May 7, 2026

Meghan Markle' s “One Finger Tap” and "Death Stare"

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A small gesture by Meghan Markle has sparked outsized reaction, with commentators dissecting her now-viral “one finger tap.” Reports of a so-called “death stare” add to the scrutiny, while Meghan’s comments about online trolling appear to have triggered even more backlash. Also, criticism of Prince Harry’s courtroom appearance, talk of a delayed memoir, and plans for a royal-style Africa tour raise questions about the couple’s future strategy. Plus, renewed scrutiny of their Netflix deal and claims about shifting blame behind the scenes.

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Ah Calorogus Shark media that hello and welcome to Palace

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Intrigue Game'm your host, Mark Francis. Royal watchers have noticed

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Megan's one finger tap. The Duchess recently used a one

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finger tapping motion while greeting a staff member at Melbourne's

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Royal Children's Hospital, with commentators noting similar gestures in past

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appearances involving King Charles the Third and Catherine, Princess of Wales.

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Social media reaction to the gesture varied widely. When user

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wrote to me, it's symbolic of her need to control.

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I have the upper hand and this is a little

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reminder to let you know I run the show. Another commented,

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I'm going to say it's just another way she tries

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to control people and or show dominance. I don't think

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I've ever seen anybody who has as many ticks. A

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third added jokingly, it's how witches try to curse their victims.

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Body language expert in About Hollingman tells Radar Online the

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positioning of this one finger tap can be meaningful. When

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the touching finger is placed over the other person's hand,

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it indicates a desire for control, whereas if the finger

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were placed below the other person's hand. It's a more

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meek way of requesting attention. When Megan is seen tapping

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her husband's back or armed from behind, it urges him

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to move forward, taking control of the situation. Honingmand added

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that the gesture can also be interpreted more neutrally depending

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on context Saying Megan Michael's one finger tap is a

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confidential type of social greeting. It asks for attention in

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a quiet, yet personal way. Megan's single finger tap, in

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different situations, appears to say hello, thanks, or excuse me,

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just like a smile could send varied messages depending on

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the environment. The fact that Megan uses just one finger

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for this move makes it more subtle than placing a

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whole palm over someone's hand. A five finger tap would

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be warmer and more personable, while the one finger tap

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is colder and more discreet and concluded. Megan may believe

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her tiny tap to be more elegant and graceful than

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a potentially large greeting. Behind the one finger tap is

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Meghan's death stair. At Morgan's Royal Children's Hospital, Meghan was

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filmed giving what has been described as a death stare

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toward an Aid after the staff had tapped Prince Harry

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on the back to alert him to fans above. Royal

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commentator Tom Sykes says on his podcast, So another former

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employee told me it gives me PTSD. That was their

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reaction after seeing the clip. One former employee told Sikes,

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it's classic Meghan, literally a workplace psychopath, smiling sweetly in

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public while shooting daggers when she thinks no one's watching.

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She treats anyone beneath her as completely disposable. Sykes offered

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a possible explanation for the moment, saying well, one source

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told me that Meghan's visual scolding of Cosmo was very

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likely down to her belief that nobody should touch either

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of them. So, this source told me, Megan is desperate

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to be seen is Royal. That poor Aid undermined the

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narrative by treating Harry like a normal person, and you

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can see that she gets the look. During an appearance

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at Swinburne University in Melbourne, Markel had told students for

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now ten years. Every day for ten years, I've been

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bullied and attacked and I was the most trolled person

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in the entire world. I'm still here when inside. A

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told Radar Online there was a noticeable surge in discussion

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about her trolling experience as soon as those remarks were made,

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and much of it took on a critical, mocking tone.

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Another source said the ironic consequence of her saying she

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has been the world's most trolled person has been more trolling.

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The report also referenced claims from individuals monitoring online forums

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suggesting a more coordinated element to the reaction. One digital

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analyst alleged there are coordinated spaces where users are actively

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discussing how to keep Megan at the top of the

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world's most trolled lists online. It's being framed almost like

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a campaign, sharing content, amplifying negative narratives and encouraging others

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to pile on. Another source said trolls have effectively set

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up a campaign on forums to keep her the most

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trolled person in the world online. The abuse against Megan

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becomes self sustaining once it reaches at scale. A public

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speaking observer has criticized Prince Harry's appearance during a previous

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High Court hearing, describing the Duke as very unprofessional. Speaking

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on BBC Radio four, Andrew Edwards said he had been

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present in the High Court when Harry appeared and took

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issue with the Duke's posture and dress. Edwards said, I

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was in the High Court when Harry was speaking. He

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didn't sit up straight. He was a sloucher. He didn't

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have his top button fastened and he had his tie undone.

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Very unprofessional, more palating just a moment. Megan may still

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be considering a memoir, potentially with the involvement of Prince Harry,

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although the project is said to be on hold and now,

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sources suggest the idea of a tell All has not

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been abandoned, but rather delayed for strategic reasons. One inside

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has said it's true that Megan is holding back on

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a tell All memoir for now, She's absolutely not opposed

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to writing one down the line, and it will likely

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be co authored with husband Prince Harry. The idea that

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she's ruled it out completely just isn't correct. It's more

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that she's being very strategic about when and how she

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does it. According to columnist Robs Shooter, Prince Harry and

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Meghan are said to be planning a high profile trip

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to Africa that, while unofficial, is being described by insiders

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as closely resembling a traditional royal tour. Sources cited in

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the report claimed the couple are exploring a multi stop

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visit that would combine charitable engagements, media appearances, and commercial opportunities,

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when insiders suggested, they're not calling it a royal tour,

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but that's exactly how it's being designed, while another added

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it walks like a royal tour, talks like a royal tour,

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and that's the issue. Africa is described as in that

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focus for Prince Harry, who has long spoken about his

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personal connection to the continent, dating back to visits following

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the death of his mother, Princess Dianna. A source claimed

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Africa is where Harry goes to reset emotionally, publicly and

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now financially. The report suggests the broader strategies about maintaining

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global visibility and influence outside formal royal structures, with one

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insider saying this is about relevance, staying global, staying visible,

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staying royal adjacent, and making money. However, the approach is

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said to be raising the eyebrows, particularly given the couple's

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decision to step back from official royal duties in twenty twenty.

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As one source put it. You can't step away from

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the monarchy and then recreate it on your own terms.

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Harry and Megan have faced renewed scrutiny over their partnership

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with Netflix, with claims from industry commentators that the couple

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attempted to shift responsibility for projects that did not meet expectations.

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Speaking on The Royalist podcast, Tom Sykes discussed the situation

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with Variety's chief correspondent Matt do summarizing the conversation by

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saying the Sussexes had tried to shift blame for some

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of the outcomes tied to their deal. Donaldy himself said

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Netflix kind of went all in on Megan and Harry

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in a way they have not on most creatives, and

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with that has come a lot of visibility and truth

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into how they operate as creatives. The ultimate verdict is

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that they were a bit tiresome and what this partnership

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has produced has not quite been meaningful. I can absolutely

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see talents not wanting the added layer of headache. These

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are highly scrutinized people, and press breaks bad around them.

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It might be a curse of how they're covered. If

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you're coming on board to partner with someone who is

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a massive, prolific producer of film and television. Do you

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really want humor, opinions and feedback from people who are

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from outside this space? Reflecting on what might have been

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done differently, Donaldy said in the beginning, Megan and Harry

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had similar intentions to the Obamas. They wanted to make

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their cornerstone ideals as a couple and map them out

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across content. At the time, it seemed more achievable than

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it's turned out to be. Royal biographer Tom Bauer has

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revisited Meghan's early ambitions, citing conversations he says he had

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with her father, Thomas Michael. Speaking on the Daily Expresso podcast,

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Bauer claimed that Meghan had expressed a desire for stardom

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from a young age. Referring to an account from her father,

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He said Thomas Michael once recalled taking his daughter to

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a red carpet event when she was a child. According

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to Bawer, Thomas said, and she said, Daddy, I want

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to do this. I want to be the star. And

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that was it. She wanted to be the star. Baoer

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went on to offer his own assessment of Meghan's career,

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saying she failed and arguing that her acting role in

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the series Suits was just a small program, nothing very important.

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He added that she became the star by getting married

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to Harry, a global star, but instead of being happy

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with that and taking the terms, she was determined that

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everything had to be on her terms, describing that approach

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is destructive and there you have it. Plent to email

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