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Older Teens Episodes

Parenting Teens Through Love & Heartbreak: What we do wrong and what helps
March 31, 2026

Parenting Teens Through Love & Heartbreak: What we do wrong and what helps

Ask Rachel anything When parenting teens through their first experience of love and attraction it can bring up a lot of feelings we thought we'd neatly packed away; the intensity of that first crush, the humiliation of not being chosen, the heartbreak that felt like it would swallow us whole. As a parent trying to support our kids through it can be tricky because our teens’ first love stories can collide with our own unfinished ones. In this episode of Teenagers Untangled, I’m joined by…

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Parenting teens through failure and on to university
March 24, 2026

Parenting teens through failure and on to university

Ask Rachel anything A listener parenting a teen son wrote to say both of them felt pretty stunned when he was rejected from the university he'd set his heart on. She asked for the best way to help our teenagers cope with this sort of disappointment. I thought it was a great question and a good opportunity to also look at how we parents can best navigate when our teen has worked for years toward a dream - a top university place, exam results, a team, a part - and it doesn’t happen. The d…

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Cutting it as a parent? Parenting teens as a surgeon, author and mother of four with Gabriel Weston
March 10, 2026

Cutting it as a parent? Parenting teens as a surgeon, author and mother of four with Gabriel Weston

Ask Rachel anything If you’ve ever lain awake at night wondering whether you’re getting this parenting thing horribly wrong, you need to hear this conversation with surgeon and author Gabriel Weston. Gabriel is a mother of four – including tween twins – a prize‑winning writer and a working surgeon. She talks with disarming honesty about: How she parents without pretending to be endlessly patient or perfectWhy it’s okay to have limits to how much joy you get from parentingThe very real ways s…

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