was telling him several times to open his eyes if he heard me and he opened them wide every time. I feel like they were giving up before it was time. They couldn’t keep his oxygen up, and he quietly passed while still intubated. I feel so g...

Dear matthew@BlastTheRadio.com Will surgeons be able to get rid of the chronic pain I've had the past two years and will I win the law suit against the doctor that injured me? Thanks so much in anything comes through to you on this. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What are legitimate dating excuses? Suzie The Dating Diva www.SingleDatingDiva.com § A date cancelled on you the last minute or, they just cannot be in a relationship right now because they are not ready, or, they couldn't respond to your text for several days because something happened … sound familiar? § How do you know if their excuse is legitimate or just an excuse? It is all in the intention. § Some common excuses can be: - work / life is really busy: no one is THAT busy, people make time...

Matthew, My question is if this new guy I’m seeing is my forever person? We have both had dreams about each other for the last 6 months and didn’t say anything because I was in another relationship! Thanks!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Suzie is online @ www.SingleDatingDiva.com § Do they make you melt like butter on a hot day? Or maybe give you sunstroke? Either way, you are giving away your power and control if they make you weak in the knees. § I get it, the chemistry is unbelievable. The energy is electric. Butterflies in your stomach are out of control. You are feeling a little hot, perhaps even a little faint. You think, "this THIS is what I've been waiting for all my life!" This MUST be my soul mate! Nope. § The rush ...

Does a spirit have the ability to make a Romba vacuum come on in the middle of the night? Send your question to matthew@BlastTheRadio.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today, Matthew Stapley, the 60 Second Psychic guides a listener with a question about her retirement! www.MatthewStapley.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dear Matthew. I have a friend who I've known since high school. We've always been just friends. A few days ago she sent me a nude photo of herself. Moments later she texted me to say that she meant to send it to someone else. Like I said, we're just friends. We've always been just friends. But now I'm really uncomfortable even messaging her and can't imagine even seeing her face to face. This is so awkward. How do I get past this? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Your questions to matthew@BlastTheRadio.com Dear Matthew, My kids are back in school as of this week and I'm not coping well. I miss having them here, and having them away from me during Covid is making my very anxious. I'm home alone all day and all I do is worry about them. What can I do to calm my mind? Am I being unreasonable? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Connect with Suzie at www.SingleDatingDiva.com •When you are dating digitally, online dating, you should always remember the “stranger danger” rule … essentially, everyone you meet online is a stranger that you know nothing about other than what they tell you, which could be a lie. So safety first! •That being said, you do need to have fun with it and put your best self out there in order to date competitively. •In your dating profile, for instance, it is good to talk about what makes you sta...

Dear Matthew, I love my job and I know I'm lucky to have a job right now. But... My company just posted a recruitment ad looking for more people to work here. And they're offering more than I currently make. What do I do? matthew@BlastTheRadio.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Up YOUR dating game! Suzie is online at www.SingleDatingDiva.com TODAY: •If you are unhappy where you are at, then you need to switch your gears and shift your perspective. You need to change your narrative. •We’ve heard before: change your story, change your life •First, you need to let go of past hurts, hang-ups and attachments. Release your baggage because it is holding you down. This will allow you to more easily let go of any negative self talk that limits you (I’m unattractive, I’m too...

Your questions to matthew@BlastTheRadio.com Greetings Matthew, I was with a partner for over 3 years and we recently broke up a few months ago. I was ok with it for the longest time as they didn’t want anymore relationships. We still live in the same house, but each have our own rooms. They still own the house. I have 3 spaces to be able to do as I please in accept have guests for sexytime. In the last few weeks, they have met a “Friend” and said it would be nothing but friends. They are spendi...

Your questions for Matthew to matthew@BlastTheRadio.com Dear Matthew, My mother passed away a while back and now we are helping my dad downsize and move into an apartment. While I was in his basement last weekend I found several large boxes filled with pornographic magazines. I had no idea about this side of my father and am wondering if I should talk to him about it or leave it be. Do we move these boxes or no? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.