Post-Separation Abuse Podcasts Episodes
Examine the patterns and tactics of abuse that often continue even after a separation, focusing on the complexities of moving on.
July 23, 2021
Coparenting, Gatekeeping, Custody, and Court - Q&A With Bill Eddy, LCSW Esq.
Brandon talks with Bill Eddy, LCSW Esq. about coparenting with high conflict individuals, gatekeeping, custody, parental alienation, triggers, and court. Bill Eddy developed the high conflict personality theory to explain the driving forces behind people who present the most challenging behaviors. He is an expert on managing disputes involving high conflict situations and 5 high conflict personality types, including a subset of those with narcissistic, borderline, antisocial, histrionic, and par...
July 19, 2021
Aurora & The Covert Narcissist - Domestic Violence, Trauma, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Brandon talks with Aurora about her abusive marriage to a covert narcissist. It’s a story of trauma responses, future faking, coming out, and changing abuse tactics. Plus they discuss, financial abuse, faith based abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, gaslighting, stonewalling, silent treatments, postpartum depression, shame, LGBTQ issues, codependency, abusive households, belief systems, generational trauma, kernels of truth, self doubt, free choice, therapy as a weapon, the enn...
July 5, 2021
Regan & The Future Faking Abuser - Domestic Violence, Narcissistic & Emotional Abuse Survivor
Brandon talks with Regan about her toxic relationship with a future faking abuser. It’s a story of belief systems, moving goal posts, breadcrumbs, hoover tactics, and looking inward in the aftermath. Plus they discuss, guilt, intimidation, intimate partner violence, the difficulty of cutting the cord, silent treatments, bitcoin, people pleasing, financial abuse, waiting for change, anticipating moods, gaslighting, nitpicking, isolation, being in your head, pedestals, victim playing, competition,...
July 2, 2021
Domestic Violence, Emotional Abuse, Custody, & Divorce- Q&A with Helen, Attorney
Chad talks with Helen, a Domestic Violence, Custody, Divorce Attorney, & Narcissist Abuse Survivor, about the steps abuse victims need to take when divorcing someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder or other High Conflict Personalities. Helen gives a thorough rundown about the role of an attorney and how the use of documentation is the most effective way to present your case. She also discusses how the legal system thinks when it comes to protection orders, divorce, and custody issues. Plu...
March 22, 2021
Uma & Fleeing The Physical Abuser - Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse, PTSD, & IPV Survivor
Chad talks Uma about her physically abusive relationship that caused her and her son to flee to another state. It's a story of PTSD, programming, intimate partner violence, and resilience. Plus they discuss, gaslighting, child PTSD, rage, health issues, patterns, believing things are your fault, belittling, reactive abuse, control, somatic work, inner children, and much more. *** Trigger Warning - This episode describes a few physically violent incidents. *** Domestic Violence Hotline Number ...
Feb. 8, 2021
Vivian & The Power Hungry Narcissist - Stalking, Domestic Violence, Narcissistic & Emotional Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Vivian about her abusive relationship with a power hungry narcissist. It's a story of empathy, victim playing, stalking, and the calm before the storm. Plus they discuss, control, entitlement, court, boundaries, ego, validation, tone, gaslighting, predator vs. prey, future faking, psychological abuse, and much more. Domestic Violence Hotline Number - 1.800.799.SAFE Join our Patreon for extra content and our brand new live support groups at https://www.patreon.com/narcissistapoc...
Dec. 28, 2020
Kelly & The Difficulty of Leaving (Story 2) - Domestic Violence, IPV & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with a return survivor named Kelly about her marriage to a physically abusive narcissist. It's a story of brainwashing, isolation, feeling embarrassed for staying and the difficulty in leaving for good. Plus, we discuss blame shifting, gaslighting, infidelity, projection, and much more. It's quite a story with some good police officers, aware doctors, and by miracle, her husband's upstanding lawyer. Yes, you read that correctly. Kelly's first episode was October 12th, 2020. **** TRIGG...
Nov. 30, 2020
Gal & The Victim Playing Narcissist - Domestic Violence, Infidelity, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Gal about her toxic relationship with a victim playing narcissist. It’s a story of crazy ex’s, infidelity, accepting the love you think you deserve, and finding yourself again in the aftermath of abuse. Plus much, much, more. *** Trigger Warning - Aggressive Language *** Domestic Violence Hotline Number - 1.800.799.SAFE Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Come listen to our new podcast called Narcissist Apocalypse: Q&A https://link.chtbl...
Nov. 23, 2020
Noelle & The Blaming Physical Abuser - Domestic Violence, IPV, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Noelle about her seven-year toxic relationship with a physically abusive narcissist. It's a story of constant blaming, jealousy, belief systems, guilt, IPV, and using religion to pull the wool over everyone's eyes. *** This episode is dedicated to the memory of Tigist Takle, who tragically lost her life on November 18th 2020. *** Domestic Violence Hotline Number - 1.800.799.SAFE Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Come listen to our new ...
Oct. 19, 2020
Francesca & The Loyalty Testing Abuser - Domestic Violence, Stalking, Narcissist & Emotional Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Francesca about her abusive marriage to a controlling narcissist. It's a story of testing loyalties, conditioning, extreme stalking, and living as if you were in a prison. Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Facebook Support Group at facebook.com/groups/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA If you want to be a guest on our show, go to https://narcissistapocalyps...
Oct. 12, 2020
Kelly & The Violent Abuser - Domestic Violence, IPV, PTSD, & Narcissist Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Kelly about her marriage to a wolf in sheep's clothing. It's a story of smear campaigns, being good enough, attempted murder, and ptsd. Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Come listen to our new podcast called Narcissist Apocalypse: Q&A https://link.chtbl.com/CITVf9Qz Join our Facebook Support Group at facebook.com/groups/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA If you're l...
Sept. 7, 2020
Brenda & The Narcissistic Loose Cannon - Domestic Violence, Sexual Abuse, IPV, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with a survivor named Brenda about her four year relationship with a loose cannon of a narcissist. It's a story of victim playing, control, the danger of going to couples therapy with a narcissist, and overcoming the fear of leaving. *** Trigger Warning - Physical and Sexual Assault are discussed in this episode. The sexual assault may be triggering for some. Brenda was asleep during the assault and discusses how she felt when she woke up and the argument that ensued. *** Join our In...
Aug. 17, 2020
Dallas & The Stonewalling Narcissist - Narcissistic & Emotional Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Dallas about her toxic relationship with a stonewalling narcissist. It's a story of future faking, subtle abuse, trying to prove yourself, and dangling carrots. Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Come listen to our new podcast called Narcissist Apocalypse: Q&A https://link.chtbl.com/CITVf9Qz Join our Facebook Support Group at facebook.com/groups/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJ...
May 18, 2020
Summer & The Controlling Narcissist Attachments - Domestic Violence, Infidelity, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Summer about her relationship with a controlling narcissist whose kindness always had attachments. It's a story of infidelity, vindictiveness, double lives, and growing from an unfortunate experience. Sign up to our High Conflict Parenting Courses at https://narcissistapocalypse.com/courses Join our Patreon for extra content and support the show https://www.patreon.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Come listen t...
April 20, 2020
Roxanne & The Sex Addicted Narcissist - Domestic Violence, IPV, Narcissistic & Emotional Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Roxanne about her physically abusive marriage to a sex addict. It's a story about the realization that you're being abused, overcoming your fear, standing up for yourself and for your kids. Sign up to our High Conflict Parenting Courses at https://narcissistapocalypse.com/courses Join our Patreon for extra content and support the show https://www.patreon.com/narcissistapocalypse Come listen to our new podcast called Narcissist Apocalypse: Q&A https://link.chtbl.com/CITVf9Qz Join...
March 30, 2020
Hanna & The Ten Year Controlling Relationship - Domestic Violence, IPV, Manipulation, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Hanna about her 10 year relationship with a very controlling and eventually physically abusive narcissist. It's a story of guilt, caretaking, confusion, power, and so much more. Come take a listen. Sign up to our High Conflict Parenting Courses at https://narcissistapocalypse.com/courses Join our Patreon for extra content and support the show https://www.patreon.com/narcissistapocalypse Come listen to our new podcast called Narcissist Apocalypse: Q&A https://link.chtbl.com/CITVf...
March 2, 2020
Adrianna & The Hot Tempered Narcissist - Domestic Violence, Infidelity, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Adrianna about her 3 year toxic relationship with a hot tempered narcissist and the atomic love bombing that kept her from seeing the truth of her situation. In fact, never in her wildest of nightmares did Adrianna ever think she'd be hiding in bushes afraid for her life. Plus, they delve into Adrianna's past and discuss being seen for the first time, infidelity, and growing from the mistakes you make along the way. Join our Patreon for extra content and support the show https:/...
Feb. 3, 2020
Clover & The Conflict Loving Firefighter - Domestic Violence, Narcissistic & Emotional Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Clover about her abusive relationship with a conflict loving firefighter. It's a story of being caught in the fog of chaos, finding a glimmer of clarity, grabbing it, and navigating your way out safely. From discussing her love addiction to her health issues, to the planning that went into leaving, Clover is an open book and a beacon of hope for victims of domestic abuse everywhere. **** To join our Facebook Support Group go to facebook.com/groups/narcissistapocalypse.com **** S...
Dec. 23, 2019
Delilah & The Child Pawn Abuser - Domestic Violence, Emotional Abuse, Addiction, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Delilah about her abusive marriage and how her husband used her children as pawns just to spite her. Like most survivors of abuse, Delilah ignored many of the red flags, found herself deep into an abusive relationship, and felt that she had no way out. Delilah's story is one of sobriety, community, hope, and a miracle of a relationship strategy that reversed her misfortunes. Special Guest: Delilah. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
Sept. 2, 2019
Sunny & The Physical Abuser - Domestic Violence, IPV, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Sunny about being in a physically abusive relationship and the connection of growing up in a narcissist abuse riddled household. It's a story with many turns and touches on her loneliness, fear, guilt, shame, intuition, and the power of having someone outside her family validate her experience. Plus, they horse around and discuss online role-playing, Chad's Canadian accent, and her wonderful roommate named Barry. And trust us when we say this, everyone needs a Barry in their life...
Aug. 26, 2019
Irene & The Eight Year Abusive Relationship - Domestic Violence, IPV, Financial Abuse, CPTSD, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Irene about her traumatic eight-year relationship with a financially/physically abusive narcissist and the C-PTSD that followed.
Aug. 5, 2019
Janeith & The Underhanded Narcissistic Husband - Emotional Abuse, High Conflict Divorce, Custody, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Janeith about her underhanded narcissistic husband, her children, and the broken court system. Janeith didn't fully comprehend what her husband was capable of until she had her two children taken away from her, and she's been fighting a broken court system ever since. It's a stark reminder that you need to prepare for the worst when filing for a divorce against someone with narcissistic traits. To read her blog, go to theweepymom.blogspot.com Special Guest: Janeith. Support Nar...
July 2, 2019
Olivia & The Psychologically Abusive Narcissist - Domestic Violence, PTSD, Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks to Olivia about the abuse she endured during her traumatic relationship with a narcissist and the psychological issues that developed in the aftermath, which include PTSD and OCD. And remarkably, through this all, Olivia is now positively reframing her experience as a way to heal and to work on her lifelong people pleasing/boundary issues. *Trigger Warning -This episode discusses sexual assault and has uncomfortable language. Special Guest: Olivia. Support Narcissist Apocalypse
May 29, 2019
Louise & The 25 Year Emotionally Abusive Marriage - Domestic Violence, Codependency, & Narcissistic Abuse Survivor
Chad talks with Louise about her twenty-five-year marriage to narcissist, the emotional abuse that she endured, and the dysfunctional relationships it bred within their family unit. Louise's life is still a work in progress since she left her marriage and her codependency behind, but her journey since then is nothing short of miraculous. She is truly an inspiring person and a beacon of hope for anyone that doesn't feel like they're strong enough to have a life post-narcissist, due to all of the ...