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Ep. 172 The Weight of Unforgiveness
March 14, 2026

Ep. 172 The Weight of Unforgiveness

In this episde I share two interlocking stories about the burden we carry when we hold onto resentment, anger, self-blame, and self-loathing. Find out how I learned to begin to let it go. This episode includes: My forgiveness...

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Ep. 171 Keeping Vigil While the World is at War
March 9, 2026

Ep. 171 Keeping Vigil While the World is at War

War is unfolding in many parts of the world right now, yet for many of us life continues largely unchanged. In this episode I reflect on the difference between how earlier generations experienced war —especially during World ...

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Ep. 170 Practices for Preparing for Elderhood
March 3, 2026

Ep. 170 Practices for Preparing for Elderhood

This episode is a companion for my latest post on Substack which you'll find a link to below. Many of us are reaching a stage in life where it is important to begin cultivating our life's wisdom in order to move into the role...

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Ep. 169 My View of the Afterlife
March 2, 2026

Ep. 169 My View of the Afterlife

In this brief episode I'm sharing with you my own experience of the spiritual realm and the afterlife since many people have wondered whether or not I "believe" the afterlife exists. This episode includes: Childhood experienc...

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Ep. 168 The Power of Lovingkindness
Feb. 14, 2026

Ep. 168 The Power of Lovingkindness

In this episode I share with you a powerful tool that we all need right now: The Lovingkindness Blessing . You can use this every day to transform your life and relationships - the world is starving for lovingkindness right n...

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Ep. 167 Finding a Path of Love in a Hate-Filled World
Feb. 1, 2026

Ep. 167 Finding a Path of Love in a Hate-Filled World

In this episode I'm sharing my own up and down journey of learning how to step forward with love in this world where hatred surrounds us. This episode includes: My desire to not add to the burden of hatred the world is alread...

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Ep. 166 Wisdom for the Long Arc of Societal Change
Jan. 12, 2026

Ep. 166 Wisdom for the Long Arc of Societal Change

In this episode I talk about the horrific state of affairs in the world and especially here in the US where we are confronted on a daily basis with violence, hatred, and inhumanity. We are awake now to the reality of the dark...

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Ep. 165 Going Nowhere and Why It Matters
Dec. 16, 2025

Ep. 165 Going Nowhere and Why It Matters

This episode is a post-illness reflection on what happens when all our plans and aspirations get waylaid and we end up getting nowhere that we had planned to be. It includes: How my end of year plans got upended A metaphor of...

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Ep. 164 The Ego and It's Immortality Projects
Dec. 8, 2025

Ep. 164 The Ego and It's Immortality Projects

In this episode I discuss "immortality projects" - a term coined by Ernest Becker to describe the ego's efforts to escape the fear of death. This episode includes: What type of "projects" the ego creates to hide from death Th...

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Ep. 163 The 4 Elements of True Love
Dec. 1, 2025

Ep. 163 The 4 Elements of True Love

Today I'm sharing Thich Nhat Hahn's 4 elements of true love, which is a Buddhist perspective on love that I find valuable. This episode includes: Loving-kindness: May you be truly well Compassion: Your pain is not separate fr...

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Ep. 162 The Hidden Work of Bearing Bad News
Nov. 24, 2025

Ep. 162 The Hidden Work of Bearing Bad News

In this episode I talk about the timing of delivering bad news and the experience of carrying that bad news until the moment it can be shared. This episode includes: The weight of carrying bad news The divine timing that some...

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Ep. 161 Tools for the Chrysalis: What to Do When Everything Falls Apart
Nov. 17, 2025

Ep. 161 Tools for the Chrysalis: What to Do When Everything Falls Apa…

In this episode I'll share insights from my recent Substack post on the metaphor of the butterfly life cycle and why as a society we are in a "chrysalis phase" right now. This episode includes: The need for grief rituals - bo...

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Ep. 160 Contemplating The Tao of Death
Nov. 10, 2025

Ep. 160 Contemplating The Tao of Death

This episode is Part 2 on the mini-series on dealing with the fear of death. Today we look again at the 5 doorways of exploring death and I share verses from The Tao of Death that can help us contemplate the deeper meaning of...

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Ep. 159 How Do I Rise Above the Fear of Death?
Nov. 3, 2025

Ep. 159 How Do I Rise Above the Fear of Death?

In this episode I share some thoughts from ChatGPT along with my own about how to deal with our innate fear of death. Next week I'll continue with this topic and share some wisdom from The Tao of Death but first we begin with...

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Ep. 158 Into the Unknown: Using Frozen 2 to Talk About Grief
Oct. 27, 2025

Ep. 158 Into the Unknown: Using Frozen 2 to Talk About Grief

In this episode I share how to use the Disney film Frozen 2--which I've been watching on repeat with my 3 year old granddaughter--as a catalyst for conversations about loss and grief. Here are some tips for using the film and...

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Ep. 157 The Healing Power of Visible Grief
Oct. 20, 2025

Ep. 157 The Healing Power of Visible Grief

In this episode I share how my own grieving process was helped by experiencing the visible evidence of mourning I encountered when traveling through Italy (as written in Wild and Holy). This episode includes: How grief is vis...

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Ep. 156 How Grief Can Fuel Creativity
Oct. 13, 2025

Ep. 156 How Grief Can Fuel Creativity

In today's brief episode I share some thoughts about how my travels through Italy revealed to me that grief is a powerful source of creativity if we face it directly. This episode highlights the poetry of Andrea Gibson, whose...

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Ep. 155 BONUS Introduction to Wild and Holy
Oct. 10, 2025

Ep. 155 BONUS Introduction to Wild and Holy

In this special episode I’m sharing with you the Introduction to my new book Wild and Holy ! I hope you enjoy listening to this brief excerpt and that you’ll consider backing the Kickstarter campaign where you can receive man...

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Ep. 154 Clearing the Field to Improve Challenging Relationships
Oct. 6, 2025

Ep. 154 Clearing the Field to Improve Challenging Relationships

Today I'm sharing a personal practice I've used to clear my own energy field when I'm faced with tense and challenging relationships. With all the polarization and hatred present in our society right now we need tools like th...

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Ep. 153 When Grief Comes Back Like a Volcano: The Second Wave
Sept. 29, 2025

Ep. 153 When Grief Comes Back Like a Volcano: The Second Wave

In this episode I share my experience of having grief return to me in a sudden, unexpected wave like a long-dormant volcano erupting. This event is the subject of my new book Wild and Holy, which is launching on Kickstarter t...

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Ep. 152 Healing Grief to Heal the Heart
Sept. 22, 2025

Ep. 152 Healing Grief to Heal the Heart

In this episode I will share my own personal journey of healing for the heart condition I was unexpectedly diagnosed with last year. This story has a rather miraculous conclusion so listen to the end! This episode includes: H...

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Ep. 151 Navigating the In-Between of Growth from Ego to Soul
Sept. 15, 2025

Ep. 151 Navigating the In-Between of Growth from Ego to Soul

This episode is Part 3 of a mini-series on From Ego-Driven to Soul-Led: A Journey of Integration. In Part 1 we focused on the ego and Part 2 centered around the Soul, or Higher Consciousness. Today we cover the "dance" that o...

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Ep. 150 What it Means to be Soul-Led
Sept. 8, 2025

Ep. 150 What it Means to be Soul-Led

This is part 2 of the mini-series on From Ego-Driven to Soul-Led: A Journey of Integration. Today we are talking about the Soul (or Higher Self) and how we can learn to live more fully by the light of the soul after we transc...

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Ep. 149 What the Ego Is and Why We Need It
Sept. 1, 2025

Ep. 149 What the Ego Is and Why We Need It

This is the first episode in a mini-series on Integrating the Ego and Soul. We begin with a primer on the ego to help us recognize our own ego, how it behaves, and when it might trip us up. This episdoe includes: How the ego ...

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