Gloria Battini on Mediumship, Grief & Healing

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Hello, and welcome to the Call Her Cat podcast, where we share honest stories of resilience

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Today we welcome Gloria Bettini.

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Gloria is a spiritual medium, consciousness mentor, and a multi-dimensional guide, a woman

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on a mission to help people come home to themselves and step into an expanded future, blending

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astrology, energy healing, and intuitive work.

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She supports deep personal transformation, embodied self-mastery, and soul-led living

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grounded in both science and spirituality.

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Please welcome Gloria.

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Hi, Gloria.

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Hello, Cat.

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Thank you for having me.

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I'm excited to be here.

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Thank you for being here.

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So could you start by telling us a little bit about your journey, perhaps how you knew

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this was your calling?

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I did not know this was my calling.

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I did not know this was my calling.

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Well, well, here's the thing.

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I've always felt attracted to these things.

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Like I've always felt attracted to everything that we cannot see.

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I was always fascinated by the power of the mind, like what our mind can do, what we can

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do as human beings.

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I always had this, I didn't, you know, when I was young, I didn't have the words, you

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know, to describe this, but I've always had this, I don't know, inner knowing, call it.

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There was so much more than what I was being shown, you know, or that what I was being

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taught.

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However, when I was approaching things like, for example, astrology, you know, it's one

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of the things that I do it and I'm passionate about.

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I was always like shut down, you know, or even tarot.

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I was shut down.

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Like, you know, there was there was part of my family that, you know, like, for example,

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my mom, she was, you know, would approach these things, but as if it was something shameful

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and something to keep secret.

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So I never actually felt that it was okay for me to even go there, you know.

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And this is when I was really young.

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And then I've had some experiences when I was young, where I was bullied a lot, where

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I, well, a lot of stuff that has created a disconnection from myself.

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And then at the age of 18, I met the person that became my husband, who is now ex.

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And I started a 15 year long relationship, toxic relationship.

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There was a lot of mental and emotional abuse, but I had no idea.

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I had no idea of what was happening.

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I was deep into, you know, in OCD.

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I had high functioning anxiety, like there was a lot of, I was very disconnected, very,

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very disconnected.

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And I got to one point where I said, I really need to do something about this because I

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do not know where I'm going to go from here.

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I have no idea, like there's something needs to change, because otherwise I really don't

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know what's going to happen.

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And so I started working with a coach who helped me with the OCD and the anxiety.

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And as I started to free my mind from those things, I started to have space, have space

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more for like myself, have space more for, you know, seeing the things that I wasn't

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seeing for such a long time.

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And then I started also seeing the person that I was with as who they actually were,

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you know.

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And then I went on a trip with my ex-husband, actually.

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I went, we went on a trip to the US and we went to visit, amongst, you know, other places,

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we went to visit Monument Valley.

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I don't know if you've been, but it's a very, it's Navajo land, it's sacred land.

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It's in Arizona and it is very, very spiritually charged.

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And when I got there, I was, I was fortunate enough to be able to do a private tour of

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the valley.

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And I did that with a Navajo guide who took us, you know, very deep in the valley and

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stuff.

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So anyway, so go to this place where you sit on a rock and you've got like the whole valley

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in front of you and it's so big and it's so vast.

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And I literally sat there and I had this moment of awakening where something was like,

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this is wrong.

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Like whatever is happening in your life, this is not it.

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You know, like this, this isn't your life, this isn't it.

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And also at the same time, my problems became, like felt really insignificant.

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I felt very insignificant in front of like such a spiritually sacred, you know, land,

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spiritually charged space.

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I was like, I am nothing, I am absolutely nothing, like whatever is going on in my head.

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I mean, look at this, there's so much more, you know, there's so much more out there.

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And so I made a promise, I made a promise to myself, I said that I wasn't going to lie

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to myself anymore.

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And then since we then got back from that trip, I started this journey back to myself,

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which had started already like a year before with the coaching and, you know, the healing

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of the OCD and the anxiety.

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But then that was more intentional, I feel like.

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I feel like that gave me the understanding of what I needed to do and I needed to take

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care of my body.

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I needed to do what I wanted and really open my eyes to what my relationship was and what

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situation I was in.

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And then fast forward about eight months, I was like, okay, I'm ready.

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I need to go.

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This is not my life.

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This is so not my life.

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And so I left, I left the relationship and I went to live on my own for a few months.

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And then I met my current partner and my new life, like, you know, from the moment

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I left, my new life started.

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And then I met my current partner and it's a whole different story.

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Now what happened there is that I, even when I left this relationship, I had no, I had

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no idea of all of this either, like I still had no clue.

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I still was, I still would have had, I still had another, I would say two years before

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I opened up to all of this, two, two and a half years before I opened up to this.

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What I did know is that I did not want to be in corporate anymore.

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I did not want to have an office job anymore.

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I did not, I didn't want any of this anymore.

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And coaching had changed my life so much that I thought, oh my God, I want to help so many

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women who are in my situation.

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I want to help them.

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So I trained as a coach and I started working with women that were recovering from narcissistic

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abuse and toxic relationships.

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And I did that for a while, but, and it felt like very good and very fulfilling, but I

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still felt like it wasn't me.

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And then I went to see a spiritual coach and she did like a breathing for me and she told

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me that I had lots of spirits around me.

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And I said to her, I know.

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I said, but isn't that like, but that's normal.

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And she's like, it is, but it's not necessarily obvious to be aware of the fact that they're

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there.

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And I'm like, okay, because I felt this like my whole life.

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I just thought this is what, this is everybody's experience.

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I just felt like it was something that needed to be kept secret.

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You know, I just didn't, you know, but I just assumed that's what everybody has.

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And she's like, not necessarily, like we all have them, but she's like, not necessarily

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everyone has the awareness of it.

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So evident.

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And she's like, if I were you, I would look into that and what you can do to maybe understand

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how you can work with that.

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And so I set an intention that year.

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I set an intention.

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It was like close to near to new year.

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So I set like a, like a new year, not resolution, but wish more, you know, like a new year wish

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where I said, I would like to find my mentor and find somebody who helps me understand

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this.

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And then in February I found her literally like so quick.

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And then I started working with this person and I trained and decided, okay, now I understand

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it.

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Now I want to be able to do that.

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I feel like this is my calling.

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This is what I'm meant to be doing because it felt like so home.

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And then when I understood how to interact with it and how to utilize it, there was no

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doubt in my heart that this was it.

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But it was a very long road to get there for sure.

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Was there, was there a fear of, of judgment from those around you?

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Because most, a lot of mainstream society views death as final, you know, that there's

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nothing after this, the spirits don't comfort us, angels, a lot of people don't believe

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in that.

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Was there a fear on your part to really pursue this gift?

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You know what, um, no.

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And I tell you why, because I feel like the years before had prepared me to not stop myself

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in front of this.

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So in the year prior, I had to learn a lot of boundaries and I had to learn what I value

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and whose opinion I value and who I share things with.

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And so when I got to that point, I was like, I don't even need to share this with people

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that I know are not going to understand.

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It's not important to me.

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What is important is that I know that this is happening.

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I know that this is my mission and my purpose.

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And I bring it to the people that are open to it, full stop.

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What everybody, you know, anybody else is going to say, I'm not here to convince anyone.

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This is the thing.

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I'm not here to convince anyone.

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I'm not, that's, that's not the point.

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If somebody doesn't, doesn't believe it, doesn't want it, I'm like, you know, I'm not,

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I'm not here to try and force you into anything at all, you know.

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And so I have people in my life that I have people in my life that completely don't resonate

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with this and I just don't share it.

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And I just choose to like protect my energy and, um, and just share it with the people

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who see it.

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And that's it.

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So would you say that mediumship, um, actively creates like a bridge?

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Yes.

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That'd be an accurate.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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Between the two worlds.

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Yeah.

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Um, yeah.

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I feel like mediumship, but you know what, you know what?

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I feel like the medium is the bridge.

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You know what mediumship is?

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Um, it's a language.

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Okay.

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It's a language, which in a way language is a bridge.

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Um, but I feel like this is what I do when I teach it to my students.

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So the, you know, we are in this physical world and we have a body and we can utilize

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our voice.

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We can speak to each other.

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Okay.

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And even if we don't have that, we can learn, you know, sign language and all of that to

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communicate, um, in a language.

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But the thing is to the souls that are no longer in a physical body, and I'm not even

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going to say that they are on the other side because there's no other side.

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What is my understanding is that we're all at the same place.

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We are just vibrating at different frequencies.

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And so therefore some of us have a physical body, some of us don't.

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And so what they don't have is the, is the voice, the audible, you know what I mean?

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Like the voice to speak as we are speaking now.

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And so we are the lucky ones because we can learn the language, which is the language

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of energy.

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And so that's, that's literally all we need.

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It's speaking the language of energy.

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And once we learn the language of energy, mediumship, you know, mediumship abilities,

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they are not a gift.

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They are really not a gift.

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Um, everyone can do this.

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It is just your intuition.

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It's just training yourself to, to use your intuitive abilities, which you already have

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naturally.

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It's not, you know, you've not been chosen.

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It's not like, it's not a gift.

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It's not, it's not something that's extraordinary.

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It's just literally every single one of us is born with an intuition and, you know, in

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the same way that if you go to the gym long enough, you're going to get a six pack.

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If you have intuitive abilities enough, you get to do this, you know, it's like a no brainer.

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It's like, this is just how it works, you know?

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And so it's not that it's a specific gift.

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I feel like what the gift is, is the way that each person does it.

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The gift is how the medium speaks it, but it's simply a gift because they utilize their

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own imprint, you know, their, their own thing into that.

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But the doing it, that's not the gift at all.

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Now with, with anything, there's, there's limitations and boundaries.

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Are there, what are some of the limitations and boundaries with mediumship, either with

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you or with the spirits?

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Like what can you receive?

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What will come through?

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What won't, because I, some people may come to you and ask what big, big answers to big

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questions.

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They're looking for something specific and they don't get it.

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Yeah.

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I don't necessarily see it that way because we all read in different, in different ways,

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you know, there are so many mediums out there that are so specific, for example, with names

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and dates and stuff like that.

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And some other mediums that are more specific with memories, for example, right?

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That's the gift, right?

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That's, that's the, that's the, how you do it.

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I don't think, pardon me.

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I don't think that there are specific limitations as long as, as a medium, you don't, you don't

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put yourself inside of the reading.

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So your job as a medium is to forget yourself, yeah, is to completely forget yourself and

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not interpret the question, not, not interpret the answer that comes.

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Just simply be this bridge, this medium, literally in between two parties that says, this is

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the question.

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This is the answer.

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That's it.

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So what we do is very often get caught up in our head and try to interpret things and

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try to be like, Oh, this is not what it is.

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This is not, that's a mistake.

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You gotta, we gotta forget ourselves as mediums completely.

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We are in 100% in service to the people that we're connecting, you know, to the spirit

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and to the person.

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So with that, no, there's no limitations.

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Absolutely.

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Unless you create them.

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Are there, are there, is there, I'm kind of curious, is there a way you have to protect

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yourself during sessions?

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Cause I imagine they can get pretty emotionally charged sometimes.

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Yeah, absolutely.

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Yes.

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So this is, it's not necessarily just during a session.

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This is everyday work.

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Energy boundaries and energy protection.

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Yes, absolutely.

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Every day you want to be very intentional of how open you stay and how it affects your

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life.

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You have to be very, very, you have to have solid boundaries a hundred percent and make

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sure that you cleanse your energy, make sure that you put yourself first, make sure that

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if you're not in the, in the right energy to do a reading, you explain it and you say,

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I'm not in the right energy to do a reading.

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To me, it all comes down to service.

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So when I do it, I put myself in the best possible situation to be able to do the reading.

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Does that make sense?

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So there's a day to day care that needs to happen.

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And there's like, you know, I live a very solitary life.

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I live a very solitary life and I love it because I do need a lot of space for myself

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and because I'm constantly connecting, I do readings, I teach, I host loads of online

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events and that sort of stuff.

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So the time that I am not working, I love being on my own.

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Like it has to be recharging, you know, or sometimes unfortunately where life is like,

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oh, but what about this?

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And what about that?

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So you have to have the boundary to be like, no, I'm sorry, I can't, you know, we get so

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caught up sometimes in like people pleasing that we want to be available to everyone.

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We want to be available.

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We're going to be, oh, but this person is going to get offended if this person says,

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I'm sorry.

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No.

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Like what is your purpose?

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That's the most important thing, you know, and you owe it to your gift and to the people

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that you're serving to put yourself and to look after yourself at best.

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Yeah.

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No, that's important because I remember when I went to go see a medium, I remember her

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cleaning the space before I came in, cleansing her energy.

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And one thing that she did, she mentioned, because she gives mediumship classes as well,

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is that she said after each session, she would ask the spirits if she served them well.

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Yeah.

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You know, and which I thought was a beautiful, like exchange in a way to end it.

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Now when people come to you and they're grieving, how would you, how would you first explain

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to someone what to expect in a session when they come to you?

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They're trying to connect with a loved one and say, maybe the grief is complicated.

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Yeah.

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Um, I always reassure them that we don't have to go anywhere that they don't want to go.

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We don't have to ask anything that they don't want to ask.

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We don't have to, you know, we don't have to continue if they don't feel comfortable

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in continuing.

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Like it's, it's, this is, this is, they are, uh, on the driving seat.

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They are in the driving seat of all of this, you know, and the thing is that the spirit,

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it's gonna, it's gonna respect that.

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It's not gonna push.

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It's not, you know what I mean?

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And also I do this, I literally have my eyes closed and I always say to them, if you feel

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like you want to cry or anything, just, you know, remember that I'm not even seeing you.

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I just, you know, feel free, I'm not, I'm not seeing any of this.

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And, um, but, you know, sometimes, um, I never had anybody actually, even, even people who

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were really, you know, grieving, um, and had complicated grief.

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Nobody has ever stopped me, you know?

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Um, I never had that actually.

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They were all very curious and very receptive.

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Um, yeah, I do, the way that I do it though, which, which is probably why, um, I really

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I'm, I'm really, I'm a really curious person, can't, I ask loads of questions, ask loads

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of questions, um, and to the spirits.

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And so it's literally like, I'm having tea with them.

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Maybe that helps lower the pressure for the person, maybe, that it's, that it doesn't

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feel like this, uh, like you're summoning, you know, something, you know, like it feels

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actually like very natural and very casual in the way that it's happening.

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And so I feel like maybe a lot of people feel like it's going to be way worse because maybe

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they don't know what to expect.

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And then when they get into that, they're like, Oh, okay.

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Yeah.

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This is not too bad.

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You know, this is actually fine.

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Nothing bad is happening here.

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You know, when you're sitting down and you're connecting with the spirits, if more than

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one should want to come through to speak to this person, how do you balance that out?

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So you're not, cause I can imagine that can get kind of a lot when you have more than

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one message coming into you at a time.

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Yeah.

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Um, I let the client hold the boundary there.

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So some clients tell me straight away at the beginning of the session, I am open to hear

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from anyone who would like to come through.

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And so at that point, if I sense that there's more than one spirit, I tell them and I say,

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Oh, I have this person and this person and this person, are you okay to speak to all

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of them?

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Or do we want to, and I always ask them to prioritize who is more important.

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Who do you want to, who do you feel like you want to speak to more?

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And so I let them lead.

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Um, otherwise, uh, like, so I let them lead in that way, but more often than not, they,

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um, come to me and say, I want to speak to this person.

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So if they just say one person, I, that's what I do.

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I just go through one person.

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So I let them, I let them lead.

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Yeah.

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I let them lead because it's, it's important because I have to hold a boundary.

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I have to hold a boundary because I'm, I'm, I have, I have in front of me a person who

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is grieving.

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Um, even if their loved one, you know, past like 20 or 25 years ago, if it's the first

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time that they do something like this, it might be incredibly overwhelming.

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So I have to let them lead.

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I can't just be like, you know, I've got like five spirits here and they all have to

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come through.

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No, it's their decision.

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Always.

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Yeah.

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This mediumship can be a profound tool for healing.

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Um, especially I imagine when it comes to either complicated grief or, um, when there

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was like a disenfranchised loss, say like addiction or suicide of something of, of that

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nature.

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Yeah.

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How can receiving a message from someone help a person's journey through grief?

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Um, I feel based on my experience, it's the understanding that frees the person.

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Um, it's receiving cause very often, you know, if it was something like addiction, if it

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was like a premature, you know, very early death, um, the question that the person on

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this side very often has is like, why, you know, why does this have to happen?

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Like, you know, did I have any, any play in this?

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Could I have done more, you know?

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Um, and so it can be very transformational when, um, in these kinds of situations, because

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it gives them the understanding of what it was and why, right.

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And so all of a sudden, um, they're being freed because it's not just, it's not just

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the grief.

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The thing is that with the grief, I feel like grief, especially in certain situations can

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encompass so much more than grief.

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Cause it can encompass guilt.

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It can encompass shame.

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It can encompass anger.

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Like there's so much tied to it.

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And I feel like having a mediumship journey or even just like one session, um, can help

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the person be freed of these things.

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And, um, and this is actually one of the main reasons why I do it.

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Because there's so much pain, so many people that have lost their loved ones, um, that

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are keeping themselves in the struggle because they are doubting, like, did I have a plane

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desk?

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I feel guilty.

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I feel anger.

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I feel frustration.

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It's not just the sadness.

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It's not just the loss.

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There is so much more.

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And to me, um, that is like a prison, right?

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The way that I see it is like, it's a prison.

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It's like this person is in chain, but actually from my experience, working with spirits and

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working with the other side, there is absolutely no, um, heaviness that is held by the person

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that has passed on, but they don't know it.

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And so they keep themselves like that.

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Right.

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And I cannot fathom that kind of pain thinking that you might be responsible for something

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or you holding on anger or you holding on pain or you holding on the not knowing.

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I cannot, I cannot cope with that myself.

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Um, and that's why I do it because I want you to know that, you know, I want everyone

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to know, um, that it's not the end.

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There isn't like, nobody dies.

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Nobody dies.

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That's my understanding of it.

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Like the way that we perceive death, I don't believe that that's actually what it is, what

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we think it is, you know, from, from the work that I've been doing and from the things that

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I've learned in the past few years.

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Um, I don't think we, we understand it in the way that it is.

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No, I think we have a very limited scope of that only grief, but of also, you know, what

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comes after this, um, we want to explain everything away and make it final when, um,

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just from my own experiences, I don't, I don't believe that, that, that, you know, that this

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is it.

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When, when somebody leaves us, you're touched on something that was important, um, they

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don't carry on like all the heaviness that was here.

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Like the anger, if there was any resentments that all stays here.

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Is that correct?

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That's my understanding.

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Yeah, that is my understanding.

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It's not even that it stays here.

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You know, it's not even that it's almost like, it's like a processing, you know, it's like

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whatever has happened, it's, it's more of an understanding.

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It's more of a processing and an understanding of what this life experience was.

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And, and from what, from what I've understood from all these readings and sessions that

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I had with people, it's the, this all happens like within seconds.

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It's like, you know, like it's within seconds.

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Um, and it's more of like a realization is like, oh yeah, all of this makes sense now.

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I don't have to hold on to anything because I understand it.

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Yeah.

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That's yeah.

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That's how I understand it.

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Yeah.

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And this might be a silly question, but why do, why do the spirits stay so close to the

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ones that they left behind?

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This is what I was saying earlier, because I believe we're all in the same place.

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We're just all here.

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The thing is from a quantum physics perspective, everything is energy, right?

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Everything is energy.

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So even if you think Wi-Fi, right?

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Think Wi-Fi, think Wi-Fi waves.

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You know, we have Wi-Fi all over the place.

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Like every house has a Wi-Fi router.

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There's waves from cell phones.

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There's all of this.

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Imagine if you could see those with your naked eye.

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Like I believe that what we're seeing with our naked eye is a very, very tiny fraction

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of what our world is made of.

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And so in the same way that we know that the Wi-Fi is there because it's creating a connection

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and it's allowing us to go to the internet or our cell phone, because it's allowing us

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to communicate to one another.

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But we don't see those waves, right?

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We just know that they're there because we can see the devices communicating with each

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other.

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And this is what I'm, this is my understanding.

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Like we are all here.

467
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:57,880
Like all of the, there's like a huge spectrum of how energy works and expresses itself.

468
00:30:58,439 --> 00:31:03,479
And some of it we can see and some of it we can't.

469
00:31:03,479 --> 00:31:08,359
And I believe that the souls of our loved ones, they are here.

470
00:31:08,359 --> 00:31:09,640
They are energy.

471
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,560
We just can't see them because they vibrate at a different frequency that is impossible

472
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:14,920
for our eye to see.

473
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:15,560
But that's it.

474
00:31:16,359 --> 00:31:16,599
Yeah.

475
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:22,040
Are they, do they, do they hang around?

476
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:22,680
I say hang around.

477
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,079
I make it sound like they're just like, you know, sitting there.

478
00:31:25,079 --> 00:31:26,439
Like I just, I don't know.

479
00:31:26,439 --> 00:31:30,280
I like to, I like to picture that like, you know, like my dad and my brother just kind

480
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:31,640
of hanging around me sometimes.

481
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,439
Like do they try to guide us in some ways?

482
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:38,520
I believe so.

483
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:39,319
I believe so.

484
00:31:40,359 --> 00:31:42,760
So this has happened so many times.

485
00:31:43,479 --> 00:31:44,199
They do.

486
00:31:44,199 --> 00:31:49,000
I feel like they are very communicative if we are open to listening.

487
00:31:50,359 --> 00:31:56,599
Very often I've had people that never had mediumship before, never had a session before,

488
00:31:56,599 --> 00:31:58,439
did not know what to expect.

489
00:31:58,439 --> 00:32:02,439
And then as we've done the session and as they got to speak to the loved ones, then

490
00:32:02,439 --> 00:32:06,199
they asked for signs, you know, what sign are you going to send me?

491
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,040
How can I communicate with you?

492
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:13,079
And I've had a lot of people actually taking action after our session and just being open

493
00:32:13,079 --> 00:32:16,599
to receiving the messages and being open to communicate with their loved ones because

494
00:32:16,599 --> 00:32:18,359
it completely shifted their perspective.

495
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:19,560
And they do.

496
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,239
And they do.

497
00:32:21,239 --> 00:32:24,760
They have like daily communication with their loved ones.

498
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,199
And it's just like they, and it's, and they're like, yeah, I know.

499
00:32:28,199 --> 00:32:30,439
I 100% know that it's them.

500
00:32:30,439 --> 00:32:34,439
I asked them a question and in some way the answer gets to me.

501
00:32:34,439 --> 00:32:37,800
And sometimes it gets to me through like a physical sign.

502
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:43,079
Sometimes it gets through me, to me, like through like an inner knowing that I, that

503
00:32:43,079 --> 00:32:44,920
I know it's not from myself.

504
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:50,040
You know, like there's this message that comes in and like, oh, this is not me.

505
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:50,680
This is you.

506
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:53,959
I understand.

507
00:32:53,959 --> 00:32:56,199
But this is the thing, like they're constantly here.

508
00:32:56,199 --> 00:33:03,560
They're constantly eager to communicate because I believe that they want to, they, they want

509
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,640
like, this is, this is how it's supposed to be.

510
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,599
I believe, you know, not supposed to ignore it.

511
00:33:08,599 --> 00:33:14,599
We're not supposed to only utilize the physical part of our body in this existence.

512
00:33:14,599 --> 00:33:20,599
It is a physical life, but we are so much more than physical and we have so much more

513
00:33:20,599 --> 00:33:22,839
potential than just the physical.

514
00:33:22,839 --> 00:33:25,479
And I believe that they know that.

515
00:33:25,479 --> 00:33:30,839
And I believe that they want us to open up to it because it would be so much easier and

516
00:33:30,839 --> 00:33:33,560
there would be so much less pain if we did, you know?

517
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:34,060
Right.

518
00:33:35,079 --> 00:33:39,800
No, it would, because I can, I can tell you after my first session in Medium, there, there

519
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:43,560
was a, there was a shift and I started noticing things that weren't there before.

520
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:47,000
And I was like, I can't explain that away, you know?

521
00:33:47,959 --> 00:33:52,760
And like, especially with technology, like I feel sometimes things, they get a little

522
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:57,479
feisty with technology, at least my experience, like to play with my technology a little bit,

523
00:33:57,479 --> 00:34:01,800
like songs will change on my radio that I didn't, you know, that I know I didn't change.

524
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:09,879
What is, is it, what is one small step for someone who's maybe feeling

525
00:34:12,199 --> 00:34:19,080
lonely or wants to try to recognize maybe the unseen presence of the loved one?

526
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:24,840
What's a simple step that they can, they can try to take to start, to begin that journey,

527
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:25,479
to feel them?

528
00:34:26,439 --> 00:34:30,679
Yeah, there are, there are many ways, you know?

529
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:37,719
First, I would say, open yourself up to it, declare it, you know?

530
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,360
I feel like that's a simple declaration.

531
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:45,320
It's often like a huge shift in somebody's energy, you know, simply being like, okay,

532
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:53,879
mom, dad, brother, sister, I want to speak with you and I'm going to stay open.

533
00:34:54,679 --> 00:34:56,280
This is my question.

534
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,360
Send me a sign that I would understand.

535
00:34:59,159 --> 00:35:04,360
Just send this out, you know, even just saying this out loud, saying it out with intention.

536
00:35:05,879 --> 00:35:09,879
Even this can just be, you know, a small step towards it.

537
00:35:09,879 --> 00:35:16,280
But you can also do, there are certain, you can find them online.

538
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,199
I mean, I know, I do have one.

539
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:23,000
I'm a teacher on the Insight Timer app, if anybody is familiar.

540
00:35:23,479 --> 00:35:24,520
It's a spiritual app.

541
00:35:25,399 --> 00:35:29,080
And I have loads of, I do loads of live events, but I have loads of meditations.

542
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:33,560
And I have a meditation there that I created specifically for you to receive a message

543
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:34,360
from a loved one.

544
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:36,280
And that is just you.

545
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:37,479
Like, I'm not doing anything.

546
00:35:37,479 --> 00:35:39,320
I'm just guiding the meditation.

547
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,199
This is for you to understand that you can do it.

548
00:35:42,199 --> 00:35:44,679
I've got nothing special, you know?

549
00:35:44,679 --> 00:35:46,040
Like, this is how, this is-

550
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:46,840
I wouldn't say that.

551
00:35:47,879 --> 00:35:50,360
Like, we can all do it.

552
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:51,719
We can all receive the messages.

553
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:52,919
We can all communicate.

554
00:35:54,199 --> 00:35:56,679
And I just guide you through the meditation, and that's it.

555
00:35:56,679 --> 00:35:59,320
So maybe doing something like that, you know?

556
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:04,199
Or even, perhaps, have a mediumship session and ask them directly.

557
00:36:04,199 --> 00:36:09,639
If you don't feel like you're currently open, or if you're finding it hard to receive messages

558
00:36:09,639 --> 00:36:14,280
from your loved ones on the other side, maybe go and have a mediumship session and ask them.

559
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:15,479
How are you?

560
00:36:15,479 --> 00:36:18,679
What is your preferred way of communicating with me?

561
00:36:18,679 --> 00:36:20,199
What should I be looking out for?

562
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,760
What am I searching?

563
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,879
What do you want me to do when I'm communicating with you?

564
00:36:25,879 --> 00:36:31,800
You know, I had a specific client who I worked with for a while

565
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,159
when she was grieving the loss of her parents.

566
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,959
And she asked, specifically her mom, she wanted to know like,

567
00:36:39,959 --> 00:36:44,199
Mom, how do I receive your messages?

568
00:36:44,199 --> 00:36:47,479
How am I, you know, what do I need to do?

569
00:36:48,199 --> 00:36:51,800
And her mom specifically came through and she told me,

570
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:53,879
I'm going to speak to her in the car.

571
00:36:53,879 --> 00:36:56,439
You have to tell her that when she's in the car,

572
00:36:56,439 --> 00:36:58,760
I'm going to speak to her when she's in the car.

573
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,000
I kid you not, every time this kind of like,

574
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,399
are there something that happens?

575
00:37:03,399 --> 00:37:04,520
And she's like, oh, that's mom.

576
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:05,879
Yeah, that's the average mom.

577
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:12,120
It's just so, you know, ask them, ask them, ask them.

578
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:13,239
Ask questions.

579
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,479
That's the best way to find things out.

580
00:37:15,479 --> 00:37:16,280
Ask questions.

581
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,080
And that can make you feel less lonely

582
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:20,199
as you're going through your day.

583
00:37:20,919 --> 00:37:21,800
Absolutely.

584
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:25,560
And another easy, very easy way, actually,

585
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,199
if you like working with cards,

586
00:37:28,199 --> 00:37:32,040
you can get any deck of Oracle cards.

587
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:33,800
You don't, because Oracle cards,

588
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:35,639
you don't need to know how to read them

589
00:37:35,639 --> 00:37:37,879
because they all come with a booklet that tells you,

590
00:37:37,879 --> 00:37:40,199
you know, the Oracle cards have all been created

591
00:37:40,199 --> 00:37:42,520
with specific purposes and stuff.

592
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,120
And they all come with their own booklet

593
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,000
that says what each card does, right?

594
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:47,959
What each card means.

595
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:52,919
And what you could do is simply sit down, light a candle,

596
00:37:52,919 --> 00:37:54,760
take a few deep breaths and say, OK,

597
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,800
I'm going to utilize this deck to speak with my dad.

598
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,159
And just ask questions and just say, OK, dad,

599
00:38:01,159 --> 00:38:03,560
today I'm feeling like this and this and this.

600
00:38:04,439 --> 00:38:08,280
Tell me through these cards, what should I do?

601
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,600
What is my, you know, what are your words?

602
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,040
What do you think of this?

603
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,159
And then pull a card that you feel called towards.

604
00:38:15,159 --> 00:38:18,600
And you will see that's actually the easiest way to start.

605
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:19,800
I would say, yeah.

606
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:23,959
Do you, when do you think that we stopped

607
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:27,080
kind of listening to our intuition,

608
00:38:27,639 --> 00:38:30,919
kind of trusting that we weren't alone?

609
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,879
I think that took years of conditioning.

610
00:38:37,479 --> 00:38:40,120
I think that took years of societal conditioning, yeah.

611
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,120
I think that took years of societal conditioning.

612
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:48,679
Years were decades, possibly centuries,

613
00:38:48,679 --> 00:38:54,919
in which certain things were placed under a certain light.

614
00:38:56,600 --> 00:39:00,919
And it has all contributed to create,

615
00:39:00,919 --> 00:39:04,199
to form a certain opinion towards certain things

616
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:09,479
and making us think that we can't do it.

617
00:39:09,479 --> 00:39:12,199
So, like, for example, let me give you two examples here.

618
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:18,280
So, the first example is the whole, like,

619
00:39:19,879 --> 00:39:23,879
this is all a charlatan thing, right?

620
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,919
And so even if it was true,

621
00:39:26,919 --> 00:39:29,719
there has been so much societal conditioning

622
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,879
done towards it not being true

623
00:39:31,879 --> 00:39:35,639
that then people have stopped trusting it, right?

624
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:38,439
And then the other conditioning is,

625
00:39:39,159 --> 00:39:41,159
no, no, no, no, Wade is true,

626
00:39:41,879 --> 00:39:43,800
but only certain people can do it

627
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:46,199
because you have to have a special gift to do it.

628
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:51,399
This is what I hate to my core, you know?

629
00:39:51,399 --> 00:39:53,560
I feel like this is even worse

630
00:39:54,439 --> 00:39:56,520
than telling people that it's not true

631
00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:00,600
because this is making people think

632
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:02,280
that they have to be special

633
00:40:03,159 --> 00:40:05,399
in order to do something that's actually natural.

634
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:11,080
You know, it's like, well, swimming is true,

635
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:12,439
people can swim,

636
00:40:12,439 --> 00:40:15,320
but you have to be super special

637
00:40:15,879 --> 00:40:17,879
in order to actually learn how to swim,

638
00:40:18,679 --> 00:40:19,719
which is nonsense.

639
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:23,239
It's completely lots of nonsense,

640
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,399
but I feel like that's part of the conditioning.

641
00:40:26,439 --> 00:40:28,199
And I have so many people,

642
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,320
you know, people that have come to me with a session

643
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:33,320
and, you know, and I said to them,

644
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,239
do you want to ask them for signs and stuff?

645
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:35,959
And they're like, oh yeah,

646
00:40:35,959 --> 00:40:38,040
but I don't know if I would see them

647
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:39,320
because, you know, I'm not like you.

648
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,639
And I'm like, you are 100% like me,

649
00:40:41,639 --> 00:40:42,760
just don't believe that.

650
00:40:43,479 --> 00:40:45,080
You don't believe that you can do it

651
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,000
because you think that I have something special

652
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,520
that you don't, but that's not true.

653
00:40:49,479 --> 00:40:51,320
You know, that is absolutely not true.

654
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,320
And I think that's probably the worst.

655
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:54,280
That's the worst thing.

656
00:40:55,399 --> 00:40:58,040
I'm curious, and I hope this is a fair question.

657
00:40:58,760 --> 00:40:59,959
How do you feel about,

658
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:04,120
like, you see like these psychic live events,

659
00:41:04,199 --> 00:41:07,159
like these big, you know,

660
00:41:07,159 --> 00:41:09,560
you can buy tickets for like a specific medium to see.

661
00:41:11,159 --> 00:41:13,800
How do you feel about like events like that?

662
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:15,639
Do you think that takes away from like

663
00:41:15,639 --> 00:41:17,000
the intimacy of it at all?

664
00:41:17,879 --> 00:41:19,719
I think there's a time and a place for sure.

665
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:23,800
I do live events where I do mediumship readings

666
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:25,320
on Insight Timer, for example.

667
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,639
They are all streamed to my YouTube channel as well.

668
00:41:29,399 --> 00:41:31,800
And I do them for an audience.

669
00:41:32,439 --> 00:41:36,280
And I think that there are, you have to,

670
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:40,520
it's not necessarily about it being right or wrong.

671
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:44,040
It's about how you choose to connect.

672
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,639
You know, if you are the type of person

673
00:41:47,639 --> 00:41:50,360
that wants to have a very intimate experience,

674
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:51,639
then you can choose not to go.

675
00:41:53,479 --> 00:41:55,000
But there are people that are like,

676
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:58,120
you know what, I like to experience this in community.

677
00:41:58,679 --> 00:42:00,439
I like this to be shared.

678
00:42:01,399 --> 00:42:03,080
And then you can do it.

679
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,840
You know, I don't think that there's anything right or wrong.

680
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:08,919
I don't think so.

681
00:42:08,919 --> 00:42:13,399
I think it's more about what is right for you as the receiver.

682
00:42:13,399 --> 00:42:15,399
How do you feel like you connect?

683
00:42:15,399 --> 00:42:17,800
Do you want to have something more intimate?

684
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,840
Or do you prefer to have it in community?

685
00:42:21,399 --> 00:42:23,719
You know, and I do have people,

686
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,719
you know, that have come to my lives

687
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:27,719
because the lives that I do,

688
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,879
the people that I read for are picked randomly.

689
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:34,040
And so I never know who I'm going to read for.

690
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:40,360
But I ask, I might have like 200 people watching the live.

691
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,600
And I always ask, tell me your name

692
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:45,000
if you want to be put on the thing

693
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:46,439
where you get randomly picked.

694
00:42:46,439 --> 00:42:47,959
And not everybody says their name

695
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:50,199
because they're not comfortable with it.

696
00:42:50,199 --> 00:42:51,239
And that's okay.

697
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:51,879
That's fine.

698
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:59,320
But it helps me bring open people up to it, right?

699
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,120
It helps me make this more mainstream.

700
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,320
It helps me show people that it works,

701
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:08,520
that it's something that you can tap into.

702
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,360
That is something that you can, you know,

703
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:11,800
utilize in your healing journey.

704
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:13,320
That is something that can help you.

705
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:14,919
That can be really transformational.

706
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:17,879
It helps the people because obviously,

707
00:43:17,879 --> 00:43:19,719
if you get a reading, it's,

708
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:21,159
you don't even have to pay for it.

709
00:43:21,879 --> 00:43:25,639
You know, all of my live events are free.

710
00:43:25,639 --> 00:43:28,439
So it helps me do something that, you know,

711
00:43:28,439 --> 00:43:29,800
for the people that can't afford it.

712
00:43:31,479 --> 00:43:34,040
And I feel like it's just up to you.

713
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:35,000
It's just up to you.

714
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,479
A lot of people want to see it first

715
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:40,439
before they actually do something privately.

716
00:43:40,439 --> 00:43:42,439
And I think that there's nothing wrong with that.

717
00:43:42,439 --> 00:43:45,560
You know, it's just about what resonates with you.

718
00:43:46,199 --> 00:43:47,639
You know, what resonates with you?

719
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:49,959
Are you somebody that feels like,

720
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:53,239
oh, I'd like to have this in community.

721
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,399
I feel like this would be okay

722
00:43:55,399 --> 00:43:57,479
for me to experience this way.

723
00:43:57,479 --> 00:43:59,159
Or maybe you wouldn't have it private.

724
00:43:59,159 --> 00:44:00,760
I don't think that it's got anything

725
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:01,959
to do with the mediumship.

726
00:44:01,959 --> 00:44:05,000
I think it's more to do with it's available.

727
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:06,199
And you can do it.

728
00:44:06,199 --> 00:44:08,280
Nobody's forcing you to do it one way or another.

729
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:08,919
You can choose.

730
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,639
I like that because I didn't even think about

731
00:44:11,639 --> 00:44:14,120
that aspect of people being curious about it,

732
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,120
but not wanting to quite dive right into it yet,

733
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,520
personally, but witnessing it

734
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:23,000
and seeing how it unfolds for other people.

735
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,879
Yeah, I do want to touch a little bit on you.

736
00:44:27,879 --> 00:44:30,600
You teach classes, like you have classes.

737
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,360
How is, what is, can you talk about

738
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:35,399
your classes a little bit?

739
00:44:36,199 --> 00:44:37,320
Yeah, yeah, absolutely.

740
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:39,719
I have, I currently have two courses.

741
00:44:41,399 --> 00:44:43,560
In one class, I teach tarot,

742
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:46,360
just simply like tarot on its own.

743
00:44:46,919 --> 00:44:49,159
And then the other course that I have

744
00:44:49,159 --> 00:44:51,479
is intuitive development.

745
00:44:51,479 --> 00:44:53,320
Now, this is more,

746
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:56,840
this is more advanced in a way,

747
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:58,679
like if you want to tap into

748
00:44:58,679 --> 00:45:00,439
doing these things yourself, right?

749
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,120
You don't have to do it

750
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:06,360
just to become a practitioner,

751
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:07,719
just to do this as your job.

752
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,280
You could take the course simply because

753
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,399
you just want to understand how this works

754
00:45:13,399 --> 00:45:14,679
and be able to do it yourself.

755
00:45:14,679 --> 00:45:18,679
You know, the way that this is,

756
00:45:19,399 --> 00:45:21,320
the reason why I've put it there,

757
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:22,679
the reason why the course is there

758
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:27,800
is because I believe that we are

759
00:45:29,159 --> 00:45:31,800
going in a different direction

760
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:32,439
with the world.

761
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,560
I believe that a lot of people are waking up.

762
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:37,959
A lot of people are waking up

763
00:45:37,959 --> 00:45:40,520
to their own powers,

764
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:41,959
their own abilities,

765
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:43,800
their own strengths.

766
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,159
They're waking up to the fact

767
00:45:47,159 --> 00:45:49,239
that we have been conditioned

768
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:51,159
about a lot of things

769
00:45:52,439 --> 00:45:53,639
and they're not necessarily

770
00:45:53,639 --> 00:45:55,560
buying into it anymore, right?

771
00:45:56,679 --> 00:45:58,679
So the future that I see

772
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:03,159
is a future where we can be ourselves

773
00:46:03,159 --> 00:46:06,439
and we feel good being ourselves,

774
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,159
that our authentic self

775
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,840
is who we're supporting, right?

776
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:15,320
And part of our authentic self

777
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,600
is our intuition, right?

778
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:19,719
Part of our authentic self

779
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:20,520
is our intuition,

780
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,800
which I feel we have for centuries suppressed

781
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:27,320
in order to be controlled and whatnot.

782
00:46:28,439 --> 00:46:32,840
And so the course is about understanding

783
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,239
what you can actually do as a human being

784
00:46:35,959 --> 00:46:38,520
beyond your physical life.

785
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,679
And so there's all sorts of things

786
00:46:42,679 --> 00:46:45,639
like energy healing in the course.

787
00:46:45,639 --> 00:46:49,399
There's tapping into mediumship.

788
00:46:49,399 --> 00:46:51,399
There is different,

789
00:46:51,399 --> 00:46:53,800
actually different kinds of energy healing.

790
00:46:54,679 --> 00:46:57,080
There are things that you can do

791
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,120
to tap into your past lives,

792
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,560
to understand karma,

793
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,439
to understand your Akashic records.

794
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:07,159
There's so many different things,

795
00:47:07,159 --> 00:47:08,840
working with your chakra system

796
00:47:09,479 --> 00:47:11,000
and how to understand

797
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:15,000
how to heal yourself energetically.

798
00:47:16,439 --> 00:47:17,719
All of these are things

799
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:19,239
that we were always able to do.

800
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:20,679
We have just been disconnected.

801
00:47:21,399 --> 00:47:25,000
And I believe that where we're going is,

802
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:27,639
I call it like new earth.

803
00:47:27,639 --> 00:47:29,239
There's many people calling it new earth,

804
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:30,600
which is not someplace else.

805
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:35,639
It's here, ship anywhere.

806
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:38,040
They're like simply new earth

807
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,760
is just a different way of living.

808
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,679
It's a different way of living

809
00:47:42,679 --> 00:47:43,719
at a different frequency,

810
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:44,760
at a different vibration.

811
00:47:45,399 --> 00:47:46,520
However you want to see it.

812
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,239
But I feel like the new earth human

813
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,520
is the human that is connected

814
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:54,600
to their intuition,

815
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:56,360
connected to their inner knowing,

816
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:59,560
connected that has let go of all the conditioning

817
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:01,719
has let go and I healed

818
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:03,959
whatever they needed to be healing

819
00:48:03,959 --> 00:48:07,959
and understood their path or whatever

820
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,199
and is opening themselves up to this

821
00:48:12,199 --> 00:48:15,479
because they want to experience life to the fullest.

822
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:19,560
And does it change the collective energy

823
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:22,600
of the world?

824
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:24,760
The more people that tap into

825
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:25,800
how intuitive they are,

826
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,199
does that create its own sense of healing around us?

827
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:29,399
Yeah, it does.

828
00:48:29,959 --> 00:48:30,439
It does.

829
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,520
This is why this is the thing.

830
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:35,320
A lot of people,

831
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:36,199
this is one of the things

832
00:48:36,199 --> 00:48:37,080
like a lot of people

833
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:42,120
want to heal others

834
00:48:42,679 --> 00:48:43,879
and there's nothing wrong with that.

835
00:48:45,159 --> 00:48:48,040
But some people are simply not ready yet

836
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:49,159
to receive the healing.

837
00:48:51,479 --> 00:48:53,080
And we can't force anybody.

838
00:48:54,679 --> 00:48:56,280
Everybody has got their own path

839
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:57,800
and everybody has got their own life.

840
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,320
We cannot force anyone.

841
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:02,280
And if you try and force somebody into healing

842
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:03,239
when they're not ready,

843
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,080
you could actually do more damage.

844
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:09,800
And so the thing is

845
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:11,959
that in order for you to have an impact,

846
00:49:12,919 --> 00:49:17,479
you don't even need to help everybody else.

847
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:20,199
You healing yourself

848
00:49:21,959 --> 00:49:25,800
is impacting thousands and thousands of people already

849
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:26,840
without you knowing.

850
00:49:27,959 --> 00:49:29,560
And then as you do so,

851
00:49:30,439 --> 00:49:32,280
the people that are opening up,

852
00:49:32,919 --> 00:49:35,879
they will gravitate towards you regardless.

853
00:49:35,879 --> 00:49:39,159
So if you do feel called to do this as a profession,

854
00:49:39,159 --> 00:49:41,159
if you do feel called to serve,

855
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:44,280
you know, this is actually,

856
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,199
this is exactly what happened to me.

857
00:49:46,199 --> 00:49:48,840
I constantly try to help my friends in my life.

858
00:49:50,439 --> 00:49:51,639
They are just not ready.

859
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:53,399
They are not ready.

860
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,280
When I then decided,

861
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:57,000
you know what?

862
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:59,719
No, I'm just going to focus on me.

863
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:01,479
I'm going to focus on finding myself.

864
00:50:01,479 --> 00:50:03,239
I'm going to focus on healing myself

865
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:05,479
and deciding that this is what I want to do.

866
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:07,639
This is my purpose.

867
00:50:07,639 --> 00:50:08,520
This is my mission.

868
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:09,719
This is what I want to do.

869
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:10,840
The moment I did that,

870
00:50:11,959 --> 00:50:15,000
yes, maybe my friends are still feeling

871
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:15,959
the way that they are,

872
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:19,159
but I had hundreds and hundreds of people

873
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:22,120
then coming into my energy

874
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:23,399
because I opened it up.

875
00:50:23,399 --> 00:50:25,879
So why do we want to be focused just on this

876
00:50:25,879 --> 00:50:26,919
when there's so many people

877
00:50:26,919 --> 00:50:28,679
that we're naturally influencing

878
00:50:29,639 --> 00:50:31,560
just by, you know,

879
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:34,120
raising our vibration and healing ourselves,

880
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:35,000
you know?

881
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:36,760
And maybe people will come around

882
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:38,600
once they see,

883
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:40,360
they will come around.

884
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:43,479
The best way to me is to lead by example.

885
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:44,919
Yeah.

886
00:50:44,919 --> 00:50:46,520
You know, if you want to, you know,

887
00:50:47,479 --> 00:50:49,560
I mean, look in the mirror, right?

888
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:50,360
The man in the mirror.

889
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:51,560
That's where we got to start from.

890
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:53,719
No, I love that.

891
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:55,000
I love the way you worded that.

892
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:56,919
That if we heal ourselves,

893
00:50:56,919 --> 00:50:58,520
we just start naturally attracting

894
00:51:01,399 --> 00:51:03,239
more healed individuals into our lives

895
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:04,919
and we put healing out into the world

896
00:51:04,919 --> 00:51:06,199
without even realizing it.

897
00:51:06,199 --> 00:51:07,959
Because so often we feel we need to

898
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:09,800
better the ones around us

899
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:11,239
to help change our situations.

900
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,040
When we, if we help ourselves

901
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:14,840
and heal ourselves,

902
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,520
that's the best thing that we can do

903
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:17,639
for the world around us.

904
00:51:18,199 --> 00:51:19,399
Because this is the thing,

905
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,199
we don't realize how actually,

906
00:51:22,199 --> 00:51:23,639
how powerful we are.

907
00:51:24,679 --> 00:51:27,320
We, that in order to impact something

908
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:28,679
we have to do or someone,

909
00:51:28,679 --> 00:51:30,280
we have to do something directly.

910
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:32,199
That is not true.

911
00:51:32,919 --> 00:51:35,239
We are so powerful.

912
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:37,800
Then when we radically align ourselves

913
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:39,719
and we take radical responsibility

914
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:40,600
for our life,

915
00:51:41,479 --> 00:51:42,760
the people around us

916
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:45,000
are directly influenced by it.

917
00:51:45,639 --> 00:51:47,320
And if they're open to it,

918
00:51:47,959 --> 00:51:49,239
they will change too.

919
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:50,919
You know how many women

920
00:51:50,919 --> 00:51:52,679
I had coming to work with me

921
00:51:52,679 --> 00:51:53,879
and then their husbands

922
00:51:53,879 --> 00:51:55,320
completely changed as well.

923
00:51:56,679 --> 00:51:58,360
It was never the purpose.

924
00:51:58,360 --> 00:51:59,239
You know what I mean?

925
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,800
Like they simply started doing this work

926
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:03,639
and their partner or their mothers

927
00:52:04,199 --> 00:52:06,120
were like, oh my God, this is so,

928
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:07,719
you know, and all of a sudden

929
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:09,479
because they were open to it.

930
00:52:09,479 --> 00:52:10,199
But as I said,

931
00:52:10,199 --> 00:52:11,719
I do have other people in my life

932
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:12,919
that still don't resonate

933
00:52:12,919 --> 00:52:13,639
with any of this.

934
00:52:13,639 --> 00:52:15,320
And that is perfectly fine.

935
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:18,199
As I said, like I'm not here

936
00:52:18,199 --> 00:52:19,239
to convince anyone,

937
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:20,840
but if your energy is open,

938
00:52:21,399 --> 00:52:22,520
if you feel like

939
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:24,360
there's something here for you,

940
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:25,560
oh my God, I'm here.

941
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:26,840
Like when my arms open,

942
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:28,840
please just come into my energy.

943
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:30,360
I'd love to share this with you.

944
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,280
I'm not here to convince, you know?

945
00:52:33,159 --> 00:52:35,719
No, no, every medium I've met

946
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:37,399
has just been so warm

947
00:52:37,399 --> 00:52:39,959
and so loving and kind.

948
00:52:41,959 --> 00:52:44,280
And I think sometimes that,

949
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:44,919
like you said,

950
00:52:44,919 --> 00:52:46,760
a lot of people get nervous

951
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:48,840
because we may feel it's a gift

952
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:49,639
that we don't have.

953
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:52,760
But we just simply

954
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:53,959
haven't tapped into it yet.

955
00:52:53,959 --> 00:52:54,840
And we've forgotten

956
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:55,879
how powerful we are.

957
00:52:56,679 --> 00:52:58,919
Exactly. Yeah, yeah.

958
00:52:59,879 --> 00:53:01,399
And that's a beautiful thought

959
00:53:01,399 --> 00:53:02,439
if you look at it like that,

960
00:53:02,439 --> 00:53:03,800
that we're far more powerful

961
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:04,600
than we think we are.

962
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:05,479
We can do a lot more

963
00:53:05,479 --> 00:53:06,439
than we think we can.

964
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:08,060
Yeah.

965
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:11,239
Is there anything

966
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:12,840
you'd like to leave us with

967
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:14,280
before we wrap up?

968
00:53:15,399 --> 00:53:17,560
Well, actually, on that note

969
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:18,840
of we are more powerful

970
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:19,959
than we think we are,

971
00:53:19,959 --> 00:53:20,840
there is one thing.

972
00:53:21,879 --> 00:53:23,800
And I don't want you to, listeners,

973
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:25,320
I don't want you to take this

974
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,639
as a religious thing, OK?

975
00:53:29,639 --> 00:53:31,719
Because I am not using this term

976
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:32,760
in a religious way.

977
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:36,120
But I have made my peace

978
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:37,560
with the word God.

979
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:38,600
I'm not religious.

980
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:39,879
I was raised Catholic

981
00:53:40,679 --> 00:53:44,120
and I suffered a lot from it.

982
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:45,320
I was, you know,

983
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:48,360
riddled with guilt and shame

984
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:49,879
for a very long time in my life

985
00:53:49,879 --> 00:53:51,399
and did not accept myself

986
00:53:51,399 --> 00:53:52,600
because I think that

987
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:53,639
God disapproved of me,

988
00:53:53,639 --> 00:53:54,760
you know, all these sort of things.

989
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:55,959
And it did a lot of damage.

990
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,159
However, went on,

991
00:53:59,159 --> 00:54:00,199
did a lot of healing

992
00:54:00,199 --> 00:54:01,959
and a lot of coming home to myself.

993
00:54:01,959 --> 00:54:03,320
And I have now made peace

994
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,080
with the word God.

995
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,959
I don't believe God is a person.

996
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:11,080
I believe God is the same

997
00:54:11,959 --> 00:54:13,879
word as universe.

998
00:54:13,879 --> 00:54:15,479
I believe God is the same word

999
00:54:15,479 --> 00:54:17,080
as source, you know?

1000
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:18,120
That's what I believe.

1001
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:19,959
I believe that there is an energy

1002
00:54:19,959 --> 00:54:21,399
that makes up everything,

1003
00:54:21,959 --> 00:54:23,639
whichever way you want to call it.

1004
00:54:23,639 --> 00:54:24,679
You can call it universe.

1005
00:54:24,679 --> 00:54:25,560
You can call it source.

1006
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:26,679
You can call it God.

1007
00:54:26,679 --> 00:54:28,600
You can call it creator energy.

1008
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:29,800
You can just call it energy,

1009
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:31,239
whatever it is that you want to call it.

1010
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:33,479
OK, that's what I wanted to clarify

1011
00:54:33,479 --> 00:54:34,760
before I say this is that

1012
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:35,800
I am not using this

1013
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:36,760
in religious terms.

1014
00:54:37,479 --> 00:54:38,520
But I want you to know

1015
00:54:39,479 --> 00:54:41,560
that whatever this energy is

1016
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:43,080
that creates everything,

1017
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:47,479
that makes up everything,

1018
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:49,560
you're it.

1019
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:52,360
That's what I want you to know,

1020
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:53,000
that you're it.

1021
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:55,800
God energy, universe energy,

1022
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:56,520
you are it.

1023
00:54:57,959 --> 00:55:00,360
That energy is not something

1024
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:02,760
that you look for outside of yourself.

1025
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,120
That energy is who you are.

1026
00:55:07,479 --> 00:55:09,320
This is what I believe

1027
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:11,479
we need to wake up to

1028
00:55:11,479 --> 00:55:13,159
and more people need to wake up to.

1029
00:55:13,959 --> 00:55:15,560
Because we've been conditioned

1030
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:17,399
to believe that we have to find

1031
00:55:17,399 --> 00:55:19,800
this big thing outside of ourselves.

1032
00:55:20,439 --> 00:55:21,800
It was never outside.

1033
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:22,840
It was never a question.

1034
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:24,280
It was always inside of you.

1035
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,479
Whatever God, the universe, energy, spirit,

1036
00:55:27,479 --> 00:55:30,040
whatever it is, you're it.

1037
00:55:31,159 --> 00:55:33,000
And the moment that you see yourself

1038
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:34,439
for who you actually are,

1039
00:55:34,439 --> 00:55:36,360
this powerful, energetic being,

1040
00:55:37,479 --> 00:55:38,919
your life will completely change.

1041
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:41,080
And so please, please, please know

1042
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:44,199
that you are absolutely way more powerful

1043
00:55:44,199 --> 00:55:45,159
than you think you are.

1044
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:47,399
And all of this energy

1045
00:55:47,399 --> 00:55:49,320
that everybody talks that it's outside

1046
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:51,000
and it's this big thing outside

1047
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:52,439
was never actually outside.

1048
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:53,639
It's all inside of you.

1049
00:55:53,639 --> 00:55:55,959
You have it there to tap into.

1050
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:58,120
Tap into it.

1051
00:55:59,399 --> 00:56:01,000
I got goosebumps when you were saying that.

1052
00:56:03,639 --> 00:56:04,760
Thank you so much.

1053
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:07,399
Thank you so much for sharing today,

1054
00:56:07,399 --> 00:56:08,280
not only your wisdom,

1055
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:10,439
but your journey, your message.

1056
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,600
Because I think it's a very much needed message

1057
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,719
that we need to come home to ourselves

1058
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:19,959
and step into more of an expanded,

1059
00:56:19,959 --> 00:56:23,560
soul-led future versus this kind of conditions.

1060
00:56:24,199 --> 00:56:26,760
You're not powerful, kind of fall in line,

1061
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:28,360
very disconnected way of living.

1062
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:32,439
You've really helped, I think,

1063
00:56:32,439 --> 00:56:34,120
bring some healing and helped us,

1064
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,439
helped a lot of us maybe be open more

1065
00:56:36,439 --> 00:56:39,479
to mediumship and to trusting intuition

1066
00:56:39,479 --> 00:56:40,120
a little bit more.

1067
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:42,040
And so I thank you for that.

1068
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:43,399
Thank you.

1069
00:56:43,399 --> 00:56:45,000
Thank you for having me.

1070
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:46,040
I'm definitely going to check you

1071
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:47,560
on Insight Timer because I was like,

1072
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:48,280
I love that app.

1073
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:49,159
That app is great.

1074
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:52,600
And so if you want to connect with Gloria,

1075
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:54,439
she's a spiritual medium,

1076
00:56:54,439 --> 00:56:56,280
a consciousness mentor,

1077
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:57,800
a multi-dimensional guide,

1078
00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:59,320
an all around great human being.

1079
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,600
All the links will be in the show notes,

1080
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:04,120
including her website,

1081
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:08,919
Gloria Bettini, B-A-T-T-I-N-I.com.

1082
00:57:08,919 --> 00:57:10,919
That'll be available in the show notes.

1083
00:57:10,919 --> 00:57:13,080
She is on Insight Timer.

1084
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:15,479
She is on social media.

1085
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:17,560
Please check her out.

1086
00:57:18,199 --> 00:57:19,639
Her website is beautiful, by the way.

1087
00:57:19,879 --> 00:57:20,760
Your website is gorgeous.

1088
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:21,719
I love your website.

1089
00:57:22,679 --> 00:57:23,080
Thank you.

1090
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:23,560
Thank you.

1091
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:24,360
I'm on YouTube, though.

1092
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:25,639
I'm not on social media anymore.

1093
00:57:25,639 --> 00:57:26,439
Oh, I'm sorry.

1094
00:57:26,439 --> 00:57:27,399
On YouTube.

1095
00:57:27,399 --> 00:57:29,159
On YouTube, Insight Timer, yeah.

1096
00:57:29,959 --> 00:57:31,959
And attend one of her lives

1097
00:57:31,959 --> 00:57:36,439
and maybe she'll change you a little bit too.

1098
00:57:36,439 --> 00:57:37,639
Open up your mind a little bit

1099
00:57:37,639 --> 00:57:39,080
to some of the things that she does

1100
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:40,919
and connect with maybe some loved ones.

1101
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:45,000
As always, thank you everybody for listening.

1102
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:48,679
You can find me on all the major platforms

1103
00:57:48,679 --> 00:57:50,439
and the easiest way to connect with the show

1104
00:57:50,439 --> 00:57:52,360
and support us is through our link tree,

1105
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:54,439
which you can find in the show notes.

1106
00:57:54,439 --> 00:57:56,439
Don't forget to follow us on social media

1107
00:57:56,439 --> 00:57:58,840
for clip snippets and show updates.

1108
00:57:59,479 --> 00:58:00,840
And until we speak again,

1109
00:58:01,399 --> 00:58:02,600
please remember,

1110
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:04,919
you don't have to carry what you came from

1111
00:58:04,919 --> 00:58:06,360
and keep telling your story

1112
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:09,239
because you never know who you will help.

1113
00:58:09,239 --> 00:58:11,000
And we will see you next time.