Episodes

May 26, 2021

Rules for Getting Engaged: Don’t Let A Man Brand You

Branding can have serious consequences on your ability to meet the right person. Find out what it is & how to avoid it in this episode
May 19, 2021

Two things every woman needs to see the things she wants show up in her life.

How do you feel about your future? Are you optimistic? What about your past? Do you feel like it hinders you in any way or do you know that you have unlimited potential? Regardless of what your life has looked like or looks like now- you can absolutely have everything you want. This episode gives an introduction in the ‘how’.
May 12, 2021

Make Him Your Friend. You’ll Need His Advice.

Every girl needs a bestie that’s a guy. I’m talking about Jesus. As a single woman you cannot afford to navigate relationships without a close friendship with Jesus Christ. Think about it. He alone knows your future. He knows the ins and outs about the guy you are interested in. He knows what’s best for you He loves you more than anyone else ever will. So much so that He died for you to spend eternity with Him. So, don’t lock Him out of your relationships. Seek Him first before you start...
May 5, 2021

Don’t get divorced before you get married!

Set yourself up to enjoy a peaceful marriage that brings out the very best in you. I tell you a few things to do in this episode to make sure that happens. P. S. ( I forgot to put this in) : I mention in this episode that if you sleep with a man before marriage you lose some of your ‘power’ because you are no longer a mystery to him. For most women the only way they get this back is to withhold sex. I want to make sure you understand that I am in no way condoning pre-marital sex or suggesting ...
April 28, 2021

10 Things to Ask Yourself About Him

So you met a man. He likes you and you think you might like him. But you’ve been down this road before. There are some men you’ve liked in the past that turned out to be total nightmares. How do you protect yourself from that trauma again? #1- Until he gives you a ring and you have a wedding date-keep dating other people! This protects you from getting attached & potentially wasting months or years with Mr. Wrong. This also allows you to think clearly without your mind being in a ‘love fog...
April 21, 2021

Rules for getting engaged: 5 ways to show him that you respect yourself

Respect is earned. Every day we send subtle messages and clues to others that show them how to treat us. Could you be sending messages to men that you never intended to? Find out in today’s episode.
April 14, 2021

The First Years: Get Him to Open Up-Train your Tongue for Marriage

Men don’t talk. You will find that having a ‘deep’ conversation with a man about his emotions or something he holds sacred is rare. Even after marriage. But there is a way to get a man to open up. There are things you can do to train your tongue so that your future husband feels ‘safe’ to express himself emotionally to you. Effective communication is a skill that will give you HUGE rewards if you master it before you say ‘I do’. New Living Translation Her husband can trust her, and she wil...
April 7, 2021

Why you need to be careful with online international dating

It’s true that there are exceptions to every rule. Unfortunately, too many times as women we believe that our case will be the exception. There are many cases of women being used & mistreated through international online dating. some were swindled out of thousands of dollars or more by men claiming to love them some were used as a cover up of a crime they knew nothing about & ended up serving time in jail some married men that claimed to love them but only wanted to live legally in their co...
March 31, 2021

The First Years: The one skill your husband won’t have

The First Years is a series that gets you ready to thrive in your marriage. There’s no greater thing you can do for your future marriage than by being knowledgeable and prepared. The first 3-4 years of marriage are a challenge for most couples, yours doesn’t have to be. Learn all you need to know now to have a blissful home.
March 24, 2021

Why How Much A Man Makes Doesn’t Matter.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to marry a successful man especially if you are older & have achieved some things in life. However, be careful about making it the most important thing on the list. His devotion to God should be foremost. You can have a msn that is both successful and Godly but he may be in seed form when you meet him. What should you look for then? Find out on this episode.
March 17, 2021

Interview with a bachelor: Meet Jeremiah a southern gentleman, business owner & single dad with a great sense of humor.

There are great Christian men out there. I do the ‘Interview with a bachelor’ series to encourage single women to not settle. There are no perfect men. But there are men that share your values, and will do their best to respect you and love you like Jesus. Jeremiah is one of such men. In this episode he gives some candid advice for single women on how to attract a good man. Side note: OMG I can’t stand my laugh 🤦🏽‍♀️. Please, is there a laugh school I can attend?
March 10, 2021

What to do with a broken heart

God never intended for you to go from relationship to relationship until you find the right one. He never intended for you to suffer a series of broken hearts 💔 until one great guy comes to sweep you off your feet. Do you know the Bible never mentions dating? It talks about courtship. Two people intending to get married. Which is why I teach to have multiple male friends at the same time until one stands out as ‘the one.’ Imagine if, in your last relationship that didn’t work out, you had re...
March 3, 2021

3 Advantages of Being a Single Woman Where the Women Outnumber the Men

I live in the Atlanta area. There are a lot more single women than single men! If you live in an area like that, realize that it isn’t something that should concern you the least bit. First of all, think about it. Which do you think 🤔 is harder for God? 1. Giving you his only son Jesus to die a brutal death on the cross for your sins & give you eternal life. 2. Giving you a husband. Uhhhh 🙄 giving you a husband is not a hard thing for God. At all. It doesn’t take God anything to relocate yo...
Feb. 24, 2021

Rules for Getting Engaged: Phone Etiquette

What does How often you talk to a guy How long you talk to him If you give him your number or take his have to do with getting engaged? There are subtle things that women can do to keep a man interested longer and with more intensity, thus ultimately leading to engagement. Phone etiquette is one of them. This episode is not based on theory. Myself & countless women I know have tried what I teach in it and have the results ( and rings! ) to prove it. Try it for yourself.
Feb. 17, 2021

3 Signs That He’s Not That Into You.

Relationships can be confusing. Even more confusing is when you aren’t sure if you’re even in a relationship. Do they like you? Sometimes it seems like they do & sometimes it doesn’t. Are you making it all up in your head that there’s something there when he hasn’t actually said that there is? This episode will help you navigate those questions and determine if it’s time to move on. Any man that is ‘not that into you’ doesn’t deserve your precious time or attention. ❤️
Jan. 6, 2021

Listener Spotlight- HELP, the men aren't coming !!

In today's episode I give candid advice to a beautiful, intelligent, single woman that is having problems meeting men. Do you have a question, you'd like me to answer anonymously? Click HERE to send me a voice message and your question could be featured on the Husband Factory podcast. If you'd like to schedule a 20 min consult with me, please do it HERE. Thank you for listening and I really look forward to connecting with you!
Dec. 30, 2020

Chemistry is FAKE!

Yes, I said it. Yes, it's true. This year, resolve to not be moved by what you see or feel. Not everything (or every one) is as it seems and not every emotion is to your benefit. You owe it to yourself to gaurd your heart to avoid future unnecessary pain. Love you!
Dec. 22, 2020

Live your life by DESIGN not by DEFAULT.

Pretend today is December 31st, 2021 & it was your best year ever! What specific things would have to happen in the following areas of your life for you to say that? 1. Spiritual 2. Social 3. Career 4. Money 5. Fun -Don’t skip this one. It matters 6. Intellectual 7. Family 8. Legacy- ( your purpose, ministry, burden or assignment that is bigger than you. What do you want to be remembered for when you die) 9. Health Once you’ve written what your ideal year looks like in each category. Come up ...
Dec. 15, 2020

How to answer nosy family members during the holidays

How do you tell well-meaning family members to stop asking you about your love life? With a lot of respect and finesse! P.S. If you love listening to this podcast please write a review. By doing that, you help the podcast become more visible to others.
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Dec. 8, 2020

6 things I’ve Learned in 6 Years of Marriage

I had just celebrated my wedding anniversary at the time of this recording . It’s been an amazing 😍 6 years! God has been good to us and we are so grateful for His leading. Did you know that the Holy Spirit will talk to you about your spouse,? He will hep you understand them and will show you how to love and respect them. Simply amazing. But you have a part to play too. You have to educate yourself on What it means to be a good wife What God is going to be grading you on as a wife How to...
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Dec. 1, 2020

Don’t date devils- Felicia’s story

Don’t ignore warning signs ⚠️ ⛔️ ! The goal is not to be married. The goal is to be HAPPILY married. Listen to Felicia’s true story and see how to avoid the mistakes she made.
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Nov. 24, 2020

Rules for getting engaged- The day you cook for him is the day you lose him.

“The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” WRONG At least, not the kind of man you want to build a beautiful marriage and legacy with. The day you start cooking for a man is the day you start losing him. Find out why in this episode.
Nov. 17, 2020

Bad Boys- and the Good Girls That Love Them.

There are women who, if you asked them on a Saturday night , couldn’t tell you where their husbands are. There are women that periodically get calls from the county jail that they have picked up their husband. There are women that hoped everything that their family and friends warned them about would not happen only to discover that they were right all along about him . There are women whose husbands provide financially but are shut off emotionally. They live elaborate but lonely lives. My d...
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Nov. 10, 2020

Marriage Myths: You are waiting on God for a husband

Listen to this episode to find out why you should NOT be “waiting on God” for a husband. Scripture References He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord.- Proverbs 18:23 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all--how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things- Romans 8:32 But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are heale...