Resentment isn’t the opposite of love, it’s a sign of deeper desire.
Learn why forgiveness alone can’t heal the heart, and what truly restores connection.
In this episode, Angel explores how those small, unspoken hurts quietly drain the love in a relationship, why forgiveness alone doesn’t work, and what it really takes to clear resentment so that love can flow again.
You’ll learn:
• Why “micro-resentments” matter more than big betrayals
• The emotional bank account of love
• How to speak truth without blame
• What it means to “play the deeper game”
• Why desire is the hidden key to repair
Includes a simple relational practice to help you reconnect and restore openness in your partnership.
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If this conversation resonates and you’re ready to clear old hurts in your relationship, learn more about Angel’s private coaching at https://www.angeldrake.com/newclient .
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01:05 — What Resentment Really Is
How micro-resentments build up and hijack our relationship storylines.
03:00 — The Emotional Bank Account
Understanding emotional withdrawals and how resentment drains love over time.
05:00 — The Antidote: Truth Without Blame
Speaking honestly in the moment and making it safe to tell each other the truth.
07:30 — Receiving Feedback Gracefully
How to stay open instead of defensive when your partner shares their impact.
09:45 — Playing the Deeper Game
Moving from surface-level arguments into deeper, more intimate conversations.
12:10 — Desire Beneath Resentment
How resentment often hides a longing to be closer and more connected.
14:00 — Why Forgiveness Isn’t Enough
The difference between mental forgiveness and the somatic “felt shift.”
16:30 — The Practice: Naming the Moment
A simple framework to express what happened, how you felt, and what story you made up.
18:30 — Love as a Path of Awakening
Letting relationship become a spiritual practice of repair and evolution.
19:23 — Closing Invitation
Angel shares how to work with her privately and how to stay connected.
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