Do you ever spend time contemplating how gaining and feedism inform or influence your own understanding of gender and sexuality? Then these eps are for you! In each episode, we explore the experiences and perspectives of gainers and feedists from across the globe, and uncover how the gaining and feedist journeys intersect with their sense of identity. There's so much more to us than just fat, so give these episodes a listen to find out more.
This week, we discuss the dating experience in the feedist community. What are feedees looking for? And what red flags should folk look out for? Who are we? We're James and Tim; two gainers who want to explore everything abou...
This week, we discuss the PoC experience in the feedist community. What does power and race look like in the space? How does that affect sex, friendships, and relationships, inside and outside of the community? Who are we? We...
This week, we discuss the female-driven dynamics of the feedist community. What does power look like when women dominate the space? How does that affect sex, friendships, and relationships, inside and outside of the community...
This week, we discuss women's safety in the feedist community. What's happening in the space? And what can we learn to do better in action, and as allies? Who are we? We're James and Tim; two gainers who want to explore every...
This week, we discuss how the fat experience intersects with masculinity. Are the only changes a man goes through as he becomes fat, obvious? And how do we balance our desires when people infer that weight feminises the male ...
This week, we discuss sex work! What does sex work look like? And what can practitioners learn when it comes to protecting themselves and making sure they get paid? Who are we? We're James and Tim; two gainers who want to exp...
This week, we discuss the experiences of our guest as a heterosexual gainer throughout the years, from the early days of the internet to now. What's unique about his experiences? And what do we find we all have in common? Who...
This week, we discuss all things BDSM! What does consent look like? And how does gaining factor in? Who are we? We're James and Tim; two gainers who want to explore everything about gaining and feedism. New episodes will come...
This week, we discuss what it's like being a gainer on the grey asexual spectrum. We explore some of the more surprising elements of their lived experience and find how we can learn and grow from their lessons. Who are we? We...
This week, we explore the experience of being transmasculine and how it intersects with the gainer experience. Who are we? We're James and Tim; two gainers who want to explore everything about gaining and feedism. New episode...
