Episodes

Nov. 4, 2019

Alex & The Devaluing Unfaithful Wife - Emotional Abuse, Infidelity, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Alex about the 15 years of devaluation he endured at the hands of his narcissistic ex-wife. While Alex was the best family man he could be, his ex-wife exploited his love of family to devalue and control him every way. Alex's story is equal parts unbelievable, yet very relatable at its core. Special Guest: Alex. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
Oct. 28, 2019

Jenny & The Overbearing Father - Narcissist Father, Perfectionism, Enmeshment, Addiction, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks to Jenny about being raised by her overbearing father, who saw her as the holy grail of narcissistic supply. They touch on the subjects of addiction, perfectionism, feeling responsible for other people's feelings, mirroring, walking on eggshells, enmeshment, nitpicking, EMDR Therapy, and so much more. Even if you're not a child of a narcissist, you'll find many things you can learn from in this episode. * Our Facebook Group is https://www.facebook.com/groups/narcissistapocalypse * Sp...
Oct. 21, 2019

Billy Jean & The Subtle Narcissist - Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Billy Jean about her current marriage to a controlling narcissist and how she's gaining the strength to leave him. Plus, they discuss her serial narcissist dating history and how growing up in a dysfunctional home created an environment for her to tolerate abusive behavior. Billy Jean's awareness of these patterns has given her a sense of empowerment, and her road to self-discovery will inspire you. * Our Facebook Group is https://www.facebook.com/groups/narcissistapocalypse * S...
Oct. 14, 2019

Grace & The Narcissistic Emotional Abuser - Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Grace about her abusive relationship with a narcissist and the issues she's dealt with in the aftermath. They discuss validation, addiction, setting an example for children, understanding your own behavior, trust issues (with others and yourself), and the importance of resetting yourself as you try to baby-step yourself out of your safety zone. There are a lot of lessons to be learned in this episode, so take a listen. * Our Facebook Group is https://www.facebook.com/groups/narci...
Sept. 30, 2019

Jewelz & The Narcissistic Lifelong Friend Romance - Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Jewelz about her romantic relationship with a lifelong friend that eventually became a nightmare. Jewelz tells her heartbreaking story with one heck of a sense of humor and has Chad laughing throughout the entire conversation. It's one of those stories that keeps on getting crazier as the lies this narcissist told were off the charts. Trust me when I say this, you're going to love Jewelz. **Help us raise money for Leyla (July 22nd Episode) to get Trauma Therapy for year. She's in...
Sept. 9, 2019

Julie & The Emotionally Abusive Mother - Narcissist Mother, Toxic Relationship, Emotional Abuse & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Julie about her back-to-back narcissistic relationships and growing up with a narcissistic mother. It's an interesting conversation as Julie's done a lot of work on herself to get to where she is today. She's strong, resilient, and a good role model for all of us. Prepare to feel empowered. *Our Facebook Group is https://www.facebook.com/groups/narcissistapocalypse Special Guest: Julie. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
Sept. 2, 2019

Sunny & The Physical Abuser - Domestic Violence, IPV, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Sunny about being in a physically abusive relationship and the connection of growing up in a narcissist abuse riddled household. It's a story with many turns and touches on her loneliness, fear, guilt, shame, intuition, and the power of having someone outside her family validate her experience. Plus, they horse around and discuss online role-playing, Chad's Canadian accent, and her wonderful roommate named Barry. And trust us when we say this, everyone needs a Barry in their life...
Aug. 26, 2019

Irene & The Eight Year Abusive Relationship - Domestic Violence, IPV, Financial Abuse, CPTSD, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Irene about her traumatic eight-year relationship with a financially/physically abusive narcissist and the C-PTSD that followed.
Aug. 19, 2019

Chantel & The Judgemental Narcissistic Mother - Perfectionism, Narcissist Mother, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Chantel about growing up with a narcissistic mother and her struggle with perfectionism.
Aug. 5, 2019

Janeith & The Underhanded Narcissistic Husband - Emotional Abuse, High Conflict Divorce, Custody, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Janeith about her underhanded narcissistic husband, her children, and the broken court system. Janeith didn't fully comprehend what her husband was capable of until she had her two children taken away from her, and she's been fighting a broken court system ever since. It's a stark reminder that you need to prepare for the worst when filing for a divorce against someone with narcissistic traits. To read her blog, go to theweepymom.blogspot.com Special Guest: Janeith. Support Nar...
July 29, 2019

Allie, The Narcissistic Father, & The Loss of Identity - Narcissist Father, Identity Issues, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Allie about growing up with a narcissistic father, parentification, and the loss of her identity. Plus, they experiment with some art therapy and talk themselves through their validation issues while they draw. It's an experimental episode that digs a little deeper as they discuss their insecurities, slowing down, and the need to embrace failure. If you're into this kinda stuff, it's a fun episode. Special Guest: Allie. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
July 22, 2019

Leyla & The Physically Abusive Police Officer - Domestic Violence, Police Abuse, IPV, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Leyla about her physically abusive marriage to a narcissistic police officer and the power he wielded over her due to his authority in society. It's a scary story that resembles something you'd only see in the movies.
July 15, 2019

Paige & The Covert Narcissistic Mother - Homeless, Narcissist Mother & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks to Paige about growing up with a covert narcissist mother and having no support system to rely upon. At one point, Paige found herself sleeping in her car with nowhere to go, but through her inner strength, she persevered. Paige is now on the healing side of her experience and has done it all on her own. She should be very proud of herself, and she's a real inspiration for those of us that were raised in narcissistic households. Special Guest: Paige. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
July 9, 2019

Lexie & The Adoptive Narcissistic Mother - Faith Based Abuse, Dysfunctional Family, Narcissist Mother, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Lexie about being adopted by a narcissistic mother and her life as the primary scapegoat amongst her ten siblings. It's a real testament to Lexie's strength/faith that she's on the other side of her healing process and doing quite well. It's a sad story but a fun conversation, as they also discuss the Twilight films of all things. Oh, and Chad gets enlightened by her too. It really is a great episode. Special Guest: Lexie. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
July 6, 2019

David & The Physically Abusive Father - Narcissistic Father, Identity Issues, Sexual Abuse, & Child Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with David about being raised by a physically/mentally abusive narcissistic father and his own identity struggles as an adult. David's story is one of perseverance and strength as the many offshoots from his upbringing made his adult life very challenging. For most people, it's challenging to understand how someone might not have a sense of who they are or what they even like, but if you listen to David's story, you'll finally understand how this can happen. *Trigger Warning* Sexual A...
July 2, 2019

Olivia & The Psychologically Abusive Narcissist - Domestic Violence, PTSD, Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks to Olivia about the abuse she endured during her traumatic relationship with a narcissist and the psychological issues that developed in the aftermath, which include PTSD and OCD. And remarkably, through this all, Olivia is now positively reframing her experience as a way to heal and to work on her lifelong people pleasing/boundary issues. *Trigger Warning -This episode discusses sexual assault and has uncomfortable language. Special Guest: Olivia. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
June 29, 2019

Jana & The 12 Year Traumatic Marriage - Emotional Abuse, Codependency, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Jana about her 12-year marriage to a narcissist and the trust issues that developed with her daughters after it was over.
June 25, 2019

Letters To My Narcissist (Volume 1) - Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Chad has his old pal Melissa back on the show to read unsent 'Letters To My Narcissist' that were written by a handful of courageous narcissist abuse survivors. They also discuss their own letters, their lives, Oprah, gift giving, and much, much more. It's a powerful and cathartic episode which has a bunch of laughs too. We'd like to thank everyone from Reddit who took part, as well as Rachel Pollock, Gwynne Montgomery, and Kristen Milstead from Fairytaleshadows.com Special Guest: Melissa. Sup...
June 21, 2019

Sofia & Going No Contact With Her Narcissistic Mother - Narcissist Mother, Dysfunctional Family, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks to Sofia about going No Contact with her narcissistic mother and sister. Plus, they discuss somatic healing, the benefit of creating physical distance, how no contact isn't for everyone, the sadness of our family realities, and much, much, more. It sounds depressing, but it's actually a fun episode with lots of laughs, as Sofia goes from guest to host towards the end. Oh, and even Alanis Morissette is discussed in this episode. It's got everything. Special Guest: Sofia. Support Narc...
June 18, 2019

Sara & The Psychologically Abusive Narcissist - Domestic Violence, Emotional Abuse, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Sara about her psychologically damaging relationship with a malignant narcissist while simultaneously dealing with many other stressful life events. The fact that she made it through is a testament to her bravery and strength. There are a lot of twists and turns to this story, so stay tuned to the end. Sara is proof that this could happen to anyone. Special Guest: Sara. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
June 7, 2019

Pierre & The Destructive Narcissist | Narcissistic Abuse

Chad talks with Pierre about being blindsided in his toxic relationship with an emotionally abusive narcissist. It's a story of self esteem, loss of confidence, and knowing that something was wrong. Pierre was once a very confident human being, but within months, the narcissist he was dating destroyed his self-esteem, and he began to second guess everything about himself. He was completely blindsided and is still feeling the effects to this day. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
June 1, 2019

Ana & The Traumatic Relationship - Codependency, Trauma, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Ana about the trauma she endured in her toxic relationship and the discovery of her codependency issues. Even though Ana suffered trauma from her relationship, through her hard work, she's been able to delve deep into her past and discover herself for the very first time. If you're codependent or not, prepare to be inspired. Special Guest: Ana. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
May 29, 2019

Louise & The 25 Year Emotionally Abusive Marriage - Domestic Violence, Codependency, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor

Chad talks with Louise about her twenty-five-year marriage to narcissist, the emotional abuse that she endured, and the dysfunctional relationships it bred within their family unit. Louise's life is still a work in progress since she left her marriage and her codependency behind, but her journey since then is nothing short of miraculous. She is truly an inspiring person and a beacon of hope for anyone that doesn't feel like they're strong enough to have a life post-narcissist, due to all of the ...
May 26, 2019

Meriam & The Orchestrating Abuser - Narcissistic Abuse, Domestic Violence, & Trauma Survivor

Chad talks with Meriam about her eight-year abusive marriage, domestic violence, and custody issues. It's a story is so unbelievable that it can only be true.. Meriam discusses the traumatic events of her relationship that were so carefully orchestrated by her ex-husband that it left Chad speechless. And to top it all off, this story is also about how the justice system can manipulated and how it desperately needs to change. Special Guest: Meriam. Support Narcissist Apocalypse