Oct. 7, 2025

Ep. 179 - You Didn’t Fall Out of Love—You Stopped Choosing It

Ep. 179 - You Didn’t Fall Out of Love—You Stopped Choosing It
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Ep. 179 - You Didn’t Fall Out of Love—You Stopped Choosing It

In this week's episode, we are unpacking one of the most common myths I hear from couples: “We just fell out of love.” The truth? Love doesn’t vanish—it fades when we stop choosing it. I’ll share how unmet needs, unspoken resentments, and quiet disconnection slowly erode intimacy, and how the belief that love should always “feel” magical keeps us stuck. You’ll hear parts of my own journey, the mistakes I made, and the shift that changed everything: realizing love isn’t about performance—it’s about presence and choice.

If your marriage feels distant, this is your reminder that love is always waiting for your return. You can start again. You can choose again. Because love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a decision, made one moment at a time. 

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