How do I tell my girlfriend I want to clean her apartment without insulting her? MATTHEW STAPLEY AUG 10, 2021

How do I tell my girlfriend I want to clean her apartment without insulting her?

I love her, but my girlfriend’s apartment is absolutely filthy and messy. She’s super self-conscious about it but I’ve told her I don’t judge her for it and I don’t mind coming over. I’m not sure why she hasn’t cleaned it yet but I think she gets really overwhelmed about cleaning her place up so I don’t press her about it.

Well I wasn’t lying about not minding coming over, but the more time I spend there the more I want to clean the place up. I’m the type of person to clean/mop/vacuum my own apartment regularly and definitely prefer to spend my time in a clean and tidy environment. So much in fact that I would be willing to spend a weekend and deep clean the shit out of her place.

How do I offer her this in a way that seems helpful and not judgmental or insulting?

I’m sure she would appreciate me helping her with this, but I’m just worried about hurting her feelings by trying to take matters into my own hands.

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