The Unstuck High Performer Podcast
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The Unstuck High Performer Podcast

The Unstuck High Performer Podcast is for successful people who know they’re capable of more but feel stuck underperforming relative to their potential. Hosted by high-performance hypnotherapist and mindset coach Paul Salter, this show helps CEOs, founders, executives, entrepreneurs, and ambitious p...

Recent Episodes

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Oct. 5, 2026

197. An Open Letter to The High Achiever Suffering in Silence

How long will you keep telling yourself you’ll prioritize your health, your marriage, your kids—and yourself—when life finally gives you more time? In this special open-letter episode, I challenge the belief that “later” is eventually coming and expose what waiting for the right time, enough space, or a painful enough crisis may already be costing you. In this episode, you’ll learn: What “I’ll see if I can squeeze it in” reveals about your actual priorities How your calendar and attention co
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Sept. 28, 2026

196. If I Let Go of My Anger, Will I Lose My Edge?

What if the anger you believe gives you your edge is actually becoming one of the greatest threats to everything you’ve built? In this episode, I unpack why anger is often a learned protection strategy—not a personality trait—and how the very reaction that once helped you feel powerful, safe, or in control may now be costing you your marriage, your relationship with your children, your leadership, your health, and your peace. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why anger is a learned reaction—not
Sept. 21, 2026

195. If You Can’t Say These 3 Things to Your Wife, Your Marriage (and Business) Are in Trouble

You can lead a company, solve million-dollar problems, and make decisions most people are afraid to make—but when your wife asks what’s wrong, do you still respond, “I’m fine”? In this episode, I unpack the three statements every high-achieving man needs to become comfortable saying—“I want,” “I need,” and “I feel”—before years of silence turn his marriage into a relationship between two people who still love each other but no longer know how to reach each other. In this episode, you’ll learn:
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Sept. 14, 2026

194. Why Can’t I Forgive Myself—Even After All These Years?

What if hindsight isn’t 20/20—what if it’s cruel? In this episode, I challenge the way you’ve been judging your past self with information, maturity, and emotional capacity you only possess today—and show you how to take responsibility for what happened without continuing to punish yourself for something you can no longer change. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why hindsight can become an unfair weapon against your past self The critical differences between regret, guilt, and shame How guilt
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Sept. 7, 2026

193. “It’s Cheaper to Keep Her”—But What Is Staying Actually Costing Me?

What if “it’s cheaper to keep her” has far less to do with your marriage—and far more to do with what losing money would mean about you? In this episode, I challenge the relationship between money, self-worth, and legacy—and ask you to stop calculating only what leaving might cost and finally confront what staying exactly as you are may already be costing you. In this episode, you’ll learn: What “it’s cheaper to keep her” may reveal beneath the financial calculation Why losing wealth can fee
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Aug. 31, 2026

192. Why the More Successful You Become, the Easier It Is to Lose What Got You There

What if the greatest threat to your continued success isn't failure—but becoming successful enough to believe you no longer need what got you here? In this episode, I unpack the psychological trap that causes successful people to slowly abandon the fundamentals while their results remain strong—and why today's success may simply be yesterday's discipline disguising the consequences of today's shortcuts. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why success creates the illusion that you've graduated from