Ser feliz: superar obstáculos

0:00 Bombax, why the affective relationships I have are not stable. I like assertiveness because it invites us to prudence that what should motivate our word is always love is You and that is already the basis to go out to conquer many goals, to fight, to give a better version and enjoy life fully. You know a friend with a philosopher' s pose. It tells me the obstacles are inevitable, but the way you face them determines your growth learns from setbacks and goes on. For a moment I am silent and try to understand each of your words and you are right. Human beings, by our condition, are faced with obstacles, adversities, contrary experiences, winds that threaten to lead us to the direction different from the one that believes. That is why he says well that obstacles are inevitable. No one can believe there' s a

1:37 life without problems. No one can fall under the scam of someone who tells him with this text, with this word, with this method, there will be no problems in your life, because the obstacles are the seasoning of existence, because our other status as embodied spirits. It' s always giving us difficult moments, complex moments. In other words, the important thing is not to wait for a life where we are free from obstacles. The important thing is not to look for an existence in which everything flows as we want.

2:30 First, because it' s not going to be true and, second, because life can lose its meaning and it can become a boring experience. So what you have to do is define what is the best attitude to face the obstacles, because that' s where the difference is. It is there where life, either becomes an exciting and wonderful experience or you can become a heavy cross to bear with what attitude you face problems every day I pose four negative attitudes to you. One of denial. No problems, they don' t exist, they' re mental. That' s a wrong attitude, whether you want it or not. The problems are there and they will be imposed.

3:29 They' re there and they' re gonna make you feel their presence. The second wrong attitude is magic. Oh, they' re gonna work out easily. I' m gonna snap my fingers and they' ll figure it out. I' ll do a magic prayer, an open cadebra, and they' ll work out. It' s not true. The obstacles of life require effort, dedication, commitment. The third wrong attitude is the fatalist or I' m not going to get through it. This is my misfortune. Everything' s lost. I can' t overcome this situation.

4:10 We can' t fall into that dramatism, because it' s not true. There' s always a dark night tomorrow comes a dawn. Then you cannot decree that everything is already lost and everything is left, that you are defeated, that everything is already meaningless. And the fourth negative attitude is to assume that this obstacle is the fruit of your guilt, of your destiny and that then you are a man or a woman enslaved by the sines of existence.

5:00 No, no, no. None of these attitudes are fundamentally valid, because they don' t solve and because they don' t help you find the tools they require. Be clear that obstacles are always workable. We all face them at some point and we can all overcome them. Sometimes we untangle the knot completely, sometimes we win the adversary, other times we just lose, we assume the situation and move on. That' s why today I want to invite you rather to have three attitudes. One learns from setbacks.

5:56 One of the keys to personal growth is learning from the obstacles of adversity. When we face a setback, it is important to reflect on what has happened, to identify what we could have done differently. That will not only help us find a solution, but often the only thing that generates us is a life lesson so as not to make the same mistake again in the future. Another attitude to move forward to an important key to personal growth is to move forward after a difficulty. I know it' s easy and even valid to get discouraged when things don' t go as we have planned, but it ' s essential to remember that we always make mistakes and that we always have the ability to overcome ourselves. The important thing is not to give up, The important thing is to move forward, The important thing is to believe in the goal and continue on the path that leads us to its achievement. Fourth pardon. Third, it generates relationships, i e synergies. What is required with positive people, people who encourage you, people who support you, people

7:28 who love you, people who reaffirm you, because you just can' t. There are times when the massaging of the situation is so strong, you need help, you need to talk to someone, share with someone. And now yes, the fourth is a healthy spiritual experience that I call, a healthy spiritual experience, a spiritual experience that connects you with your essence, that is, that connects you with the best of your being and that at the same time makes you understand that life transcends, that life can be denied, that there is always the opportunity to understand how that situation fits the whole that we are. You know that I live always trying to strengthen my spiritual experience.

8:24 So today I want to invite you to have a spiritual practice that helps you to love you, to value you, to help you trust you, to make you able to generate your own projects, to develop your skills and to believe that you can overcome it. Everything. Hey the obstacles are inevitable, but you can make them a great opportunity for growth or you can make them a very heavy anchor that sinks you into the sea of your fears and the sea of your pains. Today I want to invite you to compare those four negative attitudes that I think lead to failure, and those three other attitudes and yaw that help to trust and believe. I am always convinced that, although we lose that even if we do not find solutions, we are going to move forward. I invite you to take time and calmly to find a way to give the best of yourself. We are on all Bookbox platforms, also Spotify, Dizer, Apple, Google Play, we are all here.

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