Episodes

Jan. 24, 2023

An Interview with Abby Rampone of Left Catholic

Anne and Stephanie have the pleasure of sitting down with Abby Rampone of Left Catholic . Abby has lived at two Catholic Worker houses and the Women’s Interfaith Residency Program at Union Theological Seminary. She currently ...

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Dec. 27, 2022

Your Funny Catholic Stories

Many thanks to listeners who shared their stories! The hosts enjoy the heck out of your funny stories about growing up Catholic, from altar server mishaps to altercations with nuns to giggling and church. Additionally, Stepha...

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Dec. 13, 2022

What's the deal with nativities?

What’s the deal with nativity scenes? That’s what the hosts want to know. And, to some degree, they learn the answer. A young Steph leveraged her family’s nativity set as a chance at her directorial debut. Little Anne coveted...

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Nov. 29, 2022

Send us your funny Catholic stories!

We'll have a new episode ready for you in a couple weeks, but for now we’d love to invite you to share your stories! In the past we have asked you to share your experiences, and you have come through. …

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Nov. 16, 2022

The Catholic Church & Contraception

The hosts learn about the Church’s beef with birth control. Anne shares some rather racy Catholicism in the News. Steph points out some colorful language used to describe contraception in the bible. There’s also a Steve Carre...

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Nov. 1, 2022

Baptism

The hosts do a deep dive (pun only kind of intended) into Catholic baptism. Anne realizes her older son’s baptism involved a lot of fibbing. Steph is freaked out by all the Satan talk. This episode also involves some fangirli...

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Oct. 18, 2022

Saints!

Things get unexpectedly spooky as Stephanie and Anne talk murdered saints, postmortem popes, and the occult in this Halloween season-appropriate episode. Join the hosts as they dive into feast days, patrons, canonization, and...

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Oct. 4, 2022

The Catholic Afterlife

Stephanie and Anne take a deep dive into what Catholic school and CCD taught them about life after death. A young Steph imagined a cloudy heaven that was harp-filled and toga-forward. Anne realizes how the Wizard of Oz impact...

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Sept. 20, 2022

Welcome to Season Two!

Steph and Anne are back with Season 2 of Lapsed! Steph discusses one rather big development in her life (hint: he’s adorable and shares a name with a very Jesuit saint). The hosts also catch up on several months of …

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July 8, 2022

Abortion and the Catholic Church...Again.

The hosts grapple with their feelings around the recent Dobbs ruling. Steph dishes on the Kardashian’s recent brush with Catholic aesthetics even though by all accounts they practice…Kardashianism? Anne recalls that one time ...

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June 14, 2022

Sex, Guns and Robin Hood: Catholicism in the News

The hosts catch up on ***Catholicism IN THE NEWS****. Steph dishes on Francis’s drink of choice. Anne is jazzed that some Catholic bishops are starting to speak out about gun control legislation…until Steph totally (rightfull...

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June 7, 2022

An Interview With Nate Tinner-Williams of Black Catholic Messenger

An Interview With Nate Tinner-Williams of Black Catholic Messenger You’ve probably heard of a pandemic marriage or a pandemic move, but what about a pandemic Catholic convert/seminarian/nonprofit founder/writer? In this episo...

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May 24, 2022

We want to hear from you!

Hey listeners. Some good news and some bad news. The bad news is that we don't have a new episode this week. The good news? We want to hear from you! So much of what we talk about on this …

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May 10, 2022

Abortion & The Catholic Church

There are scary things happening in the US right now, and Anne and Steph are working on unpacking it, lapsed Catholic style. Listen in as they recount what they were and weren’t taught in Catholic school about pregnant people...

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April 26, 2022

Nuns!

Ruler-wielding tyrants or holy social justice warriors? Join the Anne and Steph as they attempt to sort out their feelings about nuns and religious sisters (and the difference between the two). COLLECTION BASKET: This week w...

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April 12, 2022

Holy Week & Easter

Anne and Steph serve up some Holy Week and Easter realness as they talk palms, confession, stations of the cross, itchy tights and egg hunts. Grab a chocolate bunny and tune in. COLLECTION BASKET: This week we invite you to …

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March 29, 2022

20th Episode!

It’s our 20th Episode! Stephanie and Anne take some time to reflect on what they’ve learned, what has surprised them, and what they dream of moving forward. The hosts also talk wordle and a Dan Brown-eque conspiracy theory i...

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March 15, 2022

“The Most Catholic Non-Catholic”: An Interview with Racial Justice Wr…

Stephanie and Anne sit down with writer, and advocate, and racial justice educator ShaRhonda Knott-Dawson. ShaRhonda is a “ taco enthusiast, a proud member of the Beyhive, and truly believes that she will be receiving her le...

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March 1, 2022

Lent

The hosts talk all things LENT as they spill the tea (the Communion wine?) on Ash Wednesday, fasting, giving things up, and fish fry Fridays. Stephanie explains why her dad is legitimately the King of Lent (there is ice cream...

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Feb. 15, 2022

Confessions of a Former Catholic School Theater Kid: An Interview Wit…

The hosts are beyond excited to welcome actor, photographer, friend, and fellow former Catholic school kid Matthew Scott onto the show! Matthew recounts stories of being a queer theater kid who had no real beef with the Cath...

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Feb. 1, 2022

Vatican Reject: An Interview with Father Anne

The hosts welcome their first Catholic priest onto the show…and she’s a woman! Fr. Anne Tropeano is a Roman Catholic Womanpriest who is committed to seeing women welcomed into the priesthood within her lifetime. She has a dee...

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Jan. 18, 2022

Lapse Tales: How We Left the Church

The hosts give detailed accounts of what leaving the Church looked like for each of them. One of the hosts makes a VERY BIG ANNOUNCEMENT that would probably make a certain cranky pope very happy. COLLECTION BASKET: This week...

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Jan. 4, 2022

Lapsed to Lapsed: An Interview with author Monica Dux

Anne talks with author Monica Dux! Monica is a writer, columnist, and social commentator. She’s also the author of Lapsed , “the story of one woman’s attempt to exorcise her religious upbringing.” You can learn more about Mon...

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Dec. 21, 2021

In Egg Shells Is Deo: A Very Lapsed Catholic Christmas Episode

This week the hosts talk Catholicism and Christmas memories! Stephanie reveals the carol for which she would sell her soul to the devil in order to be able to sing well (and nearly suggests a certain church choir should mayb...

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