Insights from a Metaphysical Experience

0:00 So you're building up to a four hour meditation and meanwhile, if you're not meditating and you're just looking at the people in the room, you literally think people are having seizures everywhere. noo. It's, yeah, it's crazy. If you were just, if you were a cop, that walked by into one of his retreats with 1300 people, you probably would start arresting people All right. Welcome to the New Age Human Podcast. Have you ever thought your health challenges were all just in your head? Well, in today's episode, we welcome back Brandon Gaydorus who is a four times author, founder of Warm Heart Life, an overall great guy who's passionate about helping people around him level up in life from personal, financial, and professional goals.

0:48 So stick around for the whole episode because what we mentioned is brandon's life-changing experience going to Dr. Joe Dispenza's retreat. If you don't know Joe Dispenza, it's no. He's known for using meditation to tap into your mind's ability to change our reality, which is awesome. Now what we talk about is Brandon's search for alternative methods and solutions, metaphysical experiences during the trip and the impact this experience had on his life. So buckle up is going to be a nice ride for you. Before we begin, all I ask is that you check out and join the Telegram channel where we discuss the topics mentioned in the show, and more importantly, sharing those topics that are of most interest to you.

1:29 You can also head over to the NewAgeHuman.com site. Sign up for the newsletter to connect with us, get sneak peeks on future episodes and future discounts on alternative solutions. With that being said, let's go to the show. We were talking about, your trip to it was a, you said it was a seven day retreat with Joe Dispenza, Dr. Joe Dispenza. Yeah. Dr. Joe Dispenza. Yeah it's funny because in this modern world everybody is a doctor, it seems like including the internet, and one thing goes wrong with you, and then it's like the world's ending. And then you go see a doctor and it's this is wrong, this is wrong, this is wrong, this is wrong.

2:12 so I ended up study, I studied, I started studying Dr. Joe Dispenza many years ago, probably three, four, maybe even five years ago. I, in 2018, I went to the eye doctor cuz I thought I had pink eye and he told me, He told me, he's like, you don't have pink eye, but you got an inner eye infection. And I was like, whoa. I don't know what that is. But he just started saying, it's your back pain. Do is back pain a normal thing for you? And I was like, no, never had back pain. But he kept saying it. He's like, do you have back pain? Do you have back pain?

2:52 I'm like, no. He's like, well, I'm gonna need you to go see another doctor who really handles this stuff more intensely. I'm like, okay. So I go to this doctor, he is like, Hey, do you have back pain? Do you have back pain? He's like, we're gonna have to do some blood tests. And anyways, they do some blood tests and they're like, well, you got this thing in your blood that, that makes you very, very likely to have lower back pain and to have certain things that. It basically gave me a scare for autoimmune disease. I don't even remember what the name, I don't even remember what the name was like some long name probably. yeah.

3:32 And then you start Googling all this stuff and then all of a sudden my back starts hurting. My eye got better cause all they made me do was put some antibiotics or something. But it was scary. Like you, like I started losing my vision in one eye and he's like, don't worry, that will come back. But anyways, long story short, it really started messing with my head because I started Googling all this stuff. I thought I had this autoimmune disease and it was frustrating because I went from really not having much injuries at all to thinking like the world was ending. And and then I started seeing all these different doctors and then they were testing me for Lyme disease and this and that and that.

4:14 And it was just a complete mess. And my head was just so mentally screwed. I was like, man, the, the everything I got Ms. I got this, I got that. I got thi any, any disease that you could think of was in my mind that I had. And, eventually one doctor was like, she was like, Hey Brandon, I think you're fine. I think, I think this just all really got to your head. And, and I think you should start studying some people on mindset. And I said, you know what? I think you're right. Wow, what a, what a difference from everybody else. yeah, so I, that's when I started studying Wim Hof and Dr.

4:56 Joe Dispenza. And, things really started changing. So I had started actually studying. Dr. Joe, I think before the pandemic even happened, when he really started to get a, a, a name for himself. And I was like, you know what? I think this guy can really help me get my mindset back. And he started talking about how a lot of the issues that people are facing can be cured from the mind. And, and I was so fascinated by this topic and I was telling you. Before we hopped on this podcast, the reason why we hopped on this podcast is a lot of the stuff I learned from Dr.

5:38 Joe. One, it's, it's hard for me to explain cuz I'm not a neuroscientist. But two, it makes a lot of sense to me. And three, I've applied it to my life and it's been game changing. And, so I don't talk about this stuff that much, but, but the main thing was, I was in a severely fatigued mental state that was causing me to be in a severely fatigued physical state. mm. And I realized from studying Dr. Joe, that the best way to reverse that over time is to work on your mindset. And Dr. Joe talks about a lot of things from, from meditation to the way you think and all this stuff, and reprogramming the mind.

6:22 But the main thing that I learned is that your mind controls. Much of the things that you do in life, whether it's personal, professional, or financial. So if you can focus on tailoring that the way to the way that you wanna live your life, you're gonna be able to do some things that people never thought was possible. With Dr. Joe, you, that he had this online course for like 300 bucks or something. And I, I was like, you know what, I'm gonna take it. And, and he would force you to do the meditations and he would force you to watch the videos that had all these research based as evidence on how the meditations worked and how the mind works and how you can reprogram it. And I started doing that and my back pain just kind of went away.

7:07 It just, yeah, it just kind of went away. And then but one thing I was really struggling with was that I had. Some hip and knee pain that was due. It was kind of formed from being an athlete and Jen just kind of overcompensating and, and working a little bit too hard when I pushing myself a little bit too much when I probably shouldn't have. And I went to Dr. Joe's for the seven days and that was the main thing. I was like, man, I just, I would love for this hip to be fixed. And he would show case study after case study after case study. About people curing, curing different diseases, like why, like Dr. Joe has, has done so much research on how to reprogram the mind and the body that I think he honestly believes that you can cure aids from the way he teaches the meditations and the mindset and all that stuff.

8:01 I think he literally believes that you can reprogram your blood That's interesting. very. Yeah, which is very fascinating to me. And and again, this is not medical advice that I'm saying. This is just stuff that is I'm very curious about and I, I actually believe in. And, so I mean, there was one example in, in the seven day retreat. That really made me believe that it was possible to cure pain from these meditations where you're put in this state. Like for those of you who wanna know what it's like going to a Doctor Joe retreat, you, you build up for seven days to be able to do four hour meditations.

8:45 Wow. Four hours. I don't know. I, I wanna build up to that because I mean, I've heard you go places, right? Like, it, it's a completely different experience for me. Like 15 minutes in I'm like, wow, this is amazing. But you went four hours. I'm very curious on like what happened with you. Yeah, literally four hours and, but you build up to it like you have to do his whole prerequisite course before even going to the seven day. Otherwise, you're. Otherwise, you're gonna be in a tough place because you're literally watching research based evidence watching him talk for seven days. And then when you're not doing that, you're doing the meditations and it's pretty cool.

9:29 It's pretty cool cuz me, like, I, I still don't meditate right now. But. I did that, what I did for leading up to that course, what I did for those seven days. And then I meditated probably for about a year after that. And I still do meditate a little bit. Like when I, when I feel like I need to what I, the, the way I was able to shift my mind like that, I almost feel like I'm in a meditative state constantly just because of what I'm open to and what I'm, what I'm aware of. And maybe that's not a good comparison because they are two totally different states. But, but the way that that made me think helps me get by on a day-to-day basis with the things that I'm doing.

10:10 And yeah. So you're building up to a four hour meditation and meanwhile, if you're not meditating and you're just looking at the people in the room, you literally think people are having seizures everywhere. noo It's, yeah, it's crazy. It's, it's, it's like if you were just, if you were a cop, If you were a cop that that walked by into one of his retreats with 1300 people, you probably would start arresting people Wait, wait. Okay. Okay. Okay. Like, like I feel like on the video version, I'm gonna have to put up some type of video of someone just, just going through, like, is it similar to when people show videos of going to these mega churches and they put their hand on their forehead and they're just kind of like shaking?

10:59 Or is it, cause I've seen someone have a seizure? Like is it like dramatic shaking that you saw? Oh yeah, even myself, like I, I, even though I was like in the four, in the first four hour meditation, I mean, my body was like, like this. Like I, I could feel, I could feel it shaking and, but I could feel my, my hip kind of restoring that is insane. and yeah. And it was crazy because, that was probably two years ago, and my hip feels like 96 to 98% better. Wow. And that's just, well, like I say just, but you went through the seven day meditation and then you meditated I'm guessing not four hours daily, but you, you, for the most part, like what was your, your year after that?

11:48 Like Yeah, like 15. a day Yeah. and, and so that's one year. And then how long ago was that? So I took his seven day retreat in April of 2021. Okay, so two and three, like almost, almost three years. And you're like, good, which is insane. Wow. Yeah. And I, I still got my, my I, I was, I'm an, I was an athlete my whole life. I got wear and tear on my body, but. From where, from where I felt to how I feel now, it's, it's just dramatically better for the, for that specific pain point.

12:29 So Wow. For those of, for those people who wonder what I had on my hip. So I, I just had a, a hip and ment it's, it is a very normal thing, but it's basically when there's a slight tear. It around the, the hip socket. In my case it was just because there just wasn't enough room. So my tip, my hip had to tear a little bit. So like gymnastics and stuff like that, they, they, they have these naturally, it's just, there's no way they were able to put their, their feet all the way up like that without having a little bit of tear. but for me, just, it felt loose. It felt achy and And yeah, I mean the meditations were game changing. I could literally feel my hip kind of like getting stronger and restoring and it was cool.

13:14 I mean, it, it was a really cool experience and, and, but, start freaking out though? Like I, I would probably start freaking out, like, am I getting possessed? Was I set up? Or you were calm about it, it, there's, there's so much research that he shows you while you're taking and it just makes so much sense. And, and you feel it like it. And that was just like one small example. Like he dives, like, like some of'em you're doing more other aspects of life. Like I remember one meditation, he's like, instead of thinking of love like, like what, what that looks like. All that stuff. Just, just think of the concept of love. Like don't get specific.

13:56 And I, I remember I was just feeling. And during that one meditation, this wasn't, this wasn't an hour, this wasn't a four hour one. This was just one of the normal ones. All, all, I was just, was just thinking of feeling love. And it was cool. I had like the coolest meditation of my life where I was on a date with this one girl, and it was, it was like the best date I've ever had. And it, was it real or not? I don't know. Yeah. But yeah, so it's cool, man. It is really cool when you dive deep into the subconscious mind. It's, it's like a whole nother world that I don't really talk about with anybody except for people like you who have studied this and have experienced it.

14:41 Because, I mean, I, like, I remember I was, I was I wa I was feeling that emotion and that that meditation. And, there was a really awesome girl who was to the right of me. And and we just had a moment that wa that was really cool. It wasn't, it wasn't like romantic or anything like that, it was just like, she totally felt what I felt in that meditation and like, I'm like crying and stuff and she just gives me like the, the biggest hug, you know what I mean? Oh, wait, so I thought you were online. This was part physical too, no, this was in person. wow. Okay. Yeah, it was, it was crazy. It was 1300 people, April of 2021, you know that no one, I don't think was having that many people in room except Dr.

15:28 Joe Dispenza. And to be honest, the main reason why I wanted to go, besides all the stuff I talked about, the, the actual main reason I wanted to go was because I was not a big fan of the Covid thing. people could think whatever they want, and I totally get it. You have the right to your opinion, but I personally was not a big fan of it. And I wanted to be around people who wanted things to get back to normal and who were working on themselves. And he who said, okay, I understand there's a pandemic going on. what can I do to get around the right people who believe that there's a cure? There's a way to fix that. And, and Dr. Joe, like I, I bet you if you put someone in front of Dr.

16:09 Joe who had, who had covid, I bet you if they went through his meditation stuff, I bet you. That he could help them like just totally get rid of it. Yeah, it looks like he's putting people in, I guess you can say homeostasis, and there's research around just understanding how the body is mostly energetic and if everything is energy first, and then with frequency, it manifests. Into reality then yeah, you can bring things back to its original state of a harmonic state. And that's what it looks like he was doing, where he was putting you into that harmonic state where it's just you're clearing out all this negative or imbalanced energy in the mind, and then it's like your body's shaking itself into place, into better and.

16:58 Like if you're jacked up, you're probably going to be like wailing your arms, the worst off you are. I can only imagine like your hip was probably like moving around. You're like, it kind of feels good, right? Yeah. And it's this, the subconscious mind is one of the coolest places like I've ever explored. Because I mean, you're, no one, nobody, no place. You're in no place. No, there's no space. And there's no time. And it is so cool. Like I, I don't even know how to explain it unless you've been in it, but when you're in that deep meditation state, like you literally just feel like, you feel like you're floating.

17:46 Mm-hmm. Yeah. It's, and you feel like there's no space around you. It is one of the coolest tinglings that's going. On from the top of your head to the bottom of your toes. And I literally feel like, I feel like getting in a good meditation state, and, and I like chiropractors. I like doctors or like physical therapists, all that stuff. I feel like if you have pain, there is no better cure, whether it's physical or mental, than getting in a deep meditative state. For an extended period of time. It's so hard to explain that the, the, the feeling that goes through your body of just, it just feels like it's getting refreshed.

18:34 Getting refreshed. an energetic shower. Yeah. Wait. When we were talking the other day, and it prompted me to be like, let's talk about this. You said you were, you were, Doing some energy thing with your hands during this retreat, right? Like can you go into that? Cuz that's, I've done something similar, but I wanna know what he put you guys through where I guess you're moving energy with your physical body. Like Yeah, that's what, what was going on there? And this is something that I would like to. I would like to study a lot more when I'm around people like Dr. Joe is, and, and people like you who really are interested in this is, is he was doing virtual healing so he knew that what 1300 people in a room focused on, on curing, focused on health, that there is a transfer of energy that can be touched.

19:34 In many places, but just by thinking of the person. So he would give us a picture of a random person. He wouldn't even tell us what they were going through. And we just did a group meditation, 1300 people. And we were sitted in the chair. And then we just, we just thought of healing of health with, with that person. And, I believe he had us put our hands over our heart. And then, and then he goes, okay, now slowly remove your hands from your heart and put'em on that picture. I, not on the picture, but like, I was like a foot from the picture, and he's like, okay, slowly go like this.

20:21 And I've never felt this in my life. I literally felt like there was, there was this energy between my hands and the picture that. Is stuff that's like talked about in the Bible, like how like, like, like Jesus was able to cure like certain people by just like, putting his hands on or how, however it works. But I literally felt like, like I would go like this and my hands would bounce back up. There was just so you were bounce. For anybody listening, you were pushing down with your hands and then you felt pushing up like you felt something pushing back. I just felt something pushed back. And it was so cool. Like, I literally felt like there was energy going from my hands down to that, to that picture of, of healing.

21:07 And you never know because it's not like I, he's actually done this where he's done this with the people. But I never know what happened to that girl, but I, that lady, but I've never felt that in my life, and there was, I wasn't the only one who had a picture of that lady. They were spread throughout the room. It was very fascinating. I mean, just that guy just blows me away. Dr. Joe Dispenza. you feel tingling in your hands when you were doing that? I don't know if I felt tingling, but I felt this, this energy from my hands to the picture that I, ive never felt, and I, I don't even think you could create that unless you're around that many people with similar energy in a room.

21:50 Mm, like a collective thing. The reason why I asked that is I took a Reiki two course and you practice on each other and you cup your hands and you put it over certain areas of. Person's body. And you, she said you, if, if it's a an area that needs healing or it's like has a dark energy or it just, it's in a state where it's a lack of energy and that area of the body, you're going to feel tingling. And then When I was doing it, certain areas I would feel tingling and then the people that were receiving it, including myself you can feel warmth from the other person and they're not even touching you.

22:33 So it's an interesting, there's definitely things going on hard to explain because of the words needed to, to, you need to know the certain words that are used to describe it. Right. Because there are words where you have like the, morphogenic field and all that, and you're like, now what's that? But yeah, there's, there's definitely chi energy flowing through the body. And then like you said, when you're around that many people, it enhances it, right? Like you're, Like, like that, where people hold each other's hands in a circle and you can like technically light up a light bulb or something like that. Like it takes people and it takes power, like more power to, to do some incredible things.

23:15 That's, that's, that is pretty cool. Um, and there's a couple things as, there's a couple stories that he told that really stuck out to me. oh yeah. Sure. one was he, he used to be a chiropractor and people still would try and come to him for chiropractor advice, and one lady in particular was just had so much pain. She just constantly had pain, seen anybody and everybody couldn't get it fixed. She comes in and Dr. Joseph is like, okay, okay. And, all, all he did was like, put his hands in the areas of her pain and just tried to give love, just, just literally think of it and feel it into that area.

24:01 And, she got up off the table. Felt phenomenal. And since that book that Dr. Joe, like he was God. And but he said, that's pretty much all he was doing. And and then another one was, there was, this is a little different, but this really ch made me think a lot differently. He said maids are typically, for the most part, overweight, like most maids that you see seem to be overweight. And so they did a case study. On these maids, because maids actually do a lot of exercise from lifting the beds, pulling off the sheets, up and down the stairs, scrubbing, mopping, cleaning, it's, it's a lot.

24:44 So they took a case study. They took this side of the nurses and they just didn't tell them anything. They just said, keep doing your thing. We're just doing some research. Then they took the other side of the nurses and. And they started educating them on how weight is actually lost and the amount that they're actually putting into their job that is actually burning calories. And that that group of people, that group of maids started losing weight pretty frequently, and the other ones stayed the same. Just because they thought that they. Were actually supposed to lose weight for doing what they normally do.

25:25 Yeah. For doing what they, yeah, because they started to understand how the process of, of fat loss works and, and they explained now, what you're doing as a MA is actually burning a lot of calories. And this is a research based study, and to me it was so fascinating, and then, And then this is a little bit off topic, but Wim Hoff, one of the reasons why I started getting fascinated by him is he did research based studies where they actually injected cold, like uh uh, it was either the flu or a cold, some type of virus into him, and he was able to fight it off just through breath work and the mind. Very fascinating to me, especially in an era where people started going nuts.

26:12 About this, this pandemic. Mm-hmm. And, I, I think that there's a good chance that it was, I have to be very careful with what I say, but, I guess on this podcast, it's, it's okay to say this, but you know, I really wonder if it was some type of setup from someone who had a lot of power. To, to, to really put this into play because when you study Dr. Joe, when you study Wim Hoff, you, you realize how important it is to focus on the mind. And if, if you look at what was happened, what happened in 2020 is people who never really thought much about being sick, who, who would put their hands in their mouth, All, all that stuff.

27:04 Who would take the kids' binky off the ground and then, put it in their mouth to clean it and then give it to the kid. People like that. All of a sudden were washing their hands like 10 times a day. People like that were wearing a mask everywhere. And you wonder if they had no idea a pandemic was going on. It, if, if this would've been much of a thing, I, I don't know. I, I don't know. But it, it is very interesting to me. I think you'll appreciate this. There's a book I was reading I was able to finish. It took a while to finish. It was called Power versus Force, and it talks about the different levels of consciousness. I think you'd be interested in that book. And one of the ways as you go higher, let's say higher frequency, right, think of cell phones, the higher the frequency, the more you can get done.

27:48 The higher the frequency of the mind, the more in one of the many things. That improves is your influence, your subconscious influence on, on other people. And then if people look up to that person, they get influenced by that person too. And in the book now, this book I think was written in the eighties and it was, it was saying if you want to influence people, all you have to do, one of the main things you could do is get someone that they all respect and expose them visually to that person. And If that person just shares how like they go, you, Celebr celebrities on tv and they say, oh, they went through this breakup. They, they they, they got into a car accident. They, they got sick with the flu or, the the, the, the, yeah, just like illnesses, you'll see a spike in.

28:34 Illnesses that are very similar to that person in the populace. And so people can be influenced subconsciously to buy into things because they buy into that person. And during that time, 20 20, 20 21 celebrities going on tv like announcing that they're sick and they have to go into quarantine. I'm like, why are you, like, I get it, but it's almost like you're, you're signaling. It's everybody. And everybody has their own reaction to it. And the people that bought in I, I, I didn't follow up on that part, but I, I wouldn't be surprised if that that could have been part of it. On top of.

29:14 The publicity stunt too. So there is definitely something to it. And people have discovered that influence even as early as like the eighties. So like, yeah. Yeah. You're not alone in that thinking. There's a book that literally mentions it and breaks it down. Yeah, and, and I felt like I was at an advantage for the pandemic because I had just gone through all this right before that, that happened. So in 20 18, 20 19, I was studying. Dr. Joe, and then I got into Wim Hof. So I, I had to understand how much the mind can screw you up if, if you tailor it towards that.

29:58 So me, like, I was at an advantage when the pandemic happened because I was just like, you know what? I'm, I'm gonna work out, I'm gonna eat well, and I'm gonna focus on growing during this time. Okay. And I felt like I was able to do that because of what I had been through before that where, where my mind got screwed up based on what all these doctors were telling me. Mm. And it was frustrating. I mean, I was, I was doing gluten free. I, I had periods where I stayed away from alcohol for extended periods of time. I was told by a doctor, you, you, you will never be able to drink again. And I mean, I was told all this stuff like with, with my diet, with my health, and I was doing all that, and I still felt like crap.

30:44 I still felt like crap. a horrible feeling. the gluten-free, the non-processed foods limiting or no alcohol. I mean, taking away dairy. I mean, I was trying all this crap and I still felt worse. And, and then you, once I realized that the mind was, was. Was causing 99% of these problems. I realized how important it was and, and I knew America was gonna be screwed as soon as this pandemic thing happened, because yeah, there was a lot of health things that happened because of it, but I think it would've been 99% not as bad if people focused on the mind and, and staying positive and staying physically and mentally healthy.

31:32 I, I think, I think this world would've been a much better place. I, I've been fascinated by this TED Talk for the longest time by Susan Pinker that talked about the number one key to longevity is not how much you eat or drink not how much not what the air consumption is, not how much you exercise the number one key to longevity. This is based on research based evidence and real world experience, social integration and close relationships. Everything else was not even close. It was important, like, are you probably gonna live longer if you don't smoke?

32:13 Absolutely. Are you probably gonna live longer if you eat right? Most likely. But nothing. Nothing was more important. Then close relationships and social integration. And I was so fascinated by this because I have, I have studied people who have lived a long life for a long time, and I've noticed the same exact thing. That is the number one thing. And you could say, oh, well, blah, blah, blah is so lonely. In the nursing home or in the assisted living home? Yeah. Are they or or do they have someone who's talking to them every day? Who's taking care of'em?

32:54 Are they really lonely or do they have someone who's right there talking to'em, asking them questions, taking care of'em? And she talks about that in the Ted talk. It, it, it is the most fascinating concept that I've ever studied. And, and I mean, I feel better when I'm around pe. I mean, I remember when the pandemic happened. I didn't drink for four months. I. I didn't drink for four months. I didn't go out for four months, and I was so focused on my business. And then once I, once I got out again around people, I was like, man, I need this. Like, I need to, like, I feel a different way when I'm around people and like that's when this, this, this shot came out, the vaccine or whatever.

33:45 want to get it, but I. The reason I got it is because I was like, well, I would rather die than have to live this way any longer where people are telling me what I can or cannot do. Like when you're ta, I felt like I was in jail. The f the first four months of the pandemic, I literally felt like I was in jail. And people say, oh, well you've never been to jail. You don't have the right to say that. I get it. I get it. I totally understand where you're coming from there. But literally, I felt like I was being told what I could or couldn't do. I felt like I was, if, if, if I believed a certain thing, all of a sudden I was looked at as a bad guy.

34:25 So it was just kind of one of those things like I got it just because I was like, you know what? I'd rather die than live this way. And did I wanna get it? Absolutely not. Do I regret getting it? I don't care. It's just like I have moved on. I, I moved on and I'm living the life that I want to live. Do I think it was a lot of BS that they were presenting to us? Yeah. Do I think, do I think that the, the health companies had a big thing to do with the do with the, the emphasis on all this? Yeah. Because they were making a lot of money. So why would they not keep pushing that? Why would they not keep pushing that, when.

35:07 It's, it's just one of those things we could go deeper and deeper into. But I will say this, if something like this were to happen again, there's gonna be a lot more people who are standing up for the rights that we have in as a in America. And I, to tell someone they can't, to tell someone they can't go to a restaurant because they're not vaccinated, that's, there's gonna be a lot of fight back to that if the, if something like this were to happen again and. I honestly think that the next war in the United States is gonna be from people in the United States, and it's just, War type of thing. yeah, and it, it's, it's, it's sad because it, it shouldn't happen.

35:48 But I think, I think it's one of those things we, we need to be able to, to focus on the things that we need to do to become better as a country. And that's positivity that, that's mindset. That's, that's collaboration. Collaboration is a new form of currency. And that's why the mission with Warm our life is to grow together with as many people as possible because you can't change the world. I can't change the world, but collectively, we can change the world if we can get more people in the world who add value instead of drain value. If we could get more people in the world. Who got your back instead of go behind your back. If we can get more people in the world who support you instead of say all this negative crap behind your back, then, then, then we can do some incredible things together.

36:35 And, and so I, that's why for me, I'm always so frustrated when things like that happen where there's so much negativity going on. Because if we can reverse that with positivity, then. Some incredible things are gonna happen in this world. Like we, we haven't even come close to what we can do in America because, of what the news is constantly putting out there. Like, for example, gun violence. I get so frustrated every time that that a shooting has happened and that's all the news is putting on. Because what that is doing is that's planting the seed into more and more people's heads who are already mentally ill.

37:17 Who, who may actually do that because they saw that on there. But, but if, but if they saw a commercial or if, if they saw a segment from someone like me who could, who could talk about how to actually take your passion and turn that into a revenue stream maybe that person would be focused on growing their business instead of thinking about how depressed they are, how angry they are and, and whatever they want to do because of that. So there, there's a big problem here that the only way to solve it is, is to get more plus ones in the world. It, it, it's a simple concept, but the, in my mind, that is the only way to solve it because positivity attracts positivity and negativity attracts negativity.

38:01 So it, it, it's a simple thing and, and a lot of it starts with the mind, and that's why I'm such a big fan of Dr. Joe Dispenza and. I, I'm glad that you gave me a platform to talk about this, because these are things that it, it's hard to share these on most podcasts, but I, when, when, when, when you look at the, the, the overall layout of this world, the number one thing that has to change is the way we look at it. Yeah. Mindset. And, and Dr. Joe Wim Hoff Your podcast. It, it, it gives, it, it, it is a positive force that we need to be able to make that change.

38:45 I that. thank you for doing what you're doing. Yeah. And it gives me and everyone listening a deeper view into what, what fuels what you're working on. Behind you it says warm heart life. That's your business. That's your, that's your, that's your baby. That's, that's something that is. Changing lives. And, and if you've listened, if anybody's listened to the other episode, we talk about that plus one factor. So go check that out. It's in the early episodes. But yeah, like I get a, a, a more. Yeah, like I said, in depth feel of what fuels you because it's pretty cool to see you do your thing and, and grow a, a collective group of people that are all fighting for whether it be freedom success.

39:33 Collaboration. Everybody's getting together. And I see the power of that where the energy, it's, it's just, there's an energy that forms, right. You get rejuvenated when you go to a friend's house, when you go out hiking, and it's all about, you can do things by yourself, which is kind of like a reset to understand who you are. And then at the same time, Reconnect with those that support you and that you can support. And it's like that machine that like, it's a, a push and pull system of, of just rotating energy. And I love it. I love it. I, I like the, I I like that you, you, you're like, You went and you had an issue. People didn't have the answers, someone had an interesting answer.

40:13 You just dove right in and then you found some really good things you went after. What is curious, what you were curious of, and I do see a lot of people stopping there cuz they're more concerned of what other people are thinking. And you just dove right in and it blossomed in into this beautiful business. But yeah. Awesome, awesome. Subject matter. I'm definitely, I definitely plan to go more into that subject matter in future episodes. But Brandon, where can people find you and what are you working on right now? Yeah, so you can find me at Brandon Gaydos on Instagram, on YouTube, on Facebook, on LinkedIn.

40:57 Thankfully my last name is not one that many people have my social media is pretty simple there. And then what I have going on currently is I'm doing a North America Speaker School tour. So we have four different dates. We got July 14th and 15th in Laguna Beach. We got Toronto August 11th and 12th. We have Chicago September 8th and ninth. And then we have an elite one in New York City for anyone who has done one of the previous ones. That's gonna be October 6th and seventh, and it's the birthday weekend of Carl who, who co-teaches it with me. It's, it's gonna be an epic run. And, and I do wanna say one last thing. So what I, what I have currently going on is I'm spending a lot more time with the clients who are currently working with me.

41:41 So instead of getting more clients, I'm spending a lot of time making sure that the clients are working with me, are getting the value that they need to be able to continue to grow. And I visited one of my clients this weekend in Michigan, and he's one of the most disciplined like-minded. Laser focused guys that that I've ever met. And he told me, he said, he said, Brandon, I started to realize that all of my problems were coming from the people who I was surrounding myself with. So I made a decision to start focusing on surrounding myself with people who are making shit happen.

42:23 Okay. And then my business started doing better. My health and wellness started doing better. And quite frankly, I, my relationships, I'm trying to figure things out, but I will tell you this, I am way more direct with the girls that I'm dating now. And instead of dragging something on for six months that, that I know there's not something there. I communicate with them clearly and say, you know what? I don't think this is gonna work out long term. Yeah, I could drag this on for six months, or, or we could end it now and we could stay friends because I really do like you and I really do respect you. And I was just so blown away with that.

43:05 And he, and he told me, he said, there's no way I would've been able to be, to do these things if it wasn't for switching the people that I was surrounding myself with. And, and we, we were talking a lot about how you don't have to cut people outta your life. You don't have to cut people outta your life. What you need to do is focus on surrounding yourself more with the people who have the things that you want, and the people who don't have the things that you want that are in your life, they will just naturally go away because they, they can't fathom the things they you're doing. They can't make sense of it, and, and it's okay. They don't need to make sense because the, the thing is by you chasing your dreams, by you going after the things that you want, by you leading by example, some of those people, Start running back towards the direction that you're going because they're so inspired by the action that you're taking and they come back into your life without, you never cut'em out.

43:57 They just, they, some of'em come back in because they're so inspired by the action that you're taking. They're, they're so inspired by seeing you walk around with your 45 pound backpack around, around the neighborhood every single day, and they're so inspired by seeing a kid who got kicked out of college. Now on. He's gonna make millions and millions and millions of dollars. And they're so inspired by a kid who was 270 ish pounds, who's now one 90 cut up to shreds. They, they're, they're inspired by that. And a lot of those people will now change their lives in a positive way because of the action that he's taken. It, it's such, it's a concept that you hear about all the time, but, but until you feel it, until you experience it, It, it, it will never click.

44:45 So if I can leave everybody with one last thing, it, it, it's to understand you don't need to cut people outta your life. It's important to focus on surrounding yourself with more and more people who have the things that you want in your life. And yes, you may have to pay for it. And yes. It may take a lot of your time to be able to figure out how to reverse a lot of the habits that you're in. may make you feel uncomfortable on a constant basis because in order to get different results, you're gonna have to do and take different actions so you may be going through those things, but that's okay because then you know that you're growing.

45:27 Mm. Well said. Amazing story. Interesting. Being direct with the woman that he dates and like, just being straightforward. And a lot of people drag themselves through relationships, whether it be intimate or just friendships because you don't have that, that focus. Yeah, he, he sounds pretty solid. That's, that's a great story. Thanks for sharing. Absolutely. Thanks for having me on. John, you are doing incredible things. You are blowing me away with the growth of this podcast. When you first started this, I was like, man, this is great. A lot of people are starting podcasts, but you found a niche that I have not seen anybody tapping into, and you're giving a voice to people who I think are really onto some really cool things, some really cool thoughts, and some really cool experiences in various different worlds.

46:18 Thank you for providing that platform. Thank you. That says that means a lot. I really appreciate that. We're, we're working. I say we like, it's, it's myself. I, but I say we a lot because I feel like I'm somehow pulling from anybody I talk to about this show. I'm pulling from them, and I'd like to think I'm pulling from everybody subconsciously to find really good people to, to sit down and talk to and open people's minds to better solutions instead of focusing on, on the negative. Focusing on, oh, instead of focusing on the negativity and what's pulling us away from our goals, focusing on the solutions and how we can do things better. So I really appreciate that and I love your story, man.

47:01 Yeah, and, and I will say this, whenever you do decide to have your first conference, the New Age Human Conference event, whatever it is, That will be one of the most unique rooms that will ever be, ever be put together. And quite frankly, that's a room that I would want to be in. So I don't know when that's gonna come, a year, two years, three years from now, but that will be an epic event when whenever you do that, whether there's 10 people, 30 people, 50 people, a hundred people, 200 people in the room, even more, whatever it is. The people in that room that, that is gonna be a cool day and something that I would like to definitely experience. Absolutely, man, and it's in the works.

47:43 It's in the plans, so I'm. Excited to to make that happen and to see what blossoms from that. But yeah, my friend, thanks again for coming on and as usual, it was a pleasure talking with you, All right, John. Take care. Thanks