Jan. 7, 2025

The Other Woman: Is Chelsea Smallwood Profiting off of Infidelity?

The Other Woman: Is Chelsea Smallwood Profiting off of Infidelity?

In this episode of Exposed Scandalous Files of the Elite, Jim Chapman delves into a trending lawsuit involving Chelsea Smallwood and her company “The Other Woman and the Wife LLC”, v/s Kristen Jacobs for alleged tortious interference. 

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In this episode of Exposed Scandalous Files of the Elite, Jim Chapman delves into a trending lawsuit involving Chelsea Smallwood and her company “The Other Woman and the Wife LLC”, v/s Kristen Jacobs for alleged tortious interference.

Kristen Jacobs, the alleges in a countersuit the Chelsea Smallwood’s company exposed intimate details she shared in confidence with her neighbor and friend Olivia Nicodemus, exposing an affair (with that very same friend) that her husband was involved in.

Jim unravels the complexities of Chelsea Smallwood’s controversial community for women in extramarital relationships and discuss Kristen's heartbreaking discovery of her husband's infidelity within this space. What would you do if you were betrayed and a victim of…the Other Women?

#chelseasmallwood #kristenjacobs #lawsuit #OliviaNicodemus #lawsuit #theotherwomanandthewife #tow #theotherwoman #exposed

Timestamps
01:08 The Lawsuit Unveiled
01:47 Meet the Accused
03:37 The Other Woman's Business
05:24 The Accusations Emerge
06:57 The Doxing Allegations
07:14 Kristen's Counterattack
12:11 The Friend Turned Foe
14:56 Private Matters Exposed
18:59 Legal Perspectives on Privacy
23:01 Shocking Revelations
24:46 Chelsea's Reflection
29:19 Final Thoughts on the Case

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Sources:
https://rocketreach.co/chelsea-smallwood-email_6072443
Chelsea Smallwood Bio
https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/?hl=en
The other woman and the Wife Instagram
https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife
The other woman and the Wife Tik-Tok
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-YlcsWnGk4
Podcast featuring Olivia and Youtube...

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Hey everyone, and welcome back to Exposed Scandalous Files of

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the Elite. I am your host, Jim Chapman, and before

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we get into today's episode, I want to shout out

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our newest Global Celebrity member. Mark is from San Tan Valley, Arizona,

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which has a very interesting recent history. The area, prior

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to the year two thousand was almost all desert. However,

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in just twenty five years that desert has grown to

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become one of the largest unincorporated areas of Arizona, with

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over one hundred thousand people calling the sand Tan Valley home.

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Pretty mind boggling to think that in the year two thousand,

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this was all just desert out there. So welcome to

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the Global Celebrity Tier, Mark, and thank you so much

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for your support. Now do I have a hell of

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a story to tell you today. This story has been

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an ultra trending topic if there's such a thing on

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TikTok as of late, due to a lawsuit that was

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recently filed, and a listener reached out and inquired as

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to whether I was aware of this case, which honestly

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I was not, so I looked into it and damn

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buckle up. Is all I can say. So, I'm going

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to tell you the story and what is alleged on

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both sides of this lawsuit, and I would love to

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know what your thoughts are. Who do you think is

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right on this one? So on October fourth of twenty

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twenty four, a lawsuit was filed by a company in

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this case, the Other Woman in the Why LLLC against

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a woman by the name of Christin Jacobs. And in

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this lawsuit, the Other Woman LLC is suing and alleging

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that Christen Jacobs committed torturous interference with both a contract

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agreement and also in business relationships. So really two separate

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accusations here. Before we go any further, let me explain

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what torturous interference is now in layman's terms, it's when

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a third party affects a business relationship or a contractual

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relationship that leads to the loss of revenue for the company.

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In this case, the other Woman LLC is alleging both

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occurred as it relates to Christian Jacobs. Let me tell

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you a little bit about the other woman and the

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wife LLC and the founder of that company, Chelsea. So

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Chelsea founded the Other Woman and the Wife in twenty

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twenty two. Now, before that, she worked in the energy

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sector as a supply chain manager, and just before founding

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the Other Woman in the Wife LLC, she actually worked

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for Meta Facebook, but it doesn't look like from what

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I could find, that she worked there very long. Now,

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she graduated with an economics degree in twenty ten from

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California State University, Northridge, and she lives in California. So

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I give you all that information about her education because

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it's relevant. It's relevant because through the Other Woman in

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the Wife LLC, she promotes herself as a life coach.

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So what is the other Woman in the wife LLC

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and how does it relate to being a life coach? Well,

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as far as I can tell, it's a website slash

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community where women who are in a adulterous relationship, or

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maybe getting out of an adulterous relationship, or maybe they're

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considering an adulterous relationship they can be amongst their peers,

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so to speak, other cheaters for lack of a better word.

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Think of it as a safe place for cheaters where

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they can get supportive advice from those who have been

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there or are in that situation themselves. Almost a three

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sixty of what you would imagine, right, Typically you would

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think there would be a community out there for people

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that have been cheated on. Well, this is a community

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for the cheaters. As a matter of fact, Chelsea herself

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was quoted as saying of her community, quote, my business

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is ultimately intended to provide relief in the ability to

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learn new life skills to those who have made the

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choice to cheat unquote. I mean, that's just so bizarre

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to me to normalize it like that. Now, they offer

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a community platform, they do weekend retreats, Chelsea has a podcast. Hell,

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Chelsea even offers, from what I understand, some pretty expensive

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coaching one on one should you seek it out. So,

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as I told you just a minute ago, nowhere in

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her background does she have any formal degree as it

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relates to therapy, or even a formal background working in

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an industry like that. So what makes her the chick

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you want to talk to, the chick who can coach

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you and make you feel better about committing adultery. She

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is a cheater herself. She's been there, done that. Actually

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got married to the guy she was cheating with after

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he left his wife in another country for her, allegedly

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and she makes no bones about it, promotes it. Hell,

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she seems proud of it, so much so that she

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has gained some eighty three thousand TikTok followers. So she

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has an audience, as crazy as that may sound. And

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her company is a private company, so I can't tell

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necessarily how successful it is, but apparently she must be

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doing pretty well. Now, I'm not here to morally judge anyone.

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I mean, what you do in your marriage is your

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business as far as I'm concerned. It's not illegal to cheat.

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Maybe questionable morally, but you're not going to go to

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jail for it. But what if you make someone's personal,

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private business public? What if you just blast a person

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on TikTok, Well, in a countersuit, that's exactly what Kristin

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alleges Chelsea Smallwood did. So, as the saying goes, there

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are three sides to every story, and the truth is

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usually somewhere in the middle. So let's get into it,

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and we're going to start with the other woman's side

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of things. So in a nutshell. Fortunately, in one of

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her podcasts, Chelsea discusses this. Now, she does not name

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Kristin directly, but you can easily read between the lines

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and if you do like I did. She mentions that

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she woke up to a text one day and the

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text was basically, did you see this quote unquote? And

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it was a screenshot of a website that had been built,

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and through this website, someone was exposing all of these

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people who remembers of the other woman and wife the

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website slash community, which I'm just gonna say, if that

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is true, that is really bad. No matter how pissed

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you are at someone, it's not cool to expose a

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shitload of people you have never met, which is called dosing. Incidentally,

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you know nothing about their story and put them out

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to the world with malicious intent. Not necessarily someone that

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has personally done you wrong, but total strangers. I mean,

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maybe they were in an abusive relationship, maybe they had

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a spouse that was cool with them cheating, whatever. That

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is fucked up in my view if that's true. But

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through all of that, Chelsea had to shut the other

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woman and the wife LLC down to obviously keep more

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of these people from getting exposed. And that is the

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I guess legs of her lawsuit, which and I want

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to make this clear, this is Chelsea's allegations, not saying

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this is true. Chelsea is alleging some sort of website

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was built where all these people were being exposed. My

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point is two wrongs don't make it right. And if

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Kristin did in fact do that, and I'm not saying

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she did, this is just what's alleged, then that is

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just as wrong as what was being done to her.

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If that were the case, I hope it's not, but

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we'll move on. So the website shuts down because these

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names have now gotten out there, and this is all

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allegedly right. This is Chelsea Smallwood side of it, And

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if that's in fact the case, it would definitely have

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cost her business. Because if you're a cheater and you

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know someone has gone rogue and infiltrated the group of

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cheaters and they're exposing them, you ain't joining once you

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hear that. So there is revenue loss there, and it's

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easily provable. So allegedly Kristin signs up for the membership.

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Let me tell you how it got to this doxing part.

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And this is all allegedly. This isn't Jim Chapman accusing

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Kristin of this. This is Chelsea Smallwood's lawsuit. But allegedly,

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Kristen signs up for this membership, and there is a

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whole story on what led her into that, and we'll

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get into it. So she signs up under a fictitious

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name and discovers all this personal shit about her husband

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cheating on this site, like intimate details, et cetera. And

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she garners information from the person. Get ready for this,

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from the person who was actually cheating with her husband,

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because she was talking to this person pretending to be

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someone else, pretending to be a fellow cheater, if you will.

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So Chelsea, through some detective work, fast forward, she gets

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that text. She sees there's this rogue website up exposing

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people that are in her community. Through detective work, she

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discovers that Kristin is behind the whole thing. And the

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way she discovered that is although Kristin signed up under

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a fictitious name, when she paid the bill put her

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credit card information in, she had to put her actual

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credit card information, and she was able to link that

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together and figure out that that's who this was. So

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she files that lawsuit. Obviously, Now, if you're like me,

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you want to give some high fives to Christin, you know, like,

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go girl, good thinking signing up under a fake name

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and finding out all this information. So Kristen gets this

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suit and she has to answer it, and she does

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with a countersuit. And wait till you hear this. And incidentally,

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before we get into it, the person that was cheating

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with Kristen's husband was actually her neighbor and very good,

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if not best friend, named Olivia. So when you hear

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me refer to Olivia while I'm going through this lawsuit,

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that's who I'm talking about. And it starts out Olivia's

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abuse of Kristen. Third party defendant, Olivia Nico Damus, and

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I think I'm pronouncing that correctly, is Kristen's neighbor. And

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until August of twenty twenty three, Kristen considered Olivia to

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be a close friend and confidant. In the spring of

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twenty three, Kristen confided in Olivia that she believed her

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husband was engaged in an affair. Around that same time,

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Kristin began to see a therapist for counseling on her

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concerns about an extramarital affair. By the summer of twenty

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twenty three, Kristen was suspicious that Olivia was the other woman,

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and she confronted Olivia with her suspicions. Olivia denied the

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accusation under the guise of trying to find a therapist

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for herself. Olivia asked Kristen for the contact information for

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Kristen's therapist. Kristin provided that information, and Olivia visited the therapist. However,

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instead of seeking professional services for herself, Olivia attempted to

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convince the therapist that she was not participating in an

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affair with Kristen's husband. Olivia lied to Kristen's therapist in

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order to continue the affair and to interfere in Kristen's treatment. Now,

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before I go any further, I don't know how Kristin

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can know that, because that's a major hip of violation.

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If her therapist actually told Kristen anything about she can't

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even tell Kristin that Olivia is visiting her now. Olivia

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may have mentioned that to Kristen and said, yeah, I'm

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actually seeing the same therapist when she was running this

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game with Kristin and her husband, But how would she

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know that Olivia lied to Kristen's therapist. She's not going

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to know that the therapist isn't going to say that

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she'd lose her license. It's a major hip of violation.

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You can't talk about other patients. In August of twenty

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twenty three, Kristin confirmed her worst suspicions. After months of

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Olivia's gaslighting, she learned that her husband was engaged in

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an affair with Olivia. By August twenty fifth of twenty

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twenty three, the fair had ended honor. About September eleventh

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of twenty twenty three, Kristen discovered a video on TikTok

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that was created by Chelsea Smallwood and disclosed intimate details

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about the affair. Specifically, Chelsea read a text conversation between

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Kristen and Olivia and depicted Kristen the victim of the

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affair in a negative and false light. Kristin considered the

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affair to be a private and personal matter, and the

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affair was not publicly known. After viewing the video, Kristen

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soon learned of the defendant tow the Other Woman's private

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online community for women affected by infidelity. Kristen joined the

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private community anonymously. In doing so, she relied on the

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frequently Asked Question section, which provides for Animenity by allowing

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members to join without use of their real name, while

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paying the subscription fee with their actual name and credit

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card information. Now, when joining the online community, its members,

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Kristin and Olivia agreed that the following conduct is prohibited,

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and then it goes into harassed, threatened, demean embarrassed, bully,

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or otherwise harm any user of the community, and use

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the community for any illegal purpose in violation of local, state, national,

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or international law. And it goes on, it says Immediately.

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Upon joining the Tow's private community, Kristin learned that Olivia

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shared private and intimate details of her affair with Kristen's husband,

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including that Olivia engaged in intimate moments while Kristen was

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asleep in the same room, and that Olivia used Kristen's

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sex toys while Kristen was away for work. These disclosures

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began in at least March of twenty twenty three, and

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are included, but not limited to conversations between Kristin and

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Olivia discussing the affair. Olivia also shared private and personal

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information about Kristen that she had learned because Kristen considered

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Olivia to be a close friend, including intimate details about

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the relationship with her husband and results of a test

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for STDs. And I'm not really sure what that is

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in relation to. Again, I derived that Kristen, after she

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found out her husband was having an affair, went and

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got tested for an STD which is a good idea.

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In addition to sharing private and intimate details of the affair,

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Olivia shared photographs of Kristen's family, including her minor child,

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and information about where Kristen and her family live. Third

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party defendant Olivia also revealed through her postings that she

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was spying on Kristen. In one post on the website,

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Olivia boasted of using binoculars to spy on an intimate

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sexual moment that Kristen and her husband shared within the

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pri to see of their profit property. That could be

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an issue. Sounds like voyeurism. Third party defendant Olivia used

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Tow's community to cast Kristen in a false and negative

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light to justify her betrayal. For example, Olivia falsely identified

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Kristin as a member of a thripple, which, y'all, a

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thruple is a relationship between three people, and falsely stated

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that Kristin has a sexually transmitted disease. Chelsea did not

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make any effort to protect Christen's or her family's identity.

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Chelsea's videos and post were seen by members of Kristen's

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community upon information and belief TOOW prophets from engagement on

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its social media pages. Stated differently, TOW used Christen's trauma

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as clickbait to encourage interaction with Tow's TikTok, YouTube and

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Instagram pages. Everybody needs to know this. When you write

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a text to anybody, anybody and you hit sin, it

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is no longer private. Period. It is no longer private.

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I don't care if you say keep this between me

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and you. Once you hit SIN, that is considered in

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the eyes of the law, you are making that public.

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Because that person you sent that text to has just

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as much ownership to that information as you do at

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that point, and if they choose to share it, it's

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not illegal. Where it becomes illegal is if you send

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a nude picture to somebody, or somebody gets a new

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picture and they share it with somebody else, and then

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that person, even a third party, makes it public. In

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cases like that, it's illegal. But sharing a text, no

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matter how personal it might be to the person outside

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of nudity is totally legal. We'll move on. Chelsea made

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these posts maliciously and with reckless de this regard to

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the privacy rights of Kristin. As a result of the

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defendant's relentless campaign to harass and threaten Kristen on social media,

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Kristin continued to receive treatment for the severe emotional and

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mental distress caused by the malicious acts. The lawsuit goes

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on the other woman and Chelsea threatened Kristen incredibly. In

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November of twenty twenty three, Chelsea sent an email accusing

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Kristin of engaging in harassing behavior and threatening legal action

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if she did not cease. Basically, she sent a cease

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and desist letter. In another email, Kristin was falsely accused

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of misappropriating Tow's intellectual property. I would need contexts to

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know what they're talking about there. Through TOW social media pages,

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Chelsea falsely accused Kristin of bullying, doxing, and creating fake

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accounts to harass members of the community. In addition, Chelsea

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sent Kristen's therapist a letter containing the same false and

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disparaging information about Kristin in an effort to interfere with

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the medical treatment and counseling Kristen saw it in response

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to the defendant's harassment and online bullying. In response to

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Chelsea's threats, Kristen requested that information identifying herself and her

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family be removed from the community in social media. Definitely reasonable,

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Definitely needed to be done. Kristin also informed Chelsea of

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Olivia's threats and harassment on the community. Chelsea refused to

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remove the content and did not investigate Olivia's behavior on

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the other woman. Instead, Chelsea and the other woman continued

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their malicious conduct with utter disregard for Kristen's privacy and

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mental condition. For example, in January of twenty twenty four,

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Chelsea made a video bragging of contacting Kristen's therapist and

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provided one of her followers with the therapist's contact information

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and accused Kristin of creating fake accounts to harass Chelsea.

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As a result of Chelsea and Tow's social media post,

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Kristin has received threatening messages from Chelsea's community and has

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since had to remove the comment feature from our social

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media and make our social media pages private. As a

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direct and proximate result of defendant's malicious bullying, harassment, and

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false representations. Christen experiences mental and physical suffering as well

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as harm to her reputation, and Kristin is suing for

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a conglomerate of things including torturous interference, breach of the contract,

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invasion of privacy, false light, intrusion of priphecy, invasion of

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privacy for publications, slander, intentional infliction of emotional distress, telecommunications, harassment, libel,

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and defamation. Ten different causes of action. Oh, in something

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I have not told you yet. It seems Olivia, the

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chick that was sleeping with Kristen's husband, get this is

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a life coach for Chelsea's company. The other woman and

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the wife LLC. Unbelievable. Let's sum this shit up. Basically,

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according to Kristen's lawsuit, Olivia boasts about not only sleeping

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with Kristen's husband, but also using binoculars to watch them

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have sex and using Kristen's sex toys on herself, as

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well as being a member of the community where she

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was sharing information and pictures with others, including family pictures

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of Christen's. Now what sparked all this, Well, Kristen was

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searching on TikTok, apparently looking for tiktoks on infidelity and

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things like that, and she came across that text that

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Chelsea Smallwood read verbatim. That was a text that she

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was sending to her bestie, who ended up being the

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person who was cheating with her husband. Pretty crazy. She

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goes to investigate that, joins the site under an assumed name,

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and the mess begins. Right now. Earlier I mentioned that

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Chelsea had to pull down her site because of all

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these people who honestly had nothing to do with anything

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going on with Kristen and Olivia, they got exposed. So

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I'm going to tell you a little bit more about that.

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But first, here is a clip of Chelsea discussing just

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that shortly after it happened on her podcast.

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I feel as though something that I created to be

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helpful to society was harmful when it was in the

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hands of someone that it wasn't intended for. That is awful,

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and I am.

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So, so very sorry that anything I created had a

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negative impact on anybody. My intention was never to put

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anyone in danger with this censure, and while my intent

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was not that, certainly the impact was.

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So I'm a little bit.

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Devastated now all of that was in reference to a

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website that was put up in January called exposing the

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Other Woman and the Wife dot com. It's been taken

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down now, it doesn't exist, and no one, including myself apparently,

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has been able to figure out who put it up.

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I do want to say and go on record that

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I'm totally against that. It may seem like a cool

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kind of visual anything to do, you know, get back

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at all these people, but you're not just exposing cheaters,

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you're exposing families. You could technically cost someone their life.

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I cover crime on this podcast and other podcasts that

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I do, and it's nothing to play with. It's really

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not You never know who you're dealing with. That, in

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my opinion, was a step too far and I don't

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think it was right. May seem cool, may seem kind

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of visual, aane, but at the end of the day,

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you're hurting people that aren't involved in your direct situation,

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and it seems like kind of a payback thing. Now,

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no one has been able to link this to Christen.

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Whether she had anything to do with it, nobody knows.

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But eventually it's going to come out because somebody had

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to buy that URL, and I'm sure in discovery, an

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investigator is going to be able to get to the

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bottom of that. And of course I'll keep you posted.

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And I want to reference a TikTok real quick. And

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I'm not sure whose actual TikTok this was under, but

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they were referencing this case. Audrey Pepper says, they cheat

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down someone with lower self esteem, willing to accept crumbs

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and never be the priority. Also, she's usually less attractive.

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And guess who comments back. She just couldn't stand it,

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Olivia Nicodemus. She couldn't stand not to comment back because

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somebody was I guess, saying that Kristen was more attractive

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than her, And she says, would you like to see

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some side by side comparison photos? What a That's all

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I can say, in my opinion, that was a bitch

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comment to say back, especially when you're the one, when

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you're the other woman. But I'll say this, I've seen

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pictures of you and Kristin and I think she's way

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more attractive than you are. That's my opinion on it, Olivia,

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So get over yourself. You're not that hot. Sorry to me,

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this seems like a girl that's just really really hurt

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and has absolutely lost her mind here. I don't know

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the truth of everything that happened. I know one thing,

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she got fucked over big time. I hate it that

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her husband, it seems like, is getting away scott free

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on this whole deal. Nobody's seeing him. I think that

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you know, what's good for the goose is good for

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the gander. And this is just my opinion. Again, I

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don't know these people. I don't have any direct knowledge.

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So let me say this and then I'll just wrap

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this up. Miss Kristen Jacobs. I feel whole for this woman.

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I don't blame her for doing everything she can once

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these texts got out and wants all this information on

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her got out against Chelsea Smallwood and Olivia Nicodemus. I

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don't think they're good people. That's just my opinion. My

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heart goes out to her for everything she's been through,

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and I hope she can find some peace at the

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end of all of this legal eese. I gotta say

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everything I've talked about today is my opinion. Everything I

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talked about today is a matter of public record, as

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it is in the United States. Everyone is innocent until

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proven guilty in a court of law. But anything I

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have said outside of the actual lawsuit is Jim Chapman's

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opinion Jim Chapman's opinion only, But I would like to

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know your opinion. What do you think about all this?

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Check out the Facebook page Exposed Scandalous Files of the

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Elite on Facebook, leave a comment in the post where

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I posted this podcast and tell me what you think. Also,

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I'm going to shout out someone who has done a

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phenomenal job really of covering this even before I started

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looking into it, and I'm going to give you her Instagram.

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It's the underscored Advocate ig Da d voc at EIG.

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As a matter of fact, I'll link her Instagram in

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the show notes of this podcast. Go check her out.

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She does a great job of covering this. I did

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reach out to her via email to see if I

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could set up an interview with her and just kind

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of get her thoughts on this case. She knows it

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very very well, but I haven't got a response back yet,

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so I believe her name is Lauren. Miss Lauren, Somebody

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send her her message and tell her, Hey, you need

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to go on Exposed Scandalous Files of the Elite and

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you and Jim need to talk shit about this case.

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Let's get her on. So that's it. I appreciate all

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of you for listening, supporting. Check us out on Patreon.

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I keep that some bitch active and we have some

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bonus episodes headed your way shortly commercial free early releases.

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Of course, of every episode we drop in all kinds

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of other extras. I'm going to upload this particular lawsuit

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to the Patreon as a matter of fact. Also, until

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next time, for exposed scandalous files of the elite, I'm

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your host, Jim Chapman. Much love,