The Lindsey Whiteside Saga

0:16 Hey everyone, and welcome back to Exposed Scandalous Files of the Elite. I'm your host, Jim Chapman, and today I am bringing you what is a case. I would almost call it an active case because there's still some things that are going to go down with this one truly just wrapped up legally, and we'll get into that. But before I start, I want to get a short shout out to my buddy Chad for recommending this one, which initially became news in DeSoto County, Mississippi, and this has grown in just the past couple of days into a national story, and that's where I come in. I have got to tell you, of all thees I have covered, this one right here takes the cake bar, none, shocking, appalling, every other adjective that you can think of. So, as I mentioned, this particular story took place in DeSoto County, Mississippi, which, for those unfamiliar, de Soto County is located on the northwest border of Mississippi. It's just on the outskirts, and I mean just on the outskirts of Memphis, Tennessee. Now, the incidents that I'm about to tell you about more specifically took place in the Hernando area of DeSoto County.

1:39 So let's discuss Lindsey Whiteside, who at the time of her arrest was nearly twenty six years old. She was a youth pastor for a church known as Getwell Church. And Getwell, y'all, is a road it runs. It's basically a long main road. There's a lot of things on that road that are named after the road itself. This church no different in this church was a rather large church. They have two locations, one of those being in Hernando, the other one being in South Haven area of Mississippi. So continuing on, she was also a former assistant basketball coach for De Soto High School de Soto Central High School. Now, all that came to an end for Lindsay when she was arrested and then on December thirteenth of twenty twenty four, indicted on a charge of sexual batter And while the indictment was short in length, it was descriptive. So if you have anyone listening to this with you, especially under the age of eighteen, or if this type of subject matter is a trigger for you, here is your warning.

2:51 The indictment reads like this. The Grand Jurorsey of the State of Mississippi, taken from the body of good and lawful citizens of descetto County thereof duly elected and paneled sworn in charge to inquire in and for the County and state aforementioned at the Grand Jury Session aforesaid, in the name and authority of the State of Mississippi, upon Barrows present, that Lindsey Aldey Whiteside, of the County and state aforesaid, which is descetto County, between the dates of May fourteenth, twenty twenty four November sixth of twenty twenty four, in the county and state above and within the jurisdiction of this Court, did wilfully, unlawfully, felonously, intentionally, and knowingly engage in sexual penetration with m F. And it's just the initials because obviously this is someone under the age of eighteen, a child less than eighteen years of age, by placing her finger in the vagina of MF and or engaging in conelingis by touching her tongue to the vagina up at a time when Lindsey Alti Whiteside was in a position of trust or authority over the child, in direct violation and it goes into the section. So that is the indictment of Lindsey Whiteside, and as you can see, very serious shit right now in that indictment.

4:18 One thing that stuck out to me is that she was only charged with a single charge. And after many of the facts of this case came out, it was surprising to me that the DA did not do what is known as stacking charges. You basically throw the buck at someone and that kind of starts to force a plea deal that would become more weighted toward the county. Now, as we go along in the story, you're going to gain an understanding of maybe why he did not do that. The instances of sexual battery occurred numerous times, many times, yet only that single charge. Now, technically, by law, every occasion of sexual could have resulted in a separate charge, at least in my state. Pretty sure it's that way in Mississippi, but I could be wrong. Let me know if I am. And what I mean by that is, if it occurred on let's say, ten separate occasions with that same female. Technically, in some states, including mine, you can be charged with ten separate counts, not one count.

5:23 Why does this matter? Well, instead of facing up to thirty years for a single count you're now facing three hundred years for ten counts. It just gives the state larger bargaining chips, if you will. But for whatever reason, that did not happen, and I would be curious to know why. Just a question. We'll move on. So on November twenty first, Lindsey Whiteside actually gets arrested and immediately news of her rest. Now that makes ways throughout DeSoto County's area. Lindsey was well known in DeSoto County. The white Side family name carried a lot of weight in DeSoto County. The Whitesides produced several basketball stars throughout the year in that county, and Lindsey herself she played college basketball for Lipscomb University, which is a private college located in Nashville, Tennessee, and she was gout five foot ten, long blonde hair, she would stand out on a basketball court.

6:27 So it was a natural transition that after high school for her to go back home and she started coaching basketball at DeSoto Central High School. She was an assistant coach there to my knowledge, and then she was also very active in her church, which was the Getwell Church in Hernando, Mississippi, which is a Baptist church in that area, and she was what they called a student outreach coordinator, which is essentially a youth pastor, a youth mentor, if you will. Now, this is a major problem when you're accused, at least as of November twenty twenty four, when she originally got accused of the things that she was accused of.

7:12 Because think of the access to young people that this girl had, not only with her involvement in employment at Getwell Church, but also her involvement in employment prior to that, coaching basketball assistant coach at Desto Central High School. So, as I said, the white Side family, they have a lot of stroke in the De Soto County area. They were well known as a matter of fact, so much so that two judges, and there were only two circuit judges in Decetto County, those judges would have to recuse themselves due to their relationships with the white Side family.

7:55 One of them, I believe, went to church with the white Sides, knew Lindsey very well, and the other one was friends maybe or had some sort of relationship with someone in her family. But for whatever reason, they would accuse themselves, and that would really come into play later on in this story. Now, the fact that they accused themselves, I have no problem with whatsoever. I think it was the right thing to do. The problem you run into if you do not recuse yourself is if Lindsey Whiteside is found innocent and then come to find out the judge went to church with her, which that would come out right, that opens up a big shot at an appeal for a defense team. So if you accuse yourself, you just keep the public's eyes off of the fact that maybe there was some tomfoolery going on, for lack of a better word. So we'll move on. Most of what we know about this case. It stayed under wraps until about a week or so ago, maybe a week and a half, And that's especially in cases involving underage victims.

9:05 You want to, more than anything else, protect the privacy of these victims. And I got to say the DeSoto County District Attorney did a great job, an amazing job of doing this prior to that conviction in sentencing that just occurred. Now, what we have learned in the past week has been nothing short of shocking. So on November six, of twenty twenty four. The sheriff's office, they get notified by someone that the miner in this case confided in them that Lindsey Whiteside was having a sexual relationship with her.

9:46 The sheriff's office notifies the DA, and as I told you, on December thirteenth, she Lendsy Whiteside gets indicted. Now, the two judges, as I said, they had to recuse themselves. So the DA at this point has to go outside of the county to get a judge. And when something like this happens, the county DA does not just go pick a judge out there and say, hey man, you mind coming to DeSoto County and you know overseeing this trial that we're about to have. They don't get a choice in that. The judge is actually appointed by the Mississippi State Supreme Court, and this process is called appointing a special judge. This is what these judges are known as special judges. And in this case, the appointed judge was Judge Andy Howorth and he is from Oxford, Mississippi. Now, when you have a special judge come in, it takes a while before these cases can move along. While these judges are retired and that's important to mention. Special judges are retired judges. They're not active, they're not getting voted into office every so often by their constituents. They're retired and they're kind of doing this as a side hustle, if you will, and they may be working other cases.

11:12 There is a limited amount of them, and that's kind of what happened in this case. What they could have got done in five months or so really took double that amount of time because they had to have a special judge appointed. Although I will say a case of this magnitude, especially that involves sexual battery, ten months is pretty quick, ten to eleven months from start to finish on a case, and I think a lot of that was because of the evidence that we're going to get into that the prosecution had in this case. And let's talk about the evidence they had implicating Lindsey Whiteside. Here is what they ascertained through a massive amount of evidence, over sixty four text messages as well as letters to the victim from Lindsey Whiteside that were so damning. Let's put it this way. They were written on church letterhead.

12:13 Not a smart moved for this girl. Of course, after I tell you what occurred in this case, You're going to understand that she's not a great decision maker by any means. So they discovered that Lindsey Whiteside started grooming this kid when this kid was just fifteen years old. What's that mean? Well, you can ascertain that through these messages that they went through this sixty four thousand plus, Lindsey was positioning herself into a position of trust with this victim. These texts early on would start out simple enough, with the victim responding yes ma'am, no, ma'am, calling her miss Lindsey. It was a very professional relationship, if you will, and Lindsey would slowly get this kid to confide in her.

13:07 I mean, this victim was no different than most fifteen year old girls. And look, I raised twin girls, and there's some drama with girls when they're fifteen. And this one she had her own personal struggles, especially as it relates to her mental health. She had some depression problems, etc. And she was leaning on Lindsey white Side a lot about these problems and Lindsey Whiteside would take full advantage. Now, Lindsey at this point was nine years her senior. During this grooming stage, and as I said, she would take complete advantage over the fact that she was nine years her senior. In this early grooming period, she displayed nearly every indication of grooming Lindsey Whiteside, every indication that you could have. First, she would build trust with this victim.

14:08 This was displayed by the amount of attention that Lindsey was getting this child. She would flatter her by saying things such as, you know, you're my favorite, but don't tell anyone else because they'll get jealous. And that's another grooming technique. And that's called secrecy. By the way, when you act like you're giving when you're grooming someone and you're insinuating, hey, I'm gonna tell you things that nobody else knows, that's a grooming technique. Then that progresses to testing boundaries and she would start having very sexually explicit conversations over text with this kid, and she would also then move on to another grooming technique, which is isolation.

14:59 Now it's important to mention that on church field trips, the one who determined these youth church field trips, the one that determine where people would sleep, where they would sit on the bus, that was Lindsey Whiteside, and she would isolate this kid on those bus trips to sit next to her. And finally, when this kid turns sixteen, an outright, full blown sexual relationship starts. And let's talk about that for a second, because laws are different from state to state. Now, in Mississippi, it's true that the age of consent sixteen. However, it is also true that the law in the state of Mississippi, as it is in many other states, is that a person in a position of trust or authority can be prosecuted if the victim is between the ages of sixteen and eight because they cannot consent, and consent loss can be tricky. For example, in my state of Louisiana, if you, the listener, goes out to a bar and you get legally drunk, and another individual goes into that bar, and let's say they end up hooking up with you, and let's say the listener gave that other individual the green light to have sex.

16:28 Technically that other individual committed third degree rate because in the state of Louisiana, someone who is drunk cannot consent, and in this case, regardless of age, why because they're drunk decision making is off. So even if they consented by the letter of the law, they can't consent. You can go to jail for that. Now that's very rarely prosecuted, but we have a pretty big case here in the state of Louisiana right now that covers just that. So consent laws can be tricky. So for all of you out there that claim this was a two way relationship and this girl was all for it. Everything Lindsey was doing was approved, if you will, by this victim, you need to learn consent laws. Because regardless of what this victim allowed, she could not legally allow it. She could not legally consent according to Mississippi law. And this is to protect sixteen to eighteen year olds from being sexually battered by people such as teachers or preachers specifically. And you can throw law enforcement in there, anyone else with perceived authority. So this predator, and I'm gonna call her a predator, Lindsey Whiteside, she would go to some there sickening,

18:01 downright disgusting things to get this kid alone. She would offer to babysit the younger kids at the home, and she would buy the parents concert tickets for example, which she did on one occasion, and she would say, Hey, I got y'all these tickets. Y'all go have a night on the town, and I'm gonna watch your kids. And imagine for a second being these poor parents when you discover that this person you trusted, she was looked at at this point like family while you're out on a rare night on the town, was at your home, essentially turning your daughter out. As they would say in prison.

18:52 How awful these people must feel for something they really would have never expect from this sick chick. That is a disturbing level of manipulation. Now, in addition to that, Lindsay was also as essentially the youth pastor of this church, responsible for a lot of things. And I already covered she was responsible for where these kids would sit on a bus when they would travel on the church bus. And why is that important Because on one occasion, and again to give you the best picture of how twisted this girl is, I'm not going to sugarcuat it. On at least one occasion, while this kid is on the bus and this bus is full of other kids, it's full of other church leaders, this monster takes a blanket, puts it over this kid's legs and and fingerfucks her right there in the seat. And how do we know this the text messages? And if that does not tell you how twisted this girl is, I don't know what will into those that say, well, the age of consent in Mississippi is sixteen and she did not know the

20:27 whole rule with position of authority aspect of that. To you, I say this, why are their text messages talking to the victim to quote make sure she deletes certain texts? Why are their messages telling the victim I can't message you from the church computer because the church might call the police if they see what we're talking about. Now, I'll tell you why. It's because she knew what she was doing was not only wrong, it is fucking illegal. In its tremendous proof for prosecutors in this case. And these incidents weren't a one off, not that that would make much of a difference, but they weren't a one off.

21:20 These were repeated over and over and over again, not just a one time thing. She would evolve and suggest alcohol to obviously try to lower this kid's good judgment. Now, the district attorney in this case is a guy by the name of Matthew Barton, and you're gonna hear from him in a little while. And I gotta say, man, I like this guy. He has been saying lately what I have been saying for years on the Bad Teachers series that I bring you most on a weekly basis.

22:02 He said he had the goods and he was willing to go to trial, and he flat out refused to cut a deal with Lindsey Whiteside, and y'all, I have covered thousands at this point of court cases throughout my career in podcasting. I cannot tell you how rare it is that a da not cut deals when he has the goods. And my biggest pet peeve in life as it comes to the court system is when you have all the evidence as a prosecutor and you still cut a deal. So Desato County hold on to this guy.

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23:34 Simply by searching Crime War Weekly or clicking the link in the description of this podcast. So, in this particular case, Lindsey Whiteside, she knew she was screwed from the very beginning. She knew that they had the goods if you will, and the evidence, and she really couldn't fight the charges. She knew that a trial would for sure result in being found guilty. So she does something that I would consider extremely rare in this judicial environment we have today, and she pleaded guilty without having a deal in place. Now, her hope was the judge would be linging because she is admitting to her crime. Right, she's taken responsibility. He's going to feel bad for her, and he's going to like the fact that she did that, and maybe he'd go easy on her. So on October thirteenth, just a week and a half ago or so, depending on when you're listening to this. She has her day of sentencing now at this sentencing hearing, despite the fact that she is going to plead guilty, the prosecution, they are still we allowed to present evidence and their allowed testimony. And

25:04 this is so the judge can have all that information when he imposes the sentence. And one of the people to testify was the victim herself. And I want to quote verbatim what Dia Barton said on another podcast, it's called the Local yokel Shout out to that guy. He helped me a lot with my research, and so I definitely want to make sure I shout him out. Go listen to him if you're interested. Local Yogal podcast. But he spoke on that podcast about the state of mind of the victim on this sentencing day, as well as who this victim was as a person, which I found even more important. I think it's very important what he said, and I want you to hear it, so I'm going to quote that for you. He said, we had the victim testify. She testified for almost an hour, and that's unbelievable strength that this young lady had This is the most brave girl I've ever met, so I told her before we went to court, I don't know how this is going to go. The judge can choose anything he wants technically, but you don't need a judge to pick a number for you to feel good about yourself. This girl shines brighter than the midday sun. You can tell when you sit down with her that she is. And then he starts to kind of get emotional, and he says, I'm sorry, I'm getting a little bit emotional. I feel

26:36 attached to her and her family. But if you spend time with her, if you set across the table with her, she is a pure reflection of what is good on this earth. And she knows herself better than any other eighteen year old possibly could because of what she's been through. She's been to a dark place where she's had to find some sort of courage and strength in her deep down that most people never have to dig that far to find. And that's how she became to know herself, and that's how she now. She is now in touch with a strength that can never be taken away from her, and she is brave and you can tell she has a strong relationship with Christ. I believe in Jesus. I'm not the most spiritual or religious person, but I believe in Jesus, and I believe that it's only through His grace that someone can become this strong. And I think she's found a victory in Jesus just by learning who she is and learning no one can stop her. I honestly believe that there's nothing in this world that will ever stop her because of what she's ever come and the person that she's able to be because of it.

27:47 She is loving, she is kind, and she is talented. She's interested in theater and art. She's very well spoken. She presents herself very well. She's very easy to talk to, and she is very relatable. I think the thing that is so great about her is if you have a conversation with her, you'll almost immediately feel some sort of connection. You meet certain people that are just kind of that way, and she's truly a very special person. And I'm very proud of her because I've met so many people that can never do that. Most of the times my victims begged not to have to speak, but she wanted to speak.

28:28 She had to face her accuser in court. She looked her in the eyes and she said, you do not have a hold on me anymore. And in that moment I had chills all over my body because I felt she was liberated from the control of this defendant had on her. Now, I'm not saying this is not going to affect her in the future. There's pain that you never get rid of. You just learn to put it away somewhere, you learn healthy ways of coping. But she is liberating now because she spoke up for herself, even though the system failed her with the sentence, she will not be held down by anybody. I told her after it was over that I honestly feel like she is a rocket ship at a launching pad and about to just take off straight up. The trajectory for this girl is out of this world and I don't think anything will slow her down. So that tells you a little bit about who this kid is now. After all that is done, after all this evidence is presented, and all these people have testified, and that's again so the judge when he imposes his sentence, he'll have all the information right And it's important to mention before I get to the sentence. That the DA asked for thirty years, the victim asked for thirty years, and the victim's family asked for thirty years. This was all they all spoke to

29:58 the judge and set in an open core we want thirty years. So the judge imposes his sentence and get ready for this. Lindsey Whitehead is sentenced to three years of house arrest followed by seven years of probation. All that in spite of having the victim herself testify for almost an hour at the sentencing. Not a single day of jail time. And let me cover house arrest real quick. This ain't you're stuck at your house for three years. It doesn't mean that. It just means she has to be home between ten pm and six am every night.

30:42 Other than that she can go pretty much anywhere except a playground, live her life as if nothing ever happened, have a job, all those sorts of things. She's just got to be home between ten and six am. Now, to Da Barton's credit, as I said, he asked for the math them thirty years. And although some may say that would have been a little bit too stiff of an ask, I mean he's been a district attorney a while. He's been an attorney a while, Yes, for forty. Typically you're really hoping for twenty, maybe ten, but zero, it's unprecedented. Now, a couple of things about Lindsey Whiteside's attorney in this case that I think are important. First, he's considered one of the best attorneys in the entire South. His name is Steve Faresi. And look, in my experience, I've known a lot of attorneys of Italian descent and they are always good for whatever reason. Faresi is no different. So the fact that he has allowed his client, this great attorney that he is, he allows his client to enter a guilty plea with no deal in place. That tells me I would suspect that this guy knew something. This

32:12 is just my opinion. I have no direct evidence of this, but I've covered enough of these types of cases to know if you're that good of attorney, there's no way you're just going to throw your client at the mercy of the court without knowing something. Relative to the sentencing part of this case. This one just did not pass the smell tests. And it's worth noting that it is also been said that the special judge in this case was Fares's divorce attorney. That's been said. I don't have any direct evidence of that. This is just some things, some chatter, if you will, on thing Facebook, so take it with a grain of salt. I don't know if it's true or not, but if it is, wow, that's interesting. Right.

33:07 And while we are on this particular subject, it's also important to keep in mind the special judges in this case is as I mentioned earlier, they are retired. They are no longer elected officials. They do not have to consider the impact of their decisions in the same way unelected judge does. This judge can pass a bullshit sentence for example, like we have here, and I'm not afraid to say it, that's a bullshit sentence. But they can pass that type of sentence and there's no re election concern in the back of their mind. Yes, when you're a judge, you're not supposed to have that anyway. I get that, But we are all human and when you're worried about getting re elected in two years, you certainly are a little bit more cautious on your decisions. Now, I'm sure he can get removed from the bench by the State Supreme Court. But think about it if you're in his position, So what he's retired, he just leases his side hustle essentially. Now, it's what came out after this sentencing. If you ain't heard enough to piss you off, that has turned the entire County of DeSoto sideways, and it's really launched this case nationally. And that is as it relates to the character letters that were written on behalf of the convicted in this case, Lindsey Whiteside. Now,

34:41 as if the forty nine and you just heard me right, forty nine character letters were not enough, the fact of who they came from were even more shocking. Vice principal of a school, teachers, a former police chief that went to church with Lindsay Whiteside. But the most shocking one came from a school board member, an active school board member in DeSoto County by the name of Michelle Henley, an elected official for the freaking school board, writing a character statement for someone accused then admitting guilt of sexual battery of a child. And it has come out that again I don't have any direct knowledge, but this has been said from the district attorney that she knew that Lindsay Whiteside was going to plead guilty, so she knew she did this. She wrote this letter anyway, Here's what it said. I'm going to read her character letter quickly says to Honorable Judge Andrew Howorth. My name is Michelle Henley.

36:03 I'm a mother and member of the DeSoto County school Board. I'm running on behalf writing on behalf of Lindsey Whiteside. I have known the Whiteside family for many years. However, in the past five years I've had the privilege of getting to know them better. Being on the school board, I got to know Gail better as well as her children. Four years ago, I asked Gail if Lindsay would coach my daughter in basketball because she wanted to try out for middle school team. Lindsey gladly agreed. She worked one on one with my daughter to practice and improve her skills. Lindsey was always encouraging, supportive, and helpful during their training sessions.

36:46 She gave my daughter pointers on how to improve her game while encouraging her every step of the way. When my daughter made the team, we sent Lindsay a text to tell her, and she was so excited for my daughter and again encouraged her to keep working hard to get better every day. Middle school can be hard for a young person, and I am happy to say Lindsey's encouragement and support helped my daughter not only make the team, but have a wonderful middle school experience. Thank you for your time and consideration. Michelle Henley, So, let's digest that for a second. You got a freaking school board member going to bat for someone they knew was about to plead guilty to sexual battery of a child by someone in position of authority. You reckon. The community got pissed, Damn right they did. They flipped out, A firestorm erupts from the DeSoto County community and everybody from the district attorney to mom and pop were calling for the And this just occurred a few days ago, the resignation of Michelle Henley. So, Michelle Henley, who has already shown a record of bad judgment with that letter, right, she does

38:16 something else stupid. She goes on Facebook and she tries to defend this. I'm going to read you the statement she posted on Facebook on October fifteenth. Over the past few days, there had been considerable discussion on social media regarding my character and involvement in a recent matter. In a recent matter like just say it, you know what it is, I would like to take a moment to share the facts directly. Who tell us more? First, I wrote a letter describing a personal interaction I have with Lindsey Whiteside. In that letter, I mentioned that Lindsey had coach my daughter prior to basketball trials. At no point did I express support for her actions or endorse her behavior.

39:09 For full transparency, I have attached a copy of my letter for your review. Contrary to what has been claimed, I did not testify for the defense. I was subpoenaed by the district attorney to appear in court. While on the stand, I was asked whether I condone Lend's exactions. My response was no. When asked about what her senate should be, I stated that such a decision was for the judge to determine. De Soto County has been my home for nearly my entire life. I take great pride in our community and in the years of service I have dedicated to it. My integrity and commitment to the people of Decetto County remain steadfast. Lady, you are full of shit. That's my opinion, my thought process, because for you you to say in this letter that at no point did I express support for her actions or endorse her behavior. What the hell do you think a character letter is? That's an endorsement. Of course, you didn't endorse her behavior directly as it affects this victim, but you endorsed her. You endorsed her. Are you insane? One of the craziest, dumbest things I've ever seen in five years of doing this. So to that, I say this, Miss Henley, I hope you're listening. I hope you're listening right now.

40:42 No one compelled to you to write a letter. You did that of your own volition. And the fact that you would choose to write that letter despite the fact that you were elected to ensure the welfare of school age students, speaks volumes about who you really are, in my opinion, and in my view, do the right thing. Resign. You have disgraced your community, and I think what you did was sick a f We'll move on from her.

41:30 So the day after the sentence, DA Barton, he is pissed. He comes out and he says, hey, I plan to challenge the ruling. Now, his argument is that under Mississippi law, a sex offender, which Whiteside is, or violent offender for that matter, cannot be sentenced to house arrest. Which that makes the sentence imposed even more questionable because he's right, that's clear in the law in Mississippi. So he's going to pursue that, and he is indeed going to be seeking a resentencing, which this process is really kind of strange because to get a resentencing you have to go to the same judge and he has to approve and agree to resentence in this case Lindsy Whiteside. Now basically he has to admit he screwed up and thus re sentence Lendsy Whiteside using the reasoning that caused him to rethink his decision, such as in this case. The prosecutor stated, he's already filed this resentencing request that the crime is disproportionate to the sentence, and hey, you'll get no argument out of me on that. It's about as disproportionate as you can get. And look, this judge has a history here,

43:01 he has some precedent that he set on how he sentences people involved in these crimes. And I'll tell you another thing, and then we're gonna get to the DA's press conference, because that's very important for you to hear. In this press conference. One thing I do want to mention is man he and I are on the same frame of mind, because he says something in that press conference relative to if this were a guy that had sexually assaulted this girl, he hadn went to prison, and that we've got to get rid of this double standard when females commit these egregious acts. He is one hundred percent on it. That's why I've done a series for the past two years called Bad Teachers on exposed scandalous files of the elite. I do that specifically, and I cover specifically women who are sexually assaulting. Most times its boys.

44:02 And the reason that I do that is, you know what, they must never get jail time, almost never, or if they do, they screwed a fifteen year old boy and it's a forty year old teacher for you know, four years in high school and they get a year in jail. But when you flip it and you look at the stats, when men do it, they get twenty thirty years almost every time. It's shocking how disproportionate it is, so I save this press conference for the end of this one, and it's because I likely have a lot of people from Deceto County specifically listening to this particular podcast, maybe the first time you've ever heard exposed scandalous files of the elite. I do want to say we've got over two hundred episodes besides this one on this feed. Listen to some other ones. If you liked it, stay with us.

45:03 We love to have you here. But I know a lot of you have already heard the press conference. If you're in DeSoto County, you've certainly heard it. So I wanted to save it for the end so that you didn't have to fast forward through a thirty minute press conference. Now, I do want to say quickly to those of you in DeSoto County, keep up the fight, don't let this stand. And if you like the podcast, stick around. We expose people from all over the country every week on here, and they go global quickly. And if you see Da Barton around town, shake his hand from me, tell him it's from me. He's doing great work for everyone else.

45:48 What you're going to hear next is the explosive press conference following the verdict from da Barton. So here's that and till the next episode. Much love. Okay has everybody turned on ready to go? I figure, so y'all are waiting for a little bit. I appreciate you waiting. In cases this streaming somewhere, I will warn audience this subject matter may not be suitable for everybody. But today we're announcing the conviction of Lindsay Whiteside, who has now been found guilty of sexual battery while in a position of trust and authority over a minor child.

46:33 This stems from her time as a youth pastor at Getwell Baptist Church in Hernando. The victim in this case was a member of that youth group and that is what created the opportunity for this repeated sexual abuse of a child. Procedurally, the way we got here is in November of twenty twenty four, these accusations were disclosed to the Sheriff's apartment here in De Soto County. They were investigated right away. Our office was able to secure an indictment in less than a month after the investigation started.

47:19 The case that was put together was very, very good, maybe the strongest you could hope for in a situation like this. We had sixty four thousand pages of printed out text messages, we had handwritten letters that were on church stationery. We had just a mountain of evidence. It was overwhelming proof. There was no way Lindsey Whiteside would have ever been able to get out from under the pile of evidence. So she did ultimately plead guilty, knowing that a trial would be it would not be a worthwhile endeavor. So she played guilty really out of necessity, had no chance of going to trial. We did that earlier today. That was immediately followed by sentencing hearing. We as a state of Mississippi, and on behalf of the victims requested the maximum sentence, which is thirty years, And I don't mind just saying it, frankly, I'm extremely disappointed.

48:24 This sentence ended up being three years of house arrest followed by seven years of post release supervision, for a total of ten years of supervision. This sentence is an absolute abomination of justice. It is not right. Is everything is wrong. This is the reason why people question whether our institutions actually serve victims. This is the wrong message. It is very, very difficult for a victim of a crime, especially a child to come forward and then to have her voice silenced by a hor horrible sentence. Miscarriage of justice makes it even more difficult for future victims to want to come forward and be brave. I want to commend the victim in this case and her family. I've rarely seen such a display of courage and faith, and I consider it one of the privileges and honors of my career so far to have represented them in this process.

49:24 I am very disappointed that we did not get a result that I think was appropriate, but I am very proud that our victim did what she was supposed to and that would speak up for herself. And even though we did not get the result we wanted, that will never be taken away. Lindsey Whiteside will have to register for the rest of her life as a child's sex offender, which would hopefully be a mark to show society that she is the worst type of menace that can never be trusted. She was trusted with a congregation, she was trusted with children, and she trade that trust. She used the Gospel Jesus Christ as a weapon. She used the vulnerabilities of a child who was going through personal struggles to gain access and manipulate an entire congregation. But even worse and more specifically, she manipulated a family through an undeniable pattern of abuse that started with several months of grooming and in several months of prolonged and repeated sexual abuse in the worst type of manner. I cannot summarize the entirety of this abuse, and a short press conference suffice it to say, I sincerely believe that if this was perpetrated by a man against a young woman, that we would have seen something akin to twenty years in prison.

50:49 I think that she is a benefactor of a very wrong double standard in society. I think that it is high time for people to start paying attention to what goes on our court systems, because this is an absolute travesty. It is not right. I condemn it in every way. I am quite frankly somewhat ashamed to be associated with a system that has performed so poorly in this matter. We have advocated as zealously as we possibly could, we put forth as much evidence as we could have ever hoped for, and this decision is quite frankly just poor. With that said, I am very honored to be joined by a member of our victim's family. Her name is Pam Pegram. She has prepared a statement that she would like to share on behalf of the victim. It is my belief that victims should always be heard, and so I am sincerely proud to turn it over to her for a moment to share something on behalf of the family.

51:58 Thank you, thank you. My name is Pam Pegram and I'm speaking on behalf of the victim's family. It's my family. Today, a very brave young girl showed remarkable courage as she shared about the abuse she suffered from a sexual predator, Lindsey Aldie Whiteside. This vulnerable child was manipulated and betrayed by someone more than nine years older than her, who was supposed to be her spiritual mentor someone who grossly abused her position of trust, someone she looked up to as her youth minister. The evidence presented today was vile, it was evil, and quite honestly, it was shocking. How could anyone do things like she did to a young girl and then show up sometimes to preach at church on Sunday morning, sometimes to lead a Bible study, sometimes to lead a youth retreat or a youth event after knowing what she had just done. Today, in Lindsey Whiteside's own words, through her text messages and her letters, we saw the depth of depravity, deceit, and deliberate efforts to hide her twisted actions. The pain of the suffering this victim and her family have experienced or beyond words, this trauma has touched every part of their lives. Yet it does not define this victim or her family. As believers,

53:29 we know that God will redeem what has been lost, and He will use this devastating season to grow us and strengthen us and draw us closer to Him. For almost a year, our family has remained silent, waiting for this day when truth could finally be revealed. During that time, we have heard the rumors, we have read the comments, and we have listened to people's opinion who did not have any of the facts or any information to base those on. That has only deepened our pain. Let me be clear, no adult should ever engage in sexual contact with a child. In no way, shape or form. The victim is never at fault. This adult could have any time said mom helped me, pastor help me, friend, help me.

54:32 She never did. She plotted, and she planned, and she deceived, and she manipulated so that she could have her way. When you support this offender, you revictimize the victim, y'all. This is why victims don't come forward and tell their story. Still, her family, we will stand firm in our faith. We believe in truth, justice, and even forgiveness. But can I tell you forgiveness is hard, It is challenging, and it may be a day by day decision that we work our way toward. Now that Lindsay has been found guilty, I really wanted to say that justice had been served. That, y'all, it has not been served. She gets to go home and put on her favorite pajamas and cuddle up in her favorite chair and hang out in her safe place where she entered into our family's safe place and destroyed that it became a place where she pursued the victim.

55:36 How is this fair? How is this right? And the judge said that prison was for people that we're afraid of, y'all. Isn't prison a place for people who commit crimes, regardless of what they look like and regardless of whether you know to be afraid of them or not. I mean, like Matthew said it would have been so different had the offender looked different. Can we all agree? Oh? But I have to say, for those of you who have prayed for us, for those of you who have supported our family during this horrific time, we are forever grateful and we appreciate you you. Yes, my name is Pam Pegrom p a em last name is p.

56:27 E g r A M. Thank you. So with that, I would just add briefly before I taken questions that it is true that when you support the abuser, you revictimize the victim, and for that that's part of the reason why I was so disturbed by the amount of pedophile sympathizers that wrote into the court, and specifically, Michelle Henley is an elective member of our school board. Our victim at the time was a student at one of the schools that Michelle Henley is supposed to help govern, and yet she wrote a letter in support of the defendant that she testified on behalf of the defendant's good character, which I submit, there is no good character to somebody that would sexually abuse a child.

57:28 That I don't care how much good you've done in the world, if it's followed up by committing a repeated sexual act against a child. This is somebody that was not victim of an overwhelming moment or a temporary lapse in judgment. This is more akin to an adult lioness stalking prey and then pouncing when it was least expected, and then continuing to do so over and over again. Lindsey Whiteside committed second ual crimes against this victim while on church trips while in while on a bus with other kids, put a blanket over the victim, and then sexually abused her while in the presence of church leadership and other children, and then preached about Jesus. We're talking about that manner of depravity. It's awful because Michelle Henley is in a position of authority and trust over children and yet sides with a child predator. I believe she's not fit to be on our school board. I've given her a letter today demanding her resignation, and I hope she will because we can have no faith in an institution that protects child predators. We cannot expect children who are victims of crime to tell their teachers or administrators that they have been victimized. When an elected member of the school board is advocating for a known convicted sexual predator is inexcusable. She has shown tolerance where there can

59:04 be none. She's got to go and quite frankly, any teacher or vice principals that wrote in on support they should likewise be gone. I would never send my kid to an institution where the adults in the room were not taking care of the kids, period, full stop. With that being said, now my tangent is over. I will take any questions you may have, yes and back. Martin Stein Fox thirteen. So what struck me when I got to the courthouse today was the level of security. When I googled what. This story was about, it didn't tell me that there were two signs in terms of people supporting the defendant people supporting the family.

59:48 Can you talk about. Why that I counted thirteen debuties. In the book. Yeah, I think the divide comes from a lot of people and get well. Church leadership and members have offered a great deal of support for the perpetrator who used to work and worship among them. Then you have the defendant's family were lifelong educators, so they have friends in the school system. They called upon those friends to write letters of support. And so we have this great divide that's hard to reconcile, where you have church people and school people supporting a perpetrator for a child crime, and that will certainly draw out the type of emotions you would expect. So as a precautionary measure, certain things were put into place for security purposes.

1:00:47 And I was gonna say, and the other thing that struck me is before the judge what was his name? His name is Andy Howorth. And the backstory there is Judge Wilson and Judge Chad, who were the only two judges we had at the time this case was indicted. Both recused themselves, stating that they had personal relationships with the defendants family or shared community interest, which would be church basically. And so because both of our judges recused themselves, we were then left with the liberal judge from Oxford who thinks that child predator shouldn't go to prison because he's not scared of them. And he also said that nobody's gonna be happy.

1:01:32 But I don't think that's quite true. No, I actually saw the defendant looking relieved. I heard some rumblings from her side the room where they were actually very happy. This is exactly what they asked for. So they are very happy because she will get to go to the same restaurants that you and your families go to. She will continue to have access to people's kids, and she will live her life life as she always does, as long as she registers. When it came down you. Talk about disappointment, was there anger or raise as well?

1:02:12 So? I typically don't criticize a choice that a judge makes, and I certainly would never criticize a jury. In this case, we have a judge that acknowledged great harm being done to the victim and then essentially did nothing about it, And so it would be it'd be a little self serving for me to pretend like I don't have a little rage or anger. I certainly do. I think the broader problem is the implication a sentence like this has on on the community, because you can't how are you gonna trust the system that that lays down for a perpetrator like this. So I know we had a question here in the there. Okay, yes, at the age you ask for a sentence for you see get under a whole sentence, So we do not have the option for any type of appeals or sentenced reviews. When a circuit judge makes a decision, that's just the decision. That's why elections are so important, because voters are the only person or the only people that have any sort of oversight on a circuit judge. The best I can do, and it's a little early for me to really be able to give any indication whether it would help, but I do plan on taking my case, filowing the transcripts to the federal prosecutors, letting them know what a horrible mischaracter justice this was, and see if, based on the fact that she crossed multiple state lines to do this type of offense, and other jurisdictions, if we may be able to get her prosecuted through a neighboring jurisdiction or maybe

1:03:46 our partners in the federal government. I will certainly do everything I can to advocate for my victim, no matter what juncture the proceedings we are. I can't personally prosecute or appeal anything, but I will certainly appeal to prosecutors and other jurisdictions, share evidence and plead for them to pick this up so hopefully she'll be properly punished. Let me go here. I just wanted to ask, you know, we were supposed. To start at one point. Was there anything in the court rook that got up smaller than I think? Maybe there were more people coming in than we're maybe expected, so they're given some time for that to settle off.

1:04:26 Judge wanted to address the media about certain rules for recording before we began. We did not bring the victim or her family into the courtroom until after the judge had a chance to make that address, and so there were a few little housekeeping things that slowed us down. But that's about it. If you could sit down in a room with miss Whiteside, what would you say to her. I think she's such as narcissistic, feelative person that there's probably nothing I could say they would even register with her.

1:05:07 As we stood there today, she was making excuses for herself. She was downplaying what she did. I don't think she fully even gets it. She is so self absorbed that speaking to her would only it would only fuel her own desire for attention. She wants to be special, she wants to have attention from a congregation or social media whatever. But she's not special. She's just a child. Predator. She is notorious at best, and she will not be remembered for her father's legacy. She will not be remembered for any contributions her family made to education. She will be remembered for what she is, and that is a child's sexual predator. And I will tell you there's nothing good about someone who will prey upon a child. That's what she'll be remembered. And she's not worth anyone's time, much less mind the victim recently turned eighteen. I'm not personally gonna do it.

1:06:11 Do you think that her families, like you said, you know, the status, had anythings dow with maybe the moving today. I think the fact that our judge is from an outside jurisdiction probably limits the amount of effect that that could have. I think he had his own reasonings. I don't pretend to understand him. I'm not so sure that is the reasoning, but I will say that when you have educated you have letters from nine teachers, you had a letter from a vice principal out of school, and you had a letter from an elected member of the school board. And so when you and then you got many people from the church where she perpetrated these crimes, also sending letters to the judge, so he probably felt safe making this decision. But I can't really speak to exactly what's in his mind. I can't speak to what's in my mind, which is this is not right, plain and simple. There's no other way to put it. This is just not right. I'll take one more question, third one.

1:07:13 I heard him say that he that prisons are for people that scare us. He literally said from the bench, this woman Whiteside doesn't scare him. That kind of scares me. Well, I think that my child is growing up here in Desutto County. It's where I chose to raise a family. People like Lindsay Whiteside scare me. They're not gonna be able to do anything to me personally because I'm older than she is, I'm stronger than she is. But I think about my children, my child and the children that she plays with, and I'm really worried for people that aren't as guarded as I am, because I see this every day. Most people don't, and it's the people you don't expect. It's the church pastor, it's the teacher, it's the coach or whatever, and so yeah, people like her.

1:08:10 It's a very scary part of our society. I don't know if you're just envisioning, but I come here all the time. Y'all hear me. I say stop Memphis saved de Soto. I'm very critical of Memphis criminals that come down here and perpetrate violent crime. I talk about all the time. You don't have to look like that or act like that to be an absolute menace to society. I think that praying our child sexually is very much more egregious than a lot of the crimes I'm seeing people in prison for every single day. There's no way to balance or rectify that. I think you have one.

1:08:50 I'm gonna call it. That's it. Without going into graphic detail of what type of behavior as far as manipulation are you talking about. I mean, she would bring alcohol to a kid. So she would bring alcohol to a kid. She would she would buy her parents like concert tickets so they could have a night out, and she would volunteer a babysit. She would make reservations, say hey, I can babysit. She she was in charge of logistics at for the church group when they would take kids on youth trips and church trips. Church camps, things like that, And so she had the logistical control to determine where children would stay, what rooms they would stay in, what betting, what beds they would be in, uh, dormitory arrangements, things like that, where they'd sit on the bus, whatever. And she would use that logistical control to isolate the victim away from everybody else so that she could perpetrate these heinous acts while on duty as a as a youth minister. She would I mean, I would just encourage all the prototypical grooming practices were displayed by Lindsay Whiteside. I mean, we could write a book about it. But like I said, this was not a one time deal. This was a very calculated effort to abuse a child, and I think anyone that supports that should be ashamed.