Episodes

The other day I heard a story of a man that strung a woman along for 10 years. He kept promising they would get married & that things would change but it never happened. Finally, out of frustration she left him. Good for her.......but she had given 10 years to an unhappy relationship. Most times, women stay in such situations because they feel they've already invested so much time into the relationship. It's hard to let go of something familiar even if its hurting you. We tell ourselves: ...

Darling, You need to keep a running reject list going. There are men that you don't have to entertain or give a second chance to. There are things that they do that should land them in "dating jail" and on your reject list. When you meet one of them: Do not stop for gas Do not stop for ice-cream Do not stop to explain Put them on the reject list and keep moving. Life is short. You don't have even a second to waste with the wrong man. Love you!

Marriage is fun, exciting and really enjoyable. But the first few years of marriage can be challenging for many people. It takes skill, maturity and a whole lot of JESUS. The better prepared you are, the better chance you have of experiencing Heaven on Earth in my marriage. Kettelye shares the secrets that helped her own marriage thrive in it's first year and beyond. follow her on instagram @kettelye.marie

The God of the universe is a BIG God, that does BIG things and loves you in a BIG way. Never doubt that. But when you think about the utterly powerful things that He does, like creating galaxies, there may be a part of you that is stumped as to why you aren’t married yet. There is not a one -size-fits-all answer to this question but I give you 3 things to think about in this episode . One other factor that should be mentioned is: stop wasting time with men that aren’t ready for marriage. Yo...

There's nothing like a man that loves Jesus. They just love different. Maybe because they've been touched by the author of love Himself. The genuine care, the respect, the way they push you towards your goals ............. If you meet a man that is crazy about Jesus, you have hit the jackpot ,my dear. Even if they don't know the right thing to do, because they are connected to God, the source of wisdom they will learn. Cameron is a kind, genuine, fun-loving man that serves God with reckles...

I wanted to interview a newly married man today like I said in my last episode but we couldn't get our schedules synched. Hope to interview him soon. If you've ever asked yourself why men do some of the confusing things they do then you are going to love this episode. I hope it helps you decipher some of the things they do and more importantly helps you to make decisions in your own favor. Would love to meet you live at the Powerful Purity conference. Register here

The decisions you've made in relationships so far is what has gotten you where you currently are in your relationships today. Purity has to be intentional. This episode will show you one decision I made to change my relationships that led me to my dream guy. Register to the Powerful Purity conference

When you sleep with a man you aren't married to, your anointing leaks out. That glory of God that is resting on your life to take you to unspeakable heights slowly begins to waste away. You lose your virtue. You lose your confidence and inner power. You lose clarity and vision. You stop dreaming impossible dreams. You are a queen that should be occupying your throne not a slave girl whose life is controlled by others. No one should be convinced of your value more than you. Jesus paid t...

Don't let anyone lie to you, All sex outside of marriage is bad. A man the commits fornication with you is an adulterer in training. Harsh words? Well, think about it. If he can't control himself while he's single, will he "magically" learn to control himself when he gets married? God's rules and boundaries are for your protection. Every time. You deserve more so wait for better. There is a godly man out there that would never ask you to compromise your standards or God's laws. Make roo...

How Soul Ties are Formed 1. By spending a lot of time with someone 2. By making vows, commitments & promises 3. By sexual intercourse (the first 2 explain how it’s possible to have a godly soul tie with a friend for e.g. David & Jonathan in the Bible ) And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. - 1 Samuel 18:1 Prayer of Salvation: The first step to getting free is making Je...

There are women who have had sex for the first time & ended up with HIV. There are women who casually slept with a man only to notice later that they started having uncontrollable lust & other attitudes & feelings they never had before. There are women who have been intimate with a man that was obviously just using them but they can’t seem to get over him. Sex is not JUST sex. There’s so much more to it than that. This episode will show you just how powerful it really is & what you need to d...

Ciara is a rare gem. She is hard working, confident, loyal and always striving for more. She’s one of those people that if she’s in your corner- your blessed. She is constantly sharing the Husband Factory podcast on her page & telling me how much it has blessed her that I had to have her on. She lives in Atlanta where most single women are having an awful experience. Ciara, on the other hand, is just loving life , meeting great guys & having a good time. Listen to find out her secret.

Meet Kemi, a listener that sent me a voicemail using Speakpipe. You can send me one as well using this link: https://www.speakpipe.com/husbandfactory She needed some advice about her relationship. There’s so much all of us can learn from her story. Listen in. I have a workshop coming up. I would love for you to join me. Register for it here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-power-of-being-a-lady-tickets-169892550191

To be more exact: open your heart to these five TYPE of men. I started this podcast because I made A LOT of mistakes as a single woman. One of them was that I thought I had time. I let men waste my time & I wasted my own time because I still felt & looked youngish. ( the picture on my podcast cover art was taken when I was 40) As a result, I didn’t get married until I was 35. My husband is amazing 🤩 but getting married later has its challenges especially when it comes to fertility. God loves...

So, you love how he takes charge of every situation. You admire his decisiveness and independence. His confidence and the way he carries himself is intoxicating. (screeeeeeech) Put on the brakes for a minute girlfriend and make sure that he's not a runaway train. Don't misunderstand me, even men that are not so sure of themselves can be runaway trains. So why should you look for that? It's the one aspect that can make or break your relationship. It also provides safety to you as a wife. ...

Tyler Perry produced a movie called “Why did I get married?” In it, several couples face difficulties in their marriages that force them to come to terms with the real foundations their marriages were buit on. In this episode, I tell you about Debra a young woman who got married for the wrong reason & ended up with someone that nearly killed her. Why do you want to get married? Some women get married because Their biological clock has gone from ticking & is about to explode Their friends ar...

The "M" word is not Methuselah 😂😂 There's a word you never, ever want to mention to a man when you are single. It can prove to be detrimental, to say the least, and can definitely affect your chances of getting that big ring sooner than later. Have no fear, Auntie Makeda is here to help you know how to work it.

So, we know the relationship you have with Jesus is the most important relationship you will ever have.... So what's the second most important one? Find out in this episode. This relationship will determine your level of happiness, your quality of life, and how successful your marriage is.

Imagine having a relationship that brings out the best in you. That adds value to your life without any negative emotions. Most times those kind of relationships only happen when we are prepared for them. In this episode I talk about a sign that you might not be ready for one. If you’re not, it’s ok. It’s better to take the time to be ready than to enter into something that you might regret for years to come. Check out my 10 affirmations for single women here: https://husbandfactory.com//ne...

If you’ve never been married, by the time you hit 30 you start asking yourself & God some questions. You become more aware of your body changing , your responsibilities increasing & your future calling. It’s an amazing time & it should be enjoyed to the the fullest! Don’t worry about getting ‘too old’ for Mr. Right. Kourtney tells you why.

Many women are afraid of getting married. It’s easy to see why: 1. In the US more people get divorced than stay married. 2. The media paints a picture that marriage is a casual thing that is easy to go in and out of & that divorce has no painful consequences 3. Many people don’t have role models of happy, thriving marriages. You don’t have to be afraid to get married. You don’t have to wonder if your marriage will turn out good. This episode tells you why.

Do you have a soul mate? One perfect person out there that’s the ying to your yang.... That’s the coffee to your tea... That is the only person you should or can marry...?? The answer might surprise you !

Men love independent women. They respect women that take care of themselves & their lives. Don’t ever put yourself in a position where a man feels like you’re indebted to him. It will backfire. After you are married, you can let him take care of you but not before! Find out why in today’s episode.

If someone wants to leave you, the best thing you can do is help them to leave even faster. I give you 3 reasons in today’s episode Email me at thehusbandfactory@gmail.com I’d love to hear from you!