La alegría de tener hermanos

0:00 Bombax? Why the affective relationships I have are not stable. I like assertiveness, because it invites us to prudence that what should motivate our word is always the love soy and that is already the basis to go out to conquer many goals, to fight, to give a better version and to enjoy life fully. You know relationships with brothers can be some of the most important and lasting in our lives. That' s why you need to take care of those relationships, because they are a source of love, a source of support, a source of companionship And you have to take care of them, because when you don' t take care of them, they can end up being problematic and become a source of quarrels, sources of bitterness, sources of disunity.

1:11 And that' s not right. All of us who have the joy of having brothers. We constantly need to take care of those relationships. The question is how to do it, how we take care of our relationships. I ' ll put a few things to you. First of all, I believe that good communication is necessary. We have said this on several occasions in these episodes. The more efficient and effective communication, the better relationship there is. That is why I invite you to have good communication with your brothers, to speak among yourselves, to communicate openly and honestly. When I talk about open and honest communication, I talk about telling what' s inside, telling what ' s bothering you, telling what hurts you, telling what makes you happy, telling what fills you, that is, telling everything honestly. That means saying what we disagree with, because it is possible for your brothers to do things or say things that you don' t like, that bother you and you need to tell them, you need to share it. But communication is not just talk. Communication is also listening. Then the invitation makes them listen to each other and try to understand each other' s views by being respectful.

2:45 Even if we do not agree with those brothers, we must treat them with respect, that trust does not become a space of respect. Healthy communication is a communication that does not accept insults, that does not accept personal attacks, a communication marked by empathy, where one tries to understand and feel what the other is feeling, where one approaches the perspective that the other person, that is, my brother or my sister has to be able to go forward, because if we communicate well, then we will be able to build an efficient relationship, a relationship where that love, that support and that companionship is given that is required. The second would be conflict resolution. In every human relationship there are conflicts, there are disagreements, there is always a clash of interests, that is, you would have to be angels of God in order not to be disgruntled, in order not to have misunderstandings. It' s normal for that to happen. That is why we must learn to face these difficulties and to get ahead. To do this, we must be willing to commit ourselves, that is, to make the relationship go on, relationships are

4:15 maintained, because there is a commitment decision, sometimes people want relationships to be supported by magic, even if they sustain themselves. That can' t be. They hold if you make the effort, hold it, if you' re committed to the relationship. That' s why it' s not about winning. It is not always about getting away with one' s, but rather about being willing to find a solution, a solution that works for everyone. That which we call consensus, that which we call the possibility of agreeing answers that satisfy us. That' s why we have to find solutions to win, win instead of trying to win the fight. No, no, it doesn' t get us anywhere. When you seek to be right, impose your judgment, impose your interest. What you are doing is deepening into the wound or often establishing the new conditions for a new conflict. So, please, it is important to focus on the solutions, on the win- win, in which all those involved in the conflict feel benefited, feel that they can succeed. A wonderful gift is forgiveness. One cannot live by resentment of resentment with the brothers. One has to forgive, to heal the wounds, to remember without pain. One cannot continue to establish relationships from a grudge,

5:46 because that' s all it does is move you to the offense, to the offense, to mistreat the other. We all make mistakes. We know that, and so when our brothers do something to us, what we have to do is be willing to forgive them and make them understand the mistake. I insist resentment damages the relationship. A third thing is to share time. If we want the relationship to work, we have to share time. Each one, depending on the circumstances, knows how much time he can share, how much time he can give. But there must be communication, there must be meetings to celebrate life, there must be meetings to accompany one another in times of illness, there must be meetings simply to make oneself feel love.

6:33 This involves supporting each other, being there for each other, being there at the time when the other has emotional difficulties and requires a shoulder where to lie down, to come together to celebrate life, to celebrate every success of the brother or sister. I love it, for example, when I' m doing well in something, when I get a result or a positive score. I write it in the chat of my brothers and I am fascinated to read to my brothers telling me beautiful things, telling me nice things, because that not only makes me feel good, but it gives quality to relationships. And maybe the last thing is to celebrate the differences. Hey, we' re not the same, we don' t have the same characteristics, we don' t think the same way. We need to recognize the differences, know that she thinks in one way that you think of another, celebrate them because there is a benefit there, because there is a wealth there and take advantage of them. I love it, for example, and I put it on a very superficial level. We have different musical tastes. Then sometimes one of my brothers who likes salsa so much. I ask him when I' m on some show or I' m on something and they bring up a salsa theme, I ask him listen to this song and he immediately gives me some information. The difference benefits me, not only do I recognize it,

8:07 not only celebrate it, but I also take advantage of it hears. Whoever has a good relationship with his brothers can build happiness. Remember that these relationships are a constant job. You' ve got one to spend time with him. We must also accept that there may be ups and downs on the road, but if we make an effort to communicate well, to resolve conflicts, to spend time together, to celebrate differences, we will return that relationship, source of growth, source of joy. It is no wonder that at the beginning of biblical prehistory the relationship of brothers in Cain and Abel was discussed.

8:52 It is not strange that this is true and that the lack of communion with God or violence with the brother is shown. Nor is it strange that at the beginning of the new Testament, in the Gospel of Mark, we insist, as in Jesus, that we call partners of brothers, as to show us that the new man is also made through brotherhood, through sorority. It is essential that we be clear about this. It is essential that we know this so that we can get ahead and live well. Hey, I don ' t know You have brothers The day you call them today, and today you thank them for their lives And today you tell them one of those beautiful words you know. Yes, let us do that and we will certainly strengthen our relationship with them and with them in a better way. We' re on every platform. Don' t forget the orational, the man is alive, or you know boom Bux.