Episodes

Celebrations
Feb. 27, 2026

Celebrations

Joseph Devlin explores why celebrating recovery can feel complicated for families when trust is still fragile and past wounds are still tender. He shares the story of a family choosing to intentionally mark their son’s homeco...
Staying Hopeful When Trust Is Still Fragile
Feb. 12, 2026

Staying Hopeful When Trust Is Still Fragile

In this episode of Family Sobriety Now , Joseph Devlin explores what it means to stay hopeful when trust is still fragile after addiction. Through heartfelt stories and real-life examples, he shares how families can rebuild c...
When Reconnection Feels Slow
Jan. 29, 2026

When Reconnection Feels Slow

This episode focuses on the challenges of family reconnection during recovery, particularly when progress feels slow. Joseph discusses how reconnection often moves more slowly than recovery behaviors, emphasizing that emotion...
Laying The Groundwork
Jan. 1, 2026

Laying The Groundwork

In this episode of Family Sobriety Now , Joseph Devlin talks about how families can begin again after addiction has created distance and broken trust. Rather than focusing on quick fixes, this conversation centers on building...
Gratitude In The Middle
Dec. 18, 2025

Gratitude In The Middle

Joseph explored the concept of gratitude in family recovery, discussing how it helps individuals find light amidst darkness and survive challenging situations. Through personal stories and practical examples, he demonstrated ...
After The Substance Stops
Nov. 13, 2025

After The Substance Stops

In this episode, Joseph explores what comes after your loved one puts down the drink, the pills, or the drug and real recovery begins. Because when the substance stops, the healing work truly starts. Addiction was once the “s...
The Family Healing Blueprint: Feel, Laugh, and Live Again
Oct. 16, 2025

The Family Healing Blueprint: Feel, Laugh, and Live Again

When addiction enters a home, emotions often go underground- laughter fades, tension rises, and family members lose sight of themselves. In this episode of Family Sobriety Now , Joseph Devlin guides families through three pow...
Is It Enabling or Helping?
Aug. 21, 2025

Is It Enabling or Helping?

In this episode, Joseph Devlin unpacks one of the toughest questions families face when a loved one is struggling with addiction or substance abuse: Am I helping, or am I enabling? With heartfelt stories and relatable example...
You Are Not Crazy: Understanding The Chaos Of Addiction
Aug. 7, 2025

You Are Not Crazy: Understanding The Chaos Of Addiction

In this episode, Joseph validates the emotional rollercoaster families face when loving someone who has struggled with substance abuse. Through powerful real-life stories, he shows how patterns of broken trust, curfew slips, ...
The Power Of Family Support
July 24, 2025

The Power Of Family Support

In this episode, Joseph shares Angela’s story, a devoted mother whose son Kyle began struggling with heroin addiction at just 18. Angela was emotionally drained, filled with guilt, and unsure of how to truly help. Through sup...
Loving Them Without Losing Yourself
July 10, 2025

Loving Them Without Losing Yourself

In this episode, Joseph shares the powerful story of Melissa, a devoted wife and mother navigating the emotional toll of loving someone in active addiction. Through Melissa’s experience with her husband, we explore the subtle...
Peace Over Panic: Supporting Without Sinking
June 26, 2025

Peace Over Panic: Supporting Without Sinking

Joseph shares the story of Diane, whose husband, Marcus, struggles with heavy drinking. Though Marcus maintained his responsibilities, his drinking created emotional chaos at home. Diane reached a turning point when she reali...
When They Don’t Want Help, What You Can Still Do
June 12, 2025

When They Don’t Want Help, What You Can Still Do

Joseph discusses strategies for supporting a family member struggling with substance abuse and who is resistant to help. He shares stories and outlines three key strategies: holding a mirror to reality without minimizing, bui...
How Families Can Support a Heavy Drinker Without Losing Themselves
May 29, 2025

How Families Can Support a Heavy Drinker Without Losing Themselves

Joseph discusses supporting heavy drinkers using three key principles. He shares stories of families who learned to support, protect and reconnect with their loved ones. Joseph emphasizes that support means walking beside lov...
Talking To Heavy Drinkers
May 15, 2025

Talking To Heavy Drinkers

Joseph focuses on providing guidance for supporting loved ones with excessive drinking habits, emphasizing their importance of compassion and clear communication over control or enabling. He shares personal stories illustrati...
Homeostasis Resistance In Addiction Recovery
May 1, 2025

Homeostasis Resistance In Addiction Recovery

Joseph Devlin explores a powerful and often overlooked concept in addiction recovery: homeostasis—the brain’s natural resistance to change. Discover why your loved one may feel intense emotional and physical discomfort in ear...
How You Can Support Someone Who Wants Change
April 17, 2025

How You Can Support Someone Who Wants Change

Joseph discussed supporting a loved one who wants to take a break from drinking. He emphasizes maintaining excitement and understanding their reasons, such as improved relationships or health. He suggests setting clear goals,...
Newcomer Suggestions
April 3, 2025

Newcomer Suggestions

Joseph discussed suggestions for newcomers in 12-step programs, emphasizing their applicability across various recovery communities. Key points include attending 90 meetings in 90 days, obtaining phone numbers for support, li...
Open Doors
March 20, 2025

Open Doors

Joseph discusses the concept of "open doors" in relationships, particularly when a loved one seeks forgiveness or help after a mistake or relapse. He emphasizes the importance of responding with gratitude and offering specifi...
Tiny Changes Connected Home
March 6, 2025

Tiny Changes Connected Home

Joseph discussed the importance of small shifts in the home for fostering happiness and connectedness. He shared a family's successful strategy to address communication challenges through subtle changes in their living room. ...
Sane and Happy Usefulness
Feb. 20, 2025

Sane and Happy Usefulness

Joseph emphasized the importance of spiritual principles, active listening, empathy, and effective communication in leading a fulfilling life. He shared personal anecdotes and strategies for building trust and rapport with ot...
Common Ground For Families
Feb. 6, 2025

Common Ground For Families

Joseph discussed the importance of spiritual principles and common ground in family life, particularly in the context of addiction and recovery. He emphasized the significance of tolerance, understanding, and love as key valu...
Addiction and Family Dynamics
Jan. 23, 2025

Addiction and Family Dynamics

Joseph discussed excerpts from the book Alcoholics Anonymous, focusing on the chapter "To Wives". He highlighted two key points: abstaining from worrying about what others think and staying away from taking sides in arguments...
Goal Setting
Jan. 9, 2025

Goal Setting

Joseph discussed an effective goal setting strategy, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's 'why' and setting specific, measurable goals. He emphasized that goal setting doesn't have to be limited to once a year an...