Valora tu estado civil

0:00 Or why the affective relationships I have are not stable. I like assertiveness, why it invites us to prudence that what should motivate our word is always love is You and that is already the basis to go out to conquer many goals, to fight, to give a better version and enjoy life fully. You know one of the experiences that human beings live most today is to face the question about our marital status and sometimes not just the question, but a judgment.

0:53 If you' re married, they ask you when you' re going to have children. If you have a child, they ask you and by when the second, if you' re not married, they start asking you when you' re getting married? They use the expression of the song and by when the ring and if you' ve had the decision not to continue the couple' s relationship hears and by when you' re going to start another. That is, many live interested in that experience that is personal.

1:33 That' s why, in today' s episode, I want to tell you that I value your marital status, because that' s a personal decision. No one should try to pressure you in that space. You' re the one who decides who you' re building your life project with. It ' s you who decides whether to start a couple relationship or not. You ' re the one who decides if a couple relationship ends. You have to feel pressured. You always have to own yourself. You have to be aware of the values, the beliefs, the inner forces that guide us, that guide you, but you can never let external pressure lead you to change your civil state, because that is a fundamental option. That is why I would like to propose to you four keys that for me are fundamental in the experience of our civil state. The first, obviously, is acceptance. You have to accept what you have decided, what you have built, what you have done, because it is a thought- out, thought- out decision,

3:07 because it is not an improvised decision. It' s your decision and you have to accept it And for me to accept it is to give thanks, that is, thank you for this I live, because when you go thank you, you not only accept, but somehow celebrate your state. You have to be clear that your marital status doesn' t define your personal value. You' re still the woman, the man you are, and that doesn ' t define it a yes or a no That' s not defined by a signature, in a court of law, in a notary or a blessing given to you by a religious minister, so first, acceptance. Second of all, it' s important that you take care of yourself. We have insisted throughout our episodes that a spiritual ability, that one of the consequences of a good spiritual experience is that one takes full care of oneself, takes care of his physical, takes care of his mind his emotions, his spirit.

4:25 This means you have to focus on the positive aspects of your marital status, evidence, the benefits, explain the profits you have. Hey, it' s important that you don' t focus on pain, on tragedy, on absences, but on what you' re winning. I remember these days a person is going through what we call the TUSA and he writes to me to one of my networks and he talks to me and I told him a way to overcome the tusa, to build the mourning for that loss is to show the benefits you have now. Before. You couldn' t spend time the way you' re spending it or investing it today. Before, you couldn ' t have the freedom you could have today before. I couldn' t then prove that to the extent that you focus on that you focus on those benefits. You' re taking care of yourself because you' re giving yourself mental health, you' re giving yourself serenity, peace, and that keeps you going. The third is always important personal growth. This means having a life plan. This means that you know where you' re going, that you can be clear about your purpose, that you can say I, as

5:59 a human being, as a man as a woman, want to get there. My dream is this, My dream is to achieve these goals, these realizations, That is, that your decision, your marital status is not out of alignment, is not disharmony of your fundamental choice expressed in the life project you are making. It' s important. It' s not just any decision, it' s a decision to go on the way. And then, as you' re looking for this, as you' re looking for that, you' ve made the take decision and that' s yours, because I understand that breakups hurt, but sometimes they belong to a life project, sometimes they belong to deep decisions. I particularly, although I have been a defender of marriage and as a defender of the experiences of solid couples, so much so that one day I wrote a text with some friends who were called a change of relationship, not a couple. I remember it was an experience that I did at the time. She was celibate, she didn' t have a relationship. Then I invited some married people to help me reflect on the subject. I, despite that, understand that there are times when

7:30 the relationship ends and that we have to accept that it ends and that we have to accept that it does not go anymore, not because one is a bad person, but simply because the context does not allow it. And that ' s a valid decision And no one can feel frustrated, failed, accused, pointed out and it' s not right to be pointed out or to try to harm you. And the fourth statement is to be open to the future. I love to highlight the validity, the importance of uncertainty. The other day I was walking and someone came up to me and told me that I had real predictive skills and that I wanted to predict things. I affectionately, with the kind reflection I always try to have, I said no and he told me why not. And I told him because for me uncertainty has a lot of value. Don' t know what' s gonna happen tomorrow?

8:37 For me it is a source of happiness, a source of joy, a source of fullness, not knowing what will happen tomorrow. It means there ' s a free will, it means I own me, it means I can decide, it means every decision I make makes sense. Then you in your marital status, open to the future. You don' t know what ' s gonna happen tomorrow? You don' t know if you' re going to find a person who makes you, rework, rethink the life project, retry a new decision. You don' t know. That' s why. One cannot marry existential absolutisms, because those do not exist. Life ' s on its way, life' s on its way. Appreciate your marital status. This is always in a spiritual context. You know it' s my choice, my choice from well- being, my choice from the search for harmony in life. In order to be happy, then today I wanted to tell you value your marital status and I wanted to give you those keys for you to think about, for reflections. These days, at the book fair I was found by a young man who told me I listened two and three times to your podcast and I go to note. That excited me, that made my life happy and nothing. This episode is wonderful. I

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