Metaphysical Healing with Dr. Herman SJR

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Good morning everybody and welcome to Call Her Cat.

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Today I have a very special guest on, someone you're probably not going to meet

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more than once in your lifetime. is Dr.

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Herman SJR. Dr.

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Herman SJR is known for teaching universal laws, universal problem solving,

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internationally sought after, highly nomadic, non-politically correct,

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no-nonsense, blunt, eccentric, lightning fast moving, and in-your-face universal

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systems architect, doctor of metaphysical psychology,

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and scholar who consults, trains, plus 100K entities.

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Fortune 100, universities, AI experts, artists, creatives, compliance officers,

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actors, engineers, lawyers, federal, local police,

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wellness experts, and many others across all industries, across countries and

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languages, and the ability behind history's greatest thinkers.

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This ability he loosely calls holistic vision and defines as the ability to

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see the foundations and interconnectivity of all atmospheres.

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His work continues to generate plus 26 million in clientele revenue.

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Dr. Herman is a Harvard University published writer, 12 times author,

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and solo, two contributor, whose work is accepted in the U.S.

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Library of Congress and used in educational entities worldwide.

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Writer of 50-plus academic, business, and research papers.

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Expert featured plus 70 times in media worldwide in various languages.

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Including MSN, Yahoo!, awardee of six degrees,

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one doctorate, two masters, two bachelors, and associates, an advisor,

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consultant, instructor, judge, mentor at universities, academies, career centers,

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entrepreneurship incubators, and accelerators, and employment agencies worldwide,

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Universal Holistic Psychological Systems Consultant for a NASA contractor and

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Interpol International AI Cyber Investigation Contractors through CIA,

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DARPA, DEA, FBI, Europol, Interpol, Secret Service, other agencies,

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and high net worth individuals.

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Did I miss anything after her ministry?

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I should have said, you can truncate it.

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My bio is 13 pages long, and that's a two-paragraph synopsis,

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which is already too long.

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Sorry, I should have told you. No, I don't want to shorten it anymore.

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I mean, that's a pretty extensive...

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Biography even just the truncated version you know

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how does it feel when you i'm always

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curious how people feel when they hear their their

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biography like read back to them i i always i always greatly appreciate it because

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it reminds me of where i'm at as a matter of fact there's a beautiful psychological

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drill that i highly endorse and i just always say this i'm not a clinician,

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I'm not a psychologist, neither than I say is every medical advice, all that legal stuff.

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So this one drill is basically writing your own eulogy, and it is really good

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to get you in a place of understanding what you've really done or what you have

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yet to do according to your own mindset.

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And to further answer your question, when I hear that, I'm like,

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okay, yeah, I'm doing pretty good because as a ridiculously inculcated,

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you know, overachiever who,

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after everything you said, I think that I haven't even begun to fulfill what

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I need to do in this world with potential.

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It's always good to say, oh, wait, maybe I did. Maybe I did do some good stuff

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after hearing the bio. So it gives you hope.

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No, I think it must. I feel like it might even inspire you a little bit to be

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like wow you know like like that's me you know yeah yeah it's like oh who is

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that guy can we meet him are there are there any other disclaimers you need to to mention.

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No i i think that's it just the uh not medical advice and educational entertainment

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purposes all that stuff. No, I think we're good.

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And yeah. Okay. Now, just so we can get like a good, like a good foundation, I guess.

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What does your, your doctorate is in metaphysical psychology.

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What does metaphysical mean to you, and how would you introduce it to somebody?

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Well, you said metaphysical psychology, but your question was, what is metaphysics?

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So metaphysics is merely composed of two Greek words, meta meaning above or

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beyond, physique meaning pertaining to the physical.

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So anything that's above or beyond the physical realm or world,

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whatever you want to call it, that's metaphysics.

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But metaphysical psychology is basically, very simply put, everything that I

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just said as interpreted by the mind.

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So I never like, and I say this on a few of the interviews I've done,

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I never like when someone says, hey, Dr.

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Herman, what's metaphysical psychology? I really don't like that question because

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it's extremely difficult because of the scientists.

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So the reason I say that is because metaphysics is an ever-diminishing field,

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just like Neil deGrasse Tyson, who I do not respect.

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Just as he said that God is an ever-diminishing entity, because people used

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to say, oh, this is all God, this is miracles.

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But now science is saying, okay, that's not God, that's meditation,

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that's not God, that's affirmation, or that's not God, that's physics,

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or that's not God, this is quantum physics.

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So God is getting smaller and smaller and smaller, and he was quite proud of saying that.

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The same is with metaphysics. Before, they were like, oh, this is metaphysical

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nonsense. But now it's like, well.

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Spontaneous healing, spontaneous regression, according to science and medical documents, is real.

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But before, they used to say, oh, that's metaphysical crap, metaphysical nonsense.

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But now it's like, no, no, they entertain the field of resonance and quantum healing and stuff.

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So that's not metaphysics anymore. So we're going to take that away from metaphysics.

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And then we take this way and this way and this way and this way.

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So metaphysics is a little tricky because these days it's quite hard to define

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it. That's why I don't like that question.

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Well, I can understand that because you would think those two words don't typically...

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I think sometimes psychology, it's a bad name too. Oh, yeah.

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It's sometimes called like a fake. Oh, yeah.

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If you don't know what you want to do in life, you can major in history or psychology

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is a famous thing in academia. Ouch. Yeah.

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Ouch. So what sparked you to get into this field?

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Well, lifelong nerdism. So I'm the epitome of a nerd, just psychotic for knowledge,

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and I really mean psychotic.

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And I've said this quite a few times in different articles and such.

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When I was eight years old, I was watching the Price is Right game show on TV.

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I stayed home one day for some reason, I don't know why.

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And I was laying down on my dad's bed alone,

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and I was watching it and Bob Barker, the original host he was the best host in my opinion,

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he told the contestants to spin this big wheel and for those of you that don't

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know Bob Barker you spun this wheel,

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it had between 10 cents and a dollar different denominations and if you got

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to a dollar or at a dollar you would win closest to a dollar,

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and you would get two spins and Bob Barker, this one person won.

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And for some reason, Bob called him back and said, hey, spin it again,

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see what you would have gotten. And I was eight years old.

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And immediately I said to myself, I think I said this out loud, that's so stupid.

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It wouldn't prove anything because I knew that when you do something at this

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time versus doing the same thing at another time, even one second later or one year later, whatever,

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the atmosphere completely changes.

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You're going to take different steps, maybe three steps or four steps or 3.5

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steps. You're going to grab the wheel differently.

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You're going to have different muscle contractions than you would one second

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earlier if you did it one second earlier. You're going to have different intention.

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You're going to expel different grade of energy to that wheel,

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to that pull or push or spin.

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So it's going to be completely different. The atmosphere has completely changed.

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So I knew that at eight years old, and then from that moment,

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I was like, okay, the world is really different.

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Thinking really dumb. They don't connect things very well, so I want to be the

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bridge of the connection.

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In metaphysical psychology, if you define it properly, not as I defined it earlier,

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that's the simple definition, it's really not a field.

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This is where I don't want to get too confusing.

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It's really not a field. It's really a bridge. It's the bridge between what

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happens in the mind and what happens metaphysically and how to bridge those

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things into real-world application.

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I'm just going to stop there because it's going to be too nerdy.

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No, that's okay. I like the way you said it's on a field, it's a bridge.

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I like that because when you say that, I hear that word interconnectivity,

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how you loosely define the holistic vision there.

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Yes. This bridge connects.

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I like that. I can envision that in your mind.

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Like a field, I feel like, in sound, often dull sometimes, like I'm in the field of this.

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What you're doing is you're connecting. and you're, you know,

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I almost feel like a connect the dots when you say it. Oh, yes.

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You know, and you loosely refer to holistic vision as the ability to see foundations

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and interconnectivity of all atmospheres.

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Can you expand on that a little bit?

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Sure. And it's actually in reverse. That's a finite definition that I came up

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with, but I loosely refer to that definition to the term holistic vision.

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But otherwise, you still got the concept. So the ability to see the interconnectivity

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and foundations of all atmospheres.

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Atmosphere is just a situation, a scenario, an environment, a person, an entity, whatever.

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It doesn't matter what it is. So it's not an instance, or excuse me,

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it's not a meeting of only weather. I gave that definition to someone and they

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said, what do you mean? Do you mean weather?

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I'm like, no, I'm using the general term atmosphere.

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And one huge problem with society these days is,

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is that people are really locked into inculcation of connotation of various words.

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What that means is when they hear atmosphere, they immediately think only weather.

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When they hear me constantly use the word divorce, they immediately only think

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two entities getting out of marriage.

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And no, divorce just means separation. That's it.

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So if you use words properly based on their real etymology, not Webster's Dictionary,

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that's superficial nonsense. That's why I always tell people,

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don't ever use a dictionary ever again.

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It's superficial knowledge. Use etymology of any word you ever learn.

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So the atmosphere pertains to everything that I said. So what does that mean?

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That means that you can be whatever the hell you are.

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If you're an FBI agent, if you're a podcast host, if you're Tony Robbins,

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if you're Oprah, if you're a babysitter, single mother, single father,

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if you're a student in high school, whatever, it doesn't matter.

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These are universal concepts. You can look at any atmosphere,

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any situation, and see how it relates to this atmosphere or culinary theory

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or molecular gastronomy or art theory, music theory.

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Or paleontology, archaeology.

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No exception whatsoever, and that's not hyperbole.

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And you can make relations. You can see, oh, cooking, cooking pasta relates to bartending.

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Cooking pasta, bartending relate to counterterrorism. Cooking pasta,

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bartending, counterterrorism relate to child rearing, which is bringing up children.

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And I'm not exaggerating. I'm being very real here.

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So when you look at these things, everything that exists, you'll see that there's

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no separation whatsoever.

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It's not a joke. That's not exaggeration. If you think such as so that there

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isn't separation, you're the problem.

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You're not thinking deep enough because when you go to the universal level,

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the ground level, the roots level, the concept, the algorithm,

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the rule, whatever you want to call it, the lowest level possible.

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You see that there are very few rules in existence, and they are in everything.

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So if you master the ability to find that lowest level in whatever atmosphere,

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I'm using that word atmosphere in my definition of holistic vision,

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then you can use that atmospheric algorithm or that rule or that concept or

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that vision or that universal,

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whatever you want to call it, in any other field whatsoever.

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Ever, and you'll be extraordinarily more successful than even experts in that

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field who do not use universals.

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This is the same thing as how history's greatest thinkers ever thought and performed and saw.

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If you ask people, who are three of history's greatest thinkers,

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which is one of the first questions I ever ask in all my programs,

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they all say the same thing amongst a small group of people.

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Aristotle, Einstein, Socrates, Plato, Muhammad, Gandhi, Jesus, all these people.

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It's a lot of people, but compared to everyone that's ever lived,

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it's a tiny pool of people.

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And in my research and experience, the only commonality with all those people,

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history's greatest thinkers, is that they were experts in one or more fields,

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like Leonardo da Vinci was, I think, 15 or 20 fields, but they were experts

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at the lowest level possible.

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So they mastered their field or fields so much so that they could apply that

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universal, that algorithm, that concept, that rule in other seemingly unrelated

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fields so then they were able to excel.

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So Einstein's theories of relativity and physics, we actually use that in psychology today.

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We also use that today in stock trading. So the ones that impact the world most

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are the ones that can see, like holistic vision, whatever you want to call it,

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the foundation and interconnectivity of all atmospheres.

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What are some ways people can apply this to our lives?

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I know you mentioned seeing the connectivity, but what are some exercises that you can do to do that?

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I feel like with everything, we're very disconnected from everything.

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What's a way that people can get reconnected and see the interconnectivity of everything?

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Okay, so forgive me. You said originally different ways to apply it,

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but then at the end you said different ways to see it.

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So do you want to know different ways to see it first or to apply it when you see it?

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Let's go and see it. Sure, sure. So the easiest way to see it,

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as I said for over 10 years of doing work, is to fall in love with divorce.

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If you forget everything I ever say, just remember one word, divorce.

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You have to make sure that you are constantly divorcing yourself from everything

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you could possibly ever imagine.

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Habituate divorce.

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And I shouldn't have to say this, but obviously I don't mean divorce.

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Husband and wife divorce every other

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divorce though so when you're

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in an atmosphere when you're raising your kid when a kid's having

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a tantrum or when your kid's not excelling in

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school or whatever stop step outside of yourself and say what the hell's going

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on here basically become your own consultant become your own new way of seeing

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your own third person and see things differently outside of how you would normally see it.

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So if you're, let's say, a cop and looking at a crime, stop being a cop.

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Step outside of yourself and see that same atmosphere as another entity,

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as your best friend who thinks differently, who's an accountant.

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See it as one of history's greatest thinkers would be wonderful.

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See it as Leonardo da Vinci. How the hell would he look at this.

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Not solve it. We're not there yet. We're just looking at the atmosphere,

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looking at this situation.

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So how the hell would Leonardo da Vinci see this thing?

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Or how the hell would chef Gordon Ramsay see this murder or whatever?

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So it may sound weird at first, but that's good. You want to start to do things in a weird way.

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So divorce. Always step outside yourself.

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Always start seeing things differently and say

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wait a minute if i walk from here to the park

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and it takes me 10 minutes and i walk this way how can i do it where it takes

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9 minutes and 45 seconds well i can take longer steps or i can take this route

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instead of going from here to here i can take this route from here to here it

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shaves off just 15 seconds so,

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You want to learn to habituate divorce, to stop and see things differently.

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Now, to most uneducated people, they'll say something like, or at least think something like, oh, Dr.

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Herman, this is just stupid. Who gives a damn about taking 15 minutes off a

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bark walk or something like that, or seeing things this way if you're raising

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a child? It's like, no, you idiot.

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Right now, you have just exposed how limited your thinking is.

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What you're doing doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if you're trying to go from

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here to there, point A to point B, faster or in a better way or in a car or

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in a plane or whatever. That's irrelevant.

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What matters is the habituation, teaching yourself to divorce, divorce.

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So when you are in a situation that you really need the help,

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such as being that cop trying to solve a crime or being in that parent who has

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a kid who constantly has a temper tantrum, you're able to stop and say,

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wait a minute, let me divorce.

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Let me see how else I could handle this in ways that I could never even imagine

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if I never divorced because I'm habituated as doing things this way.

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I need to stop and think differently.

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So that is key to always habituate divorce.

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I can see how a holistic vision could be beneficial to someone,

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say, who's struggling with addiction.

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Divorcing yourself and really having a conversation with yourself like in the third person almost.

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Would that be something that you would agree on?

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Yes, but just carefully because I don't do mental health or anything.

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But yes, yes, you're right.

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Divorcing from yourself and having a third party conversation with yourself

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is always an excellent tool.

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And it's actually one of the psychological tools that clinicians give,

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not me, I'm not a clinician, to people to rehash things, to look at things differently.

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So, yeah, I agree with you. And it's the initial step to start seeing things differently.

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And how do you do that before you even have that conversation?

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You have to first divorce. Divorce, just like everything in existence follows

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the phrase, if he, oh, what the hell did they say?

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If you, in order for you to fix a problem, you have to first see that there is a problem.

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In order for you to first see that there is a problem, what do you have to do? You have to divorce.

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You have to have an element that pushes you and smacks you in the face and says,

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hey, idiot, wake up. Stop. Stop right here.

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Whether they do it or not is different. But that first element of divorce is

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key to changing anything in existence.

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And your conversation for an addict is a beautiful example of that.

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And one thing, like something that I hear a lot as you speak is how important our language is.

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Not even just relation to the dictionary, but it seems how we speak out into

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the universe and speak out into ourselves.

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Can you expand on what minding our language means?

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Of course. So there's an entire section that I deal with. One of my masters

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is in linguistics, and it's called linguistic framing.

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So language is ridiculously more powerful than most humans who ever live realize.

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So you have to be very mindful of your language because, yes,

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your subconscious does not deal in words.

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It does not deal in, I'm going to say, human language, whether it's English

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or something else. However, you do.

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So when you're acting in the everyday world, you are affected by language.

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When you constantly say to yourself, I don't want to say this to myself,

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because I watch my language.

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But if someone says to themselves, they're an idiot, I'm not going to say I'm because I don't do that.

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I mean, you can joke once in a while. I joke heavily because I'm an extraordinarily playful person.

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But if someone's constantly saying they're an idiot or they're too stupid to

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learn Chinese or they're too old, it upsets me so goddamn much.

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I'm like, you know, I swear a lot. I guess I'll watch my language on the show. No, it's okay.

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Okay. I'm like, you fucking idiot.

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It's like, you know, you just killed your whole fucking strategy to learn Chinese

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or any language or whatever.

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Or even worse, even worse. I really hate when people say dipshittery for their health.

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Not because I'm an idiot or I want to be aggressive or anything,

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because I passionately love helping people. And it hurts me immediately when

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I see people suffering. So when people are perpetuating their own...

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Bad health or their own lack of ability, inability to do anything only because

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their mindset is like, you idiot, you're perpetuating what the rulers of this

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planet want to perpetuate.

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So to further answer your question, language is extremely important.

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So just change that language around, whether it's self-language,

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self-speak as some people call it, or others speaking it to you, reword it.

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So don't say, I can never learn Chinese.

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Say, I can learn Chinese. It may be difficult, but I can do this.

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I don't even like the word difficult.

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It may take longer or it can take longer, something like that. That is better.

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Try not to use the word difficult. I almost never say it pertaining to myself.

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So when it comes to your health, stop this dumb shit of, oh,

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you know, they're too old or I'm too old or, you know, I have this,

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so I can't do that. I have this ailment, so I can't do that.

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You're perpetuating, you're taking your mind and your mind is listening to those

00:25:06.295 --> 00:25:09.815
words because yes, your subconscious listens to symbols, like I said,

00:25:10.095 --> 00:25:15.275
but your conscious mind is on top of that subconscious mind and it takes in

00:25:15.275 --> 00:25:18.355
information that you give it, including language.

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So while you're saying I can't do that because of diabetes or I can't do that

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because the back, it's like, stop saying that shit.

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You have to look at every ailment, everything. I don't care what it is.

00:25:31.955 --> 00:25:35.455
I don't care if it's the most terminal thing ever manageable,

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imaginable. I don't care.

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You have to redefine it and you have to look at it as just yourself imagining this. Right?

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This is an example I say many times. Imagine you're walking down the street

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on a sidewalk, and it's fall, it's autumn, and there's a pile of leaves,

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let's say one meter tall,

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three feet roughly, and you're going to go through those leaves. It's dry leaves.

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It's a fall day, 70 degrees outside.

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I don't know what that is in Sunday grade, sorry, Celsius, 30 degrees or something

00:26:07.744 --> 00:26:10.544
like that. I don't know, 20. Anyway, it's a nice day.

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All you're doing is walking through those leaves. That's it.

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You're going to go through those leaves. They're going to go about,

00:26:19.504 --> 00:26:22.564
you know, as you walk through them, the wind's going to pick them up.

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You're going to kick them away. You're going through the leaves.

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You're not petrified saying, oh my God, I'm going to go through these leaves

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and it's going to hurt me or maybe I'll break a leg or something.

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It's like, shut the fuck up.

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You're just going through the leaves. It's just a tiny moment in your life.

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You have to really, and I'm more serious than anyone who ever listens to this

00:26:44.864 --> 00:26:50.524
show can imagine, you have to see ailments. I don't care what it is.

00:26:50.644 --> 00:26:53.844
It's just something you're passing through. That is it.

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If you can do that, you can then start the path of wellness.

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Again, this isn't medical advice.

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I'm not saying this will happen. Go get checked out by a doctor.

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This is all educational and informational and entertainment purposes only.

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So yes, you have to really see those things if you're afraid of whatever as

00:27:19.544 --> 00:27:21.004
just walking through those leaves.

00:27:21.164 --> 00:27:28.704
That's it. And if it takes a walk through those leaves of one week or one year,

00:27:28.704 --> 00:27:31.684
that's fine. You're still just walking through the leaves.

00:27:31.804 --> 00:27:36.304
So that's the long answer of why your language matters. You have to really redefine

00:27:36.304 --> 00:27:40.544
yourself and stop saying, I have this or my...

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Ailment, my headache, or whatever. It's not yours. Say the headache. Say the diabetes.

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Don't ever claim it. And that goes back to my lesson on divorce,

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constantly divorce, definitely from negativity.

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And if someone's talking with you and say, say, hey, how is your diabetes?

00:28:02.800 --> 00:28:11.060
Always, always stop them and say, no, no, not my diabetes, the diabetes. Always stop them.

00:28:11.920 --> 00:28:16.040
I like that because I feel like even when you're talking to a doctor,

00:28:16.480 --> 00:28:20.820
when you go to a doctor's office, there's a whole barrage of information thrown

00:28:20.820 --> 00:28:23.700
at you just listing what could be wrong, supposedly, with you.

00:28:25.000 --> 00:28:29.060
And it just sets that internally with you.

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And like you said, you start to claim it as your own identity.

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That's all you are, is whatever they label you as.

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And how do you is divorce a good way to counteract what other people say,

00:28:47.440 --> 00:28:53.080
you catch an email about you that was unkind or something is divorce a good

00:28:53.080 --> 00:28:56.120
way to counteract the language,

00:28:57.100 --> 00:29:04.300
it's the only way definitely you want to you want to restate it so what I do

00:29:04.300 --> 00:29:10.320
is this hasn't happened to me in a huge amount of time, I'm not even sure I'd

00:29:10.320 --> 00:29:12.040
really have to sit down and think because,

00:29:12.840 --> 00:29:19.780
my circle knows to not say stuff to me like that because they know how I am

00:29:19.780 --> 00:29:22.680
and how I have helped them with language as well.

00:29:23.280 --> 00:29:26.920
So to answer your question, you always want to reward it.

00:29:27.040 --> 00:29:30.020
So I don't care if you're at a doctor's office, and I have done this.

00:29:30.100 --> 00:29:37.560
I rarely go to a doctor because I do meditation healing and nature healing and

00:29:37.560 --> 00:29:39.200
stuff like that for myself.

00:29:41.119 --> 00:29:44.119
But when I have gone to a doctor,

00:29:44.459 --> 00:29:49.279
very rare, if they ever say something like that, I stop them and I say,

00:29:49.399 --> 00:29:55.419
politely, I say, no, no, it's not my just please say this because mentality

00:29:55.419 --> 00:29:59.019
is very important to me, being a psychological type of doctor.

00:29:59.339 --> 00:30:02.459
And so far, no one has ever said anything stupid.

00:30:02.559 --> 00:30:05.679
And if they say something stupid like, oh, no, shut up or, you know,

00:30:05.839 --> 00:30:08.499
no, you need to own this, then I'm walking out.

00:30:09.439 --> 00:30:15.359
But no one's done that. And as we progress, I notice that doctors these days,

00:30:15.939 --> 00:30:20.919
at least in my experience, are very open to that.

00:30:21.059 --> 00:30:24.399
They say, yes, you're right. Okay, I understand. I won't say that anymore.

00:30:25.279 --> 00:30:29.399
And then we have a mini conversation on whatever you want to call it,

00:30:29.539 --> 00:30:34.439
new ageism or healing or quantum healing or Dr. Joe Dispenza healing or whatever like that.

00:30:34.679 --> 00:30:40.259
So to answer your question, you have to, let me stop for a moment.

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I want to say you have to, but you really want to reword language coming into

00:30:48.639 --> 00:30:53.119
you from other entities, and that includes text message and emails.

00:30:53.479 --> 00:30:56.719
But if there are times that you can't, such as in your question,

00:30:56.719 --> 00:30:59.619
your example of an email, say to a boss or something like that,

00:30:59.699 --> 00:31:02.899
you can't really write back and say, hey, say this word or something like that,

00:31:03.059 --> 00:31:06.799
then just divorce from it internally yourself.

00:31:06.799 --> 00:31:12.379
Or even better, speak it aloud and say, okay, they didn't mean this, they meant this.

00:31:12.499 --> 00:31:18.839
And then when you write back, write it in a way that you are rephrasing it for

00:31:18.839 --> 00:31:25.299
them in a positive way, of course, so you don't lose a job, but you're rewriting it.

00:31:25.439 --> 00:31:29.979
So let me give you a very specific example because I don't want anyone walking

00:31:29.979 --> 00:31:35.299
away without specificity here so they can have no-nonsense tools right now.

00:31:35.299 --> 00:31:38.199
So let's say someone writes to another person.

00:31:39.814 --> 00:31:45.114
Be careful with my target. If someone were to write to me and say they didn't

00:31:45.114 --> 00:31:49.174
know who I am, and I wasn't who I was, I was just a regular person.

00:31:49.574 --> 00:31:53.034
They say, hey, what's your problem? Why did you do this?

00:31:53.454 --> 00:31:59.534
I would write back to them something like, hey, I don't know what you mean,

00:31:59.654 --> 00:32:03.974
but I did this, this, and this because of this, this, and this,

00:32:04.014 --> 00:32:06.334
and that is how I saw the situation.

00:32:06.914 --> 00:32:13.594
So I didn't attack them for how they said, how they came at me by saying the word problem.

00:32:14.294 --> 00:32:20.614
I just redirected their query or their argument or whatever you want to call

00:32:20.614 --> 00:32:22.134
it. And then I answered it.

00:32:22.334 --> 00:32:26.074
So it's the same thing as in Aikido.

00:32:26.434 --> 00:32:29.514
So in martial arts, I was in martial arts for 25 years.

00:32:29.754 --> 00:32:33.394
In Aikido, that's the one that Steven Seagal, for those of you who are older,

00:32:33.394 --> 00:32:37.074
or the actor, the American actor, Steven Seagal, he did.

00:32:37.594 --> 00:32:44.674
Aikido is an art from Japan, and it's the number one art that I've ever recommended to females.

00:32:44.974 --> 00:32:47.254
A lot of other artists do this too.

00:32:47.574 --> 00:32:53.414
Because in Aikido, you almost never hit anybody. You just redirect their own

00:32:53.414 --> 00:32:55.034
energy against themselves.

00:32:55.394 --> 00:32:58.934
So when someone punches at your face, you're not blocking it,

00:32:59.054 --> 00:33:05.574
you're not punching back, You're grabbing their arm and you're always using circular movements.

00:33:05.634 --> 00:33:07.534
You're grabbing their arm.

00:33:08.081 --> 00:33:12.781
Or pushing their arm into the force in the direction they're already going.

00:33:13.141 --> 00:33:17.121
So if I have my back against the wall and someone's in front of me and I cannot

00:33:17.121 --> 00:33:22.401
go backwards and they're punching straight at my face, I'm going to either dodge

00:33:22.401 --> 00:33:26.981
it and allow their own momentum and power to hit the wall behind me and break their hand.

00:33:27.681 --> 00:33:32.201
Or I'm going to grab their arm or gently pull their arm.

00:33:32.301 --> 00:33:35.081
I don't have to do much motion because they're already in motion,

00:33:35.301 --> 00:33:37.541
powerful motion from their own punch.

00:33:38.081 --> 00:33:42.301
And I'm going to throw them into the arms. So I'm not using much effort.

00:33:42.481 --> 00:33:49.561
I'm taking the power that's aimed at me and redirecting it away from me into

00:33:49.561 --> 00:33:51.041
the wall so they get hurt.

00:33:51.241 --> 00:33:53.721
I'm doing the same goddamn thing with the email.

00:33:53.961 --> 00:33:57.521
I'm taking their stupidity of their words, hey, what's your problem,

00:33:58.041 --> 00:34:02.741
whatever nonsense that they're saying, and I'm redirecting it in a different,

00:34:02.941 --> 00:34:06.681
more beneficial way for me. It's the same thing when someone says,

00:34:06.841 --> 00:34:08.781
hey, how's your diabetes?

00:34:08.981 --> 00:34:13.841
You're redirecting it. You're saying, no, it's not my. It's the diabetes.

00:34:14.081 --> 00:34:17.561
So you're immediately divorcing from it. You're redirecting it.

00:34:17.621 --> 00:34:20.681
And you're talking about the strategy that you're doing.

00:34:20.821 --> 00:34:24.161
Hopefully, you're doing a strategy to overcome that thing.

00:34:24.321 --> 00:34:27.421
So you're really attacking it threefold at least.

00:34:28.061 --> 00:34:33.441
I like that. I like that because so many times, even when you have a mild cold,

00:34:33.441 --> 00:34:41.201
how's your cold you know oh what are you know what I mean people will always.

00:34:42.362 --> 00:34:46.962
You know, because I had like some health issues and I realized the more doctors

00:34:46.962 --> 00:34:50.682
I went to, A, the less they had answers and B, the worse I felt.

00:34:51.342 --> 00:34:54.602
And I would leave doctor's office feeling defeated. I'm like,

00:34:54.642 --> 00:34:55.762
this just isn't working.

00:34:56.562 --> 00:35:01.062
Yeah. And, you know, finding like your own path, especially with language,

00:35:01.182 --> 00:35:04.462
kind of like what you put out into the universe will come back.

00:35:05.082 --> 00:35:08.422
You know, and the messages that we tell ourselves are very important.

00:35:08.422 --> 00:35:12.502
Like if you're constantly hearing and believing that you're sick you're sick you're sick,

00:35:13.202 --> 00:35:15.902
you know i think it just continues that

00:35:15.902 --> 00:35:20.982
cycle and i wonder how that applies to certain words that you hear a lot of

00:35:20.982 --> 00:35:26.702
like procrastination you know like i feel like you hear that a lot like oh you're

00:35:26.702 --> 00:35:35.542
procrastinating what what is what do you define procrastination as how do you Sure.

00:35:35.762 --> 00:35:39.702
Procrastination is merely continuously putting something off,

00:35:39.902 --> 00:35:41.562
whatever that something is.

00:35:42.442 --> 00:35:45.922
And how could you apply a holistic version to that?

00:35:47.302 --> 00:35:52.982
Well, that wouldn't be quite easy. First, you have to divorce and realize that

00:35:52.982 --> 00:35:54.082
you're a procrastinator.

00:35:55.262 --> 00:36:01.242
And not you, but you in general. And then merely say whatever it is that you

00:36:01.242 --> 00:36:06.382
need to say to yourself, excuse me, to move yourself forward.

00:36:06.582 --> 00:36:15.102
Okay, how do you do that? The only way to do that is to find the meaning or

00:36:15.102 --> 00:36:18.262
passion or emotion or drive or feeling,

00:36:18.482 --> 00:36:21.662
whatever word you want to call it, it means the same thing in this case,

00:36:21.982 --> 00:36:31.642
behind what you want to do in life where that procrastination element is coming

00:36:31.642 --> 00:36:33.822
into play. So what the hell does that mean?

00:36:34.182 --> 00:36:37.982
That means if you're procrastinating about procrastinating.

00:36:39.590 --> 00:36:42.590
I'm going to stay general and then get specific. If you're

00:36:42.590 --> 00:36:45.650
procrastinating about something that you have

00:36:45.650 --> 00:36:49.650
to do to get paid

00:36:49.650 --> 00:36:55.870
because it's part of your job or to get recognition or to get a relationship

00:36:55.870 --> 00:37:02.670
because the person that you are in a relationship with or want to get into a

00:37:02.670 --> 00:37:08.190
relationship with wants that thing done or doesn't know about it,

00:37:08.190 --> 00:37:12.890
but you would like to do that thing so you can then have that paycheck or relationship or whatever.

00:37:13.970 --> 00:37:19.490
You cannot look at that procrastination element. You have to look at the long term.

00:37:19.750 --> 00:37:23.790
You have to look at your emotion, your feeling, your devotion,

00:37:24.010 --> 00:37:30.370
your passion, your reason behind the milestone, the further strategy,

00:37:30.550 --> 00:37:32.050
the bigger long term strategy.

00:37:32.410 --> 00:37:39.830
So let's get more specific here. However, if I'm a data entry person and I have

00:37:39.830 --> 00:37:47.990
a stack that's one foot tall of paper that I have to do to put into the computer for my job,

00:37:48.250 --> 00:37:52.090
of course, well, not me, but if I was a procrastinator,

00:37:52.570 --> 00:37:56.130
I'd be like, God damn it, these stupid-ass papers.

00:37:56.130 --> 00:37:59.790
It takes five minutes to do one paper, and I got a one-foot stack.

00:37:59.930 --> 00:38:01.270
It's going to take me the whole week.

00:38:01.650 --> 00:38:05.650
Yeah, tough shit. You got to do it. So how do you do that?

00:38:06.090 --> 00:38:12.370
You have to not focus on the procrastination element, which in this case is the stack of papers.

00:38:12.510 --> 00:38:19.890
You have to recall the passion that you have for whatever it is is the reason behind that job.

00:38:20.090 --> 00:38:23.370
I want a paycheck. If you got a job that you really don't like,

00:38:23.570 --> 00:38:26.710
but you are there for the paycheck, that's okay.

00:38:27.536 --> 00:38:32.036
Then just constantly remember, okay, it's not for the boss who's an idiot.

00:38:32.036 --> 00:38:34.336
I can't stand him. It's not for the customer.

00:38:34.516 --> 00:38:37.396
They're whining bitches. I can't stand them also.

00:38:37.636 --> 00:38:42.116
It's for me. It's for my paycheck. It's so I can get this paycheck and I could

00:38:42.116 --> 00:38:46.256
save money and I could go to Bermuda or I could go to Calgary,

00:38:46.396 --> 00:38:51.096
Canada or whatever. I could start my business or I could get a better job, whatever.

00:38:51.656 --> 00:38:56.516
Forget the procrastination element. If you focus on that, you're going to forever,

00:38:56.816 --> 00:39:00.816
most likely, forever procrastinate and you're not going to change.

00:39:01.056 --> 00:39:02.716
So you're going to say, how do I change?

00:39:03.036 --> 00:39:06.616
Yeah, I divorced from myself, but no, you need to divorce from yourself,

00:39:06.756 --> 00:39:10.776
but then you need to find the passion that is behind your goal,

00:39:10.776 --> 00:39:15.036
which put you in that atmosphere of that procrastination element.

00:39:15.036 --> 00:39:21.356
In this case, in my example, my goal is to, I'll say, travel the world,

00:39:21.356 --> 00:39:24.556
which made me get this job that I hate,

00:39:24.796 --> 00:39:30.296
which made me do this data entry task, which is one foot tall, that I hate.

00:39:30.396 --> 00:39:35.936
I'm not focusing on the one foot tall element. I'm not focusing on the shitty job that I hate.

00:39:36.096 --> 00:39:40.196
I'm focusing on me being happy traveling the world.

00:39:40.396 --> 00:39:44.676
So you have to recall that. Now, if you can't find that passion,

00:39:44.856 --> 00:39:46.976
that element, that emotion, that drive,

00:39:47.316 --> 00:39:52.476
then you are in the wrong place and you really need to rethink your strategy

00:39:52.476 --> 00:39:56.496
and where you are in life at that moment and change something.

00:39:56.496 --> 00:40:01.156
Now, I'm trying to make sure I ask this correctly.

00:40:02.196 --> 00:40:10.196
When or where do you think we became disconnected from our language and ourselves

00:40:10.196 --> 00:40:12.776
in a way where it became okay to...

00:40:14.150 --> 00:40:17.690
Talk to ourselves this way, talk to other people like this way?

00:40:18.150 --> 00:40:22.390
When did we start to, where did it kind of go wrong for us, do you think?

00:40:23.450 --> 00:40:27.170
That's an excellent question. That actually makes me think.

00:40:27.310 --> 00:40:33.190
I do have an initial answer, but I'm trying to think, see, I'm trying to divorce from myself.

00:40:33.410 --> 00:40:40.610
I'm divorcing from myself right now and trying to think of a perhaps grander answer if there is one.

00:40:41.590 --> 00:40:51.490
So I would at the outset, I would say either all of it or at least a great deal

00:40:51.490 --> 00:40:59.970
of it stems from the pieces of garbage that rule this planet and constantly keep humanity divided.

00:41:00.030 --> 00:41:03.830
So we're not connected. We don't love each other.

00:41:03.970 --> 00:41:09.450
We don't come together and start waking up and seeing how they're really hurting humanity.

00:41:10.430 --> 00:41:16.750
So I think for medical reasons, I would say back in the 19,

00:41:17.270 --> 00:41:24.950
I have to remember 1920s or maybe 1940s when the Drexler Report came out,

00:41:25.110 --> 00:41:32.730
when the Rockefellers and other pieces of shit took over the medical establishment

00:41:32.730 --> 00:41:38.090
and they started to realize that words are part of medicine,

00:41:38.470 --> 00:41:46.810
how you talk with yourself, is a part of worsening yourself or bettering yourself.

00:41:47.470 --> 00:41:52.590
I speak slowly now because I know that there's an earlier answer,

00:41:52.830 --> 00:41:58.390
but I guess I'll focus on more of a modern answer with your question. So...

00:41:59.323 --> 00:42:06.783
What I said is correct, and my belief, and it really helps to, excuse me,

00:42:07.063 --> 00:42:17.243
it perpetuates by these entities allowing people to be depressed and let things

00:42:17.243 --> 00:42:20.903
go viral that are condescending,

00:42:21.323 --> 00:42:28.443
that help humanity to further play itself down.

00:42:29.123 --> 00:42:34.523
You'll notice, and I've noticed this a long time ago, you'll notice in TV shows,

00:42:34.523 --> 00:42:39.623
when I used to watch TV a long time ago, and in movies, it's very exciting.

00:42:39.723 --> 00:42:47.183
And even YouTube, it's very accepted to watch videos or TV or movies of people

00:42:47.183 --> 00:42:51.683
getting hurt and dumb shits laughing in the background when someone gets hurt.

00:42:51.983 --> 00:42:55.283
Yeah, sometimes it's comical if it's like Three Stooges or something like that.

00:42:55.403 --> 00:43:00.523
But habitually, when someone really gets hurt, And now you see people getting

00:43:00.523 --> 00:43:07.583
hurt in real life on YouTube or, excuse me, in real life or on YouTube or whatever platform.

00:43:08.083 --> 00:43:13.743
And people are just walking away or not doing anything or even laughing or just

00:43:13.743 --> 00:43:15.683
taking out their damn phone and not even helping.

00:43:16.263 --> 00:43:22.583
And this all stems from that. They realize that if you get people to say,

00:43:22.723 --> 00:43:25.503
hey, they're a bunch of idiots or we don't have to help the homeless or

00:43:25.503 --> 00:43:28.363
the homeless are all pieces of garbage that made the decision

00:43:28.363 --> 00:43:31.383
to be homeless so they're not really real people you

00:43:31.383 --> 00:43:34.983
can smack them you can break the bottle over break a bottle over their head

00:43:34.983 --> 00:43:42.883
and you don't need to be positive with yourself being positive with your language

00:43:42.883 --> 00:43:49.003
is all hippie nonsense you just need medicine you can say this is my.

00:43:50.195 --> 00:43:52.995
Fracture this is my condition you can

00:43:52.995 --> 00:43:55.635
own it and as a matter of fact you have to own it

00:43:55.635 --> 00:43:58.635
this is what they say you have to own it because then

00:43:58.635 --> 00:44:01.495
only then can you realize it and then start to

00:44:01.495 --> 00:44:06.475
make it better no that's the complete opposite so i would say around that time

00:44:06.475 --> 00:44:11.335
where they started to realize that they could really control humanity more so

00:44:11.335 --> 00:44:18.935
and keep humanity more in sickness ailments and thus debilitated so they can't

00:44:18.935 --> 00:44:20.635
wake up, Emani can't wake up,

00:44:20.815 --> 00:44:28.875
and help increase their revenue via pharmaceuticals and all that stuff that

00:44:28.875 --> 00:44:34.255
just helps to suppress health and, of course, life and vitality and positivity.

00:44:35.095 --> 00:44:40.835
Oh, it is. And I think something to that has affected us greatly is.

00:44:42.300 --> 00:44:46.620
You know, social media platforms. Yeah. Not only like what you said,

00:44:46.680 --> 00:44:52.360
I know what you mean, like seeing like homeless people as less than or getting

00:44:52.360 --> 00:44:56.040
a laugh out of them, laugh out of their pain and suffering.

00:44:56.680 --> 00:45:01.800
But you begin to see people's, you know, kind of so-called like highlight reels

00:45:01.800 --> 00:45:05.760
in life, you know, and it becomes that dangerous game of comparison.

00:45:05.760 --> 00:45:12.400
And this one has this, this one has that, but meanwhile, we're not getting any

00:45:12.400 --> 00:45:14.460
more connected to ourselves or each other.

00:45:15.360 --> 00:45:19.580
We're just in constant competition of who has more. Yes.

00:45:20.720 --> 00:45:25.060
You're not going to be happy. You're constantly trying to get more and more and more.

00:45:27.300 --> 00:45:32.180
I know that social media is not something that you partake in,

00:45:32.260 --> 00:45:34.000
and I completely understand why.

00:45:34.840 --> 00:45:39.560
Because I think it is something that was meant to keep us disconnected from

00:45:39.560 --> 00:45:44.880
each other and to almost keep us fighting with each other. Would that be accurate?

00:45:45.640 --> 00:45:48.780
I wish it wasn't. I wish I could argue with you.

00:45:49.120 --> 00:45:55.500
I've said for years, and I just said this in a conversation either yesterday

00:45:55.500 --> 00:45:57.320
or two days ago with someone.

00:45:59.036 --> 00:46:05.036
You have to realize that, remember the clientele that I have,

00:46:05.236 --> 00:46:11.116
I work with entities that are in intelligence agencies and these high-level

00:46:11.116 --> 00:46:18.856
entities that do a lot of disgusting things to society,

00:46:19.256 --> 00:46:21.356
three-letter agencies and stuff like that.

00:46:21.356 --> 00:46:26.356
I work with these entities, so I know how they really are.

00:46:26.556 --> 00:46:30.636
And you have to realize these ruling entities across this world,

00:46:30.636 --> 00:46:35.836
they hate you more than you can possibly imagine. And I am not kidding.

00:46:36.176 --> 00:46:40.256
They hate humanity more than you can possibly imagine.

00:46:41.656 --> 00:46:44.836
So with that said with that foundation

00:46:44.836 --> 00:46:48.056
you have to realize when a new technology comes

00:46:48.056 --> 00:46:51.676
out it will never until you

00:46:51.676 --> 00:46:54.556
know jesus comes back or there's a miracle on this planet

00:46:54.556 --> 00:46:57.316
or everyone wakes up whatever you want to whatever you want to

00:46:57.316 --> 00:47:02.916
say until something that grand happens and the world really turns positive every

00:47:02.916 --> 00:47:09.416
tech that ever comes out i don't care if it's google or elon musk's stupid shit

00:47:09.416 --> 00:47:15.356
or open AI or this new one called upscroll that all the TikTok,

00:47:15.696 --> 00:47:20.896
not all, but a lot of TikTokers are leaving and going to upscroll their whatever platform, Twitter,

00:47:21.596 --> 00:47:26.476
any piece of shit billionaire is not for you or a millionaire.

00:47:26.776 --> 00:47:32.036
They don't care about you. So any tech that comes out is not for the people.

00:47:32.196 --> 00:47:35.696
I don't care if you got some piece of shit CEO Oh, saying, hey,

00:47:35.896 --> 00:47:38.816
I'm from Palestine or I'm from whatever.

00:47:38.976 --> 00:47:41.816
We're for free speech. They are not.

00:47:42.836 --> 00:47:48.696
Every dickhead who believed Musk's lies originally, that he was for the people

00:47:48.696 --> 00:47:51.816
10 years ago or whatever it was, they're all fucking idiots.

00:47:52.036 --> 00:47:55.116
It's like, no, wake up. They are not for you.

00:47:55.840 --> 00:47:58.920
So all this social media is not for you.

00:47:59.120 --> 00:48:08.440
It is only to help stifle and further hurt humanity. It is not to get people to unify.

00:48:08.640 --> 00:48:15.040
Now, perhaps, just like in elections, low-level elections, like what's it called,

00:48:15.160 --> 00:48:20.260
aldermen or city council members, something like that, they may be real.

00:48:20.260 --> 00:48:27.040
But when you get to the present and even close to that, it's not real elections. It's already decided.

00:48:27.320 --> 00:48:31.580
So maybe someone today can wake up and be for humanity and say,

00:48:31.660 --> 00:48:33.460
hey, I'm going to create a big tech platform.

00:48:33.720 --> 00:48:37.840
It's going to be like TikTok or Twitter or whatever. Maybe they're real,

00:48:38.000 --> 00:48:42.660
but if they get big enough, 100% forever,

00:48:42.920 --> 00:48:48.940
no exception, it will always be taken over by the pieces of shit who hate humanity

00:48:48.940 --> 00:48:53.340
and will turn it around to be a tool against humanity.

00:48:53.340 --> 00:48:55.380
So unfortunately, you're right.

00:48:55.620 --> 00:49:00.360
Social media is not to unify people. The internet is not to unify people.

00:49:00.520 --> 00:49:05.120
It was created by DARPA, the goddamn military branch, which is also one of the

00:49:05.120 --> 00:49:09.620
entities that my clients work with. So I know what the hell I'm talking about.

00:49:10.500 --> 00:49:16.060
Also, one of the reasons why I said I was hesitant, I was speaking slowly in

00:49:16.060 --> 00:49:20.220
my answers because you said language. We were talking about language,

00:49:20.240 --> 00:49:25.060
but I was hesitant because also language is also showing people.

00:49:25.220 --> 00:49:27.660
It's not always words. So...

00:49:28.806 --> 00:49:33.306
Going back to the example of beating homeless people or beating people who are

00:49:33.306 --> 00:49:37.386
lesser than you or comparing yourself, like you said, in social media,

00:49:37.686 --> 00:49:38.966
always comparing yourself.

00:49:39.126 --> 00:49:41.226
That is language also.

00:49:41.426 --> 00:49:44.626
It's not with words, but it's with symbolism.

00:49:44.946 --> 00:49:52.666
So all this general term, language, I'm going to say, is all hurting society.

00:49:52.666 --> 00:49:55.706
It's not good elements. That's why I don't have social media.

00:49:55.846 --> 00:49:58.526
And I tell everyone, get off the damn social media. You don't need it.

00:49:58.806 --> 00:50:05.286
We survived greatly without social media before, so we'll do fine if you divorce from it also.

00:50:06.266 --> 00:50:11.206
And yeah, you'll look at, like I was saying earlier, with Hollywood and TV shows and everything.

00:50:11.466 --> 00:50:16.386
So many times I would see King of Queens with Kevin James and whatever,

00:50:16.806 --> 00:50:18.306
Leah Ramini or whatever it is.

00:50:18.506 --> 00:50:21.786
That was so damn funny. I loved that show.

00:50:22.066 --> 00:50:26.806
But so many times, and I would catch this too when they said it.

00:50:26.806 --> 00:50:30.846
A long time ago, they say, oh, I love something Doug would say to Carrie.

00:50:31.046 --> 00:50:34.366
Something like, where's the Carrie that I love? The one that gives the world

00:50:34.366 --> 00:50:36.546
the middle finger. The one that hates everybody.

00:50:36.826 --> 00:50:41.106
And the people would laugh. And I understand that. But you have to understand.

00:50:41.246 --> 00:50:43.586
Yeah, you can laugh at that. But you have to understand. It's like,

00:50:43.966 --> 00:50:47.086
yeah, laugh. But at the same time, in the back of your mind, be, wait a minute.

00:50:47.266 --> 00:50:52.246
That's another programming element that these shitheads are putting into TV

00:50:52.246 --> 00:50:57.086
and Hollywood and all that stuff. media, the general term media, to help.

00:50:58.082 --> 00:51:01.682
Program people into, it's okay to hate people. It's okay to be like,

00:51:01.822 --> 00:51:05.242
oh, wait, you're saying hello to me? You're a stranger.

00:51:05.422 --> 00:51:10.582
You're shaking your hand to me. What is wrong with you? And that's how this shit world is today.

00:51:10.842 --> 00:51:14.922
Every dickhead is like, okay, whoa, why are you saying hello to me?

00:51:15.042 --> 00:51:16.862
Whoa, why are you giving your seat to me?

00:51:17.142 --> 00:51:23.102
It's disgusting how it is. And it's that way because people don't realize this,

00:51:23.142 --> 00:51:30.362
they don't divorce and they've allowed an entity or a strategic energy,

00:51:30.522 --> 00:51:31.562
whatever you want to call it,

00:51:31.822 --> 00:51:34.702
to push humanity that way and that's why the world is this way.

00:51:36.368 --> 00:51:41.968
And I completely agree with you, especially having a child has really helped

00:51:41.968 --> 00:51:45.428
me to see a lot of these things clear. Yeah.

00:51:46.828 --> 00:51:53.988
Even outside of social media, just the language used in schools and things is

00:51:53.988 --> 00:51:57.228
very, very powerful. It's very powerful.

00:51:58.628 --> 00:52:05.048
And I wonder if a way to or I should ask what do you think about because humanitarianism

00:52:05.048 --> 00:52:10.528
is something that's very important to you as well as paying it forward yes do

00:52:10.528 --> 00:52:13.028
you think that's a way to get back,

00:52:14.308 --> 00:52:18.088
to I guess more our natural state of being connected,

00:52:19.148 --> 00:52:24.528
absolutely absolutely you have to it's without a doubt you have to get back

00:52:24.528 --> 00:52:30.408
to And I don't mean to sound like hippie-ish or whatever, but it is what it is.

00:52:30.588 --> 00:52:34.168
You have to get back to love and unification.

00:52:34.608 --> 00:52:41.148
And one of the grandest ways to do such is to go back to paying it forward,

00:52:41.328 --> 00:52:44.328
go back to humanitarianism.

00:52:44.988 --> 00:52:49.268
And as you said, I care about that a lot. I do a lot of humanitarian work for

00:52:49.268 --> 00:52:52.548
people in Africa, India, and underprivileged entities.

00:52:53.048 --> 00:52:59.468
But yes, that is a great way because it helps you to stop being selfish and

00:52:59.468 --> 00:53:03.668
thinking of only yourself and to help others, obviously.

00:53:03.668 --> 00:53:09.188
But also it helps you to reconnect with others.

00:53:09.828 --> 00:53:18.668
And it helps you to, like we were talking about making a eulogy for yourself, it helps you to...

00:53:20.435 --> 00:53:23.295
Recall how good you

00:53:23.295 --> 00:53:26.915
feel when you're helping others and this

00:53:26.915 --> 00:53:30.355
is a very key thing in existence

00:53:30.355 --> 00:53:35.915
because with myself and others who work with high net worth individuals and

00:53:35.915 --> 00:53:40.535
i imagine most of your audience whoever hear this show will understand this

00:53:40.535 --> 00:53:47.575
already we know for a fact that a lot of rich people are not happy.

00:53:47.815 --> 00:53:52.335
They go to counselors, they go to consultants, they go to Dr.

00:53:52.415 --> 00:53:54.575
Joe Dispenza, Tony Robbins, Dr.

00:53:54.775 --> 00:54:00.815
John Martini, and Bob Proctor when he was around, and Napoleon Hill,

00:54:01.115 --> 00:54:05.595
all these people, and they complain. They say they have all this shit.

00:54:05.715 --> 00:54:09.155
They have everything according to the everyday person. They have everything,

00:54:09.155 --> 00:54:11.215
but they still complain.

00:54:11.355 --> 00:54:15.795
They still feel that something is missing, and this is going to bleed into spirituality

00:54:15.795 --> 00:54:20.755
a little bit, but whatever you want to call it, humans have a...

00:54:22.217 --> 00:54:25.757
An abyss, a missing element inside of them.

00:54:26.537 --> 00:54:31.757
And that thing, in my experience and the experience of a trove of people across

00:54:31.757 --> 00:54:35.457
space and time that I have researched and colleagues that I know,

00:54:36.337 --> 00:54:42.977
we see that the only thing that fills that is helping others or,

00:54:43.137 --> 00:54:47.937
as some really religious people say, serving others, whatever you want to call

00:54:47.937 --> 00:54:49.917
it, connecting with others.

00:54:49.917 --> 00:54:58.017
And humanitarianism, paying it forward, the two phrases that you said, are, of course,

00:54:58.277 --> 00:55:06.177
naturally beautiful ways, of the grandest ways, actually, to get back to unifying

00:55:06.177 --> 00:55:08.057
and bringing in this world how it is.

00:55:08.057 --> 00:55:13.517
We just saw this beautiful effort, the Walk for Peace with the monks,

00:55:13.557 --> 00:55:18.577
who started in October from Fort Worth, Texas, and they just finished yesterday

00:55:18.577 --> 00:55:21.877
going to Maryland. They went to Washington, D.C.

00:55:21.897 --> 00:55:25.857
Was their original goal, but they extended to Maryland because the Annapolis

00:55:25.857 --> 00:55:29.357
city asked them to come over there as well after they finished with D.C.

00:55:29.357 --> 00:55:34.897
And now they're either home right now or they're en route to Fort Worth, Texas in their van now.

00:55:35.257 --> 00:55:42.117
And you see giving back and unifying with each other and giving each other flowers,

00:55:42.277 --> 00:55:45.917
giving each other the peace bracelet that they did and other people did when

00:55:45.917 --> 00:55:47.937
they took extra and gave it to their loved ones.

00:55:49.097 --> 00:55:52.817
That is what helps fill that

00:55:52.817 --> 00:55:58.777
void it's unifying and giving back and helping others connecting with others

00:55:58.777 --> 00:56:02.917
uniting with others serving others whatever phrase you want to say that is the

00:56:02.917 --> 00:56:07.777
only thing there is no other thing so how do you do that one great way is giving

00:56:07.777 --> 00:56:11.797
back helping others when they don't have money or they can't give you anything back.

00:56:13.063 --> 00:56:15.623
Yeah, and I think that's beautiful. I feel like to some degree,

00:56:15.623 --> 00:56:21.783
people have gotten almost afraid of being close to each other.

00:56:22.663 --> 00:56:29.323
And even to ourselves, we've become very disconnected through social media is a big thing.

00:56:30.263 --> 00:56:35.243
But just in a society, which is, I guess, a little topic of just having more

00:56:35.243 --> 00:56:38.463
and more and more bigger this, more that, more money, like you said,

00:56:38.463 --> 00:56:45.003
you know how many celebrities or you know people very well off end up in counseling,

00:56:45.963 --> 00:56:52.103
or end up you know struggling with addiction or end up you know just losing

00:56:52.103 --> 00:56:58.343
it all and you know you got to wonder were they ever really happy you know was

00:56:58.343 --> 00:57:04.783
it ever really their goal to get to that point you know and I wonder sometimes if people are just,

00:57:05.363 --> 00:57:08.523
I've gotten afraid of connecting with people you know,

00:57:09.183 --> 00:57:11.243
I feel like sometimes there's like,

00:57:12.043 --> 00:57:16.103
we may keep each other at bay you know because,

00:57:16.843 --> 00:57:22.303
there might be like a fear of like self-reflection too and to start asking more

00:57:22.303 --> 00:57:27.903
questions you know sometimes I may not like the answers so much I think that

00:57:27.903 --> 00:57:31.363
goes back to like what you were talking about like divorcing ourselves.

00:57:32.383 --> 00:57:39.563
Like what what do those answers look like and what do I have to do with them you know and yes,

00:57:40.363 --> 00:57:43.723
you know you mentioned that Buddhist walk which I thought was that's just just

00:57:43.723 --> 00:57:50.143
such a simple way to give back you know I mean it's not easy but you're not talking about you,

00:57:50.944 --> 00:57:53.564
I mean, you could be as well, probably giving back on a grander scale.

00:57:53.744 --> 00:57:58.464
But I think, correct me if I'm wrong, you're referencing even just being kind to each other.

00:58:00.204 --> 00:58:03.784
Just simple gestures of kindness.

00:58:04.724 --> 00:58:08.404
Not laughing at a joke that would maybe hurtful to someone or correcting our language.

00:58:09.364 --> 00:58:13.564
Because giving back and humanitarianism doesn't have to be on a large scale.

00:58:13.664 --> 00:58:15.924
It can also be on a smaller scale, like in your community.

00:58:16.044 --> 00:58:18.484
Would you say that's correct? Absolutely.

00:58:19.844 --> 00:58:26.204
It's restoring civility like you said you used the word kindness but whatever word you want to say.

00:58:28.064 --> 00:58:31.704
This society is very sick right now and,

00:58:33.104 --> 00:58:38.544
it needs to go back to civility and caring for each other and seeing each other

00:58:38.544 --> 00:58:44.304
as an entity that deserves whatever word you want to say love, kindness, respect,

00:58:44.544 --> 00:58:51.724
civility or all of it, whatever And as we touched upon in this conversation,

00:58:52.064 --> 00:58:59.704
a huge reason for this current scenario, this atmosphere, is the idiots just

00:58:59.704 --> 00:59:03.264
perpetuating, you know, it's okay to hate people.

00:59:04.204 --> 00:59:10.124
I also don't like people. I actually saw this one dickhead walking around with a shirt in here.

00:59:10.604 --> 00:59:14.224
I'm in Tbilisi, Georgia, the country Georgia, not the U.S.

00:59:14.304 --> 00:59:19.724
State. and I saw some dipshit walking around with a black t-shirt a few months

00:59:19.724 --> 00:59:23.064
ago and white letters and it said something like.

00:59:24.009 --> 00:59:28.649
Goddammit, what the hell did it say? It said, I hate people or something like

00:59:28.649 --> 00:59:30.609
that, or it's okay, I hate people.

00:59:30.849 --> 00:59:36.629
Something like that. Going back to the comment on the Doug and Kerry, King of Queens thing.

00:59:37.509 --> 00:59:41.689
I've seen it in other media outside of King Queens. That was just one example.

00:59:41.929 --> 00:59:46.209
But here, they think it's totally fine to wear a shirt that says,

00:59:46.389 --> 00:59:49.889
and it was something more powerful than what I'm just saying, I hate people.

00:59:50.049 --> 00:59:52.969
It was something like, are you kidding me? You're actually wearing that.

00:59:53.389 --> 00:59:57.069
And it was something like, it's okay to hate people.

00:59:57.369 --> 01:00:03.489
And the fact that that is on a commercial t-shirt, I imagine that they didn't

01:00:03.489 --> 01:00:05.529
make that themselves. Well, you never know.

01:00:06.069 --> 01:00:10.249
That means there's more than one that's made and being sold in this world.

01:00:10.749 --> 01:00:14.629
And people are actually buying it. Otherwise, it wouldn't have been made unless

01:00:14.629 --> 01:00:16.309
it's a pilot. Of course, you You never know.

01:00:17.629 --> 01:00:23.109
So yeah, all this stuff, it just allows people to be afraid of,

01:00:23.249 --> 01:00:28.109
like you said, oh, I don't want to do different, meaning I don't want to care

01:00:28.109 --> 01:00:30.549
for people or ask people, how are you doing?

01:00:30.629 --> 01:00:35.389
Because they may say something back to me and embarrass me and say like,

01:00:35.589 --> 01:00:39.169
oh, why are you talking with me? Or just ignore me.

01:00:40.129 --> 01:00:44.649
And it's gotten to that level because of, like I said, the language,

01:00:45.069 --> 01:00:52.249
whether it's spoken language with a human language or language with symbolism,

01:00:52.249 --> 01:00:53.269
like we were talking about.

01:00:53.909 --> 01:00:58.809
It's just seen as okay and people need to wake up and start with yourself.

01:00:59.209 --> 01:01:02.989
Take off your dumbass headsets as you're walking down the fucking street.

01:01:03.289 --> 01:01:06.309
You can have headsets. Yeah, of course, I'm not telling you what to do,

01:01:06.349 --> 01:01:11.609
but in general, to have headsets every goddamn place you go and disconnect from

01:01:11.609 --> 01:01:15.029
everyone, that is one of the big tools that these people,

01:01:15.547 --> 01:01:21.007
grueling shitheads, have welcomed, always have your headsets in,

01:01:21.167 --> 01:01:25.647
always disconnect, don't be close with anyone, don't have conversations on the

01:01:25.647 --> 01:01:28.167
bus, don't have conversations in the cafe,

01:01:28.607 --> 01:01:31.787
keep to your own music, keep your own world to yourself.

01:01:32.267 --> 01:01:36.967
And then, don't have any real friends, just have dipshit friends on your Facebook

01:01:36.967 --> 01:01:39.647
who aren't really friends, you have a thousand of them,

01:01:39.807 --> 01:01:45.487
but you only have like one real friend, or I think the statistic now is 2.5

01:01:45.487 --> 01:01:48.007
real friends. I think it's less than that now. Wow.

01:01:48.547 --> 01:01:53.627
So yeah, it's no more than 2.5. I remember that, but that was a while ago, so maybe less.

01:01:54.167 --> 01:01:59.667
So yeah, you have to start with yourself. Just like the monks said in the walk

01:01:59.667 --> 01:02:01.767
for peace, peace starts from within.

01:02:02.167 --> 01:02:04.567
Returning to civility starts from within.

01:02:05.447 --> 01:02:10.727
Doing good shit, paying it forward, humanitarian, start with your own goddamn self.

01:02:10.727 --> 01:02:13.847
You know hold the fucking door open for

01:02:13.847 --> 01:02:16.487
someone behind you give your seat to the

01:02:16.487 --> 01:02:19.407
elderly or to a pregnant person or something

01:02:19.407 --> 01:02:22.767
like that start basic start small you

01:02:22.767 --> 01:02:25.687
know say hello to a goddamn stranger as you're walking into

01:02:25.687 --> 01:02:28.487
the restaurant you sit next to them or whatever start with

01:02:28.487 --> 01:02:31.267
small shit and you'll see that goes from

01:02:31.267 --> 01:02:34.507
there it's like everything in existence change begins

01:02:34.507 --> 01:02:37.527
with you and I think sometimes

01:02:37.527 --> 01:02:40.407
something that always that has that has bothered me

01:02:40.407 --> 01:02:46.547
is that i don't know if you think of my words correct here there's like a culture

01:02:46.547 --> 01:02:51.527
of you know you there's like this kind of lone wolf culture like you do everything

01:02:51.527 --> 01:02:58.147
by yourself you don't need anybody yeah and i think that's a dangerous kind of slippery slope,

01:02:59.847 --> 01:03:05.587
because no one does everything any everything by themselves you know like we

01:03:05.587 --> 01:03:09.367
all have help along the way or mentors or guides whatever you want to call it

01:03:09.367 --> 01:03:11.487
and I think that's a kind of.

01:03:13.405 --> 01:03:16.645
Obviously another tool used to keep us separated but it's

01:03:16.645 --> 01:03:19.605
a very dangerous i think mentality to have

01:03:19.605 --> 01:03:24.345
that you do everything by yourself there's there's no help around you you know

01:03:24.345 --> 01:03:31.385
and i have to wonder where else it goes from there you know because just seeing

01:03:31.385 --> 01:03:36.825
how the world is now which is i agree it's a very very sad scary place at times

01:03:36.825 --> 01:03:38.965
it's just like everybody for themselves,

01:03:39.805 --> 01:03:46.425
and you only get success by yourself and I don't think that's accurate I mean

01:03:46.425 --> 01:03:50.725
you may put in the work but somebody helped you along the way even if you may not realize it,

01:03:51.685 --> 01:03:56.385
and I think it goes back to kind of what you were saying was the interconnectivity

01:03:56.385 --> 01:04:01.205
that we're more connected than we like to believe or led to believe,

01:04:02.005 --> 01:04:06.945
and I have to wonder who were some of the guides or mentors that you had along your journey Thank you.

01:04:08.211 --> 01:04:12.791
Oh, so many. Most of them were, as I say, mentors from afar.

01:04:13.031 --> 01:04:17.431
They didn't even know that they were my mentor. I just followed them and admired them.

01:04:18.591 --> 01:04:24.331
As we in academia, I teach at different universities across the world,

01:04:24.371 --> 01:04:30.871
so I'm a scholar, though I'm not completely in academia anymore, but still a scholar.

01:04:30.871 --> 01:04:35.651
And us academic scholars, whatever you want to call me, we say that we stood

01:04:35.651 --> 01:04:39.451
on the shoulders of giants is the phrase that we use a lot.

01:04:40.111 --> 01:04:46.751
So yeah, we may have the grand pedigree and innovation that we've done,

01:04:46.791 --> 01:04:50.771
but it's only like you said, even if you put in the work by yourself,

01:04:50.771 --> 01:04:53.011
you still had people that helped you before.

01:04:53.011 --> 01:04:57.151
And the people that helped us before, Socrates, Plato, or Aristotle,

01:04:57.471 --> 01:05:00.511
the work that they've done, we just bounce off of it.

01:05:01.011 --> 01:05:05.651
So it's also called consilience and academia. So the people to answer your question,

01:05:05.951 --> 01:05:09.151
I mean, I've had two father figures.

01:05:09.871 --> 01:05:15.731
One of them was a white guy that was like 60. This was a long time ago.

01:05:16.191 --> 01:05:23.091
Like 60 at the time, he was my boss. And he really took upon me because we're both redheads.

01:05:24.611 --> 01:05:29.091
And he like fell in love with me everybody,

01:05:29.751 --> 01:05:33.151
sorry not everybody everybody who hated him hated me

01:05:33.151 --> 01:05:38.871
because he he like took me in since day one when I started working there and

01:05:38.871 --> 01:05:42.591
I got all kinds of privileges and stuff like that I had to go home early and

01:05:42.591 --> 01:05:46.791
everything and go traveling with him so they didn't like me but the good people

01:05:46.791 --> 01:05:52.371
liked me because they knew that he was a good guy so he really helped me with learning how to,

01:05:53.091 --> 01:05:59.131
how business works and how operations work and then another guy a black guy,

01:05:59.891 --> 01:06:05.151
who was shorter than me and he was the most powerful martial artist i could

01:06:05.151 --> 01:06:09.691
ever imagine aside from bruce lee and brandon lee and perhaps some others.

01:06:11.776 --> 01:06:16.796
But he was able to kick everyone's ass. He was so short, this black guy.

01:06:16.956 --> 01:06:19.056
At that time, that was even longer.

01:06:19.296 --> 01:06:23.296
At that time, he was probably 40 years old, maybe.

01:06:23.716 --> 01:06:28.016
And he would be doing flips in the air and kicking. I'm like,

01:06:28.156 --> 01:06:33.216
holy shit, this little fucking short guy kicking everyone's ass. And he was the best.

01:06:33.876 --> 01:06:37.976
I really loved him, both of these guys. And he, the black guy,

01:06:38.576 --> 01:06:46.656
he actually taught me about psychology and connecting with others and just,

01:06:46.656 --> 01:06:49.116
I'm going to say, life in general.

01:06:49.476 --> 01:06:54.016
So those two really helped personally. And professionally, too, but mostly personally.

01:06:54.236 --> 01:07:00.436
And then academically would be Dr. Rupert Sheldrake with his work on Morphic Resonance.

01:07:00.556 --> 01:07:05.456
Dr. Joe Dispenza, who I imagine most of your audience will know. I love that guy.

01:07:06.236 --> 01:07:09.436
Been following him for decades, and quite a few others. And then Buckminster

01:07:09.436 --> 01:07:12.816
Fuller, who actually has my favorite quote ever.

01:07:12.996 --> 01:07:19.376
And I use it when I talk with others a lot, because my work on holistic vision

01:07:19.376 --> 01:07:21.616
is the very element that he's speaking of.

01:07:21.736 --> 01:07:26.516
So he said, if you want to teach others a new way of thinking,

01:07:27.016 --> 01:07:29.316
don't bother trying to teach them.

01:07:30.376 --> 01:07:36.696
Instead, give them a tool, the use of which will further new ways of thinking.

01:07:36.976 --> 01:07:41.816
And that's exactly my holistic vision. I don't give anybody answers.

01:07:41.816 --> 01:07:44.856
I give them the tool to go and find the answers themselves.

01:07:45.476 --> 01:07:51.036
So that's what that work is. But I would say those are the people that have helped me mostly.

01:07:51.596 --> 01:07:54.196
Hopefully, I'm not omitting anyone.

01:07:55.476 --> 01:07:58.416
Would you say that's a quote that you apply to your daily life?

01:07:58.916 --> 01:08:06.596
Oh, God, yeah. I'm just, like I said, psychotic for knowledge and with that.

01:08:08.698 --> 01:08:14.898
Character of myself. I'm constantly looking for new ways, even simple stuff

01:08:14.898 --> 01:08:17.278
that most people would think is just like dumb shit.

01:08:17.438 --> 01:08:21.758
When I walk to Dunkin' Donuts or to Starbucks, in my mind, I'll say,

01:08:21.858 --> 01:08:23.738
okay, I do this very quick.

01:08:23.958 --> 01:08:27.458
I'll calculate from here to there. If I go this way, it's six steps.

01:08:27.558 --> 01:08:29.418
If I go this way, it's 5.5 steps.

01:08:29.598 --> 01:08:34.838
And not in a psychotic way where I can never relaxed, but in a way we're constantly

01:08:34.838 --> 01:08:39.498
divorcing, saying, okay, this way of writing my seventh book,

01:08:40.418 --> 01:08:44.898
I can use this cover, but I can attract these other people if I use this cover.

01:08:45.298 --> 01:08:50.898
And if I step outside myself and think of myself as, or excuse me, think of this book as a,

01:08:52.038 --> 01:08:57.038
GPT or LLM prompt engineer or a systems architect,

01:08:57.338 --> 01:09:01.798
a computer systems architect, then I want to use this kind of message or this

01:09:01.798 --> 01:09:05.998
kind of cover so yeah I'm constantly doing that I've been doing this work for

01:09:05.998 --> 01:09:11.158
over 10 years professionally but I've been researching it for,

01:09:12.238 --> 01:09:18.358
over 40 as a person so yeah you've accomplished.

01:09:19.658 --> 01:09:26.338
So much what is next for you what's in store for you or what do you hope to

01:09:26.338 --> 01:09:27.478
accomplish in the future Okay.

01:09:28.575 --> 01:09:32.095
Do you have goals like that, or do you not? Oh, yeah.

01:09:32.295 --> 01:09:39.055
I constantly, I mean, I've been asked this question by just in-person conversation

01:09:39.055 --> 01:09:46.255
and other media, and I constantly say that I'm so far ahead of where I should be because,

01:09:46.695 --> 01:09:48.835
again, being a ridiculous overachiever.

01:09:49.755 --> 01:09:53.495
Never at the level of where I should be, which is a good thing as long as you

01:09:53.495 --> 01:09:56.575
don't let it turn you into a psychotic mess.

01:09:56.575 --> 01:10:00.595
To answer your question i'm actually

01:10:00.595 --> 01:10:03.435
looking for actually i just thought about this

01:10:03.435 --> 01:10:06.375
this is a beautiful question from you i just thought

01:10:06.375 --> 01:10:11.075
about this either one or two days ago so i'm always looking to write more books

01:10:11.075 --> 01:10:16.655
and articles i've written over 50 articles and and there would be my 13th book

01:10:16.655 --> 01:10:23.035
11th solo with the two contributor so i'm looking to possibly do some kind of

01:10:23.035 --> 01:10:25.435
and And I'm not sure yet, this is a new idea,

01:10:25.695 --> 01:10:32.335
like I said, over the last 24, 48 hours, but possibly do a small video or audio

01:10:32.335 --> 01:10:40.115
or even better, a movie on a lower level of, I'm not really sure,

01:10:40.495 --> 01:10:45.535
like how to get people thinking holistically, collectively.

01:10:45.535 --> 01:10:49.755
So coming together, getting an artist, getting an accountant,

01:10:50.115 --> 01:10:55.295
getting a medical person, nurse, practitioner, dietitian, a doctor,

01:10:55.775 --> 01:10:58.095
whatever, and getting a lawyer together.

01:10:58.375 --> 01:11:02.255
Different people. It doesn't have to be these specific entities I'm saying here.

01:11:02.435 --> 01:11:06.995
Getting a single mother, single father, getting a student, a high school teacher,

01:11:06.995 --> 01:11:11.835
all these different elements, all these different mindsets, different people.

01:11:11.835 --> 01:11:16.855
And get us talking together on camera or on audio or whatever.

01:11:17.075 --> 01:11:19.055
It doesn't have to be in person. It could be remotely, whatever.

01:11:19.595 --> 01:11:27.115
Right. And getting us to talk about massively ridiculous things.

01:11:28.017 --> 01:11:32.537
Issues, worldwide issues, and getting the perspective from this person,

01:11:32.697 --> 01:11:35.137
then the other person, then the other person, then the other person,

01:11:35.177 --> 01:11:42.317
and then me coming in the end, giving my answer, and then taking the collective of everything so we can,

01:11:42.797 --> 01:11:47.257
like holistic vision, like I said, going down to the lowest level possible,

01:11:47.257 --> 01:11:51.497
the universal, the algorithm, the concept, the foundation, whatever you want to call it,

01:11:52.137 --> 01:11:56.797
of those answers that are given so you can then say, holy shit,

01:11:57.237 --> 01:12:01.917
this is the solution to having...

01:12:02.397 --> 01:12:07.657
I want to say perfect wellness, or this is the solution to world poverty,

01:12:07.657 --> 01:12:13.157
or this is the solution to this social media or taking back humanity or whatever.

01:12:13.937 --> 01:12:18.897
So giving all these things, and that would be basically a media element,

01:12:18.897 --> 01:12:25.917
a media materialization of my, I think it was either my eighth or my ninth book,

01:12:26.057 --> 01:12:28.217
which is my only book that's completely free.

01:12:29.097 --> 01:12:31.917
And it was, what the hell is it called?

01:12:32.117 --> 01:12:38.777
I think it's called Holism for Advancement and it's a book with 19 different

01:12:38.777 --> 01:12:44.037
authors including me, so 18 others that are just exactly what I said.

01:12:44.217 --> 01:12:48.957
We all talk about, it's like 13 different articles in there and we all talk

01:12:48.957 --> 01:12:54.557
about one issue from different angles and then I came in at the end and said okay,

01:12:54.737 --> 01:12:59.757
so this person said this, this person said this So if you strip it all down to the bare elements,

01:12:59.977 --> 01:13:02.557
it means we only have to do this.

01:13:02.737 --> 01:13:04.797
It's very simple. Not easy.

01:13:05.037 --> 01:13:08.617
Simple and easy don't mean the same thing, as you said just a few moments ago,

01:13:08.757 --> 01:13:10.677
when you used the word simple and easy.

01:13:11.437 --> 01:13:15.917
Simple and easy just mean that... Sorry, the line went off here.

01:13:15.997 --> 01:13:16.817
Let me just turn that off.

01:13:17.317 --> 01:13:22.817
So it's simple, but not easy. But we at least then have a blueprint to be able

01:13:22.817 --> 01:13:27.377
to go forward with that. So I think that would be pretty cool and welcomed by a lot of people.

01:13:27.817 --> 01:13:31.717
And until I do that, just putting out more articles, media shows,

01:13:31.917 --> 01:13:36.637
and doing a lot more humanitarian work for people that contact me and they have no money.

01:13:37.837 --> 01:13:41.837
Where can people learn more about you and what you do?

01:13:42.717 --> 01:13:49.597
So the easiest way is to search online. Because of my work, I am heavily shadow

01:13:49.597 --> 01:13:54.077
banned, heavily banned on many platforms. Peace.

01:13:54.961 --> 01:13:59.521
I can stand right, and this is a literal example that has happened many times

01:13:59.521 --> 01:14:03.141
in many countries. I can stand right next to you. I can take the phone out of your hands.

01:14:03.421 --> 01:14:09.701
I can search on this platform or that platform for me, Dr. Herman, and it will not show up.

01:14:09.841 --> 01:14:15.341
But on my phone, it shows up perfectly. So my work is heavily banned by the big tech pieces of shit.

01:14:15.581 --> 01:14:19.761
So with that said, the easiest way is to always search for me online.

01:14:19.761 --> 01:14:25.541
So search for my brand name, which is DR for doctor, and then space,

01:14:25.841 --> 01:14:29.481
and then Herman, H-E-R-M-A-N, like Herman,

01:14:29.961 --> 01:14:35.141
and then S like Sam, and J-R for junior, no spaces.

01:14:35.521 --> 01:14:42.341
So doctor space Herman S-J-R, no spaces in Herman S-J-R, and then hit enter. That's the best way.

01:14:42.721 --> 01:14:46.801
Otherwise, because I'm all over the internet, just certain platforms heavily

01:14:46.801 --> 01:14:49.101
guard me away from humanity.

01:14:50.341 --> 01:14:53.821
Because my work is very empowering to wake people up.

01:14:54.241 --> 01:14:58.981
Otherwise, you can just go to drhermansgr.com or drhermansgr.card,

01:14:59.001 --> 01:15:05.701
C-A-R-R-D, dot co, or you can go to my entity, platinumsciences.com.

01:15:05.861 --> 01:15:09.561
I'm very easy to find if you just do an online search.

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And I just want to reference the book that we kind of touched on a little bit today,

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which was Influence Yourself and Others with Psychological Strategy,

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a concise and easy analysis and guide to develop holistic vision I myself am

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slowly working through it and it is.

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Definitely get you thinking and i want

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to i want to thank you for that for taking the

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time today you are a very very busy individual and

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i appreciate you taking the time

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to to be here and to talk to everybody talk to me today and

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to empower us a little bit and to give her give us

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glimpses into you and what you do and and who

01:15:49.810 --> 01:15:52.950
you are i greatly appreciate it and

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is there anything else you want to you want to leave us with you want

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to cap it off with yes and and

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by the way thank you for having me and and for purchasing the

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book too i appreciate that yes the

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last thing i guess i would say is remember to always divorce and then for a

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short time because of me being inspired by those beautiful buddhist monks the

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walk for peace i made my entire program completely free for a short time.

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I don't know when I'm going to take it off.

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I may take it off from being free tomorrow. I may leave it up for a year. I have no idea.

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But because of them, I've been following them for a little over a month now.

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I made my entire program completely free, and that's typically several thousands of dollars.

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So I would highly suggest that everyone who wants to improve the planet to themself

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or whatever, get on the program right away because everything is there completely free.

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So just search me online and you'll see on the website, I think it's called

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something like learn to think like history's greatest thinkers in five days or something like that.

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Start learning to think like them. So it's completely free.

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It's extremely long, extremely intense, very in-depth, But that's what you need

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when you're breaking your entire thinking foundation. So definitely try that.

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Well, thank you, Dr. Herman SJR. It has been a privilege to talk to you,

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and I appreciate your time.

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Thank you so much. Thank you so much for taking the time with me today. I appreciate you.

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And I'm sure everybody listening to you will appreciate you.

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And have a beautiful rest of your day, your week, your month, your year.

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In the lovely country of Georgia.

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Yeah, thank you so much. Thank you as well. Well, you have a great time as well. Thank you. Thank you.