Alimenta el amor

0:03 Why the affective relationships I have are not stable. I like assertiveness because it invites us to prudence that what should motivate our word is always love is you and that is already the basis to go out to conquer many goals, to fight, to give a better version and enjoy life fully. You know many kill love and do it with words, attitudes and actions of contempt, indifference, lies of pain. Others just let him die and let him die because they don' t feed him. And they let him die because they do not cultivate him, because there are no expressions that caress and show the care taken with love. But there are also others who are able to make it grow and make it grow by understanding the dynamics, understanding the nature of love, which is an emotion, but which is also a decision and which, therefore, demands the integral commitment of the people engaged in the bond. In all kinds of bond, whether in the bond of a couple, love must

1:38 be nourished, whether in the fraternal bond, love must grow, or whether in the bond of friendship, love must be allowed to develop. How we care, how we feed love. I think the first way is to express explicitly that you love the other person by telling him I love you without fear of expressing what you are feeling. When you say I love you, you do, you provoke wonderful reactions in the heart of the person who listens to you. Do not be afraid, do not be afraid, to look in the eyes and to express with a clear voice, with a safe voice, with a tender voice all that you have in your heart, also when you are able to express admiration. I am convinced that love is nourished by admiration.

2:52 A couple who ceases to admire themselves is a couple who begin to kill or let love die, we must express admiration, and we do so when we recognize the qualities of the other person, when we recognize his victories, when we recognize his ability to act, when we look at them or look them in the eyes and tell him. I love your intelligence, I love your beauty, I love your sense of love, your sense of humor. I love the way you act when you express admiration. You' re growing. You' re making love grow. The third form would be sincerity.

3:39 I think you can' t lie to that person who claims to love lies is like poison. The lie is like a dagger that enters the heart and destroys everything. Lie destroys trust. That' s why you have to be honest and I say sincere, for example, in praise, when you praise that person you love, do it with sincerity that that person discovers in your words, discover in your expressions, that your heart is speaking that there is no other intention than to make him feel everything you feel. Hear one more way pay attention, spend time with the loved one listen carefully, give him the opportunity to feel cared for, to feel valued. Solidarity is also important, that is, to offer your help, to serve and to do so in a clear, selfless way, that this person will not believe that you are after something. It' s not s not just because you love her you' re there offering your hands to work, to build. It'

5:11 s important to pose real gifts. I believe that the most important gifts are those that you build yourself, those that you make yourself, that is, those that express attention, dedication. I know that some purchased gifts are valuable and applauded, but I think the ones that have the most strength are those that you build yourself. To me, particularly in my experience as a couple, it has been very helpful to build some stories, write some poems, try to build some songs. That feeds love, also gives quality time.

5:58 Many times we do not forget that the other person needs us and needs us not thinking about work, not watching television, not writing something, but with all our senses open to that person, so that there is open communication, honest communication, because you know that communication is fundamental in any relationship. Talking to the loved one about what we are feeling, about what we are excited about, about what makes us suffer surely generates conditions in which love will grow. I like compassion. I think pity hurts love. I think pity is trying to end love, it' s trying to kill love. But compassion is fundamental When that person feels that you' re empathically joining and you' re trying to feel with her and not to judge her pain and not to judge what' s going on, but on the contrary, that you' re there to show her everything you have. Remember it is necessary to express your love in an authentic and meaningful way, and that makes love grow to be creative in the way it expresses in the ways of expressing that love.

7:23 Now you have to find out what the language of your partner' s love is. You have to know which channel you communicate best, because sometimes we put this in abstract and it turns out that there are people who like a caress with a gift the most, there are people who like a word of affirmation more than dedicated time. Then it is important to know the other person, to know his needs, to know what it is that makes him vibrate, what it is that makes him resound to support and to give the best, I invite you to feed the love that you feel with this person.

8:05 Don' t let love die, don' t make movies in love, because then breakups come, then pain comes, then loss comes and then they begin to wonder why it happened. Very simple, because you let it happen to me from the spiritual dimension. I like to insist very much on recognizing the value of the other, on recognizing the dignity of the other and that our actions are always oriented towards that person being able to develop, to that person being able to give his best, to that person being able to build his project with firmness, with confidence, because he feels supported, because he feels that there is someone who is making sense of him, who is giving him away, meaning that is recognizing his value. Praying for loved ones is great, because intercession always has power, but praying with loved ones strengthens the relationship. I like them both. Many times I am interceding for my partner, praying for her, crying for her. Other times I hold her hand and invite her to thank life and I invite her to thank so many things that we have, so many opportunities that we live. We need to learn to love, review what I have told you simply so that you can grow

9:37 tone, don' t let your love die. Don' t kill love. You know.